To be there, or not to be there?
June 17, 2014 9:19 AM Subscribe
Ex wants to pick up room full of stuff this Saturday. I don't want to be there. Is that cool?
posted by Classic Diner to Human Relations (22 answers total) 2 users marked this as a favorite
In Feb I asked my partner of nine years to move out. http://ask.metafilter.com/255071/Exactly-how-do-you-DTMF
In March he moved out. Today he called asking to come by Saturday to pick up his remaining room full of stuff. This is about to turn my normal day into a sad mess.
I don't think he will rob me. Is it OK not be there? Will I be missing some big opportunity for closure? Is this cowardly? Is this normal?