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I write a weekly blog with the simplest HTML I could come up with. Everything done by hand with a text editor and FTP client. Nowadays I'm getting requests to add an RSS/Atom feed - which the blog had back in the old CMS days, when I used WordPress or whatever. But now that I have this low-tech approach, is there an easy way to set up an RSS or Atom feed? I don't want to go back to a CMS just for this reason.
comment posted at 3:08 PM on Mar-23-21


My sister is breaking up with her boyfriend this weekend and moving her stuff out of his house on the same day due to her boyfriend's month+ long manic bipolar episode which he refuses to acknowledge as an ongoing health emergency. I'm going to help her move her stuff out in one swift event. But he's scary at the moment, and I am anxious about how this will play out. Details below.
comment posted at 6:11 PM on Mar-20-21


My public two-year college admissions office - of which I am a staff member - wants to take up marketing's suggestion that they contact previous applicants who did not matriculate for a "study" asking them their reasons, with an offer of entry into a drawing for a $100 gift card as an incentive to participate.
comment posted at 7:42 AM on Feb-5-21


I probably don't need much convincing, but please tell me why you love yours.
comment posted at 8:22 AM on Dec-18-20


As it says.
comment posted at 7:36 PM on Dec-10-20


Keyboard beginner here, seeking help with the chord progressions for Men I Trust - Lucky Sue. Looking to play along. Normally I'd search YT but it's a brand new tune. Thanks!
comment posted at 12:14 PM on Oct-2-20


I know you are not my (or my mom's) mental health professionals but there is zero chance of my mother ever visiting a mental health professional and I'm just hoping someone with similar experiences might be able to give some insight into the decades long mystery of why my mom is so different from everyone else I've ever met.
comment posted at 9:51 PM on Sep-9-20


We've been trying to grow our social media presence. Lately (I'd say it's been the past three or four months, but the last six weeks especially), Facebook is actively working against us. How do we get Facebook to allow our content?
comment posted at 6:23 PM on Sep-1-20


What factors should I consider in deciding whether to ask for an accommodation at work? I have been WFH since March. They now want me to come back in unless I have an accommodation through HR. Unbeknownst to them, I have cancer and could probably get one. It’s not an aggressive cancer and I’m not currently in treatment. It might not actually be an enhanced risk, but I bet my oncologist would give me the documentation I need. What are all the possible downsides of doing this?
comment posted at 2:11 PM on Aug-5-20


Last night, me and my partner ventured to a bar (all social distanced and sat outside!) and while we were walking home, I made a comment about how we drink quite a bit when we're together and maybe we should try having fun without alcohol, in the prospect of getting healthy / in shape. He responded by saying he felt like he had no hobbies, and when I'm not staying at his flat, he gets really lonely. What should I do?
comment posted at 4:30 PM on Jul-15-20


I saw a Confederacy apologist unloading a new-to-me argument for the reason the southern states seceded from the union: that they paid disproportionately more in taxes than northern states, and received little in return. There are a number of websites advancing this argument, but my quick perusal suggests they're all run by Confederacy apologists. I'm wondering if there's anything to this argument, and if not, what sources debunk it.
comment posted at 10:00 AM on Jul-9-20


I have a viking mixer, and I have a problem It is a Viking professional 7 qt, and while using it to mix some pretty stiff dough, the dough mixer attachment snapped off. not only did it snap, it snapped below where I could grab what was left of it and twist it out. I have tried taking it apart, to no avail. Does anyone have an idea, other than send it back to Viking?
comment posted at 7:45 PM on Jul-8-20


While taking advantage of all the COVID down time during PRIDE, I have been reading and listening to books (also this), as well as an amazing podcast to understand more of the history and development of my community, While these are amazing for filling in the gaps, I would like to read some of the original gay publications/source documents, especially "The Native" which was very active in the initial AIDS crisis. Unfortunately my googling hasn't helped - are there any recommendations? Thanks
comment posted at 3:35 PM on Jul-8-20


Weird, unsettling, ugly, violent, perverted and just plain odd preferably foreign movies?
comment posted at 11:48 AM on Jul-3-20


I'm back, again; please don't judge me. I am waiting on a consult with a family law attorney. I need a little help thinking through all the stuff I might not anticipate if I move forward with a divorce.
comment posted at 10:14 PM on Jul-1-20


What precautions should I not forget to take as I travel home finally?
comment posted at 8:13 PM on Jul-14-20


I have an elderly relative whose everyday-use nickname is not Trip or Bo but a shortened slur, and has been that way since around the Great Depression. We need to not do this anymore. How to start?
comment posted at 12:46 PM on Jun-19-20


An estimated 92 percent of all women who receive a prenatal diagnosis of Down syndrome choose to terminate their pregnancies, according to research reviewed by Dr. Brian Skotko, a pediatric geneticist at Children's Hospital Boston.” However when I went looking for women sharing their first person accounts of getting an abortion in this scenario, I found one (via Shout Your Abortion). Where are the first person accounts?
comment posted at 2:59 PM on Jun-18-20


A neighbor is flying an American flag that contains the 'thin blue line'. It's not one of the black and white styles, it's red, white & blue, with the addition of the thin blue line. I need to make it go away.
comment posted at 11:10 AM on Jun-18-20


I purchased some KN95 masks -- they are now easily available from any number of vendors, eBay is flooded with them. However, the masks I purchased, which of course looked just fine on the model wearing it, they are about the size my fist, and are barely adequate, They are not in fact adequate at all. Have your purchased KN95 masks that are easily large enough for you? Looking to spend $1.00 -- $1.50 apiece, 10-25 masks. Any help appreciated.
comment posted at 10:05 AM on Jun-18-20


If you had to make a rubric for evaluating romantic partners what would be on it?
comment posted at 7:31 AM on Jun-7-20


I am conflicted on leaving my very long marriage with my sometimes abusive husband, who has also been an addict throughout our marriage.I also still love him very much ,and am financially independent enough to leave.My teenage child who adores their dad ( he is a great dad ) is pushing for me to leave and I really do not think I can ever do that ....I feel weak ,hopeless ,very fearful , miserable and stuck despite having a good job and knowing what the right thing to do is....I just can't do it more details inside.
comment posted at 10:23 AM on Jun-4-20


When can we touch again?
comment posted at 9:02 AM on May-31-20


I'm looking for essays, articles and the like discussing or explaining the rise of people outright denying scientifically backed/evidence based things, and vehemently choosing to believe whatever they want to. contributing factors, history of such movements etc. are a megabonus.
comment posted at 11:36 AM on May-21-20


I enjoy playing video games and it’s my main, if not only, hobby. My partner generally dislikes them but has been more or less tolerant of my gaming, until I discovered a new game during quarantine.
comment posted at 8:26 AM on May-10-20
comment posted at 8:29 AM on May-10-20


I enjoy a wide range of podcasts and am looking for podcast recommendations across several genres, particularly those which tell a good story. Would love to hear your favorite podcasts within these categories! Honestly, even if your favorites are outside of these genres, I’d still love to hear them! Thank you in advance.
comment posted at 2:29 PM on May-7-20


I had a career counselor tell me that first comes cash, then career, then calling. I thought it was interesting advice on how life should progress financially. Any thoughts on this way of seeing adult life?
comment posted at 1:29 PM on Apr-24-20


Unwisely, I decided to paint a mural on a wall in my house. I have very little mural painting experience. Not surprisingly, this is not going so well. I need materials suggestions. More after the jump.
comment posted at 2:18 PM on Apr-17-20


My mother, who is a dean of undergraduate studies at a queer and lefty school, considers chronic pain not a real disability, a sign of a weak person, and something to laugh about. She makes up stories about people laughing at me for trying to get SSDI, but it is clear she is the one in the stories.
comment posted at 2:33 PM on Apr-16-20


Inspired by a recent Twitter conversation – What's this sort of word-game where you link similar-sounding words by their definitions? My family has played it, often on long car rides, and I've seen many Twitter threads of it... my earliest memory of it is, I think, some TV show for kids, but I'm not sure if it was supposed to be educational or funny.
comment posted at 6:39 PM on Apr-14-20


Pretty much what it says. We have 50% custody, the child is currently with other parent, other parent has told me that they will now keep the child because of unspecified quarantine issues. I have called my attorney, but it is always useful to have hive mind suggestions as to possible ideas to talk about with said attorney. Pennsylvania, USA. Thank you!
comment posted at 6:04 PM on Apr-8-20


My Amazon Fire Tablet was stolen over 4 months ago (with a ton of other sh_t in my backpack, huge financial loss) in Europe. 1. The thief or current "owner" is buying free ebooks on my amazon account 2. I have installed google play on the amazon fire tab. It was first used again today and find my device displayed the quite unique name of the WiFi network. How do I get the IP address from Google and or Amazon so that I can report it to the police?
comment posted at 1:58 PM on Apr-2-20


Of all the stuffed foods in the world, which does the Pizza Roll most closely resemble? I will accept justification based on shape, fillings, encasement ingredients, history, etc. Apologies if this is too discussiony, but the best answer does have a real world application.
comment posted at 5:11 PM on Apr-1-20


Like all of us looking to expand our game collection in these times, specifically rpg, fantasy like. (Expanding on the wholesome games theme!)
comment posted at 5:56 PM on Mar-22-20


I like to do linocuts and printmaking. And now, so much free time I have since my job has temporarily disappeared. Problem? I can't carve for more than 20 minutes at a time before the pain/stiffness in my neck, shoulders and mid back are unbearable and I have to stop.
comment posted at 10:12 PM on Mar-23-20


News out today says over 70s may have to isolate at home for four months (!) should I isolate with him or should I go out and do all the mutual aid stuff I’d been planning, and then stay 6 feet away at all times? 1br/1bath flat. He’s v healthy, I have occasional asthma.
comment posted at 8:42 AM on Mar-15-20


On Wednesday, March 12, Seattle Public Schools announced that schools would be closed for at least two weeks. On Thursday, March 13, Washington state governor Jay Inslee ordered the closure of all King County public schools (including Seattle Public Schools) for a minimum of six weeks. Why was the closure extended by a month one day after it was first announced? Disagreement between state and local authorities? New information regarding the spread of the virus? Some other reason?
comment posted at 8:38 AM on Mar-13-20


I'm an assigned male at birth (AMAB) non-binary person. I have some mild gender dysphoria with my face, which I want to look a bit more feminine. I'm happy with my chest as is and would be unhappy and dysphoric with full-blown breasts. I'm a chunky person so I kind of have titties already and I don't mind them at all. I think I'd be okay with a slight amount of titty growth. Is it possible to get the facially feminizing effects of low-dose hormone replacement therapy without experiencing significant top growth?
comment posted at 11:29 AM on Mar-6-20


My SO/partner had a sexual encounter with another person. She recently told me. What’s really difficult is that when she told me, I had to ask many questions from her to get the full truth, and I kind of feel like actually hurt more by how much I had to try. How should I move forward, if at all?
comment posted at 1:06 PM on Feb-27-20


I don't really expect this question to be "answered", because there's really no way to do so. But I think that attempts to answer it would lead to some good recommendations, so... A couple of decades ago, I was in a bar and heard a song. I have a few more details, but not many. What was the song?
comment posted at 8:31 AM on Feb-6-20


Help me name my fictional [cult / brotherhood / organization].
comment posted at 9:06 AM on Jan-30-20


My two year old has been at a wonderful home daycare for the last 6 months. But the owner has told me that her 16 year old son will be moving home from boarding school and that he is bipolar and ADHD. Yikes. How concerned would you be?
comment posted at 7:11 PM on Jan-26-20


My wife and I are unfortunately in the position of struggling to conceive. Do you have any useful practical suggestions for resources and advice?
comment posted at 5:36 PM on Sep-2-20


I'm about to start a job search, which means that I have to revise the tiny, outdated handful of rags and bones that is my LinkedIn page. This will involve getting a headshot, and since I loathe being photographed, that won't be trivial. Please help me find a professional photographer in Seattle who can help me out with this.
comment posted at 6:55 PM on Jan-22-20


I'm sure I'm not the only one who has inherited a set (or partial set) of heavy, lidded, Club cookware. So why can I barely find any information about the stuff online? I've found a brief history of the company and how it was acquired by Mirro, but why is it so prevalent in thrift stores and ebay today? What was their product lineup? Do they hold up to modern cookware? Why did so many people buy them? How were they advertised? What did people like my grandma (unfortunately deceased) think about them? What questions am I not thinking to ask?
comment posted at 11:07 AM on Jan-16-20


I almost wanted to say "non-visual" but I'm don't necessary want to rule out graphic novels. I've always been curious if I can find a book that can scare me...but up to now I haven't been able to. Any thoughts on books you find terrifying? Details within!
comment posted at 7:11 AM on Jan-10-20


So I was told that due to health problems (long-standing depression, sadness and anxiety) that I have to change my whole chemistry and this to be done through happiness. Ugh. No really UGH.
comment posted at 10:11 AM on Jan-9-20


Parents of teen boys, how do you deal with their, um, *used* tissues?
comment posted at 10:39 AM on Jan-5-20


For a month or two I've been keeping an intermittent eye on a used book being sold on Amazon by 3-4 sellers for ~$30-40. The price hadn't changed much when I looked a week or two ago, but today all four sellers are listing it for over $900(!) What gives?
comment posted at 1:56 PM on Dec-20-19


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