what happens in a mexican strip club?
July 3, 2006 10:12 AM Subscribe
MexicanSexRelationshipFilter. How to best question my partner about his sexual escapades without accusing him of infidelity?
posted by anonymous to Human Relations (29 answers total) 1 user marked this as a favorite
I'm in a monogamous committed relationship with a guy I've known for a few years. Recently he went to Acapulco with some buddies and I know that they visited a strip club there. I'm generally sex-positive and have visited strip clubs a couple times here in the US, both times with him. However I am of course concerned that the line between stripping and prostitution may be blurred in Mexico, and while I don't want to accuse him of partaking in those services, I don't want to catch something NASTY if he has.
To my knowledge he's never cheated on me in the past, and has gotten very defensive when I (drunkenly) accused him of it before. I want to protect my health but I don't want to cause unnecessary tension or make him feel like I don't trust him. How can I bring this up in a way that shows I'm just looking out for my own well-being, and don't really think he's that sleazy?
Also, if anyone out there wants to disprove my assumption that prostitution is tacitly legal in that sort of club, please do!