Help me become better at sex
June 18, 2009 12:42 PM Subscribe
How do I make my hook-ups/one-night-stands more satisfying for me and my partner? Turn me into a sexual tyrannosaurus, please!
posted by anonymous to Human Relations (16 answers total) 8 users marked this as a favorite
I am dipping my toe in the the world of FWB/hook-ups/one-night-stands. Previous sexual experience has been in long-term-relationships. My goal is to just have safe fun with a bunch of different types of people.
However, one thing I've immediately noticed is that the hook-ups are not as satisfying as the sex in the LTR. It's harder to figure out what your partner does and doesn't like and communicate what you do and don't like when you've only just met them.
Is this going to be a function of hook-ups, that it will never be as good? Or is there a sexy, smooth way to convey your preferences and figure out what your partner wants without sitting down and going through a checklist? I love making my partners happy and it worries me to get the feeling they might not be having a fantastic time.
I'm also wondering how one becomes better at sex in general, in techniques practiced on all genders.