Books On Wives Abused As Children
December 21, 2008 6:39 PM Subscribe
Asking for a patron: self-help books about coping with a spouse's NON-SEXUAL abuse as a child?
A patron (male) is looking for books that will help him deal with the effects his wife's emotional and physical abuse (by her parents and brother) as a child is having on their marriage.
I'm finding tons of stuff about dealing with one's own abuse, and books like this one that address partners who were abused-- except that the guy is adamant that his wife was not sexually abused, and I can see where books like these would have a somewhat different focus than those dealing strictly with non-sexual child abuse. I even found this one, but it's for women dealing with male partners who were abused, so it's not a great fit either.
I'll keep digging, but meantime, any suggestions?
A patron (male) is looking for books that will help him deal with the effects his wife's emotional and physical abuse (by her parents and brother) as a child is having on their marriage.
I'm finding tons of stuff about dealing with one's own abuse, and books like this one that address partners who were abused-- except that the guy is adamant that his wife was not sexually abused, and I can see where books like these would have a somewhat different focus than those dealing strictly with non-sexual child abuse. I even found this one, but it's for women dealing with male partners who were abused, so it's not a great fit either.
I'll keep digging, but meantime, any suggestions?
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otherwise, it looks like outgrowing the pain together might be a good one.
i'd suggest looking at cited works for the books - if courage to heal is on the list, stay away.
posted by nadawi at 10:19 AM on December 22, 2008