Am I being too sensitive? Valentine's Day stupidity inside.
February 15, 2011 12:30 PM Subscribe
How should I be interpreting this?
posted by anonymous to human relations (63 answers total) 7 users marked this as a favorite
I’ve been seeing a guy for about three months, and I’ve fallen in love with him. We’re both in our early-mid thirties if that matters. I haven’t told him anything about my feelings for him; we don’t talk about that sort of thing, at all. Some of his actions suggest that he’s serious about this: he has introduced me to his friends and family, we’ve taken trips together, we spend 4-5 days together every week. He refers to me as his girlfriend, he’s affectionate, we’re monogamous. But yesterday was Valentine’s Day, and he didn’t even get me a card. We saw each other but we didn’t acknowledge the day in any way. I know that some people just aren’t into it, but I’m wondering if I’m selling myself short by feeding myself this line. Frankly, I’m not that into it either, but I figured, hey, it’s our first one together. I did get him a card and some nice chocolates but I wasn’t about to humiliate myself by giving them to him under the circumstances; I ended up just throwing them out when I got home. Am I being ridiculous for thinking that he’s probably just not that into me? Should I just get out while I’m still relatively intact?