My world is destroyed after an affair. I desperately need advice. Its a long story... Please help. [more inside]
posted by wantstobeadesigner at 7:27 PM - 13 answers

Need to find a therapist for my husband and I in the area. Preferably not affiliated with any religious organization. Need to make the appointment soon. Wanted to go to CAMHC, but they're booked up until January. Recommendations?
posted by Alias Unknown at 7:15 PM - 1 answers

How does one ethically play the field? I need advice on dating and being intimate with more than one person. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 2:44 PM - 5 answers

My new girlfriend is still friends with her old girlfriend... how do I not let my jealousy eat me alive?! [more inside]
posted by DorothySmith at 9:48 AM - 12 answers

A question and moral quandary from yet another sad virgin.... [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 9:41 AM - 13 answers

My luverly wife and I had a baby a few months ago. He's a great little feller. We're now ready, physically, to have sex again but... (possibly NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 9:40 AM - 8 answers

Do you do this? How do I escape the pattern of going back to, because I can't resist helping, my (I think) mentally ill (or unstable/intense) husband. See, he's not all bad... Do you regret going back? Do you wish you had? [more inside]
posted by Toto_tot at 7:33 PM - 32 answers

I want to do volunteer work in NYC when I have discretionary time. I'm not sure what I want to, but whatever it is it can't have a fixed schedule, as my work hours tend to be erratic. Basically I'm looking to volunteer on short notice. Any suggestions?
posted by helios410 at 6:35 PM - 9 answers

As a woman, how can I have safe sex with another woman? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 2:53 PM - 8 answers

What can I do about my Dad's paranoia? [more inside]
posted by Neonshock at 1:19 PM - 5 answers

What's the best response to a "I'm no longer with the company / Here's my new contact info" email when you're an outsider not working at said company. [more inside]
posted by sharkfu at 10:24 AM - 14 answers

I recently discovered my brother was sexually abusing my sister and how the hell do I deal with this over Thanksgiving weekend? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 7:19 AM - 37 answers

I come back to Southern California for Thanksgiving and my mom has gotten idiotic plastic surgery. Please help me cope. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 9:27 PM - 42 answers

A great kid. Uncomfortable in his own skin. Teen pressure. We've all been there. Help me help him. [more inside]
posted by terrier319 at 7:44 PM - 27 answers

Help! My new girlfriend is skeeved out by minorities. Should I break up with her? [more inside]
posted by Eleutherios at 7:14 PM - 82 answers

I am estranged from my brother for a lot of different reasons. I want to have a relationship with him, but I only can do that if I do it 100% on his terms, which I simply cannot do (not religious and getting more anti-religious by the day). Should I continue to make the effort in the hopes of breaking through to him or just live my life without my only sibling? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 6:35 PM - 24 answers

Is it stupid for me to hook up with this woman in a "friends with benefits" kinda way? (SFW after the fold for a change, and no, it's not the usual "don't want to mess up the friendship" bit) [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 3:11 PM - 35 answers

So, this dude has been sending me extremely mixed and just plain weird signals for awhile. I've decided to get to the bottom of this. Problem: I'm hella awkward. Help me start this conversation, MeFi! [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 3:11 PM - 11 answers

Appropriate (humorous) gifts for British citizenship ceremony? Help. HiveMind! [more inside]
posted by MessageInABottle at 10:09 AM - 33 answers

I'd like to know where is the best place to pick up bi women (18-30) in New York City? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 9:26 AM - 3 answers