Gay bar tips?
March 15, 2008 1:09 PM Subscribe
What are some necessary tips for approaching and meeting guys in gay bars, esp. when I'm alone?
posted by shivohum to human relations (6 answers total) 2 users marked this as a favorite
I'm not necessarily looking for immediate hookups, but at least to get numbers and future dates.
I'm new to this scene and clueless, and need tips on how to gauge guys' interest and figure out just what they want (immediate hookup or not?), how to approach them when they're alone, how to approach them when they're in a group, what to say, whether I should have a girl with me, etc.
Dressing advice? Posture advice? Do I need to follow really complicated flirting advice or can I basically "be myself"? I'm in my 20s in NYC.