Would this be nice or creepy?
April 24, 2014 8:41 PM Subscribe
I want to make my good friend a fancy list of 20 things I really like about her. If I made such a list and gave it to her would that be nice and thoughtful or kinda creepy and overwrought?
posted by WinterSolstice to Human Relations (34 answers total) 1 user marked this as a favorite
So two weeks ago I was at a pretty low point personally and my best friend, who I have known for almost 20 years now (since middle school) randomly gave me a small gift and made time for me despite her super crazy schedule. She did not know I was feeling down - this is just how she is and is why we are such good friends.
Since then, I have been exceptionally grateful to have her as my friend (well I always was but that just drove the point home) and I want to do something nice in return. I was thinking of making a list of 20 or so things that I really like about her and handwriting it on cardstock or some such with some hand-drawn embellishments. But would that be too much?
I know none of you know me, her, or our friendship but I don't want to seem over emotional. On the other hand I was bought up in a house where emotions aren't expressed so I have trouble navigating sometimes. We are both heterosexual females for whatever that is worth. So internet strangers... if you got one of these, nice and thoughtful or creepy and too much?