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November 16
Help me find songs for my 2025-2029 Playlist
I'm looking for songs from any era or genre that will get met through the next four years and beyond, that I can listen to at the start of the day or when things are starting to feel hopeless, to help lift my mood. Thanks for your suggestions! [more inside]
Help me find this "The Office" Meme
I recently saw a meme where the text was something about John Krasinski and below were four pictures of Randall Park. One of the pictures was of his Office appearance, but the other three were not. It was very much like the Jennifer Lawrence/Bear joke. I must have scene it somewhere like Pleated-Jeans or another Tumblr site, but I can't find it now. Hope me, please.
November 15
Looking for YouTube cozy home recommendations
I like watching a YouTube genre I would best describe as 'everyday life in another country.' Looking for more recommendations in this style. [more inside]
Help me pick a toy for an infant!
I'm visiting my sister and I'd like to bring a toy (or send it to her house) for her baby! Can you help me? [more inside]
What do I do about failure of email service?
I set my mother's email up in 2004 through easily.co.uk, using a named domain. It's been fine since then, but she has not received emails for the last two days on any devices, and sending a test one to her fails. Payments are up to date. Logging into Easily and trying to get into webmail that way gives a message saying server is down. Emailing easily support or billing bounces back. No telephone number on their site. Found one elsewhere online but it doesn't work. Do I just accept this company has gone under?
Do I need to isolate from my wife who's recovering from COVID?
I've been away on a work trip since Saturday, and my wife tested positive on Sunday morning, with symptoms starting Saturday night. I've so far tested negative, somehow. I'm heading home today and my wife is still testing positive, though the line on the test is fainter, and is still symptomatic. [more inside]
November 14
How to get Canadian television within PNW without cable
I live in Seattle. I know I can get CBC via Comcast (Xfinity). I don't have cable and don't want to sign up for it again. Are there specific ways to set up an antenna or other gadgetry to get Canadian/BC television without cable from the Seattle area? I have used antennas in the past but have not been able to get much more than a handful of local stations. Looking for specific answers as opposed to vague suggestions about VPNs, say, that streaming options appear to be able to defeat. Thanks.
Can you explain the I-5 Express Lanes in Seattle to me?
How do the express lanes work on the 5 through Seattle? I can't find a concise explanation anywhere of where you can get in and where you can exit, and what are the rules (do you need a certain amount of people in the car? A transponder? Is there a toll?). [more inside]
Why donate after the Election?
Apologies for the bitterness. I was just inspired to ask this by seeing yet another email begging for donations, and I don't understand why? [more inside]
Device Advice - Stopwatch for Slow Motion Strength Training
I need a suggestion for self-timing slow motion strength training sets with all kinds of caveats. [more inside]
Fitzgerald's in Berwyn seating chart
I have a table for a show at Fitzgerald's in Berwyn in early December. I've never been there and cannot find a seating chart online. Can you describe the seating there, in particular where the tables are in relation to the stage?
What are some strong Transitioning support organizations
I'd like to provide support, advocacy, and defense to people who are transition or have transitioned. I am going to spend energy volunteering to provide any assistance as an ally to trans people and to the undocumented. I know of a great organization for the undocumented (Casa Cornelia here in San Diego) but not for trans people. I do have a lapsed law degree (but haven't practiced in 25 years) that I could leverage in some small way.
Looking for National, California or San Diego organizations to contact.
How to improve sound of accompanying guitar when I sing on Zoom?
Here's an example of me singing and accompanying myself on acoustic guitar (it's a YT video - I know I can just give the YT link to someone, but that's not what I'm asking about -- I'm asking about when I sing and play like this LIVE, on a Zoom call -- even though this is video, it's exactly how I sound when I do this LIVE on Zoom) -- [more inside]
Moving to a blue state. Which city is better?
Currently considering cities in Washington State or Minnesota. Any insights welcome. [more inside]
Identify this furious female music group
This one should be easy for someone, because it's right in the top of my tongue. I am greatly enjoying pissed-off music by female musicians of late for obvious reasons. I saw this female fronted band come across my social media feed with one or two women dressed colorfully and wearing what looked like vintage stewardess hats were sing-shouting in a manner not too unlike the vocals in Amyl & The Sniffers, but maybe one tick closer to simply rapping. The backing music was electronic, I think. I think I recall the vocalist bragging (figuratively) about her dick. Who was/is this band? [more inside]
November 13
Help me remember the title of a book
I'm trying to remember the title of a book that, realistically, I probably read about somewhere here on MeFi. It's post-apocalyptic, I believe it was written by a female author. [more inside]
How to be notified of upcoming speaking events with civil rights heroes
My family and I are greatly interested in events featuring people who were directly involved with the Civil Rights movement, specifically the fight against segregation and racism. I am keenly aware that time is limited for hearing them speak in person, and I want my kids to be able to meet them and hear their stories. [more inside]
Renter’s insurance newbie questions
I moved into a new place and the landlord requires renter’s insurance with his name and coverage amounts he specified. I got a policy from Lemonade but they can’t add him as additional insured, just additional interested. When you’ve had policies due to landlord requirements,
how did you list your landlord and which company? I don’t have other insurance to bundle.
Old Colleage - Terrible News, Pass Along (CW: bad stuff inside)
A couple of weeks ago, my old colleague (lets call her M) passed away tragically, and turns out all signs point to spousal abuse and eventual tragedy. We weren't super close, but I was her first manager, and over the years, we ended up working together a lot, with her even managing me at times. She was a pretty big deal in our company eventually. I know that some of my other current and ex colleagues knew her. They may not know about the situation, I am conflicted about letting people know and also pushing for our company to address it. Some details inside [more inside]
November 12
Ideatin' a staycation for max recuperation
I'm rounding out a very very challenging fractional role ending on November 22, which was hot on the heels of a preceding brain-breaking job. With limited funds and an abiding sense of guilt about "relaxing," what can I do to make this staycation as restorative as possible? [more inside]
One device to rule them all: BPM and sleep tracking
For reasons, it's important for me to track my beats-per-minute and sleep. To date, I've done that by using an Oura Ring to monitor sleep and a Fitbit for BPM. The Oura ring just bit the dust and rather than replace it, I'd rather buy one device- ring or watch- that does both well. Any suggestions? [more inside]
At-home molecular testing
I seem to remember someone here recommending a tabletop at-home device for Covid testing (maybe NAAT?) that’s approved in the European market but not in the US. Can someone here remind me? [more inside]
Odd of an ER bill in France coming across the Atlantic?
I had a minor stumble in Paris last month and ended up visiting an urgent care. They took me in and patched me up and sent me on my way. What are the odds a bill will eventually find its way across the Atlantic to me in the US? [more inside]
November 11
open source community or fund to build binaries?
Is there an organization or community that focuses on building binaries for open source software? [more inside]
Cold Feet!
My feet suffered frostbite twice in my life and now they are always cold. Has anyone found a solution? Heated insoles? [more inside]
best ways to keep up with the best legislators for non social media user
What are the best avenues for keeping up with the best legislators for someone who has no social media accounts? Also: who are your favorite legislators to follow? [more inside]
Crate Expectactions
Where are good places to get free milk crates? [more inside]
How do I get DVD screenshots marked (or named) with the exact timestamp?
I'm working on a film studies project and need to grab timestamps from a DVD, either marked onscreen or named with the exact timestamp of the screenshot. I am not looking for an output of all frames, or even frames at regular intervals, but rather frames I've selected manually based on what's happening onscreen.
What software (for Windows 11) can I use to accomplish this? [more inside]
Beanplating Shoe Goo
Quick, possibly embarrassing, question about using Shoe Goo... [more inside]
Rump Block
I'd like to block Firefox from showing me pictures of the orange menace. Is this possible? [more inside]
November 10
Looking for Nerds in Conversation
I was recently entranced by this video by Crime Pays But Botany Doesn't, in which two dudes nerd out hard for an hour-plus on carnivorous plants. Watching two subject-matter experts enthuse made me so happy! Can you give me more examples of this, on any topic? Literally any topic at all. My requirements are pretty loose—just looking for good conversation between two or more well-versed people about the thing they care about most.
Device or some such for helping an elderly person get out of bed
The person in question is a 74 year old woman, without much strength. Once up, they're able to walk ok, it's the getting out of and into bed that seems to be the problem. She would like to maintain some sort of independence, but not sure that's realistic. [more inside]
Long vacation apartment rental
How do I pay rent in Australia from a US bank account? Other AskMes have touched on issues people have had with US banks when traveling abroad for extended periods. Assuming I can manage this, I’m wondering how to pay rent since unlike most purchases I probably can’t put it on a credit card. Other than, say, getting a local friend to pay with money I supply.
Forced to join Facebook
I have to use Facebook messenger for work. How do I join Facebook and keep my privacy?
(US) Need help defining an economically left, culturally center party
I have been writing and brainstorming ideas for a new party, platform, and even Constitution that would appeal to at least 80% of voters. I'm looking for places and ways to collaborate with a few people, preferably with some in-person elements. [more inside]
Recommendations for Off-Broadway play in NYC?
Looking to go to the theatre for the first time since onset of COVID epidemic. What's good? [more inside]
November 9
Safety Issues, New School Behavioral Program
I was asked to start a rural high school alternative program for special ed students who struggled in traditional programming. There have been some problems and I'm now thinking of leaving, but what teacher isn't. For the record, I have been very successful in this work for many years, so the task is not new to me although this type of student is new. [more inside]
Alexa-compatible switch that also has a remote control?
I have an old X10 AC control module that I use with a remote to control two lamps that are very difficult to reach. I would like to replace it with something that's Alexa-compatible (I have an Echo Dot) but also allows some type of physical remote control. Trying to find something like this on Amazon's site is an exercise in frustration. I'd like to believe something like this exists, but am I just dreaming?
How to stop rumination, regret and comparison after a breakup?
About a year ago I broke up with a wonderful partner of 2 years (see here) because it had become clear to me over many months that I only had deeply platonic feelings for him. [more inside]
Help me replace my bike computer
Ye olde bar-mounted computer did not survive some shop work. What's next? [more inside]