Oblivious hymen breaking?
June 29, 2006 6:09 PM Subscribe
Is it possible I broke by girlfriend's hymen without knowing?
posted by suomynona to Human Relations (15 answers total) 1 user marked this as a favorite
I first had sex with her about 5 months ago and only last week did she come out and tell me that she was actually a virgin when we had sex (she had lied before about it).
Further, she says that I broke her hymen while we had sex and there was even blood on my mouth that she slyly wiped off... all without my knowing! I wasn't (really) drunk but I was pretty excited (it was only my 3rd time.) Oh yeah, and this was without a condom, so I feel I should have felt something.
Also, she has had several relationships that involved pretty much all kind of non-sex play, so it's amazing to me that her hymen could have even survived (she's 28).
So is she mistaken? Was it a partial hymen? Am I a clueless lover? Wikipedia didn't give me the answers I'm looking for.
(Note - for those who are curious, I don't care at all that she lied)