Kinky and anonymous?
October 24, 2011 11:20 AM Subscribe
Getting started in the local kinky / Fetlife community - with a real-life reputation to keep completely disconnected. How to do it?
posted by anonymous to human relations (20 answers total) 6 users marked this as a favorite
29, male, straight, familiar enough with kinky stuff to make past girlfriends very happy. OKCupid works quite well at finding dates and girlfriends, but it's just a little too vanilla. I recently signed up on Fetlife and am getting familiar with the local (if fairly small) community. I'll be at the next munch in the area, that's for sure - going forward, getting involved as the schedule allows.
The issue is that I'm positive I'll run into people who know me. It *must* be possible to keep the 'real world' reputation untouched whilst enjoying what the community has to offer (and of course, what I can offer the community).
FWIW, there's zero connection between my username on Fetlife and anywhere else, and I've carefully ensured it would very difficult to impossible to ascertain who I am from that profile.
So, fellow kinky MeFi's, how do you enjoy yourself while keeping your anonymity?