I have heard conflicting information: in a community property state, if you file bankruptcy (not joint bankruptcy) is your spouse held liable for debt you acquired before the marriage?
Let me say upfront that I have a consultation for filing bankruptcy on Monday. I'm asking here because I want to make sure they're not just trying to make additional filing fees off of me by trying to persuade my spouse to file bankruptcy as well.
My spouse and I were married just a few months ago. We live in a community property state. Going into the marriage I had some debt. He's not a signer or co-signer on any of it or anything; our financial matters were completely separate. We haven't ever filed taxes jointly. We do not yet own any property together either, and neither of us own any real estate separately. The only notable thing either of us own is a car, which belongs entirely to my spouse. I am now looking into filing bankruptcy but whether or not my spouse will be liable for my debt will determine whether or not I file.
Some web pages say that my spouse will not be liable for the debt I had before marriage:
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The woman I talked to on the phone, however, said that it doesn't matter if I acquired the debt before I got married, that my spouse will be liable for it. In other words, my spouse would have to file bankruptcy as well for anything to change.
Can anyone tell me which is true? On the one hand I'm suspicious since that doesn't seem to jive with anything I've read and they are in a position to make money off us, but on the other hand I don't know how trustworthy a bunch of websites are either. The place I'm getting the consultation is a place several relatives have used and it's supposed to handle more bankruptcies than anyone else, but I don't want to be given bad information just because they're a bankruptcy mill and think they can get away with it. I also don't want to show up to the consultation and accuse them of lying if they aren't, and if they
are wrong, I'd like to have more to say than, "Well I read some websites..."
Note that debt collectors will often go after anyone they think might be talked, bluffed, or coerced into paying them off. The fact that your wife is not legally liable may not spare her harassment.
You are always free to disagree with professional counselors, whether they be doctors, lawyers, accountants or interior decorators. You need not accuse them of lying, and you need not prove your assertions. If they suggest something that doesn't make sense to you, tell them that that was not your understanding, and ask them to prove it to you, say by showing you the relevant statute.
posted by ubiquity at 1:58 PM on February 26, 2009