How to get out of this?
September 3, 2013 4:23 PM Subscribe
For the last 6 months, I have been involved in and online "thing". I think it's time to cut this off. Most effective way?
posted by sabina_r to human relations (14 answers total) 3 users marked this as a favorite
While it wasn't defined as a relationship, it was pretty intense and we never went a few hours without talking. He recently told me that he is in love with me. Whenever we had an argument, he would send me so many messages begging me to forgive him...write me poems and so on. We live on different continents so we haven't met yet but we have plans to.
My problem with him is that I have always had a strong instinct that I can't trust him. It's only gotten stronger lately. He also doesn't have strong principles, he is constantly saying one thing and changing it few days later. Overall, I just think it's his core personality and not something that can be changed.
I want to cut this off but without being hassled by his messages. Is just cutting all communication and ignoring him too cruel?