Is he just not that into me?
April 3, 2012 7:39 AM Subscribe
It was probably a one night stand. So, to text or not to text?
posted by anonymous to Human Relations (21 answers total) 2 users marked this as a favorite
Last week I hooked up with someone from out of town, after two days of them actively wooing me.
The night was intense, with this person talking a lot about us getting together again. When I left they said we'd talk in a couple of days. The following day, they sent me a couple of funny/sexy emails and we swapped a few texts, their last one ending with, "I'll talk to you soon." I sent them a very short email the next day asking if they had made it home safely and thanking them for a good time.
And I have heard nothing since then.
There is very little chance of a relationship, but this person travels to my area fairly often so reconnecting would be another one or two night hookup.
I realize that I might just be getting a phone call when they're back in town again, but would like to at least know that.
For my own piece of mind I would like to send them one more text message (perhaps there was an electronic glitch). I'm having a very hard time reconciling their behavior when we were together with their behavior now that we're apart (though recognize that this happens all the time).
I would really like to know if they have any expectation of us getting together again. So what do I say to accomplish this? Is there a way of asking what's going on without coming across as desperate? And how do I keep it to a sentence or two?
Thank you for your help.