Woman looking for ways to play on my own.
January 3, 2010 10:02 AM Subscribe
Please help a single, adventurous woman step up her kink in simple, everyday ways.
posted by anonymous to human relations (18 answers total) 8 users marked this as a favorite
Assume I'm starting from the beginning here. I'm currently single, slightly shy, but open to trying new things. I don't know where and how to start with exploring sex and kink more, as a party of one. I'd like to see what kind of trouble I can get myself into safely and comfortably. :)
A recent opportunity has presented itself, whereby I'd like to return a favor from a male friend who sent me a video of himself masturbating. He knows my experience level and isn't expecting something over the top in return. But I thought this might be a good way to start trying new things out. I'm inspired but clueless.
So, besides making a video of myself masturbating and sending that (that might be a little bit too upper division just yet), what are some other ways I can play? I'm kind of interested in eventually trying everything suggested, so looking for a range of ideas (maybe at various comfort/kink levels), and not necessarily trying to pin down the perfect return favor for my friend right now.
Background info...my sexual experience has previously included sex in a variety of positions, lots of oral, one time anal sex, one threesome (2F/1M) ... and sadly, that's about it. Never done video, or taken fully naked pictures. I like to read erotica and I masturbate regularly in all sorts of ways.
In summary, looking for things to try solo (possibly including some form of documentation of the event), and tips or suggestions that I should know going into it. If there are some resources such as books or websites geared toward this, or featuring clips (M or F) of this level of activity specifically, I'd like to know!
Oh, and I'm open to trying things in public spaces, but stumped about how to do anything safely.