How can I match my girlfriend in X-rated talk?
December 10, 2013 11:11 AM Subscribe
Ladies, please help an out-of-practice man talk dirty to a new girlfriend who wants to be more verbal in bed.
posted by anonymous to Human Relations (22 answers total) 15 users marked this as a favorite
I'm a male, 30s, in a sexual relationship with a woman for the first time in a long while, and the first ever who really likes to be verbally explicit in bed. I have always liked the thought of dirty talk, but now that it's a reality I feel like I'm lacking the spontaneity. When I ask her what things she'd want to hear me say, she seems disappointed as though she'd rather me just go with the moment rather than quiz her. She likes James Deen and the way he looks women in the eye and talks to them, but I don't know what he's saying!
Lady Mefites, have there been specific examples of dirty talk men have used in bed that have been attractive and exciting and not gross or lame? Luckily, the woman I'm with does not seem put off easily, but I'm also trying not to make a fool of myself. Thanks for helping with this embarrassing question.