What does this texts means?
July 16, 2013 12:37 PM   Subscribe

OK, me and this player guy were sexting and heavy flirting for 2 months. He always knew how much i want sex with him, and he made more then 1 move to do it with me but he never did it. On July 3rd he said he would really wanna but he doesnt know WHERE (sure, i use wheelchair, but i am mobile with someones help, meaning i dont have balance to walk by myself. He was saying how much he would like to go to bed with me bc i look and sound so kinky and he knows how much i want it. 2 weeks b4 i last saw him he was like 'lets start this FWB thing today, you wanna?' OFC i rejected him bc i wasnt ready or whatever. So.... 2 days later, at 3.30am, he sends me text 'So...what are u thinking about?' I really wasnt expecting his sms (we werent texting for a month, only face to face) so i was asleep. I made usless more and responded at about 11am when i got up. OFC,it was something very sexual, bc thats what i think and he knows it. He never responded. 3 days after that, at 1.30am he sands same text. And i respond after like 10mins. He responds back after 2h. I respond again 25mins later. He never wrote back. Also, on that day, he left for his 20 day vacation. It was 8 days and no texts from him at all. I am staying up till 4am every night hoping to get text from him and he knows that (he said he knows). Was he just checking to see do i still want it (but like, i said 2 days b4 i do...) so he can have me whenever when he comes back or what? Does he want me begging for it? BC we both have very similar character, we are too egoistic and full of ourselfs, and i cant imagine anything hotter for that kind of guys then girl begging them to have them.

Some ppl say he is just playing mind games bc he is either not really interested or to feel better about himself...

Actually, i do know he is very interested, no only because we were kissing, but because of his eyes, smile, body language when he is with me. And that was going on for 2 months, ok, he did said he wanted to sleep with me since we met (9 months) but ofc he never wanted to make 1st move bc he is/was my coach (he is only 31)

And that thing about trying to make himself feel better.... he told me he sleeps with 6 girls and every girl i ever saw that is close to him, starts flirting with him or saying how cute he is. He has ALL girls wrapped around his finger and he knows it.

And i dont see why ppl who want ONLY sexual fling (like him, bc he told me, and me as well) would play mind games? PPL usually do it for relationship, not just casual hook ups when both sides know that other side wants exactly same as them - good time in bed.
posted by Jasna88 to Human Relations (2 answers total)

This post was deleted for the following reason: Heya, there's really not a clear answerable question here, and you can't just keep using Ask Metafilter to keep asking for folks to chat about what this specific guy might mean by the things he says to you or recapping your texted conversations. -- cortex

 
He's not in a wheelchair, and if he wanted to have a relationship with you, FWB or Booty Call or whatever, WHY on earth would he not have done it already?

Leave it alone. Send him one last text: I'm here if you're interested. Don't text me. Show me.

Either he comes running, or he never wanted to have sex with you.

The rest of this is games.
posted by Ruthless Bunny at 12:42 PM on July 16, 2013


I am staying up till 4am every night hoping to get text from him and he knows that (he said he knows).

Unless this is part of some specific kind of kink that gets you off, DO NOT DO THIS. Go live your life. If he wants to hook up with you, he needs to put up or shut up. Stringing you along like this is just obnoxious and shitty.


It sounds like this is the same guy from your previous question. This is supposed to be a fun fling thing, right? Are you having fun yet? Has this just been a whole month of lighthearted fun? Doesn't sound like it.

Maybe it's time to find other people to have sex with.
posted by phunniemee at 12:42 PM on July 16, 2013 [1 favorite]


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