Help me deal with bisexuality.
June 21, 2008 9:24 AM Subscribe
Fiancee best friend is bisexual. I have issues dealing with it.
posted by anonymous to Human Relations (27 answers total) 1 user marked this as a favorite
I have always been suspecting that my significant other's BFF was bi. But recently I got the confirmation.
These girls grew up together and they have known each other for far longer than I have known my significant other. They always act very affectionate towards each other.
When I found out I asked my fiancee about it and she said that nothing sexual ever happened between them and that she found out about this other girl's preference at the same time I did.
In fact, she was upset that I ever thought that she would hide such a thing from me. We're going through some relationship problems as well, and my question, which I posed in a less than gentle way, is only fueling the fire that is burning our relationship from the inside.
How can I mend things, assuage my suspicions, and how can I deal with my fiancee's friend in light of the new knowledge? My fiancee and I come from different backgrounds, mine is a lot more conservative. I have bisexual friends but they are not someone who I feel really close to, or someone that I have known practically my entire life.