Quote on "learning to let go of people who don't love you"

January 25, 2021 10:50 AM

Looking for a long quote by someone famous, about how one of the best things a person can do for themselves is learn to let go of people who don't love them, in order to avoid getting bogged down in anger and make room for those who will. It was by someone famous, perhaps an actor, perhaps Michael Caine, and might have appeared in Portuguese in an FB meme... but none of these clues have led me anywhere... please help!
posted by rpfields to Grab Bag (3 answers total)

Wow, it seems that I might have stumped Metafilter! I am beginning to think that this quote does not exist, and that I might have to come up with one myself. ;-)
posted by rpfields at 7:12 AM on January 26, 2021

There was a thread in the Ask Reddit forum recently that featured a similar sort of quote - I think the question was about manipulation, and it was about a week ago. I don't think the long one you describe was in there, but there were another few that I found interesting. Aaaaand, what do you know, I found it!


posted by bluesky78987 at 1:55 PM on January 28, 2021

Aaaaand, what do you know, I found it!

Any chance you could link to it?
posted by rpfields at 8:02 PM on January 28, 2021