Dealing with a love Conundrum
August 31, 2014 9:21 PM Subscribe
Should I take the leap, and take the risk, or should I just forget about it and move on?
I seem to find myself in a bit of a conundrum with love/relationships, and was hoping to have your expert advice on the issue/matter as it is slightly complicated.
While traveling oversea's one summer and living there briefly, I met this lovely lady and hit it off immediately. I have never met anyone who had such a direct impact on my soul and being as she did. She is very pretty and very beautiful, but I also admired her simply for who she was and who she is, some of her values, her personality especially, and how we got along. It actually felt pretty compatible. I have seen many beautiful women before, however this girl was stunning and had the most beautiful eyes I had ever seen.
As I left we developed a relationship chatting, sending each other messages, talking over skype, etc. etc; it was lovely. However, for some reason, things dissolved right at the most critical point, where we both wanted to commit, and things fell apart.
If we had been here, and been able to see each other and things fizzled, I would be understanding of the fact that we at least gave it a shot and things weren't meant to be. However in this circumstance, I feel that despite giving the relationship a "shot", it still wasn't ever able to fully blossom due to the fact of never making the commitment and taking the leap to go down to visit her, despite talking about it many times.
Despite her moving on, and myself dating other women and seeing other people at times, I never felt the deep connection like I did with this one, and have battled with the question of taking the leap, and going down there to see what happens. Or if I should completely forget it.
What do you think? I would love to hear you response and your advice.
Thank you in advance so much for your help and taking the time to review my message. This is a peculiar circumstance and it would be of great insight.