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Songs of Obsession...? Putting together a 'Mix Tape' of sexual fixation/obsession... in the vein of "Every Breath You Take." Suggestions?
posted by eatdonuts to Media & Arts (73 answers total) 3 users marked this as a favorite
 
"Venus in Furs"... the most beautiful song about S&M. Originally by The Velvet Underground. Also check out the fantastic cover version by the black metal band, Krieg.
posted by hellhammer at 1:11 PM on May 23, 2006 [1 favorite]


Closer - Nine Inch Nails
Angel - Massive Attack (not explicitly, but it gives me that impression)



Less serious:
almost anything by Peaches or Dj Assault
posted by utsutsu at 1:14 PM on May 23, 2006


I Want You by Elvis Costello. Creepy, yet kind of sexy.
posted by jrossi4r at 1:16 PM on May 23, 2006


"Hope" by the Descendents
"Waiting In Vain" by Bob Marley
"Bad Obsession" by GNR
"If I Think" by Mudhoney
posted by johngoren at 1:17 PM on May 23, 2006


Yeah, definitely I Want You.
posted by johngoren at 1:17 PM on May 23, 2006


I did a whole radio show on this once! My theme was more "stalker" than "obsession" but there is a lot of overlap. Some of them are highly creepy and some of them are better than others:

Blondie - One Way Or Another
Rockwell - Somebody's Watching Me
Fleetwood Mac - I Got It In For You
Animotion - Obsession
Cinerama - Dance, Girl, Dance
Duran Duran - Hungry Like the Wolf
Hall and Oates - Private Eyes
The Handsome Family - Arlene
Herman's Hermits - Silhouettes
Tony Orlando and Dawn - Knock Three Times (Now and Then)
Little Peggy March - I Will Follow Him
Randy Newman - Suzanne
Steve Earle - More Than I Can Do
The Beatles - Run For Your Life
Diana Ross & The Supremes - I'm Gonna Make You Love Me

Have fun.
posted by irregardless at 1:18 PM on May 23, 2006


You might be interested in the 2002 film, Cherish, which is based on the creepiness of pop music. The film's soundtrack will surely have some answers.
posted by JMOZ at 1:18 PM on May 23, 2006


"Prince Charming" by Brother Ali is a beautifully sly look at at obsession/possession. Subtly blatant is how I would describe it.
posted by n-clue at 1:18 PM on May 23, 2006


Blondie, "One way or Another."
posted by buxtonbluecat at 1:18 PM on May 23, 2006


The Only One by Billy Bragg.
I Want To Touch You" by Catherine Wheel.
I'll Fall With Your Knife by Peter Murphy.
posted by nomisxid at 1:18 PM on May 23, 2006


Night & Day by Sinatra or whoever else.
posted by misteraitch at 1:21 PM on May 23, 2006


Obsession - Nanojath
posted by ND¢ at 1:26 PM on May 23, 2006


'Can't Take My Eyes Off You' -- (of so many covers of it, including Diana Ross, Jimmy Somerville, Pet Shop Boys, etc.)
posted by ericb at 1:26 PM on May 23, 2006


Live - "I Alone"
Foo Fighters - "Walking After You"
posted by PenDevil at 1:29 PM on May 23, 2006


"I Only Want You" by Eagles of Death Metal
posted by JekPorkins at 1:31 PM on May 23, 2006


The Flaming Lips - "Mountainside"
posted by jennyb at 1:32 PM on May 23, 2006


"It Must Be Him" -- Vicki Carr
posted by JanetLand at 1:39 PM on May 23, 2006


the who - Pictures Of Lily
posted by shmegegge at 1:44 PM on May 23, 2006


Garbage - #1 Crush

Tool - Part of Me
posted by trinarian at 1:47 PM on May 23, 2006


Underwear and I Spy by Pulp.
posted by misteraitch at 1:49 PM on May 23, 2006


The Beatles - "I Want You (She's So Heavy)"
Sarah Mclachlan - "Posession"
Cheap Trick - "I Want You To Want Me"
posted by arto at 1:49 PM on May 23, 2006


I did a mix CD with a very, very creepy obession theme going; I culled out ones that were situation specific and threw in two more from a breakup CD. Some of these may not fit your theme exactly - obsession can be very personal. For example, I think that 'So Alive' (Love and Rockets) is about obsession, but I don't think that many people would agree.

Nick Cave & the Bad Seeds - Straight to You
The Sisters Of Mercy - First and Last and Always (mostly the chorus.)
Marilyn Manson - I Put a Spell on You (there are other versions, but I think this one has the best 'crazy obsessed' tone)
VAST - Temptation AND Pretty When You Cry
Shakespear's Sister - Stay
k.d. lang - Constant Craving
Melissa Etheridge - I Wanna Come Over
posted by cobaltnine at 1:53 PM on May 23, 2006


Garbage - There's a jazz/acoustic version of "You Look So Fine" floating around.
posted by SpecialK at 1:54 PM on May 23, 2006


On the "over-jealous boyfriend" side of things, you could use "No One Else" by Weezer or "Run & Hide" by the Watchmen.
posted by Johnny Assay at 1:55 PM on May 23, 2006


I always found U2's "I Will Follow" a little creepy...
posted by sauril at 1:56 PM on May 23, 2006


"You Better Run" by Junior Kimbrough
posted by Atom12 at 2:06 PM on May 23, 2006


Turning Japanese by The Vapours
Well, obsession and masturbation...
posted by i_cola at 2:07 PM on May 23, 2006


"Just My Imagination" by the Temptations.
posted by sellout at 2:08 PM on May 23, 2006


Tall Thin Girl - Jethro Tull
posted by Gungho at 2:10 PM on May 23, 2006


"Baby It's Cold Outside" - the cutest song about date rape ever!

"The Nurse Who Loved Me" by A Perfect Circle.
posted by Sticherbeast at 2:14 PM on May 23, 2006


Ebony and Ivory
posted by Kafkaesque at 2:15 PM on May 23, 2006


"The Fragile" by Nine Inch Nails
posted by saladin at 2:26 PM on May 23, 2006


I Touch Myself - The Divinyls
posted by hootch at 2:28 PM on May 23, 2006


"Losing My Religon" by REM, which actually has nothing to do with religon.

"I Can See For Miles" by The Who is in the same vein as "Run for Your Life"

"Hot Summer Nights" by The Aquabats is absolutely hilarious.

"Dear Yoko" by John Lennon has always struck me as slightly creepy and obsessive, but that's probably just me.
posted by martinX's bellbottoms at 2:32 PM on May 23, 2006


Can't Let Go - Roxy Music
Can't Let Go - The Hollies
Can't Let Go - Lucinda Williams
posted by chocolatepeanutbuttercup at 2:33 PM on May 23, 2006


Normally I don't like when people type out lyrics to songs in this sort of thread, but I llove this song:
"With tears in my eyes/ you had to say goodbye/ you had to go but couldn't tell me why/ you said something about you were moving to Alaska"
posted by martinX's bellbottoms at 2:35 PM on May 23, 2006


"Sign Your Name Across My Heart" by Terence Trent D'Arby

"Come to My Window" Melissa Etheridge
posted by I_Love_Bananas at 2:35 PM on May 23, 2006


ohh, and Alanis Morrisette's Uninvited... spooky and beautiful.
posted by trinarian at 2:42 PM on May 23, 2006


"But If You Go" by MC 900 Ft Jesus. Light, creepy, funky, funny all at the same time.
posted by ldenneau at 2:46 PM on May 23, 2006


Want - Jawbreaker
Sea Foam Green - Jawbreaker
Shirt - Jawbreaker
Fireman - Jawbreaker
posted by joe lisboa at 2:48 PM on May 23, 2006


Snow Patrol - Spitting games
posted by TwoWordReview at 2:53 PM on May 23, 2006


All this talk about creepy, and noone's mentioned Creep by Radiohead.
posted by arha at 3:17 PM on May 23, 2006


Melaine - Weird Al
posted by bryanzera at 3:20 PM on May 23, 2006


The More You Ignore Me, The Closer I Get by Morrissey
posted by blag at 3:34 PM on May 23, 2006


Cheers Darlin' by Damien Rice
posted by Tenuki at 3:36 PM on May 23, 2006


Zappa's Goblin Girl comes to mind.

Another Beatles mention, Happiness is a Warm Gun

Red Hot Chili Peppers' Sex Rap. (they got a few...)

Notorious B.I.G.'s Big Booty Hoes (he's got a few more too...)

Mojo Nixon's "Tie My Pecker To My Leg" (sorry, can't find the lyrics)
posted by freakystyley at 3:49 PM on May 23, 2006


Let's not forget Black Eyed Peas' "Hump" song.
posted by freakystyley at 3:50 PM on May 23, 2006


We Will Not Be Lovers The Waterboys
The Ubiquitous Mr. Lovegrove Dead Can Dance
Could I Be Your Girl Jann Arden
Wonderdrug Jann Arden
posted by kimdog at 4:00 PM on May 23, 2006


Response by poster: these are great, thanks all. definitely a lot to choose from ... but 'ebony and ivory?' heh!

and i'll keep checking for updates, starting to make my playlist now...

thanks again!
posted by eatdonuts at 4:08 PM on May 23, 2006


"Insanely Jealous" by the Soft Boys. A sinister song with crescendoes of creepiness.
posted by ROTFL at 4:11 PM on May 23, 2006


Can it be that no one has mentioned Enrique Iglesias' "Escape" yet? You can run, you can hide, but you can't escape his love... Bonus points if you consistently mishear "hide" as "die."
posted by posadnitsa at 4:11 PM on May 23, 2006


nine inch nails' remake of Adam Ant's Physical on the broken disc is the most seething song of obsessive desire that I can think of.
posted by dong_resin at 4:16 PM on May 23, 2006


"Ike's Rap III/Your Love Is So Doggone Good," Isaac Hayes
"Sweetest Perfection," Depeche Mode
"Watching Alice," Nick Cave
"Ode to Boy," Yaz
"More" and "Hometime," Alison Moyet

Songs on the bubble:

"The Great Pretender," Brian Eno
"Aisha," Death In Vegas/Iggy Pop
"We Were Meant To Be," Hefner
"Ready Or Not (Can't Hide From Love)," Delfonics
"Fall In Love With Me," Iggy Pop
posted by Vervain at 4:31 PM on May 23, 2006


Can't Stand Losing You - The Police
posted by John Smallberries at 4:40 PM on May 23, 2006


"Shame" by Stabbing Westward
posted by baho at 4:45 PM on May 23, 2006


What about "Don't Stand so Close to me" by the Police?
posted by luneray at 4:46 PM on May 23, 2006


I always thought Fall In Love With Me was sweet. Could be part of the problem.
posted by dong_resin at 4:53 PM on May 23, 2006


Buzzcocks - Orgasm Addict
The Mr. T Experience - Even Hitler had a Girlfriend
posted by blaneyphoto at 5:02 PM on May 23, 2006


Hehe, Jan Terri's "Losing You" BEST SONG EVAR!

If you like film scores, Alfred Hitchcock's "Vertigo".
posted by freakystyley at 5:22 PM on May 23, 2006


"dig it up" - Hoodoo Gurus
"wrapped around your finger", "roxanne", "the bed's to big without you" - The Police

possibly billions of songs by morrissey, billy bragg and leonard cohen.
posted by Tixylix at 5:32 PM on May 23, 2006


Bleu - "Watching You Sleep"
Corey Hart - "I Wear My Sunglasses at Night"
Tom Waits - "Alice" and "Watch Her Disappear"
Nina Simone - "Lilac Wine"
The Dismemberment Plan did a cover of "Crush" by Jennifer Paige, originally a pop song, that in their hands became super creepy.
There are several versions of "Not In Love" that also fit the bill in a sort of "I doth protest too much" kind of way: 10cc, Tori Amos, Enrique Iglesias, possibly more
Sophie B. Hawkins - "Damn, I Wish I Was Your Lover" (stfu, i love that song)</small)
posted by granted at 5:36 PM on May 23, 2006


I too affirm that "Insanely Jealous" is a great song.
posted by josh at 5:39 PM on May 23, 2006


Darren Hayes - "Creepin' Up On You"
Clay Aiken - "Invisible"
posted by divabat at 6:09 PM on May 23, 2006


Nerf Herder - “Sorry”

and, from the other side of the obsession,
XTC - “Another Satellite”
posted by notbuddha at 6:44 PM on May 23, 2006


Pere Ubu - Codex (Extremely creepy. "I think about you all the tiiiiiimmme...")
The Stooges - I Wanna Be Your Dog
The Isley Brothers - Who's That Lady
Art Brut - Emily Kane
The 6ths - Kissing Things
The Magnetic Fields - (Crazy For You But) Not That Crazy
The Seeds - Can't Seem to Make You Mine
Roxy Music - In Every Dream Home a Heartache (*shudder*)
Helene Smith - I am Controlled by Your Love
The Cars - Touch and Go
The Kinks - You Really Got Me
Pixies - Cactus
Frank Sinatra - I Got It Bad (and That Ain't Good) (or Nina Simone, Billie Holliday, Nat King Cole, Doris Day, etc.)
Little Anthony & The Imperials - Goin' Out Of My Head
posted by hydrophonic at 7:00 PM on May 23, 2006


Smashing Pumpkins - Lily (My One and Only)
posted by Zozo at 7:10 PM on May 23, 2006


Queensryche, Gonna Get Close to You.
I dial your telephone each and every afternoon
I wait by your door till you're asleep at night...

posted by Wolfdog at 7:21 PM on May 23, 2006


Untouchable Face by Ani Difranco
posted by web-goddess at 11:31 PM on May 23, 2006


Since I didn't see it mentioned in a quick skim, there are sites dedicated to mix tapes.

Art of the Mix
Tiny Mix Tapes
MixMatcher
WebJay
posted by IndigoRain at 11:50 PM on May 23, 2006 [1 favorite]


Possession by Sarah McLachlan.
posted by rhiannon at 12:01 AM on May 24, 2006


"Here with Me" - Dido
posted by epugachev at 12:53 AM on May 24, 2006


"Your House" - Alanis Morrisette. She breaks into his house and hangs out for the afternoon.

"Everybody Here Wants You" - Jeff Buckley
posted by goo at 3:54 AM on May 24, 2006


Cypress Avenue. From Van Morrison's masterwork, Astral Weeks.

And if I'm caught one more time
Up on Cyprus Avenue
And I'm conquered in a car seat
And I'm looking straight at you

posted by Neiltupper at 3:44 PM on May 24, 2006


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