How to get out of this long term Marriage
July 18, 2010 4:17 AM Subscribe
How to get out of this long term Marriage?
posted by anonymous to human relations (15 answers total)
Stuck in a rut. Help me get out of this relation ship with my Wife.
It became clear that we're just not right for each other about 10 years back. I had to stick with her for my children or social stigma.
I don't have relatives here in US, but she has cousins.I Live in MD we have been married for 20 years and have two children. One is 18 yrs and the other is 6yrs.
I make around $95k she works make about $80K and she is on my medical insurance.
Here are the things which I find problem with
1) She does not pay any bills. I pay around $3500 each month for mortgage and utilities when asked money she begins to shout!
The list of things I pay Mortgage($2700), Gas, Electric, Water, Satellite TV, Cell Phone, car insurance, my son's 597 plan($150)
The list of things she pays, Telephone bill and my daughters 597 plan ($450)
2) I have her name in my joint checking account, she does not have. She have invested in stock trade on my back. I know this
because I am doing our tax return.
3) She does not do daily chores starts shouting. If she starts doeing some works she nitpicks.
Does not keep thrash, showel snow , does not mow etc.
There are other issues, I tried to adjust with her. Here are some
When I use to work around 40 miles away, she around 8 miles. she used to call exactly arounf 6PM at that time I use to be on the
DC beltway. People who commute know how difficult it is.
now she works for 9 hrs she had work When I bring that up she says those are past issue.
Now I work nearby.I have to pick kids during early release days or other school activity even though she works nearby.
I love my kids. We have property in abroad.
I want a Divorce. How fast it will we done? Being with her is nightmare. Recommend a good lawyer in MD (Gaithersburg area).
I appreciate any suggestion