I'm pretty sure I'm not that into you
December 7, 2009 4:27 PM Subscribe
Girl meets boy. Girl and boy have date. At end of date girl and boy say "let's do this again." Then after they each go home, girl thinks, "you know...I don't think I'm into boy as a romantic prospect after all." Now boy is asking for second date. What should girl do?
posted by anonymous to human relations (65 answers total) 1 user marked this as a favorite
Yep, I'm girl. And the only reason that I"m hesitating is because a couple of other people I've spoken to think I should give it a second date to be sure, because he may have just been nervous and not making a good impression. But it feels dishonest to go on a second date when I feel such reservation like this.
Am I being fair to the guy? Should I have one more date and be sure? Or am I being unfair by going on one more date knowing that this is what I feel but not telling him?