Arousal or not? Or am I just nervous? Or out of my mind?
July 1, 2010 8:04 PM Subscribe
When is arousal not attraction?
posted by antgly to human relations (30 answers total) 1 user marked this as a favorite
How can I tell the difference? Also sometimes I feel sort of OCDish and since I'm likely gay, I check to feel myself to see if I have a boner or not when I see a pretty woman. It's never a boner, but sometimes it feels just a very very bit less flaccid than usual. Not even close to a boner. Am I just nervous, OCD, worried, and/or what?
I know that guys do give me full boners sometimes. I wouldn't classify the woman thing as even a semi boner because I don't really feel it down there... I have to literally feel my pants to notice that it's just a bit less squishy.