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City kid here heading up to the Hudson Valley for Memorial Day, where I wanna frolic in the country. Gimme your best recs for tick repellant. [more inside]
posted by EmpressCallipygos to Health & Fitness at 11:37 AM - 22 answers

I want to put beads on a badge reel and the badge reel on a lanyard. Where can I find the blank that I need? [more inside]
posted by jacquilynne to Shopping at 9:53 AM - 6 answers

My fridge broke (again). I like ice dispensing freezers a lot. I am confident I would use the ice function frequently (would also use the water function if I had it, but...). My fridge is located on the side of the kitchen with no water hookup. Can I just fill some tank with water every day and have an ice dispenser? Is this a thing? Can I do it with any fridge or do I need a special fridge? [more inside]
posted by If only I had a penguin... to Home & Garden at 9:43 AM - 29 answers

Last night around 7:30 PM I put some chickpeas in my Instant pot for 25 minutes. They probably finished cooking around 8:15. I forgot about them until this morning. I took them out at 8:30 and the liquid was still warm. I understand that the IP will keep food at a safe temperature for up to 10 hours, which means that presumably, they were at an appropriate temp from 8:15 PM to 6:15 AM and slowly cooled from 6:15 AM to 8:30 AM. Are they safe to eat?
posted by bq to Food & Drink at 8:50 AM - 11 answers

My work is moving from google workspace for mail and calendar to microsoft outlook. I've not previously used outlook. What can I do to make the transition more smooth and to avoid common pitfalls? [more inside]
posted by medusa to Computers & Internet at 8:20 AM - 5 answers

Older relatives in the USA need a new TV ASAP. Probably looking for something in the 42" to 50" range based on viewing distance. I offered to do some research for them, but I haven't purchased a TV since 2008, apparently they're all terrible now? I'd be grateful for any advice on what I should be looking for or specific recommendations. [more inside]
posted by nanny's striped stocking to Technology at 8:06 AM - 12 answers

The Great Enshittification of Everything means I can't trust internet reviews any more. Real humans: will a half-cost Dyson knock-off cordless vac meet our needs? [more inside]
posted by Shepherd to Home & Garden at 7:56 AM - 25 answers

Is there a way to get a transcript out of a recorded Zoom meeting? [more inside]
posted by cotton dress sock to Computers & Internet at 7:34 AM - 5 answers

I lose my voice when anxious but just had an experience of losing it when overtaken by awe. Quick summary: I went to a singing recital of a graduating student because they were singing songs celebrating my ethnicity (in language my grandmother spoke). The performance was amazing and very meaningful to me (lots of crying). It was a small recital room and I did briefly notice the singer was attractive, but didn't obsess about it. Then... [more inside]
posted by Jon44 to Human Relations at 7:41 PM - 15 answers

I was watching the Decemberists play Oh No last night and was thinking about songs with (usually) a repetitive brass line and downbeat vocals that make us think of hell or the devil - the only other two examples I can find right now are Hell by the Squirrel Nut Zippers and the robot devil song from Futurama, but it’s instantly recognizable. Where did this theme originate, or is there anything I can search on to learn more about it? Thanks!
posted by ftm to Media & Arts at 2:55 PM - 11 answers

Are any of these stamps worth anything? [more inside]
posted by falsedmitri to Sports, Hobbies, & Recreation at 12:36 PM - 3 answers

I'm making a platform area to raise floor level by ~4" in the galley kitchen here. I'm worried about tripping at the threshold, especially if I'm slightly out of it (late night, early morning, headache, etc.). Visitors are a consideration too. Ideas to make this safer? [more inside]
posted by amtho to Home & Garden at 11:39 AM - 18 answers

I’m scheduled for general anesthesia tomorrow and I made the mistake of looking up information on the web about it. I’m looking for help to decide whether to cancel it or not. [more inside]
posted by Tell Me No Lies to Health & Fitness at 11:38 AM - 16 answers

I'm leaving my job this week and am soliciting suggestions for things I may have forgotten to do, like spend my FSA money and pre-tax transit money. That's currently my entire list. What have I forgotten?
posted by hoyland to Work & Money at 10:16 AM - 10 answers

I am looking for a new dot matrix printer that will work with my Apple computer. [more inside]
posted by Well I never to Computers & Internet at 9:42 AM - 6 answers

We'll be in Norway for 8 days with our 7 year old. We'd love an itinerary for how many days to spend where to see as much as we can of this beautiful country. We're flying in and out of Oslo but need recommendations for where else to visit. [more inside]
posted by dabadoo to Travel & Transportation at 9:41 AM - 16 answers

Some time ago I saw a contemporary dance video of three women, probably as an Instagram reel, and I'd like to watch it again. It was professionally shot and choreographed in a dance studio with a static wide angle, set to a sixties folk-rock tune, but I can't remember any more details. Help! [more inside]
posted by spielzebub to Media & Arts at 8:28 AM - 3 answers

I live in Oakland, CA and would like to move somewhere in the Bay that feels safer during the day and at night. I am a single Asian woman. Please recommend some neighborhoods? [more inside]
posted by anonymous to Society & Culture at 2:08 AM - 14 answers

I have a 10.9 inch iPad (10th generation). I would like to mount it on my photography tripod to film some timelapse footage. I would also like the iPad to be in a very protective case. What case and tripod mount should I get? [more inside]
posted by nouvelle-personne to Media & Arts at 9:33 PM - 4 answers

I have a younger step-sibling who has expressed interest in travel this year, and I want to support that as part of my birthday gift to them. There are no specific plans yet, and they life far away from me, so I wasn't sure how to best do this. Does anyone have good ideas for how to gift funds for travel? [more inside]
posted by JZig to Human Relations at 9:19 PM - 8 answers

I've been asked to design a large garden space to include a young person (twelve-ish, female) who is a high-functioning, able bodied autist (they have a formal autism diagnosis). [more inside]
posted by unearthed to Home & Garden at 9:11 PM - 13 answers

I'm reaching out to find support and possibly connect with others who identify with lifelong monogamy after their relationship has ended. I was deeply committed to my first and only partner for 20 years, and despite their departure and another two decades passing, I cannot envision forming a similar bond with someone else. I am not seeking advice to change this aspect of myself but hope to find resources and understanding for this kind of emotional and romantic orientation. [more inside]
posted by anonymous to Human Relations at 7:44 PM - 20 answers

How is life these days living in East Hollywood? Purposely keeping this wide open to get the widest range of responses. But thinking about safety, vibes, feel on the street, good places to eat and hang out, etc.
posted by ojocaliente to Society & Culture at 6:48 PM - 1 answer

I've just discovered audio described TV. Can anyone recommend sitcoms or comedy-drama TV shows you've watched that are dialogue-heavy, don't rely too much on visuals, and might translate well into this format? No need to have seen an actual audio described version of the show to answer! I'm just looking for suggestions to try. [more inside]
posted by fire, water, earth, air to Media & Arts at 4:16 PM - 36 answers

How can I make small deposits from my checking account to my savings account at a different bank, that happen instantly? [more inside]
posted by Serene Empress Dork to Work & Money at 3:15 PM - 12 answers

I currently have an LLC registered in New Mexico (USA). I will in a few months I will be located wholly in Colorado. Do I need to or is it beneficial to register an LLC in Colorado? [more inside]
posted by falsedmitri to Work & Money at 3:08 PM - 1 answer

We live in the east bay and didn't have any luck last night, but I wasn't able to drive too far out from city light pollution. More under the fold... [more inside]
posted by Molasses808 to Science & Nature at 2:07 PM - 4 answers

What are some examples of famous locations that are not technically in the places/cities we associate them with? Examples below the fold. [more inside]
posted by Meldanthral to Travel & Transportation at 1:30 PM - 50 answers

I am leading an in-person group where we will discuss a band. I want to get the group excited about the discussion by having them vote on their favorite band member using a poll. How can I then use the poll to evenly divide the group into subgroups, not based on their answer, but randomly? [more inside]
posted by cursed to Education at 12:47 PM - 7 answers

Does the Irish language / culture have a particularly philosophy of viewing emotions as fleeting? Or is it just the way its grammar works? [more inside]
posted by iamsuper to Society & Culture at 12:45 PM - 3 answers

A previous ask on this was focused on ethical questions, mine are more basic. What are the options, and how do they stack up for my needs? [more inside]
posted by wellifyouinsist to Media & Arts at 11:23 AM - 1 answer

I would love some help finding new tracks for my playlist. [more inside]
posted by Hermione Dies to Media & Arts at 11:06 AM - 20 answers

I'm not satisfied with the drug my doc's sub gave me. She is using it off-label, which I have no problem with. What are some alternatives? [more inside]
posted by intrepid_simpleton to Health & Fitness at 10:55 AM - 9 answers

I am looking to have family photos taken when traveling to the city this summer. Surprisingly, my children who won’t let me take a posed picture of them are willing to go for this! Please share either a referral for a local photographer, or places to find recommendations. Thank you! [more inside]
posted by gryphonlover to Media & Arts at 7:01 AM - 1 answer

This is hard to type, anonymous for obvious reasons. I'm almost 60. Both of my parents are finally dead ... my mom for 7 years (Alzheimer's) and my dad a few months ago at 90. My dad walked out the first time when I was 6 months and the last time when I was 12 ... he had some charm but truly never gave one single fuck about anyone except himself and didn't ever support. [more inside]
posted by anonymous to Human Relations at 12:29 AM - 37 answers

I'm in Bangkok traveling and have noticed a wheel on my trusty 15 y/o North Face 35l roller is damaged. I don't have a Thai phone number so can't buy replacement wheels on Lazada, I can buy these ones on US Amazon and get them shipped from China, or maybe I can fill the gap with a strong glue - is that worth a shot?
posted by my log does not judge to Travel & Transportation at 10:42 PM - 3 answers

Hi pals, my family and I (6 adults) would like to go see the Northern Lights (or have a good shot at it) tomorrow evening somewhere 1-2 hours in pretty much any direction from Portland, Oregon. We would need it to be accessible by car, as a couple folks in our party aren't able to hike. Where would you go for this, PNW explorers? Thank you!
posted by fairlynearlyready to Travel & Transportation at 10:09 PM - 10 answers

I need help identifying a few childhood books/movies that I forgot the names to. [more inside]
posted by dubious_dude to Grab Bag at 9:29 PM - 2 answers

It's another recipe question with a large amount of one ingredient. I have So Many Shallots. Help me with some recipes or suggestions for lots of shallots. Optional difficulty: Vegan, not required but appreciated.
posted by panhopticon to Food & Drink at 8:55 PM - 22 answers

I have the basic free zoom account. Ocasionally I have to conduct interviews via zoom, and while they usually run about 30 minutes, there's always a chance I could bump up against the 40 minute cut off. For this reason, I'm thinking of getting the paid version. [more inside]
posted by gigondas to Technology at 8:08 PM - 5 answers

I’m looking for recommendations from MeFites who have installed their own battery backup sump pump. [more inside]
posted by coldhotel to Home & Garden at 7:32 PM - 5 answers

There's a funny smell. [more inside]
posted by intrepid_simpleton to Home & Garden at 3:30 PM - 6 answers

It's a simple question, and I thought the answer was on this page, but it's not accessible with my screen reader. I am interested in reading the transcripts and other evidence as much as is possible, for curiosity if nothing else. [more inside]
posted by Alensin to Law & Government at 12:50 PM - 3 answers

I've recently become friends with a neighbour, but she wants to see me and talk to me waaaaaay more than I want to see and talk to her. How to get her to cool her jets without making her feel bad? [more inside]
posted by anonymous to Human Relations at 11:10 AM - 17 answers

I love Oli Julian's theme music for the Darren Boyd sitcom "Spy." It's got a great zingy, swingy sound. Please recommend me anything that's like that. Thanks!
posted by kristi to Media & Arts at 10:06 AM - 7 answers

I want this: Pyle Universal Keyboard Heavy-Duty Electronic Organ Holder Rack Portable Piano Stand w/ 2nd Tier, Adjustable Height and Width, Rubber Discs PKST64 but in black. Doesn't seem to be an option. I play seated so this geometry is nice because there is nothing in the ways of human legs. What can you suggest?
posted by falsedmitri to Media & Arts at 9:43 AM - 7 answers

I'm in the market for a new-to-me laptop. Budget $400. Must be Linux compatible. Used is fine. What do you recommend? [more inside]
posted by mr_bovis to Computers & Internet at 8:44 AM - 18 answers

I have a sensory processing disorder. I don’t have good aural and visual “filters”. Do you know of a good resource that I might give HR or possibly any others to briefly explain this disorder? I am thinking of one page or less. Ideally, the resource wouldn’t be focused on autism, but I am open.
posted by NotLost to Health & Fitness at 8:00 AM - 4 answers

My daughter has announced she's engaged, getting married next year. Instead of a shower, she's asked that I go with her to try on wedding dresses. We live in different states and I have lots of left over frequent flyer miles. But where can we find lots of in-person dresses to try on that isn't the $10K type stuff in NYC? She's looking for old-fashioned lacy, not fashion designer and mostly wants the mother/daughter bonding experience. [more inside]
posted by Gucky to Shopping at 6:24 AM - 14 answers

I’m searching for a personal website I once visited but can’t seem to find again. Here are some key features I remember: Branching (AI-generated?) Narratives, with a unique timeline interface for moving through them at the bottom of the page; a dark, minimalist theme, with lots of gray; blog posts about AI and potentially literature. [more inside]
posted by matkline to Computers & Internet at 4:02 AM - 0 answers

I've been taking classes for a hobby (ceramics) for about a year now and been quite enjoying the long, slow process of learning a new skill. It's been a few weeks into my most recent "semester" and it's become apparent to me that my current instructor and I are a bad fit. I've still got a month and a half left of classes and I'd rather not drop out, so how can I make the most of this time without having my new passion smothered by negativity? [more inside]
posted by btfreek to Sports, Hobbies, & Recreation at 12:07 AM - 24 answers

I'm trying to track down an essay or blog post from the past couple of years that analyzed Apple marketing collateral through the lens of the people and their lives depicted in the texts, emails, messages to each other, photos, etc. shown in Apple ads, demos, promo videos, etc. It used screenshots to make its point. It noted a few recurring names of characters in the product shots. I recall that it suggested most of the messages you see are about parties and social events.
posted by Pudding Yeti to Media & Arts at 7:45 PM - 4 answers

Over an extended Memorial Day vacation, we're cruising up the eastern seaboard through Canada. The cruise "excursions" are yawn-worthy or cheesy, so we're rolling our own. Help us figure out the best places to BE for our particular combination of dates and stops. Snowflakey details inside. [more inside]
posted by cross_impact to Travel & Transportation at 7:13 PM - 6 answers

I used to travel very frequently, but then I changed careers and there was that whole pandemic thing, so I'm going on a proper trip for the first time since 2020, and I want to make the experience as non-awful as possible. My beloved Sennheiser noise-canceling headset has seen better days, plus my devices now don't have headphone receptacles. I'm seeking suggestions for what's good for travel noise canceling in the modern era. Snowflakes within. [more inside]
posted by LadyOscar to Travel & Transportation at 7:10 PM - 21 answers

Almost two weeks ago I got a memory foam bed wedge and was a bit flummoxed by the size of the box when it arrived. Turns out it was very small because the wedge had been rolled up and compressed like a swiss roll. Instructions on the box said it would resume its initial shape after 48 hours. 12 days later, it has not. [more inside]
posted by Athanassiel to Grab Bag at 6:18 PM - 6 answers

Is there a way I can stain parts of an image in Photoshop? [more inside]
posted by pxe2000 to Computers & Internet at 6:06 PM - 3 answers

I need to rip the mask off: I need a quick peace of mind (or not) on Covid risk and apparently remedial Covid education 2024 edition [more inside]
posted by floweredfish to Health & Fitness at 4:27 PM - 35 answers

My dishwasher flooded my kitchen and it's looking like I'll be needing new flooring, cabinets, and possibly a countertop. I am not a home remodeling type of person. How do I figure out what I want? [more inside]
posted by The corpse in the library to Home & Garden at 3:48 PM - 8 answers

I have a folder with a list of .txt files in it - file list example (imgur). I would like to create a folder for each file name and to name that folder after the filename. [more inside]
posted by unearthed to Computers & Internet at 3:18 PM - 7 answers

How hard is it to get around East Sussex (Lewes/Alfriston area) without a car? [more inside]
posted by Awkward Philip to Travel & Transportation at 1:57 PM - 3 answers