October 4, 2011 2:46 PM Subscribe
How do I get over an ex girlfriend? No joke, I cannot get over this girl. we met last summer, and shared great times and it lasted for months. It was intense. Then, it just died. She lives in another state and I cannot just go see her, not without her wanting me to do so. We have talked some but that is all. I can accept that it's over, but I just cannot stop thinking about her. Help! I don't want to forget her, but I don't want to have her on my mind always!
posted by cvoixjames to human relations (11 answers total) 6 users marked this as a favorite
This situation of my mind is also preventing me from opening up to new situations, romantically or otherwise. I have a sense of guilt and remorse that it did not work out. I just turned 50, married once, but feeling like my romantic life is over! (and it's not, I still "got it"). It's a mental thing. Anyone? Please?