I'm a woman. What do I do while on the bottom during sex with a man?
October 9, 2013 4:26 PM Subscribe
What do I do on the bottom during sex with my boyfriend? [NSFW]
posted by Autumn to human relations (16 answers total) 9 users marked this as a favorite
I dated women exclusively for years, and as such I'm a little... rusty. I have no idea what to do when I'm on the bottom (or top for that matter, but that seems easier to research.) I make noise, play with his hair and bite his neck if the position allows it (but a lot of the time his head is too far up and blocks me from moving mine - probably because I'm short.) I've tried doing kegels but that makes him slip out. I run my hands along his back and do a little scratching, but ultimately it feels like the things I'm doing are underwhelming and I'm just kind of laying there.
I've tried getting tips from porn but honestly, at least on the websites I visit, most of the straight porn only allows a few seconds of that to pass by before there's a disgusting angle or shot or whatever.
Google only suggested things I'm already doing, and talking to him about it hasn't yielded any fruit because he's kind of closed off about it, sooo... Here I am.