Should I ask her out now?
April 24, 2009 7:31 AM Subscribe
I'm moving nine hours away and she'll be closer....eventually, should I ask her out beforehand?
posted by anonymous to human relations (18 answers total)
I met this girl through an online dating site. She was listed as looking for friends but I thought I'd try my luck and over the course of a few months we've been on three "hang outs" and it's been great.
I'm moving nine hours (car ride) away next week for a job and graduate school and she will be coming up in the summer (she is from there). Also a few months after she comes back up she will be going to Europe for 6 weeks for a study abroad program. After all is said and done she will be back home (where I will be).
My question is: should I ask her on a "date" next week with the express intention of telling her that I like her a lot or should I wait until summer, or should I wait until after the whole Europe stint?
I know (from reading a lot of askmeta) that long distance relationships don't work, but this one is confusing in its complications.
Another alternative I was considering was to just -over the phone- tell her how I feel about her.