"Getting the girl."
February 2, 2009 3:17 PM Subscribe
A tricky "getting-a-girl" question. Nothing that might cause trouble, but still worth asking anonymously.
posted by anonymous to human relations (13 answers total) 3 users marked this as a favorite
Recently, I started sending e-mails back-and-forth to a girl living about 40 miles from me via online dating site OkCupid. She was listed as single at the time. We had a date planned but not scheduled. Recently, I contacted her to find that she had stumbled upon someone in her city and they had started dating.
So, obviously, I want to "get the girl," so to speak. She's certainly not committed, and hanging out is still an option, but as the ratio of nerd girls to guys is about 1 to 9, I don't want to give up just yet. Is there a good way to go about this?