Herpetic Whitlow Transmission and risks
April 27, 2012 8:41 AM Subscribe
Considering dating / having sex with someone with Herpetic Whitlow (HSV-2 type) and have questions about transmission risks.
A potential partner I have just met has disclosed to me that she has Herpetic Whitlow caused by HSV-2 and I have a variety of questions. I think if I were monogamous, I'd be okay accepting the potential risks, but I have other partners and I have to consider their health and disclose information to them, as well.
She contracted the condition while working in the dental field and was not aware of it for some time. She did have a subsequent partner, months later, who had HSV-2 in the genital region. She has never had a genital or oral outbreak. How likely is it that she would have asymptomatic shedding in those regions? What are the transmissions rates of herpetic whitlow and how is it spread? Does it sometimes shed asymptomatically from the hands, as HSV can in other regions, or does the fact that it's not a mucus membrane make that less likely / not a factor?
posted by anonymous to health & fitness (6 answers total)
I've heard that the anti-virals the people sometimes take for HSV can reduce contagiousness considerably, but I've never seen a trusted source that said "if you kiss/have sex with someone with HSV while they are/are not having a breakout, your chances of acquiring the disease are xx%". Minimizing contact, barriers, the aforementioned medication... you can mitigate the risk somewhat but it'll always be there. It's not like HIV where you can use a condom and be reasonably sure that as long as it doesn't break, you're OK.
I've always felt like the herpes thing is kind of a crapshoot. You can get it even if you're careful, because it's spread by contact and a lot of people don't even realize they're contagious. Fortunately the disease isn't too awful, though I guess the primary outbreak (which not everybody has) can be pretty painful, because the body doesn't have a lot of antibodies to fight the virus yet. And of course there's the social stigma, which in my opinion is probably the worst thing -- maybe tied for worst with the fear of infecting someone else and how that could restrict your future choice of partners.
Anyway, I think this might be one of those questions where the answer is "nobody really knows". Kudos to you for being careful and responsible. I note that you said above that you are aware of the need to disclose your choice in the matter to your other partners, which should be a no-brainer but is nonetheless more than a lot of people would do.
I hope that someone can come along and give a better and more knowledgeable answer to your question, because it's one that I've always wondered about too and I've never been able to get a straight answer to it, which is super frustrating as someone who tries to be sexually responsible and likes to have clear-cut information to use for decision-making.
posted by Scientist at 9:13 AM on April 27, 2012 [1 favorite]