I'm in love, how do I not go crazy?
June 28, 2012 5:56 PM Subscribe
I love her and she loves me. Help me not lose my goddamn mind.
posted by anonymous to Human Relations (10 answers total) 5 users marked this as a favorite
We met overseas and had an accelerated courtship. She moved from out of state back to her homecity where I live. We've been together for three very intense months.
I love this girl with all my heart but about half the time I feel so deeply insecure and worried about getting hurt or somehow messing up the relationship, at times it's all I can think about.
I'm not sure what to do with these feelings of discomfort I have about the fact that many of her friendships with guys originated from casual sexual relationships she had around the end of high-school/beginning of college (BTW she's 23, I'm 27). In fact they make me kind of crazy because I feel sometimes like the only guys she's friends with are guys she's hooked up with (not that I'm a sexual prude, I've been around but I don't tend to have many friends, if any, that I've slept with).
My own insecurities along with that stuff is kind of driving me up the wall. I need to know how to manage these feelings because I love this girl and I don't want to ruin this.