Can two women have a "quickie?"
April 5, 2012 12:33 PM Subscribe
Please help two lesbians have a "quickie." [NSFW]
My girlfriend and I keep very busy schedules and our sex life is suffering as a result. We often end up choosing between getting enough sleep for the night and having sex, and there doesn't seem to be time during the day to incorporate it often enough. We've agreed that it would be easier if we could have a "quickie," but we don't know how two women do that.
We have the Feeldoe, but it takes awhile for me to be ready for that. We've also looked into things like this, but would like something more intimate that wouldn't just feel like us lying side by side and masturbating.
We trib, but we both need to be stimulated beforehand if we want to finish together, which makes it difficult to have a quickie that way. We've also tried putting a vibrator in-between us while we trib, but that only seems to work if we face away from each other.
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated, thank you!
My girlfriend and I keep very busy schedules and our sex life is suffering as a result. We often end up choosing between getting enough sleep for the night and having sex, and there doesn't seem to be time during the day to incorporate it often enough. We've agreed that it would be easier if we could have a "quickie," but we don't know how two women do that.
We have the Feeldoe, but it takes awhile for me to be ready for that. We've also looked into things like this, but would like something more intimate that wouldn't just feel like us lying side by side and masturbating.
We trib, but we both need to be stimulated beforehand if we want to finish together, which makes it difficult to have a quickie that way. We've also tried putting a vibrator in-between us while we trib, but that only seems to work if we face away from each other.
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated, thank you!
my girl on girl quickies (and some of my boy on girl quickies) have usually been one partner laying on their back, the other straddling over them - the on the back partner masturbates herself while the other one grinds and kisses and fingers and just basically ravishes the one getting off - then you switch. it's not simultaneous orgasms, but it's still pretty darn fun. also, sometimes the person on top gets taken over in the moment and manages to have her orgasm up there.
i also don't really mind the laying next to each other masturbating thing. like, some oral/makeout/feel up for about 5 minutes, then get yourself off rocket jet styled. i sorta really love the feeling of getting off together but alone.
i do agree that, for me at least, strap on/feeldoe/double dildo sex is more difficult to have a quickie to than male/female PIV sex. there's just too many moving parts.
as a sort of out there suggestion - if you guys are into pain at all, i found mutual tribbing style orgasms to be easier to achieve with a little bit of clove oil - a little goes a long way.
posted by nadawi at 1:03 PM on April 5, 2012 [3 favorites]
i also don't really mind the laying next to each other masturbating thing. like, some oral/makeout/feel up for about 5 minutes, then get yourself off rocket jet styled. i sorta really love the feeling of getting off together but alone.
i do agree that, for me at least, strap on/feeldoe/double dildo sex is more difficult to have a quickie to than male/female PIV sex. there's just too many moving parts.
as a sort of out there suggestion - if you guys are into pain at all, i found mutual tribbing style orgasms to be easier to achieve with a little bit of clove oil - a little goes a long way.
posted by nadawi at 1:03 PM on April 5, 2012 [3 favorites]
I am straight, but 69ing is the only way for me, as a woman, to have a quickie. So I would suggest that.
posted by stoneandstar at 1:58 PM on April 5, 2012 [1 favorite]
posted by stoneandstar at 1:58 PM on April 5, 2012 [1 favorite]
Why do you have to get off at the same time? Are you open to getting each other off one at a time?
posted by barnone at 5:17 PM on April 5, 2012 [1 favorite]
posted by barnone at 5:17 PM on April 5, 2012 [1 favorite]
If you're open to getting each other off one at a time, I suggest fingers, penetration or just clit stimulation, which can go either quickly or not so quickly.
posted by snorkmaiden at 8:52 PM on April 5, 2012
posted by snorkmaiden at 8:52 PM on April 5, 2012
Response by poster: Doesn't have to be at the same time, I just figured that would be quicker. xD
posted by Autumn at 7:53 AM on April 6, 2012
posted by Autumn at 7:53 AM on April 6, 2012
Take turns.
If you devote 30 min to blowing her mind, and the next night she devotes 30 min to blowing your mind, won't you both start spending daytimes getting ramped up?
posted by desuetude at 11:08 PM on April 6, 2012 [1 favorite]
If you devote 30 min to blowing her mind, and the next night she devotes 30 min to blowing your mind, won't you both start spending daytimes getting ramped up?
posted by desuetude at 11:08 PM on April 6, 2012 [1 favorite]
Response by poster: We found a "quickie" method that involved us both using vibrators at the same time.
posted by Autumn at 1:44 PM on January 2, 2013 [1 favorite]
posted by Autumn at 1:44 PM on January 2, 2013 [1 favorite]
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posted by Librarygeek at 1:00 PM on April 5, 2012 [1 favorite]