What conversation topics put a man on the Friends Ladder with women?
September 5, 2008 8:13 AM Subscribe
As a man, does talking to a woman about your adventures with other women put you on the friends ladder?
posted by harwons to Human Relations (66 answers total) 8 users marked this as a favorite
So there's the Ladder Theory
, which, let's face it, applies to most women (they don't want to endanger the friendship with a man by sleeping with him).
A woman with whom I talked frequently (including about our past dates and partners) once told me "I can't have the hots for you because we talk more than we fuck".
My question is: which parts/topics of conversation between a man and a woman put the man on the Friends Ladder?