Please don't ask me on a date.
May 23, 2010 8:58 AM Subscribe
I know a guy in person that I've been chatting with online. In person, I'm not attracted to him at all. But I am intellectually turned on by the conversations we have.
(Anon because I talk to this guy on the internet
I don't want this to go any farther.
posted by anonymous to Human Relations (15 answers total) 5 users marked this as a favorite
My fear is that I may be leading him on. How do I make this stop without hurting any feelings? (He hasn't asked me on a date, but he's made some...comments. Not improper by any means, but kind of hinty.)
I'm just as concerned about my feelings as his. Maybe he's not interested in me in that way, so I don't want to be too up front about the whole rejection thing.
This is complicated slightly by the fact that I would like to be dating somebody, but not anybody in particular. Part of my attraction to the conversations may be that he's paying attention to me in a way that other guys aren't right now.