Sex toys for the dimunitive
December 18, 2019 1:20 AM Subscribe
Need a great sex toy for a (cis) woman who finds regular hits too big
My partner has an old school Hitachi magic wand that she loves. Our search for additional toys to add to her arsenal hasn't gone great. A friend suggested the wevibe for couple's play; too big for comfort. Same thing went for the rabbit vibe. I'd like to surprise her this season with an awesome new toy. What is the best out there, given her past experiences? Are the new(er) breed of direct clitoral simulators like the satisfier any good? What about the funfactory Volta? I would ideally like something under $100 but can splurge for something special.
Help me make her holiday season extra fun this year!
My partner has an old school Hitachi magic wand that she loves. Our search for additional toys to add to her arsenal hasn't gone great. A friend suggested the wevibe for couple's play; too big for comfort. Same thing went for the rabbit vibe. I'd like to surprise her this season with an awesome new toy. What is the best out there, given her past experiences? Are the new(er) breed of direct clitoral simulators like the satisfier any good? What about the funfactory Volta? I would ideally like something under $100 but can splurge for something special.
Help me make her holiday season extra fun this year!
I second the Lelo brand!
posted by katypickle at 5:38 AM on December 18, 2019
posted by katypickle at 5:38 AM on December 18, 2019
You might take a look at ohjoysextoy.com to see if they have any info. A quick look didn't find anything specific but it was a very quick look.
posted by Awfki at 5:40 AM on December 18, 2019
posted by Awfki at 5:40 AM on December 18, 2019
Are the new(er) breed of direct clitoral simulators like the satisfier any good?
Well, the missus has always had to...um...search hard to find her O. Based on the recommendation of the How Cum podcast, we got this one. The first time she tried it, she went into high orbit in under a minute. So...yeah, they work. And how!
posted by Thorzdad at 5:51 AM on December 18, 2019
Well, the missus has always had to...um...search hard to find her O. Based on the recommendation of the How Cum podcast, we got this one. The first time she tried it, she went into high orbit in under a minute. So...yeah, they work. And how!
posted by Thorzdad at 5:51 AM on December 18, 2019
For someone who likes wands and not insertion, I'd recommend the Pom, which is a soft, flexible, squished-oval-shaped vibrator that you cup in the palm of your hand. It's got a strong motor and gives a rumbly-vibrations-over-a-wide-area feeling similar to the head of a wand, but you can use it in a more spontaneous way that's closer to how you'd touch yourself/someone else without a toy. Currently $95, which is just barely under your limit.
posted by nebulawindphone at 6:20 AM on December 18, 2019
posted by nebulawindphone at 6:20 AM on December 18, 2019
babeland, good vibrations and the pleasure chest all have sections/filters on their sites where one can choose by diameter
posted by brujita at 7:35 AM on December 18, 2019
posted by brujita at 7:35 AM on December 18, 2019
I love neither the manufacturer's name nor the toy's 17 patterns -- as reviewer Betty Butch so eloquently put it, "For the love of all things good and gay, just pick the best five patterns and call it a day"* -- but everything else about the FemmeFunn Ultra Bullet Mini ($69.99) really, really rocks.
Its name is misleading: It's too big (4 inches long, 1 inch in diameter) to go into vibrating dildos, butt plugs, etc. But it charges fast, holds a charge, and offers a quiet yet rumbly and surprisingly powerful vibration that got me where I wanted to go at a surprising speed. It's made of a velvety silicone, and you can get it in black as well as in sex-toy standard bright pink, turquoise, and purple. Betty says the Ultra Bullet is the bullet vibe that made their partner like bullet vibes.
* To which a commenter endearingly responded: "I'm going to take up cross-stitching just so I can frame that."
posted by virago at 7:49 AM on December 18, 2019 [1 favorite]
Its name is misleading: It's too big (4 inches long, 1 inch in diameter) to go into vibrating dildos, butt plugs, etc. But it charges fast, holds a charge, and offers a quiet yet rumbly and surprisingly powerful vibration that got me where I wanted to go at a surprising speed. It's made of a velvety silicone, and you can get it in black as well as in sex-toy standard bright pink, turquoise, and purple. Betty says the Ultra Bullet is the bullet vibe that made their partner like bullet vibes.
* To which a commenter endearingly responded: "I'm going to take up cross-stitching just so I can frame that."
posted by virago at 7:49 AM on December 18, 2019 [1 favorite]
Agree with virago above. What you want is an Ultra bullet from Good Vibrations.
posted by RedEmma at 12:22 PM on December 18, 2019
posted by RedEmma at 12:22 PM on December 18, 2019
WeVibe Tango, hands down.
posted by augustimagination at 6:35 PM on December 18, 2019
posted by augustimagination at 6:35 PM on December 18, 2019
I was scouting toys, too. Epiphora likes the Volta, which kinda surprised me given her other faves.
posted by j_curiouser at 8:47 PM on December 18, 2019 [1 favorite]
posted by j_curiouser at 8:47 PM on December 18, 2019 [1 favorite]
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posted by Serene Empress Dork at 4:34 AM on December 18, 2019