October 4, 2004 10:05 PM Subscribe
Do you regret having spent all that money and energy on your big, splash-out wedding? [MI]
posted by squirrel to society & culture (37 answers total) 10 users marked this as a favorite
My long-term partner and I are contemplating a wedding, and the issue comes up repeatedly: if we're going to have a wedding, is it worth the tens of thousands it takes to have a blowout?
This thread isn't for you to try to guess what is right for us, but to reflect on how you see in hindsight your big (or small) wedding. Was it worth the money? Do you wish you had just eloped? What would you do differently?