i think my boyfriend read my diary
May 1, 2009 9:16 AM Subscribe
I think my b/f read my journal and is mad at me for what I said. Not sure how to ask him if I'm right.
posted by my_thai to Human Relations (28 answers total) 5 users marked this as a favorite
After a disagreement with my boyfriend I wrote some fairly mean things about him in my journal. Specifically I wrote that he was weak. Actually, I think that he's not as assertive as he could be, but when I'm pissed off and venting in my diary I call it 'weak'.
The journal was in my work bag. Yesterday when I was working out he had to go in my work bag for something he needed. He's been acting weird ever since.
The thing is, if he violated my privacy, he deserves to feel bad, however I hate that he thinks I feel that way about him. And I hate the idea that I've hurt him.
I keep asking him what's wrong but he won't say what it is, probably because he doesn't want to admit to doing this. I'm afraid to ask him directly just in case he didn't read it and I'm just being paranoid.
What in the hell do I do here?