Help me take ownership over my inheritance.
September 9, 2011 7:22 PM Subscribe
I am a noob when it comes to money matters, and need advice on how to take ownership of my inheritance.
About a decade ago, I received an decently sized inheritance, think around ~$100k. It's gone up and down, paid for a few major items, and is currently hovering around half its initial value.
The only way I interface with this money is through a Merrill Lynch financial advisor. He lives about 8 hours away, and because I despise talking on the phone (and he doesn't do business over e-mail) I rarely am in touch with him. I know right now my money is sitting in a decent performing fund, and it's been sitting there a while. When I initially got it, it'd been in a well performing actively managed fund. This is all I know. The only time I ever really talk with him is when I want to pull out money, which is maybe once a year.
I'm so out of touch that in order to write this post, I had to go into my online account to even see what kind of fees I'm being charged. It looks like I'm only being charged $125 a year, and additionally when money is moved around. Right now, my money is just sitting in one spot, so it's just the $125 a year.
My partner and I also just had a child, so we are thinking more about getting ourselves in better financial shape. We need to start a 529 for him, open Roth IRAs, etc. And I'd like to start actually contributing to my account, rather than just taking money away from it.
My first idea was to just find a Merrill Lynch advisor locally. I assume I can switch up who I deal with. This may help, because I vastly prefer to face-to-face meetings than phone calls. But then I didn't know - do I even really need a financial advisor? And should I stick with Merrill Lynch, or find someone new? If I change from Merrill Lynch, how would I even go about doing that? Is Merrill Lynch like a bank, where I'd have to actively take my money out of it? Or is it like an interface to another entity where I can just switch out to a new interface? Or can I have no middle man at all, and just deal with the fund myself?
When I have something like this, I like to research and know what I'm doing from first principles, but here, I was just given this account, and this advisor attached to it, and I really have no clue how it works. I think that's why I've avoided dealing with it for so long. Thanks for any help you can give, feel free to talk to me like I'm five. I'm completely lost.
posted by Tooty McTootsalot to work & money (25 answers total) 6 users marked this as a favorite
The clear problem I see is that you are losing money. You've had this money for 10 years and it's lost half its value. That's a Bad Thing. That would not be an expected performance from a good mutual fund over the past 10 years.
What I would recommend is that you speak to an advisor at Merrill Lynch tomorrow, and just say that you want the money transferred into a very conservative investment option, such as a money market account or bonds. Make sure (by asking!) that you will not incur any particular fees by moving the money into the chosen place. Then once your money is safe, you will have time to read some great websites like Get Rich Slowly (there are specific posts you can search for on how to deal with inheritances and windfalls) and learn about how to invest your money better and take control of your finances. Good for you for deciding to take action! Good luck.
posted by treehorn+bunny at 7:37 PM on September 9, 2011