TIRED of being a virgin!
January 17, 2013 7:00 AM Subscribe
I'm a 20 year old girl, and I've never been in a relationship. I feel weird about that. Where do I meet guys, apart from school, and how do I get more confidence?
posted by anonymous to Human Relations (19 answers total) 7 users marked this as a favorite
So I commute to a primarily resident school, so it's been really hard for me to get close to people. I'm on the shy, introverted side, with some social anxiety. Furthermore, I'm so busy with school and work that I very rarely go out to parties. I wonder if that's affected the fact that I've never been in a relationship, which I feel super weird about. It's not that I've never been pursued, but the guys that pursue me never seem to be my type.
Sometimes, the fact that I've never even been kissed makes me feel insecure. It's made me struggle so so much with self esteem issues, and on bad days I obsess over whether or not other see me as uglier than I think I am when I look in the mirror. I hate my nose, but apart from that I think I'd rate between a 5-6.5/10, with a lean and decently curvy body... so I think I'm average looking but I guess I can look nice when I try. I see people who are about as attractive (or unattractive, hah) as me in relationships all the time, so what's wrong with me? Maybe I have bad breath? lol