What are the best sex blogs?

September 19, 2006 10:10 AM

What are the best sex blogs? I'm interested in reading humorous, insightful, or just interesting writing about sex.

I know about Mistress Matisse's blog.

I remember a few years ago there was a girl who worked at a XXX video store, and wrote about porn and her crazy customers. I'd like more like that. (And if you have the link to the archives that would be cool.)

I've seen a few blogs that were written by prostitutes, and promiscuous gay men, but I don't recall any of them being particularly good. It's been a while, so I'm hoping there are some I don't know about that have cropped up.

Or if there's something interesting that doesn't fit those categories, feel free to throw it in. Thanks.

posted by pornucopia to Human Relations (22 answers total)

There was a guy blogging about his sexual conquests in shanghai, but he shut it down when people started to try to figure out who he was...
posted by Paris Hilton at 10:13 AM on September 19, 2006

Susie Bright's blog; I'm at work so I can't link to it, but it's easy enough to find.
posted by scody at 10:23 AM on September 19, 2006 [1 favorite]

Girl With a One Track Mind was good enough to be turned into a book recently. Can't link for the same reason as scody but it'll be easy to find.
posted by teleskiving at 10:26 AM on September 19, 2006

Was the porn store girl's blog real? I remember reading it and thinking that some of the entries sounded less like someone working in a porn store and more like someone who thought their life would be oh so much more interesting if they worked in a porn store. Just a little too self-congratulatory in a "oh, I'm a smart girl who ALSO works in a porn store! observe how I confront peoples' expectations!" way.

Check out erosblog and its long list of bloggy sex links on the side.
posted by hattifattener at 10:27 AM on September 19, 2006 [1 favorite]

Second ErosBlog.
posted by Miko at 10:38 AM on September 19, 2006

I'm a pretty big fan of Regina Lynn over at Wired's Sex Drive Daily.
posted by onalark at 10:54 AM on September 19, 2006

The blog was Confessions of a Porn Store Clerk, which is apparently archived here.

And although it's a podcast and not a blog, I have to heartily recommend Professor P's Porn Panorama. They give funny, thorough, and honest reviews of porn, sex toys, and other naughty stuff.
posted by stefanie at 10:55 AM on September 19, 2006

fleshbot.com is decent, I think the reverse cowgirl blog is gone and if you are interested in the extreme and disturbing, I'd suggest the aptly named pain slut. you might want to pause a moment before clicking on that link though. it's explicit and peppered with images fit to make a decent catholic hurl.
posted by krautland at 10:57 AM on September 19, 2006

stefanie : "The blog was Confessions of a Porn Store Clerk, which is apparently archived here."

I think I may know the person that wrote this. I wish I were more than just acquaintances with her, so I could ask.
posted by Shecky at 12:07 PM on September 19, 2006

Confessions of A Porn Store Clerk was excellent. I, too, would love to find something along those lines again.
posted by limeonaire at 12:18 PM on September 19, 2006

The writer of True Porn Clerk Stories is Ali Davis:
http://alidavis.livejournal.com/
posted by skryche at 12:23 PM on September 19, 2006

Opinions and Adventures in Sex and Relationships is no more, but reading it from the beginning is facinating. Postmodern Courtesan is a terrific writer, tells interesting stories, and throws in a steamy sex scene every once and a while. Savage Love is a column, good stuff there too.
posted by saffron at 1:05 PM on September 19, 2006

Nerve has some sexy content in blog form. There are a couple of different photo blogs, I follow most of them but I got hooked when I started reading Siege's blog back when he started it about 2 years ago, however the two newer photo blogs are also quite enjoyable as well although I don't have as strong of a connection with them yet.
posted by SteveFlamingo at 1:18 PM on September 19, 2006

Regina Lynn's blog is ok but sometimes the forced crossover with "sex & technology" gets dumb. "Teledildonics?" It just sounds stupid.

girlwithaonetrackmind.blogspot.com was the best that i've seen, but after the book she was outed, so it's pretty different now.

http://iamlibrarygirl.blogspot.com/ is decent too.
posted by drstein at 3:11 PM on September 19, 2006

Decent sex blogs are hard to find nowadays - there's more of them, yes... but most are just crap. I suggest checking out The Sugasm. Every week bloggers submit their erotic posts and it's released as a collective post. It's a good way to find new sex blogs (or blogs that occasionally have sexual postsbutthisisntaselfpluginanyway) out there that you normally wouldn't come across.
posted by damnjezebel at 3:17 PM on September 19, 2006 [1 favorite]

Susie Bright

excellent.
posted by Substrata at 3:33 PM on September 19, 2006 [1 favorite]

Warning: self link ahead....

I'm busy with a longer, offline project at the moment, but when I write, it's often about sex. When it isn't, it's about love, lust, romance, and my relations with people I'm loving, lusting, romancing, which, to some people, is a form of sex. Though technically it ain't a blog (it's a mailing list), I do archive some of the issues on the site.
posted by dobbs at 3:50 PM on September 19, 2006

Violet Blue
posted by aedra at 7:06 PM on September 19, 2006

SugarClick reviews sex sites, some of them blogs. I think it's published by the same people who do the aforementioned Sugasm, possibly?
posted by pineapple at 8:05 PM on September 19, 2006

We Sleep Together - chronicles of a polyamorous marriage
posted by yogurtisgenocide at 8:26 PM on September 19, 2006

I'm a fan of Naked Loft Party, although he hasn't updated in awhile.

Also The Slipshod Petticoats.
posted by softlord at 6:25 AM on September 20, 2006

Pineapple, you are correct. Great bunch of websites, those are. I'm somewhat obsessed with the owner, Sam Sugar. Mmmm.
posted by damnjezebel at 11:36 AM on September 21, 2006