I'm not good enough?
August 6, 2007 9:53 AM Subscribe
Strip clubs and relationships. I've never been one to visit those types of establishments very often - heck only three times in my 35 years. I've asked my girlfriend of five years a few times to go with me for a fun couple's night out but she's turned me down for few reasons and I've tried not to pressure her because it's not that big of a deal to me. However....
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She's recently told me that a female coworker has talked her into going to one. They're celebrating a large milestone from work. Also going will be a few of the girls from work.
My immediate reaction was to be a little hurt - she won't go with me but she'll go with other people. Ouch.
I think I'm over that because I'm pretty open and sex-positive (heck, I work at a sex toy manufacturer)... but after I found out that a guy was going and I'm specifically not invited I'm not sure what to think.
I want her to go and have fun if she's comfortable with going - but she's comfortable with going in this group and not with me. Should I be concerned or just get over it?