Places to buy vintage and/or estate engagement rings local to New York City? Warnings and cautions?
From a previous AskMe question (someone else's question) I found
Leigh Jay Nacht. With a ballpark $1200.00 budget (which seems like a lot of money to
me even though it's not in the scheme of these things apparently) and a prefernce for the currently less fashionable yellow gold over white, it seems like there may be values to be found in looking for engagement rings that are vintage/estate items. Anyone have other specific recommendations for jewelers in New York City? (Local, because it seems that for this less generic sort of design, versus e.g. Blue Nile, one really needs to see things in person.)
Any warnings/cautions on going this route that I may not have thought of? Obviously, I've discussed this in generalities with my girlfriend and will probably discuss it with her in more specific terms proportional to the irrevocability of anything I choose to do (e.g. Leigh Jay Nacht has a good return policy, I wouldn't buy from a place that didn't without being very specific with her.)
Basically what ended up happening was that we found a ring we liked by a store that had a brick and mortar presence as well*, vetted them as best we could, confirmed return policies, put the purchase on the credit card, and had the ring checked out as soon as we got it in hand. The band was a separate but similar purchase from another vendor.
Our style choices/desires were quite specific/non-mainstream and anything but generic and we ended up with a beautiful ring from just after the turn of the century that hasn't failed to elicit comment from anyone who has seen it. Detailed pictures and lots of research can substitute for seeing the ring in person, but make sure you can send it back if you don't end up liking it, which we could of course, no questions asked.
You may have better luck in a larger city like NYC but in our neck of the woods we would have either had to wait and wade into estate auctions or give up. We hit up the jewelry stores and pawn shops in town with VERY little success.
*The store in question. They were really nice and communicative.
posted by RolandOfEld at 12:44 PM on May 15, 2012