How did my body become my fathers?
September 4, 2007 12:10 PM Subscribe
When did you realize your body turned into your father's and how did it make you feel?
When I was a kid, I looked at my dad's body and just thought, "ick...hairy, old, nasty. I'm never going to look like that when I'm his age." I questioned my mom's judgment for finding him attractive. Lately, the more I look at myself in the mirror, the more I think I look like him. I exercise regularly and avoid the sun, so I'm thinner and my skin is younger looking, but in general, I see my father when I look in the mirror. I'm 26 and I feel like an older man, but maybe that's just because I associate my current appearance with a man that's always going to be 30 years older than me.
When I was a kid, I looked at my dad's body and just thought, "ick...hairy, old, nasty. I'm never going to look like that when I'm his age." I questioned my mom's judgment for finding him attractive. Lately, the more I look at myself in the mirror, the more I think I look like him. I exercise regularly and avoid the sun, so I'm thinner and my skin is younger looking, but in general, I see my father when I look in the mirror. I'm 26 and I feel like an older man, but maybe that's just because I associate my current appearance with a man that's always going to be 30 years older than me.
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Heh. The past two months, at age 27.5. I suddenly sprouted a liquid grain silo around my midsection (even though I haven't changed my exercise or eating habits in years and my doctor's starting to make clucking noises about sticking cameras up my bum.
posted by SpecialK at 12:12 PM on September 4, 2007
posted by SpecialK at 12:12 PM on September 4, 2007
I was in my 30s. Because it's a normal part of aging, I was fine with it, as it beats the alternative.
How is this not chatfilter?
posted by stupidsexyFlanders at 12:18 PM on September 4, 2007
How is this not chatfilter?
posted by stupidsexyFlanders at 12:18 PM on September 4, 2007
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posted by matteo at 12:11 PM on September 4, 2007