May 2011 Archives
May 31
RaceWIN! Native American Science Fiction
RaceWIN? Native American-written dystopian/fantasy/science/ speculative fiction. I am looking for the name of the text and author of a contemporary Native American novel that is satirical and dystopian. [more inside]
Melbourne Haircuts
People who live in Melbourne, Victoria (are you out there?). I need a recommendation for a women's hairdresser in the Fairfield/Alphington/Clifton Hill/North Fitzroy area. [more inside]
Not just the bloody bits, please.
What is the definitive history of Vietnam in English? [more inside]
What professional certifications/licenses should I be studying for?
What professional certifications/licenses should I be studying for? [more inside]
What should I do with this little mouse prisoner?
I caught a mouse and tried to drown it. It tread water long enough to make me think twice. Can one keep an ordinary house-mouse as a pet? [more inside]
How old is a particular computer model?
Is there a way to find out when a specific computer model was first released by the manufacturer, and when new machines stopped being sold? [more inside]
An Americans Guide to Australia in 10 minutes or less.
What would a Kiwanis group would like to know about Australia? [more inside]
Vancouver Stylist
Looking for a hair stylist in Vancouver, particular punk hairdo information follows.... [more inside]
Have you seen this coffee mug?
Can't be honest without being negative, can't be positive without being dishonest
Help me write this SQL job
What's the best way to write this SQL job? I have a table with browser session information collected. I want to clear this table and store the information in another table. [more inside]
Not lazy, just milling.
What's the cheapest way (speed not an issue) to ship a 2400lb milling machine, roughly 5'x5'x8', 700miles from Albuquerque, NM to Austin, TX? [more inside]
trailer park boys movie versus series
Where does the Trailer Park Boys movie fit in with the series? [more inside]
Screen sharing with audio?
Am looking for a screen share service that allows me to play audio live from my computer. (Any OS and any price will do.) [more inside]
How do I get rid of my book infestation?
I have a ton (at least) of books. How to best get rid of them? [more inside]
Investigator of stuff, freelance...
Another career question: Journalist-teacher-investigator(?) edition. [more inside]
I'm at a loss for words, darling...
Occasionally, my boyfriend makes remarks about womankind that I find sexist and hurtful. Last night, I called him out on such a remark. Was I overreacting? How should I handle this the next time it happens? [more inside]
What is Temperature?
Science Explanation needed: Trying to get a better understanding of 'temperature'. While discussing whether it's safe to eat from a non-stick pan I pointed out that Teflon doesn't start to break down until it hits around 300 degrees; if you kept the pan temp lower than that it should be fine. I was told that I'm wrong because 'temperature doesn't work that way'. [more inside]
Seeking the state of the art in location-based smartphone apps.
Seeking the state-of-the-art in location-based smartphone (iPhone & Android) apps. [more inside]
Helping a problem father?
My irresponsible father's health is declining and relatives are trying to get me to move him in with me, but I don't think I can cope with it. [more inside]
I could live with no bass, but what kind of life is that?
OldMacFilter: I've found myself in the possession of a PowerMac G4 and a Harman Kardon iSub. They both work, but when I adjust the system volume with the keyboard the subwoofer goes quiet. What's the deal? [more inside]
Two hours in a car with my new boss
Help me survive two hours in a car with my new boss. [more inside]
Maybe I should just live in a walk-in fridge
Even though I have central air, my large and sunny room is too hot for my heat-sensitive self. What strategies can I employ in order to keep it more tolerable in this hot, humid Jersey summer? [more inside]
The training and work of the average esthetician?
What were your experiences with esthetician training, and also in the actual job market? [more inside]
Aliens/Poltergeists/Daleks attack cat?
Mystery cat injury. How did this happen? (Description of non-life threatening but odd injury inside) [more inside]
Statistics: Restricted range and linearity/non-linearity.
StatisticsFilter: Range restriction and the strength of linear and non-linear relationships. Help? [more inside]
I've been in more laps than a napkin.
If you use cloth napkins, do you wash them after every meal or try to keep them for multiple meals (when they're not super gross or dirty)? Where do you store them and how do you make sure everyone gets theirs back? [more inside]
What's wrong with using hashbangs in URLs?
What's wrong with using hashbangs in URLs for AJAX functionality? [more inside]
Old technology filter: Zip disk stuck in drive
I've got a pile of old Zip disks I'd like to investigate... but modern computers haven't got RS232 interfaces, which is what my Zip drive has. Boo! However, I discovered that my wife has a USB ZIp drive! Yay! But there is a problem... [more inside]
We'll always have cake
I have been filled with an overwhelming desire to decorate my concrete loft as a level in Portal. While the Valve store was awesome for some artwork, I really want to have a personalized instruction guide for my level (see example here). I'm not a graphic designer, and I don't want to spend a fortune on this, but it's well outside my capabilities- particularly since I'd like to have it large enough to make an impact. So, my questions are 1) how do I find someone who can design this for me? and 2) am I going to run into copyright issues commissioning someone to do this?
Clear my skin!
How long should I give my new acne treatment? [more inside]
Explain my small business tax responsibilities to me like I'm a 5-year-old.
Explain my small business tax responsibilities to me like I'm a 5-year-old, please? [more inside]
What is the path to afterlife like (in the Christian religion) for pre-Jesus individuals?
What is the path to afterlife like (in the Christian religion) for pre-Jesus individuals? As in Homo gautengensis up through Julius Caesar.
Does the resurrection of the dead factor in somehow?
Artist photographer who does pieces about population, resources, consumption?
Who is the artist/photographer whose work deals with issues of resources, population, human consumption, etc.? For example, I remember a giant photo/collage that looks like lots of colored boxes from far off, and then up close it is revealed to be made up of freight containers that represent the amount of some type of goods used by the US in a certain period of time, or something like that.
Full Time Nanny: Advice?
I'm about to start a nanny share watching two kids under the age of two. HELP. [more inside]
Is Starbucks spying?
Is my corporate competition be scoping out my business or am I just being paranoid? [more inside]
Can you identify these bugs?
Any idea what these bugs are? [more inside]
MJPG in IE?
Motion JPG does everything I need it to do, effortlessly. But only in Chrome. IE doesn't natively support it. [more inside]
If I knew Dr. House, I'd ask him
(medfilter) asking for my girlfriend who's beginning to think she's crazy after the 2nd emergency room visit in less than a year where she's been told there's nothing wrong. Her primary complaint is stabbing pain on her right side, right at her ribcage. Sometimes radiating into her chest. Pain can go from annoying (most of the time) to debilitating. She states that she's had some kind of pain there for most of her adult life. I know you are not her doc but I'm hoping that the symptoms might ring a bell to someone. [more inside]
How can I make my credit cards thinner?
How can I make my credit cards thinner? [more inside]
OSX clean reinstall advice
Gave admin privileges to my Imac to a housemate, who installed some bootlegged software.
As I would like to be sure that i don't have a keylogger or trojan installed I think a clean reinstall might be best
Any links to careful, beginner level discussion of this process? In particular, how can i back things up without the risk of re-infection?
Thanks!
FYI I do have little snitch on and running and review of programs running seems to be OK, and I use 1 password , but still..
Meat Market Inception Dates
When did "nightlife" start becoming a pickup scene? [more inside]
London's calling, and I ain't got no swing.
I'm going to London! As a travel noob, what do I need to know? [more inside]
E-books for work?
What e-book vendor offers the widest selection of technical titles with reasonable DRM that I can suggest to my employer? [more inside]
How do I pick from a slew of low-priced computers?
Help me replace my dying desktop with something inexpensive and functional! [more inside]
Japanese Girl Gangs in a Music Video
Music Video ID. A year ago I saw a youtube video from Japan. Two girls, rock-ish, rap-ish? They were each leading a gang, one dressed like circa-Thriller MJ, the other gang dressed like a metal punks. I think they had a dance battle on a pier. [more inside]
Fun on the high seas near NYC
Where can I rent a self-captained boat for 10-20 people within two hours of NYC. [more inside]
Holding my breath for a Kindle 4?
Kindle 3 now.... or wait for Kindle 4? [more inside]
New Radio Show - seeks friends
How do you discover cool new radio online? [more inside]
World's least photogenic man seeks love
I'm a below average looking guy to start with. In photos, though, I look like the troll from under the bridge. I'm going to sign up for online dating soon. How can I obtain a picture of myself that doesn't scare small children and pets—or, more importantly, 18-25 year old girls? [more inside]
I'm not there to make her eat.
What can/should I do to help a friend on the other side of the world who seems to be starving herself? [more inside]
Only War! And bibliography.
I've got a memory of seeing a long list of books, either recommended reading or as acknowleged sources of material, in an early edition of the Warhammer 40K rulebook. In my recollection it neatly sumarised all the works that influenced WH40k. Did this actually exist? What were the books on the list?
Bike Helmet v. Skater Helmet?
Do skater helmets provide better protection for bike riders than vented bike helmets? [more inside]
Things To Do In Belgium When You're Ten
My daughter and I will be in Brussels for seven hours on Friday. What shouldn't we miss? [more inside]
Best platform for fitness and dance?
Which is the best gaming platform (wii, xbox, etc) and software to learn how to dance, yoga, cardio, and strength training? Oh yeah, I also want to run Netflix through it.
Murals: uplifting or downgrading?
Outdoor murals: for or against? [more inside]
Los Angeles eye exam
Where to get an inexpensive eye exam in Los Angeles? Preferably in the Hollywood/Silver Lake-ish area or red line accessible, but if it's totally worth it to drive to some place in Pasadena or something, then we will. [more inside]
More Android questions...
So I have switched to Android and have some questions... [more inside]
Booty to Boyfriend?
Is it possible to turn a hook-up into a real realationship? [more inside]
Have antiperspirants been conclusively linked to cancer/Alzheimer's?
Is there any actual, scientific, peer-reviewed truth to the supposed link between antiperspirants and cancer/Alzheimer's? [more inside]
Help me learn to dress fictitious people
Fashion/fabric/color/clothes/shoes literacy for dummies for writers? [more inside]
One harm can one blueberry do?
Ridiculously stupid question: I dropped a fresh blueberry inside my chaise longue, in an area I cannot reach without shredding the whole thing. How much is this going to suck? [more inside]
Nice spa in nyc?
Can anyone suggest a nice, not insanely expensive, spa in Manhattan? [more inside]
Article about a debt collector - help me find it
Help me find...an article about the owner of a small debt collection agency. Came out within the past few years. Described the business from his perspective. [more inside]
Please recommend some beach/commuting reads.
I love the Southern Vampire Mysteries/Sookie Stackhouse novels. The subject matter is fun and compelling, but what I most appreciate is Sookie's voice. What else will I like? [more inside]
Maltese Puppy
Maltese puppies? What is a reasonable price to pay for a female Maltese puppy (pet quality) from an ethical breeder? What low or high price requests should be warning signs? Any other tips on buying Maltese for a long-time dog owner who hasn't looked at purchasing dogs since long before the internet became a major market for pets?
Who is that sound?
Artist (and cd) identification please... [more inside]
Desktop developer wants to learn about this "web" thing
Desktop developer seeks your favorite tutorials, links, books, to learn up on web development. [more inside]
Why is some of my RAM not usuable?
My Windows 7 laptop says "Installed RAM 6.0 GB (2.87 GB usable)." What? Why is some of my RAM not usable? I have a 4-GB stick and a 2-GB stick, but I'm only getting 3 GBs of use of out them?
Jacob Wrestling the Angel: I'd like to know more!
Can you lead me to any good textual analyses of the biblical story in which Jacob wrestles the angel? I have looked around but still haven't found what I'm looking for. [more inside]
Tex Avery tribute cartoon?
After Tex Avery died, one year the Tournee of Animation included a tribute to him. I'd love to see one of those again, but I can't find it. [more inside]
Could YOUR children be at risk?
I'm looking for video clips of television news stories in the sensationalist youth-at-risk genre. You know the format: "[Dubious-sounding youth trend or other phenomenon] is sweeping the nation. Could your children be at risk? Up next on [triflin-ass station desperate for viewers]!". [more inside]
On tonights episode of "ow my balls"
YANAD but any ideas why my manly areas hurt? [more inside]
Lean, Mean W7 machine!
I plan on buying a new HP PC from Best Buy with Windows 7. Of course, it comes loaded with every junk program imaginable. Plus I want to "optimize" it for best performance. [more inside]
Talk to me about the trackpoint
Thinkpad users -- talk to me about the trackpoint (also known as the little red eraser thingy on the keyboard). [more inside]
How do I find the Woz to my (ahem) Jobs?
I would like to find a developer with whom to build simple, fun web apps. The catch is that while I am prepared to invest some cash, I would prefer to find someone who will work in an entrepreneurial way and end up with some ownership of what is created. Where do I find a potential collaborator? [more inside]
WinXP: Browsing the home dir in a HDD pulled from a different PC
In WinXP, why is it that the file browser within Nero9 is able to view the home dir of a disk pulled from a different WinXP PC, but Windows Explorer isn't able to? [more inside]
Is it OK to Move 2 Week Old Kittens from Where Mother Put Them?
Is it OK to Move 2 Week Old Kittens from Where Mother Put Them? [more inside]
Copying music to PC from iPhone
I want to transfer music from my iPhone to a Windows 7 PC. [more inside]
Can (PC) liquid cooling keep my room cool?
I have a question about liquid cooling my PC, which I guess is not a mechanical question about the process as much as it is a physics question about the nature of heat transfer. I think. [more inside]
If my rapist comes after me again, is there any legal weapon (other than a gun) that will stop him?
I was raped by someone I thought was a friend. I finally reported him to the cops, but I live alone in a city where i walk everywhere. He knows all of this, along with my daily habits. I don't want to change my lifestyle, but I need safety, especially at my apartment (which is where he raped me). Pepper spray (which I already have), tasers, stun guns--I've seen cops use these things on men of his size & it makes no difference. I feel like I have no choice but to get a gun. Please help me think of another option. [more inside]
Costs of geo-awareiPhone app development
This stackoverflow post suggests budgeting $150 per dev hour for a top quality iPhone app, and a total cost, including design, of $50,000 to $150,000 for the project. What can I expect to happen to this cost if the app is meant to link, bi-directionally, to a geodatabase of user observations, and display them over an e.g. google map layer? And how might this change if the app were Android?
Holy vestments!
I've got wee, 1-2mm holes in a viscose jersey dress. What's the best way to repair them? [more inside]
Career software for academic advisors?
What career interest inventory testing procedures and career related computer software programs would a college academic advisor use? [more inside]
Should we foster a dog?
Should we foster a dog? [more inside]
Help me learn to shoot home movies
I recently got a nice camcorder (this one) as an early Father's Day present. I've got the basic operation down but really know nothing about shooting video. What suggestions do you have to help me make my home movies better? [more inside]
Renter's insurance with two twists
Renter's insurance and travel, special libelous snowflake edition: I live in New York City and want renter's insurance that (a) covers libel and (b) will cover my wife's nice (~$2k with lenses) camera *when she is travelling*. I can't get a straight answer out of any insurance companies on what their policies actually cover. Can anyone recommend a company? [more inside]
Twangy Country....
must make space for storing paintings asap
I'm looking to build a couple of storage platforms in my tiny art studio in Manhattan. I got flaked on, and am now scrambling to find someone else to help me out and build this. Does anyone know of a carpenter or friend who can do a simple, functional job? [more inside]
Where to go camping in Southern New England
Where to go camping within a two hour drive of RI? [more inside]
What's a cool idea for a website with a database?
Asking-for-a-friend-filter: my friend is doing Bachelor's in Computer Science and has a final year project to the tune of 'website with database'.
He doesn't want to make something as generic as a regular shopping website; so any interesting, offbeat ideas for database websites would be more than welcome.
Catch: Shouldn't be very difficult. And should be SFW.
The war escalates.
Help me find the right countermove in the war on malware. [more inside]
Windows 7 home server hardware recs
Looking to build a Intel Sandy Bridge Windows 7 machine that will primarily function as a centralized repository for mp3s, movies, and photos. Anyone have any hardware recommendations? [more inside]
Hurry up and help me before I am not interested in an answer anymore!
One of my few habits is that I have no regular routines/habits. Is this something I definitely need to change or is there a way to leverage this to do everything I want to do in life? [more inside]
Hope for sleepless brain
You are not my doctor, but I'm writing in the hope that someone has had a similar experience and might be able to help me see my way through this difficult situation. I've had a month of extremely strange experiences with psychoactive drugs, and I'm wondering if someone might reassure me that this situation is reversible. (Warning: long, messy situation ahead.) [more inside]
There's a cream for that, right?
Any advice for a tingling scalp? [more inside]
Do you know a good meditation class in Edinburgh?
Do you know a good beginner meditation class in Edinburgh? [more inside]
How does short run DVD duplication operate?
Can somebody give me a in-a-nutshell overview of how small-run DVD duplication works? I'm looking for 50-300 discs and want professional results that aren't simply DVD-Rs with labels stuck on top. Is this possible? I'm in the UK.
Ideally I Would Rather Go Back In Time Actually
What should I do about my ticket? Illinois resident. Chart included! [more inside]
One Demyelination Event Is Plenty For Me Thanks - Would Moving Near The Equator Help?Where Exactly??
30 something caucasian male living way up top in North America was diagnosed with transverse myelitis recently.
I'm full mobile again miraculously but experience crazy neuropathic symptoms... I was told that my chances of having MS down the road are about 30%.
Should I move as close to the equator as possible to reduce my risks? if yes, where exactly? [more inside]
Apostrophe Displays as ’
Apostrophe Displays as ’ [more inside]
How to best dry my engine after a coolant mishap?
What's the best way to dry my engine after a coolant mishap? [more inside]
May 30
In need of a Chinese Video Release
How do I find a Chinese Release form? Chinese-Language video resources needed... [more inside]
No Facebook! That's a bad Facebook!
Why/how did Facebook track what I searched on Google? And how do I stop it from happening again? [more inside]
What is the name of this fantasy novel?
Trying to recall a fantasy novel I read at an inappropriately young age called "Wolf" something or other, which was the name of the hairy, sexy barbarian "wolfman" who is the bodice-ripping "hero" -- it might be based on Celtic mythology and has monsters and demons in it. [more inside]
If you respond in the next ten minutes we'll double..
STYLE SNAPS! Are they the dream solution for all the non-sewing petites of the world? [more inside]
Spelling Post Approval
I can't find a definitive answer on the use of 'post' as a prefix. In particular with 'post approval' meaning 'after approval'. [more inside]
Book Id: Sci Fi series with aliens and plague
Book ID: Trying to find a sci-fi trilogy or series I started in the 90s. Set on earth, there was a black plague that had something to do with an alien race. The pyramids were involved. I think a pyramid may have been on the cover. Very vague I know, but that is about all I can remember. Thanks!
23 days in Australia, from Melbourne to Brisbane - help me decide how to spend them!
Hey everyone. I'm going to Australia for 23 days in July, and would dearly love some advice as to how to spend them. [more inside]
"Snuggie" isn't even a real word.
You know how sometimes you find a single object that makes travel so much less inconvenient, uncomfortable, or disorganized? I'm going from the US to Russia (St. Petersburg) in a few weeks - please tell me what I would buy now if only I knew of its existence. Stuff for plane trips, packing, or just living out of a suitcase are all welcome. [more inside]
need freelance web designer
How do I find freelance web designers who will create a website for me similar to these ones:
www.the-weeknd.com
www.caldecottmusic.com
Also, how much does it typically cost to hire someone to do this??
Who paid who what to make this go away?
Looking for challenging books about the Christian faith
I'm looking for challenging, daring books about the Christian faith. [more inside]
If I Can Pay Someone To Do It...
Are there people out there who will manage an etsy store FOR me?? [more inside]
If you or your partner gave birth to a stillborn, did you see/hold it after the delivery?
If you or your partner gave birth to a stillborn, did you choose to see/hold it after the delivery? How did you make that decision, and if you did decide to see/hold the child, what did you take away from the experience? [more inside]
I'm a painter! (not)
How to paint my house? [more inside]
Father-Daughter Mexico Vacation
Help me plan a relaxing Father-Daughter vacation in Mexico during the second half of July. [more inside]
Lumber / Carpentry Filter - Should I use cedar on this project? Is my carpenter right?
Lumber / Carpentry Filter - Should I use cedar on this fence project? Is my carpenter right about the design? [more inside]
Reseller Rights for Ebooks
There are numerous web sites reselling ebooks or even offering memberships for unlimited downloads (generally for a seemingly nominal fee). One example of a site like this is http://www.thereadingsite.com/join.html
So assuming any of these sites are legally doing this, how do they get the rites to resell the ebooks? How would someone go about getting similar rights?
Guitar multi FX vs stomp boxes
GuitarFilter: Multi FX vs. Pedals. In particular, I'm trying to figure out whether I should buy a $100 floor controller for my Line 6 Pod XT, or stump for a couple of pedals instead. Lots of snowflakiness inside. [more inside]
How do I handle the imminent return of a supervisor with whom I feel I have a toxic relationship?
How do I handle the imminent return of a supervisor with whom I feel I have a toxic relationship? [more inside]
Best of the Queb...ec and Ontario city events
What should I hit in Montreal and Toronto? I have two weeks available and I want to bend them around unmissable events in each city. Aug/Sept. [more inside]
That said, it's kind of a pretty pattern
Is this scorched pot still usable? There's nothing to scrub away... [more inside]
Getting around extortionate software pricing in Australia
Can an Aussie buy Adobe LightRoom (boxed) from USA and install - and subsequently upgrade - on an 'Australian' computer? [more inside]
Plastic Double Bagging
Help settle an argument about plastic bags. [more inside]
How do I do the smog test to register my California car out of state?
For the California folks:
I go to school out of state, and I accidentally let my vehicle registration expire. I'm trying to figure out how I can get it done quickly and remotely. My primary concern is the smog test - I'm due for one this year. Searching the internet has given me mixed responses, with some saying you have to go back to CA to get smog tests, and others saying you can waive it in absentia. I need to drive as soon as possible, so I'd really appreciate a prompt response!
Thanks!
But Which Bike is Right for ME?
Yet another special snowflake question about what bike to get, from a bicycle noob. I'd like to get out and bicycle in our (hilly) neighborhood. If I love my bike to be, I may commute on it to the train, about 7 miles from our home, or for errands. I haven't really biked since I was a kid and owned a racing 10 speed. I'm a small fairly thin woman (5'2".) I'm fine with staying on roads and hence am not taken with mountain bikes, which strike me as clunky. A little more inside. [more inside]
A Pedicure?
(How) would my feet benefit from a pedicure?
PS3 or XBOX 360 for Madden
Should I buy a PS3 or XBOX 360 if all I really want to play is Madden? [more inside]
Did boards of canada sample this from autechre?
Did Boards of Canada, in "An Eagle in Your Mind" sample Autechre's "bronchusevenmx24"? [more inside]
Just let me be nice to you!
Being a very generous and open person, how do I deal with a person who has in the past seen these qualities as insincere or manipulative? [more inside]
Why is my dog wheezing?
YANMV - What is my dog doing in this YouTube video? Is she OK? (Apologies for bad sound). [more inside]
Why is my GetElementbyID.InnerHtml null?
Why is my GetElementbyID.InnerHtml null? [more inside]
Where can I find a good (working) proxy list?
Where can I find a good (working) proxy list? [more inside]
What's it like to live in Durham?
What is it like to live in Durham, NC? [more inside]
History books?
Looking for history books for the Kindle. [more inside]
Liquid vinyl or epoxy floor covering for plywood floor in "cat room"?
What options can you suggest for replacing carpet in a "catbox room" with something moisture-resistant and easily cleaned? Some of the cats occasionally get confused and miss the boxes. The sub-floor is plywood. I've been thinking along the lines of the 2-part epoxy coating I applied to the concrete garage floor several years ago, but don't know if it works well on wood, which flexes. Flooring companies have pointed out problems with conventional floor coverings either absorbing or being etched by cat urine. The room has a wood-burning stove in it, so something that won't burst into flame if exposed to an occasional ember would be best. X/
How can I screen stocks on historical price changes?
How can I find a list of stocks that have fallen a given percentage in value? Is there a website where I can screen historical stock prices according to a criteria I define? [more inside]
What sites can help me analyze a hashtag?
Please recommend a Twitter hashtag archive and analysis tool. [more inside]
Help me find an agent to sell my home in Columbus Ohio
Help me find an agent to sell my home in Columbus Ohio [more inside]
This will probably be an easy one: What is this plant?
Help me keep an eye on my tortoise
I want to set up a webcam so I can watch my tortoise via Ustream while I'm at work. Any suggestions for a good quality webcam with a good frame rate (30 FPS would be nice)? [more inside]
Comedy is...
Help me identify a quote. In an old Simpsons commentary, Matt Groening was quoting somebody when he said, "Comedy is watching a dumb man think." At least this is what I thought he said. Who originally said this, or something like this? [more inside]
Help Us Bachelorettes Get Groovy in Aruba!!
Help me make the BEST beach wedding CD ever! I'm putting together goodie bags for my best friend's bachelorette party. She's having a destination wedding in Aruba. The ladies are going out after the rehearsal to celebrate, and we are all in our late 20's early 30's if it matters. Indie, pop, 80's, 90's - anything related to a beach theme would be much appreciated!!
How to export AIM chatlogs on the iPhone?
How do I save/export AIM chat history on the iPhone? [more inside]
What kinds of government-sponsored assistance programs or support exist for new mothers in countries around the world?
What kinds of government-sponsored assistance programs or support exist for new mothers in countries around the world? [more inside]
Automate a rocking bassinet without damaging it.
We have a beautiful bassinet. How can I make it a beautiful self-rocking bassinet? [more inside]
How to disclose that I have the hymen from hell?
I'm in my early 20s and female. Recently, during my first adult relationship, found out that I cannot physically have sex (...yet) and will probably need surgical intervention to get that working. How can I handle the dating scene as I work on getting this fixed? In other words: how to one, deal with the fear of being rejected for being "broken," and two, how and when do I tell guys that vaginal sex is totally off the table? [more inside]
Website auto-awards badges for correct answers?
Are there any content management systems that easily support an educational game site where the main function is automatically awarding users visible badges for providing a correct answer to a prompt? [more inside]
Fullest of full-cut girls' briefs?
Where can I find very full-cut little girls' briefs? [more inside]
The sword in the... scabbard.
A (Scottish?) sword that can't be drawn; help make my cousin King? [more inside]
Unmarked helicopters, hovering...
Need help with a story point, involving creative ways in which a cahracter might locate and track an unregistered helicopter, after having viewed it flying overhead. [more inside]
Stripping timecode from SRT file
I would like to delete certain lines in a text document.
It's an SRT file, which is basically a TXT file that contains subtitles and in & out points.
I'd like to delete all the timecode numbers, and leave only the text.
Example inside... [more inside]
Baby Hates Car Seat
How do I get my ten-month-old daughter to tolerate her car seat? I have a baby that despises being in a car. With a trip to Los Angeles (aka The Land of Car Transportation) coming up, I'm wondering if there's anything we can do to make her hate car transportation a little less. [more inside]
Potential new job - but I'm not sure I can pass a drug test. Help!
Complicated situation involving current boss, potential new job and a drug test I'm not sure I can pass. I really need advice! [more inside]
Looking for ideas for Thyroid Eye Disease
Anyone out there with Thyroid Eye Disease? What has worked for you? [more inside]
Have you ever heard of ZT Systems?
Does anyone have experience with ZT Systems computers, sold through Costco? [more inside]
A clean, well-smelling place?
Can I salvage a working window-unit Air Conditioner that smells like the previous user's home cooking? [more inside]
Will morning cardio and evening p90x speed up fat loss?
Will augmenting my evening p90x workouts with a 45 minute pre-breakfast LISS cardio session expedite fat loss? [more inside]
Parallel job application etiquette
I have a job offer with a deadline, but I'd like to apply elsewhere. How should I manage the process? [more inside]
Faint memory of a kid's movie driving me crazy!
Kid's movie/T.V. show? Trying to rediscover some sort of kid's show or movie, possibly misremembered. [more inside]
How to back up the information from the Notes app on an iPhone 3GS that crashed?
How to back up the information from the Notes app on an iPhone 3GS that crashed? [more inside]
Best hikes from SF to LA?
My partner and I are in the early planning stages for a three-week vacation to California this November, and we need help with the hiking parts! [more inside]
NERD ALERT
L.A. Noire has lots of references to Bioshock -- namely (heh), Fontaine and Ryan.
Why? [more inside]
Finch, finch, finch, marine iguana!
Tips for travelling to the Galapagos Islands? [more inside]
Help a n00b
Is it customary to haggle for art from a gallery? Anything else I should know? [more inside]
Is she really over him?
Why does my girlfriend still mention her ex-boyfriend and the life they shared together? [more inside]
How do I encourage my ex to set some boundaries with me?
Ex-boyfriend and I are trying to be friends and don't have good boundaries between us, at least from his end. He's been reluctant to set them in the past. How do I encourage him to set boundaries? (long, snowflake-y) [more inside]
Who what?
Does anyone remember a music video from the early 90s where a woman with really long braids walks through a city street and sings about a break-up.
She might be wearing a trenchcoat, and she might be on a subway car. [more inside]
Five hour layover in Burlington VT ?
Layover in Burlington, VT - Where can I check my bags so that I can just walk around with my laptop. Where should I go hang out for four hours or so? [more inside]
Please help me feed my cat.
Please help me feed my cat. [more inside]
Take this job and ... give it to me!
Help me ace this job interview, where they're looking for someone to "support a bazillion printers and MFDs for a crap-ton of users and offices all over the world." (my translation of the HR-speak) [more inside]
Trying to track down a product advertised on tv.
Need help looking for a product in a commercial (rubber strap)... [more inside]
Downloading Steam Mac games on Windows
Via Steam, is it possible to download a Mac game on a Windows machine? [more inside]
Haven't used car for six weeks and now it won't start
After six weeks standing idle my Hyundai won't start. What could the cause be? [more inside]
Letterhead
Where are some good places in Paris to find interesting paper to write letters on? [more inside]
May 29
SeattleFilter: How can I see the new Terrence Malick film "Tree of Life"?
SeattleFilter: How can I see the new Terrence Malick film "Tree of Life"? [more inside]
How do I proceed post nail fungus?
GrossFilter: My nail fungus is almost cured. Yay! Now, should I toss my socks/shoes/nail polish? [more inside]
How can I get some friction inside my very wet girlfriend?
My girlfriend gets very wet during sex, so that there's no friction for my penis. This makes it hard for me to orgasm. Any techniques to solve this issue? [more inside]
Where might I find a certain quote from the end of Midnight in Pariswithout having to see it in the theater again?
Where might I find a certain quote from the end of Midnight in Paris, the new Woody Allen film, without having to see it in the theater again? [more inside]
How to mix super-loud source tracks?
How best to assemble bastard-pop/mash-up style mixes from source material with heavily compressed dynamics? [more inside]
Is this a scam?
Am I being scammed? Philippines-based distributor wants to import products (DVDs) from my site and sell to their retail clients over there. They asked to purchase "one of every title" in two categories of interest. Is there a risk they just take those and copy them? YANML [more inside]
How do we split the money fairly.
What would be a good way to decide how to split the $ proceeds of a project among three friends? [more inside]
Help us reduce our new home's train noise problem.
Help me (please) soundproof our new home against the trains that run right behind our house. Materials, strategies, tips: all are appreciated. [more inside]
Name this movie...
What movie did I just see a scene from where a guy uses magic to fly a rocket powered car? [more inside]
Pile O'Debt
My husband is about to graduate from grad. school, and I need some advice about strategies for repaying our loans. [more inside]
At least they don't advertise on TV.
Should I be worried about the legitimacy of my school? [more inside]
how do i react in this relationship?
I’m not sure how to react in my relationship? [more inside]
Tips for becoming more minimalist...
How do I curb my hoarder tendencies? [more inside]
where to read the opposite of travel journalism?
i want to read blogs or articles about ordinary life in various countries [more inside]
Why does the water make me tired?
Why do I get so tired after going in the water? [more inside]
Such thing as a SWYPE app for iphone?
Is there an app so you can have a Swype function on the iphone 4?
Purple Scourge
Please help us identify this flower that I just paid money for, that my parents claim is a scourge upon their yard at home. [more inside]
I grind my teeth: cheap and expensive night guard options
I'm a newly-diagnosed teeth-grinder. Should I get the custom night guard my dentist wants to make for me or should I try one of the cheap guards available in the drugstore? And while I'm making up my mind about the appropriate path, what can I do in the meantime to reduce stress and grind less? Relevant physical and financial details inside. [more inside]
How to make this long distance relationship work?
Long distance relationship: How can we make it work? How can we work it out so that we both feel fulfilled? [more inside]
Should I Stay or Should I Go
Should I stay in my current place and feeling trapped or move out and risk getting something worse? [more inside]
Please help my dog with his liver issues.
I need advice on the topic of dog liver issues and nutrition for this kind of disease. YANMV , yes. Description of symptoms and test results as well as background follows. [more inside]
Phuket Thailand in October - What to Expect
I'm planning a trip to Phuket, Thailand in October. What should I expect from the weather since it is nearing the end of the 'rainy' season? [more inside]
Personal symbol engraving on a male bracelet?
Is there a website that has a wide selection of male bracelets, will allow me to have a symbol of my choice engraved, and delivers to the UK? [more inside]
Resurrect My Friend's Amazon Seller Account!
Help my friend get his Amazon Seller's Account back! [more inside]
how to develop a two person card game for web?
what technology is involved in developing a web card game (or any game) so that users can see each others screens? [more inside]
Having a buyer's agent - necessity or not?
Do I really need a buyer's agent? How do I work with one if I found the house myself? [more inside]
Interfaith sci fi for 7th graders?
Looking for suggestions for a novel for Jewish/Christian 7th graders that explores religion-- extra points for sci fi! [more inside]
How to manage emotions in super-long-distance relationship?
How do I deal with an extended period of time abroad without my significant other? [more inside]
Please help me find alternatives to a curtain!
Please help me find alternatives to a curtain! [more inside]
My toenail is disintegrating
About a month ago, I noticed a problem with my toenail. It was discolored, and my toe hurt. The problem went away, and I didn't worry about it. But now my strange things are going on with the toenail. Should I be alarmed? Should I tell my doctor? Pictures inside! [more inside]
All-Time Phillies by Jersey Number?
I'm looking for a list of players in the Phillies' all-time roster, organized by jersey number. [more inside]
Cheaper tablets - incredible value, or a waste of $200?
What do I need to know about these sub-$250 tablets? [more inside]
Blues in Japan?
Why are the blues (the music genre) so popular in Japan? [more inside]
How should I upgrade my gaming machine?
I think it is time to upgrade my PC, can I get by with just upgrading the graphics card or am I seeing bottlenecks elsewhere? Also, what's the card to get? Specs inside. [more inside]
How to have fun with your Baby?
Babyjbenben is 7 weeks old - now what? I want to know the intimate details of hanging out and having good times with my son! I'm looking for reference sources and first-hand accounts that aren't annoying, and instead, inspirational feel-good fun. Please help. [more inside]
Want to sit indoors yet look at water in NYC
free NYC Water View? [more inside]
How to reduce the loudness of vocals on Mp3s?
How to reduce the loudness of vocals in proportion to the music in mp3s? [more inside]
What do you do when taking a shower and how fast do you do it?
What do you do when taking a shower? Do you wash your entire body and your hair? Only the body (and the hair every couple of days)? Only certain spots on your body? [more inside]
Least expensive source for Follistim?
Where can I find Follistim at the lowest possible price? [more inside]
Name that indie band.
Name that band: I think it was a Toronto indie rock band with a music video that was comprised entirely of stop motion figurines that were either lego figures or something similar. The song or the band name either used "horse" or "pony" or "sparkle" in the name because my brain keeps telling me "sparklehorse" though I know it's not them. [more inside]
Mother May I Sleep With Danger
Wedding week, visiting parents, close quarters: my parents helped me buy the apartment my fiance and I live in. They'd like to stay on our couch for three nights before the wedding. I love them, like spending time with them, and would want them to stay with us... any other week except this one! Am I being a jerk? [more inside]
Is this a dental emergency?
Trying to figure out whether to call my dentist's emergency number, see if this is something that can wait until Tues. or if it's something an urgent care could handle. [more inside]
Chemistry 101
Starting Inorganic and General Chemistry at Uni with no prior knowledge! How do i catch up with the rest come exam time? [more inside]
Can I keep my mother from visiting the maternity ward?
How inappropriate would it be to prevent my boundaries-challenged mother from visiting the hospital upon the birth of my child? [more inside]
Dog pulls bedding out of cage
Why does my foster dog drag her bedding (and puppies!) out of her dog crate? [more inside]
How do I use mixi?
How do I use mixi? [more inside]
Am I going to kill my allergic friend?
[allergy filter] Is lotus seed a nut? Are people allergic to it? [more inside]
Where to put nuclear reactors
Why would it be a bad idea to build more nuclear reactors in areas which have had nuclear disasters? [more inside]
Finding the place in the middle to meet
What country lies exactly in-between Sri Lanka and Mali? I'm trying to find out a country in the middle in terms of pure miles and also in terms of flight time. [more inside]
Colorado travel advice
What things should we make sure we do in and around Rocky Mountain National Park? [more inside]
Why does Windows Live think I'm still running Vista?
I recently upgraded from Windows Vista to Windows 7. I'm trying to find and download gadgets for my desktop. When I go to the Windows Live page, I only see gadgets compatible with Vista. Why does Windows Live think I'm still running Vista?
Notarize Last Will in another state
My husband had a Last Will and Testament drawed up from LegalZoom.com, our residence is in Tennessee. Now we need to get it notarized and witnessed. Can we get this notarized and witnessed in another state (Kentucky)?
My Canadian Curling Quest
How can we go curling one afternoon on our Canadian Ski Trip next winter? [more inside]
Where to buy custom table
Where can I purchase customized home tables/desks like this (pic 1 / pic 2) in a "L" corner shape? I want to customize it so that one side is longer than the other. I also need it to have an open back like in the pictures (at least on the longer side) to allow for built in cabinets to open underneath where it will go. [more inside]
How to separate gravel and yard?
Gravel on one side, grass on the other. What's a good border that's kid friendly? [more inside]
The dork tour of Manchester?
I haven't been to Manchester, UK in like ten years, what's changed and what should I do? [more inside]
I'm peeing a LOT and drinking a ton of water. All blood work has come back normal. So what could it be, besides diabetes?
I'm peeing a LOT and drinking a ton of water. All blood work has come back normal. So what could it be, besides diabetes? [more inside]
Increasing database performance for SELECTs
Databases: is it better to spend money on faster disk I/O or partitioned tables? Which has more influence on the speed of a SELECT query? [more inside]
Does this blinker have a rate?
Is there a minimum and maximum rate for the turn signal frequency of a car? [more inside]
How to save relationship with uncle?
Is there any way to save my relationship with a relative who has suddenly distanced himself after marriage? [more inside]
May 28
Help with my elderly mother selling her condo
My mother just sold her condo. After looking at her closing statement I see she was ripped off for at least $600.00 maybe as much as $1000.00. I know this because I own a title insurance company and I know some of these fees were illegal. My sisters don't want me to say anything because they are afraid the sale will fall thru. I know that confronting the title company won't make the sale fall thru but still don't know what to do
I get black stuff on my teeth. Anyone heard of this?
I get black stuff on my teeth. Anyone heard of this? I haven't been brushing my teeth regularly for a while, and that might have something to do with it. I easily get a black film over my teeth, and it doesn't brush away easily. I just scrape it off with a nail, but it's hard to get it all. It's like black plaque. I'm not eating anything unusual, so I don't know why it's happening.
What's eating my plants?
Something is eating the plants in my garden. I don't know what it is or how to stop it. Photos inside. [more inside]
Air Conditioning BTU confusion
What size (BTUs) air conditioners should I buy for my (sort of) open layout apartment? [more inside]
Refurbish My Dell or Buy New?
I have a Dell Vostro 1500 that has good build quality and I have loved it for the past 4 years. However, the sound amp has gone out and I'm needing a new keyboard, plus it's still running XP so I thought I'd check out new laptops. ALL Dell laptops now come with "truelife" (glossy) displays and I can no longer get a matte display like I have on my Vostro. So.....is it worth it to try to get mine locally refurbed or should I bite the bullet and get a new laptop? I have no idea what a rehab would cost versus a new laptop. More than anything, I just love the way my current laptop "feels." (You know?) FYI, I have an iPad and it does most everything I need to do anymore, but still need a laptop with Windows for work-related things. Thoughts? [more inside]
Do Schizophrenics Commonly Accuse Think Others are Possessed?
When a mentally ill person begins to talk about other people being "possessed by demons" is that a red flag? [more inside]
How can I recover my frozen remote work computer from home?
My work computer that I am connecting to through a remote connection is freezing on the log in screen. When I type the password, it gives me the welcome screen, but the little welcome wheel keeps spinning infinitely. I want to restart it to try to solve this. But the only way I know how to restart remotely is using the cmd prompt, which I can't get to until I'm logged in. So how can I restart? [more inside]
Is cinnamon a miracle cure?
Has anybody seen credible evidence that cinnamon capsules are a weight loss miracle? [more inside]
is this friendship recoverable or should I just let it go?
Dramadramadramadingdong. If your friend is pretty much over you, or just doesn’t have bandwidth in her life for you, what do you say when she finally calls? [more inside]
Who here works in the trades?
Any tradespeople out there? I'm trying to narrow down what trade I'd like to go into & have a bunch of questions. [more inside]
How can I apply the principles of deliberate practice to improving my emotional/social intelligence?
How can I apply the principles of deliberate practice to improving my emotional/social intelligence? [more inside]
bus-ted?
Mexico bus filter... can't print out my ticket! Am I screwed? [more inside]
What's your experience with ROTC/Corps of Cadet?
What's your experience with ROTC/Corps of Cadet? [more inside]
I always have phlegm.
I can't seem to get rid of my phlegm. For a couple of months now, I tend to always clear my throat because there's phlegm in there and sometimes its easy to expel it, sometimes I will have a hard time as it's sticky. It gets really sticky especially in the morning upon waking up. Also, two weeks ago, I had an episode of blood spots in my phlegm, I had sore throat then and I was eating a spicy meal. At times, again, especially in the morning, some of the phlegm is dark. What's wrong with my throat and what can I do to stop it? [more inside]
The hole truth
I remember seeing a picture (I think in National Geographic) of a gigantic hole -- in Australia, I am virtually certain. It was naturally occurring, not a mine, and very deep and mysterious. Now there is only a giant pit in my memory, and fear of a growing sinkhole called dementia -- can't find it anywhere. Am I just imagining this hole?
What forthcoming theory of computation textbook did I see?
Help me figure out what computer science book I heard about on the web a while ago. [more inside]
Hey, listen... You gonna buy that?
What's a professional way to let a customer (or even a potential customer) know that they're taking advantage of your kindness with their assumption that "try before you buy" is a given? [more inside]
Enjoyed the Movie, Confused About Ending
I just saw the movie "Ink" (2009) and would like to understand something...(SPOILERS INSIDE) [more inside]
Help me prune the academic wankery
What are unnecessarily formal "academic jargon" type words that I should seek and destroy in my papers? [more inside]
How can you change how you think and analyze things?
How can you change how you think and analyze things? How do you think and analyze things in different ways? [more inside]
Which compressor will work best, quiet, and won't bankrupt me?
Novice at airbrushing: please help me find the right air compressor to buy! [more inside]
Let us curl, my lady
Please help me find a good curling mascara for sensitive eyes! [more inside]
WWII veterans' lives after the war
[WWII/Band of Brothers filter] At the end of BoB, we're told about each of the characters' lives after the war. I can't help but feel a bit... disappointed? to hear that, say, this soldier returned and worked as a cab driver, or as a mill worker. It feels anticlimactic and un-glamorous. Yes, I realize that may be a by-product of the hero- or myth-building that (intentionally or not) goes into WWII movies. Are there any books or articles that explore this area? [more inside]
Help me convince my boss to upgrade from ASP.net 1.1 to 4.0
I need to make the case to my ultra non-techie boss for upgrading our ASP.net 1.1 website to an ASP.net 4.0 website. [more inside]
How can I get agile, flexible and strong in a fun, dynamic way?
I want to be a superhero! [more inside]
Can't find the Answer that linked to a $10 year web host!
Argh, someone linked to a web host that happened to have a $10 a year price for basic hosting (Like ASmallOrange's $25 yr plan.) I can't find that link after looking at a bunch of answers! Not pay as you go like NFS. Anyone know that $10 year host that was mentioned? Or an alternative with PHP and MySQL for similar price? [more inside]
Make £6000 in a short time doing something unconventional, difficult or dangerous?
How can I make £6000 in a fairly short time by doing something unconventional, difficult or dangerous? [more inside]
Flashing hazards as you pass
USA folks. We are driving on mountain roads, me following you, you traveling more slowly than me. You kindly pull in to let me pass. After I pass I switch on my hazards briefly as I pull away. How do you interpret this? [more inside]
Transgender people and pregnancy, babies, kids?
My partner and I are a lesbian couple. One half of our happy couple is pregnant with our first child, the other half is a transsexual woman, and because of that we have been able to conceive a child that is genetically related to both of us. We know one other couple in the world who has dealt with these issues. Is anyone else out there? [more inside]
I need help identifying an Asian character.
Can anyone identify this Asian character? The pendant was bought in Thailand by a family friend who has since passed away so we can't ask him. [more inside]
Condo/Homeowner Portal?
Free software or Wordpress variation for a condo association? [more inside]
What ground cover thwarts grass best?
What ground cover will best defy the incursion of my nemesis, grass? Shady (under tree) area in Quebec, Canada. [more inside]
No Composite Video or S-Video output
DVD player can only output to HDMI or Component but not Composite or S-Video. Can I fix this? [more inside]
I like tumeric.
Song ID: female vocalist, not particularly engineered, lyrics include "spice markets of Marrakesh" and "the coasts of tripoli". [more inside]
How early can you have a mid-life crisis?
I'm working on going back to school for Astronomy/Astrophysics, but I need help figuring out what classes to take at the Community College level here in San Francisco and how best to apply to a school like UC Berkeley. Complicating matters is the fact that I went to school for 4 years for film (don't ask) at Drexel University but didn't graduate. Luckily I spent my first two years at Drexel on a general science track. What I really need help with is figuring out what classes I should take at a school like City College of San Francisco. Also, when is the soonest I can/should apply to UCB? Alternately, what San Francisco adjacent schools have really good astronomy/astrophysics programs? [more inside]
What is this plant?
Should I return my stuff?
I ordered a product that can be damaged by heat. The company I ordered it from shipped it from Arizona, and as I just found out, did not include an ice pack with it. It's been in Arizona, where temps are over 100 for two days so far according to the tracking information. I'm thinking of returning it. Is this unnecessary?
No way to control it, it's totally automatic
I'm an Automator noob and I have an Automator/iTunes question. [more inside]
Fat bottomed girls, you make the rockin world go ro round.
Help! I'm in Denmark, and I have no jeans to wear for the rest of the week! Where can I buy plus sized jeans in Copenhagen? [more inside]
Road trip with potential romantic partner. How do we keep occupied?
Road trip with potential romantic partner. How do we keep occupied? [more inside]
A particular kind of cropping
Is there any non-Photoshop image editor for Mac which will do exactly this kind of resizing? [more inside]
Fruit Smoothie Nutrition
Couple nutrition-related questions concerning fruit smoothies. [more inside]
Got my "Ghost Hunter" business card, now what?
How do off-the-wall, one-person operations get their professional start? [more inside]
Beam me up
So, I have nearly a terabyte of photos of my daughter stored on a computer which has been taken over by tr/crypt.xpack.gen (if that is your real name). It would probably be best that I store the photos on some sort of server somewhere (clouds?), but I know nothing of such things. Any advice on online storage, computer security, and not shooting in raw would be greatly appreciated. Please help, as we would rather not have to force my daughter back in the womb to recreate the photos of her birth. [more inside]
Eating and Cooking in Italy
Tutto bene! Traveling to Italy in September/October and looking for advice. [more inside]
How to get dye to set in clothing?
Is there anything I can soak clothing in to get the dye to set instead of rinsing away? [more inside]
Baked oven?
I have an American Scientific TempCon oven I was hoping to use to bake enamel painted parts...the low temp (200F) it operates at is perfect for that. However, after a minute of use it trips my GFCI outlet. What should I look at? [more inside]
Cycling newbie looking for things to read
I just bought a racing bike. I know next to nothing about cycling. Where do I start? [more inside]
Mo muscle, no funds
I need protein. I have just started (re-started) weight training and I have very limited funds, but I cannot afford lean steak or chicken or fish. I have some protein powder and can afford chicken thigh meat, canned tuna and any amount of pulses. Which is best? I'm trying to build lean muscle. [more inside]
Parenting worrywart?
We're not having sex, I get that, thank you!
My closest friend keeps telling me that we're not going to have a physical relationship. How should I handle this? Possibly NSFW. [more inside]
What to do for an evening in York, UK?
What should I do this Wednesday night in York, UK? [more inside]
Dimensions of Australian cigarette packet
What are the dimensions of the typical Australian cigarette packet. [more inside]
Amazing dystopian animation needed. Thanks !
Dystopian short scifi animation film seen in the last year, about a man who is the last living member of dirty, trashy spaceship / plane that seems to have been abandonned a long time ago, and finds out that he is infected by the virus that killed his entire team. Then.. [more inside]
Pharm.D. Seeks Entry Level Medical Writing Position
How can I get started in medical writing? [more inside]
May 27
Slick shiny keys feel gross.
Rough-coating spray to fix a shiny keyboard? [more inside]
peace lily leaves keep turning brown at tips
why do the tips of the leaves on my peace lily keep turning brown? [more inside]
Sick curry tree
Help! My potted curry leaf tree has suddenly had its leaves start shriveling and turning brown. What's wrong with it, and how can I save my plant? [more inside]
Please help me with audio as if I'm a n00b.
Please help me with audio as if I'm a n00b.
I have a couple components from the mid-90s and a 2007 iMac and I want to do a few specific things. [more inside]
User's constant input keeps a song going.
As long as the user, say, presses a key on his/her keyboard in sync with, say, a flashing light onscreen, a sound file will continue to play. If he/she stops pressing the key, the song stops until the in-sync keying resumes. Can I get/program/build this? [more inside]
Writing against one's own inclinations
Can anyone point me towards examples of authors (or other artists) who have produced work with a theme that runs contrary to their own established political or social views? [more inside]
My kingdom for a (page) source!
Via Javascript or PHP, I want to fetch the page source of an external URL. The catch: the URL is another php file. file_get_contents and curl don't work, and neither, seemingly, does anything else I try. Help? [more inside]
Elderly parents house in disrepair
Parents are ederly and have a house in horrible disrepair. What should I do? [more inside]
Fleet week for the urban impaired
NYC fleet week advice needed. Please help the Midwestern clueless. [more inside]
Rome was, too, built in a day!
Examples of impressive projects, done impressively fast? Looking for a snappy retort to the commonplace "Rome wasn't built in a day." [more inside]
over chair computer harness
I'd like to make an aluminum frame over my zero gravity chair to support my computer monitor and rig up something that would make the mouse easy to use in a reclining position. Can anyone tell me what the name of the aluminum frame joints are, and where would would I find the aluminum tubes and joints? [more inside]
How do you move from Alaska to South America in one fell swoop?
My girlfriend recently got a job in Bolivia teaching for a private school in Cochabamba. This is great and everything except I have no clue what to do in terms of planning for our move, how to get a job in Bolivia or what needs to happen in the two months before we leave. Snowflake goodness after the jump. [more inside]
NBA Finals Wagering
How do you handle betting on the NBA Finals? [more inside]
Movie-like memories
Some of my best memories, when I think back on them, become more cinematic than linear, more musical than factual. They are a flowing montage of events, energy, motion. Often the memory is of an adventure or journey. Why does this happen? Who has written or made art about the capacity for our memories to be transformed in this way? [more inside]
Thai on LA
I need a quick and awesome reco for a Thai restaurant in LA for tonight! Anywhere near Santa Monica, West Hollywood, Beverly Hills, Century City, or downtown. Less than $30 per person. Casual attire.
Kids demand new eats.
Help expand our family-friendly dining options in Portland. [more inside]
This week's ubergeeky question (comic books AND computers!)
I recently received a gift of "44 Years of the Fantastic Four," which I think has one heck of a lot of PDFs of old comic books on a DVD-ROM. Regrettably, my computer cannot read it and thinks it's a blank disk. I am running Vista and Adobe X. Am I out of luck because my setup is just too modern? I wouldn't mind shooting a bunch of these over to my ipad, but obviously won't be able to do that unless my Dell can actually read the damn thing. How will I be able to relive the day that Galactus walked the earth?
Green poop and no appetite?
Green poop. Reduced appetite. Am I dying? [more inside]
Help me choose a bike.
I'm looking to buy a bike, but I find myself paralyzed by the large number of choices available. I'd like to get a Hybrid bike to do some recreational riding around my neighborhood, in the park, and on local trails and bike paths. I want a bike that feels good to ride, is sturdy and reliable, and allows for customization if I want to swap out some component in the future. [more inside]
How do I play this thing on this other thing?
How can I play .f4v (Flash Video?) files on an iPhone? [more inside]
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Why, oh why, does Chrome do thisÉ [more inside]
Help me find a music festival this summer
My best friend and I (living in New Brunswick, Canada) want to take a road trip this summer and we were thinking maybe doing a musical festival/camping adventure. Any suggestions for excellent festivals where two young women would be safe and have an amazing time? [more inside]
Suicide is not painless...not to me
What is the best way to support a close friend that has suicidal tendencies and to handle the feelings I have about it? [more inside]
Once you go Mac, you never go back? (Re: external HD use)
I have a Western Digital Elements 1 TB External Hard Drive. I uploaded files onto it from a Mac, and want to put those files onto my PC. Problem is, my PC doesn't recognize my hard drive now when I plug it in, and instead asks me to reformat the whole drive (which I previously had to do on the Mac). [more inside]
Crawfish, Crayfish, Crawdaddy - where will I find tail meat in Los Angeles?
I'm feelin' some etouffée, but I'm tired of faking it with shrimp.
Retail seafood markets are few and far between. Where can I find crawfish tail meat (even frozen and/or Chinese) in Los Angeles, the closer to the San Fernando Valley the better?
Midnight to morning at Dubai Airport
Suggest me things to do when arriving in Dubai Airport at midnight for 9 hours please! I'll be taking a 7-hours flight from Glasgow to Dubai, arriving at almost 1 am. This is followed by another 7-hours flight from Dubai to Singapore at 9:30 am. What should I do to pass the time? Should I even try to leave the airport and go to the city? [more inside]
Reverse graph paper notebook?
I am looking for a particular reverse graph paper notebook company I read about some time ago. The idea of the graph paper was that it was reversed out - that is, white gridlines and slightly darker blocks. The theory was it made photocopying or scanning your work easier. [more inside]
Making bloody marys with limited resources
Bloody Marys with limited resources? [more inside]
Something to do in Georgia
Things to do, places to see in somewhat rural GA for the next two weeks? [more inside]
Facebook profile ripping?
A third-party website has created a "profile" for me on their own site, using my main Facebeook picture, which turns up on the first page of Google hits for my full name. It seems to be some kind of cheesy dating site and I really don't want it up there. I've never used the site, or interacted with it in any way (I don't use any FB apps at all, and am savvy enough not to click on spammy links). Do I have any recourse for getting this taken down?
weekend in nashville for a country music fan
[NashvilleCountryMusicFilter] I will be attending a wedding in Nashville on the weekend of July 9th. I also love country music. Clearly, I need to take advantage of this. [more inside]
Birthday email lists that offer deals/freebies
What restaurant/businesses e-lists have given you the best birthday swag/deals/freebies from? I want to know the perks you've gotten from birthday lists you've signed up for-- whether it be a free cup of coffee, a % off a meal, or better! [more inside]
Please help me prepare for a market research job interview
I have an interview at a market research company next week! Which is great, except that I've been in school for physics for the last 7 years and I know next to nothing about the field. Can you give me resources, tips or tricks to prepare for this interview? [more inside]
Who's that girl?
Possibly some respect. Maybe none.
What movie takes place at/has a line mentioning Chester, Wisconsin University... "Chez Whiz U?" [more inside]
Keeping those summer blues away
I'll be away from my friends for the summer while working, and I'd like to pick up a hobby. I don't even know where to start. [more inside]
What is the best Kindle Spanish-English dictionary?
What is the best Kindle Spanish-English dictionary? [more inside]
The ladies are having a bridal shower, the guys are...
My fiance and her lady friends and family are getting together tomorrow for a bridal shower in our Brooklyn apartment.
That leaves the guys (all different ages and all different interests) in the family with the chance to go hang out and do male-bonding stuff. I'm going to check to see if there are any interesting sporting events on tv tomorrow afternoon, but that aside, what should we do that will be fun and low-key? Bonus if the place is relatively close to a G train stop. [more inside]
Me, the open road, and ADVENTURE!!
Any tips/places to see for a first solo road trip? (Los Angeles - New Orleans -- maybe a bit of the blues trail as well) [more inside]
BART-Bike Commuting During Normal Business Hours?
Bay Area Bike Commuting Filter: So I recently got a bike and was all excited about biking part of my daily commute (to and from my home and work BART stations), but then I discovered that the bikes on BART rules are such that non-folding bikes pretty much aren't allowed on the train during normal commute hours--"those trains shown in highlighted areas" cover nearly the entire range of the morning commute for anyone who has to be at work between 8:00-9:00am. I'm having a hard time accepting this because surely in a place with such a thriving bike culture there are people who work normal business hours and take their (non-folding) bikes onto BART. Are you one of these people? How do you swing it? I commute from Downtown Berkeley to San Bruno for a 9-5 job and can't seem to find a way to make it work.
What happened to Word?
Suddenly and out of the blue, when I try to open Microsoft Word documents, even ones that I opened a few days ago, I can't. Help! Please! [more inside]
Japanese Craigslist?
What is the equivalent to Craigslist in Japan, perhaps the Osaka area specifically? [more inside]
Still rude to wear a hat indoors?
Is it still rude to wear a hat indoors? [more inside]
Documentaries on religion and morality?
Suggestions, please, for provocative, informative, hilarious, and/or disturbing documentaries about religion and social/moral/ethical issues? [more inside]
visiting with family and splitting time
Are we wrong for not visiting my family while being on the east coast for my wife's brother's wedding? [more inside]
obscure Wu-Tang lyric crisis
What song features the RZA lyric "another day, another dog to walk?" [more inside]
What can I do with my 13 year old daughter this summer?
What can I do with my 13 year old daughter while I'm at work all day during the summer? Additional difficulties inside... [more inside]
Responding to an ex who's broken with reality
Utterly delusional letter sent from my ex to my current partner (stating I belong with the ex, am being kept from him, and am currently in love with him). Here is our plan; what do you think? [more inside]
Fresh servings of pain on the hour
I've been lied to by someone I love and trusted, and it's causing me chest pains and way too many tears. What can I do to cope or process it healthily and get over it as quickly as possible? [more inside]
Anything to worry about with Power of Attorney for a friend?
My friend wants to give me Power of Attorney to close on a house for him; anything I need to worry about? [more inside]
What happens when your license is revoked?
Chicago Law Filter, Traffic Division: Questions about license revocation. [more inside]
What do I need to know about LLCs?
I am soon starting a job for a small business that forms LLCs. What do I need to know? [more inside]
cycling to Stonehenge or Avebury?
Looking for a bit of info about cycling Salisbury-Stonehenge or Swindon-Avebury... [more inside]
Mech Engineering student transfer
Mechanic Engineering undergrad seeks transfer to a more competitive, research-oriented school. What should we know? [more inside]
Anti-fatigue Mattress?
Those anti-fatigue mats and bead seat covers really work. I guess the uneven surface keeps the muscles stimulated. Is there anything like this for a mattress or mattress cover for my bed? [more inside]
The moving computer writes and having writ moves on
Transcription for newbies. Halp! [more inside]
I know roaches are a given in FL, but this is much too much
Bugs are flying in the door when we open it. Argh. [more inside]
What Am I? Are There Others Like Me? Zoom.
Which vehicles are very similar to the Ford Flex? [more inside]
Black or white background for presentation slides
I'm speaking at a technical conference in about 2 weeks and my slides (in openoffice) are using black as its background color. But recently in a podcast, several people commented that for conferences, it is mandatory that slides use white for the background to enhance the legibility. On this previous question, the commented used white text on an almost black background. Should I reformat my slides to use a white background ?
Help me, music majors
Which microfiber cloth for which purpose?
I bought a set of four microfiber cleaning cloths. Help me pair them to the things I want to clean. (Also, come up with more things to clean.) [more inside]
What are some fun, creative 3rd date ideas?
What are some good creative date ideas for the weekend? (3rd date) [more inside]
What music for a 1930's French Casino murder mystery party?
Having our Murder Mystery Party tonight, and trying to button up some last minute things. I need some music suggestions for ambiance. The setting is 1930's France, in a casino. Lot's of secret agents and what not.
Best Source for Book Descriptions?
I'm currently working on a research project that will lead to a written product (an article or report, either published in a magazine/journal, or released online). I want to create an appendix to the report that has the names and descriptions for books referenced in the report. This will be an extensive list, so I don't want to create the descriptions myself. Can I use the product description that is put out by the publisher (the one that is used by Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and other book sellers)? If not, what are my options?
Recommended ffmpeg options
What are ideal command-line ffmpeg options, used to back up DVDs and AVIs to x264 mp4 files? [more inside]
Let me count the ways
[Philosophy/Language/HistoryFilter]: What's the name of this rhetorical or logical technique, where you explain a subject by making a lot of lists? [more inside]
Help me make a presentation.
Help me make a presentation of how I would change a website to make it better (copywriter expertise appreciated.) [more inside]
Fix NFS on Mac after 10.6.7 update?
I upgraded Snow Leopard to 10.6.7. Now my WDTV Live media player can't see the folders on my Mac I was sharing with NFS. Please hope me. [more inside]
When art installations get bored
Looking for an article about artists living in a New York museum as installation. [more inside]
NameThatCartoonFilter
Saturday morning movie type cartoon, (I don't believe it was a series)...late 80's or early 90's...kids play in backyard (specific memory of them playing on a swing set) and they venture into some caves. The caves were mostly red. Here's the key: One of the girls had a pet snake that she kept hidden in her shirt..I think it was named slimey.
Any ideas? I remember a weird feeling I would get when watching this "movie"....like it was almost scary, but then I knew there was nothing to be afraid of.....
Thanks! :)
Cologne by night
I may purchase some train tickets that would have me staying at Cologne Hauptbahnhof from 0200-0600 early on a Saturday morning in August - is this a horrible idea, or might it actually be a positive experience as layovers go? [more inside]
Australian visa ETA
I have a visa and passport question regarding entry into Australia. Are there any Aussies/travelers who have been there recently able to answer this? [more inside]
May 26
exercise
Overweight and out of shape, looking for something that's an intense full body workout that isn't injury prone [more inside]
tastes good but not in good taste?
Would it be in bad taste for me to bring wine to a dinner party hosted by two recovering alcoholics?
I know at least 3 of the other 5 guests are drinkers, so it's not like I'd be drinking the wine alone.
Should I just bring a plant?
Seven cities in one!
Find my friend's book (by plot): Explorer describes seven(-ish) cities he visited... but in the end, it turns out they were all different descriptions of the same city.
Hey old man take a look at my life, I'm nothing like you.
My recently retired father is consumed with anxiety that I am not married (or interested in dating at all, really) and constantly badgers me about it. If he only asked once and then stopped, that would be OK. But there is overwhelming judgment/criticism that something must be wrong with me and he seems to think this gives him the authority to tell me how to live my life. This has been going on for a while and, at this point, I am ready to completely sever my relationship with him due to the constant badgering. How can I talk to him about this? [more inside]
Help me figure out what academic articles to read
Help me figure out what academic articles to read [more inside]
Name of popular song from the 80's about Hollywood
Need help in identifying a song from the 80's (I think). It is about Hollywood's golden age, rather long, with some spoken word, that got a lot of airplay. Apologies for not remembering any of the lyrics, but they are just outside the reach of my memory.
What computer software programs would help me type faster?
What are some recommendations for software to improve my type writing skills? [more inside]
Help me find Keillor's Pontoon Boat story!
Could someone point me to an online source to download/purchase Garrison Keillor's story about the Lutheran Ministers on the Pontoon Boat?
Little Miss Perfect Belly Rubbing Toddler in a Tiara
Where can I find the clip of a young pageant girl rubbing her stomach? [more inside]
Hopefully not the most unkindest cut of all...
I have very thick, very straight, fine-ish hair. It is way too long and needs to be cut. What should I do with it? (Pics and more details after the cut.) [more inside]
Kill the oil stink
We've just moved, and I'm working on the backlog of laundry. The problem is that one of the hampers apparently was close to the oil furnace of the old house, and now the entire basket smells like oil. How do I get rid of the smell? [more inside]
Books about cultural construction of beauty?
Books about skin color and beauty standards across cultures? [more inside]
Help me improve my floor!
Can we paint our dull, lousy-looking laminated timber floors? [more inside]
How can I make my curly hair fabulous for cheap (and how do I embrace it)?
Hair Filter: Help a grad student living frugally to make her curly hair fabulous. Moral support for going curly would also be appreciated! [more inside]
How to get money back from WOW?
How should we handle our dispute with Wide Open West over a modem? [more inside]
Kid friendly OS - 2011
Does anyone have any experience with either Sugar or Qimo OS? Looking to build a computer for my 4 y.o. son. [more inside]
Burnt Out, Pissed. Would like to change that.
How can I be less of a jerk when I feel like the universe is lobbing lemons at my head? [more inside]
Laptop-to-projector cable headache
Not forever, just for now
I grown fond of a brand of apple whiskey that comes in these sturdy glass bottles (image), and now I have quite the collection of empty bottles. Right now, they're just sitting around my house making me look very much the alcoholic hoarder, but I can't bring myself to toss them, and I'd like to do something with them. Any ideas for some basic decor/crafty suggestions would be appreciated. [more inside]
quiet, polite, would like to not be murdered in our sleep
What online sources should I be checking to rent a room for a week, mid June, in San Francisco? [more inside]
Is this predatory lending? If so, what can I do about it?
Is this predatory lending? If so, what can I do about it? [more inside]
Help me not lose $200!
I am being cheated for $200! What can I do! [more inside]
City of Brotherly Tailor Recommendations? Eh?
PhiladelphiaFilter: Tell me about your excellent experiences with a tailor in Philadelphia. Bonus points for east of Broad Street in Center City. [more inside]
Inviting some but not all second cousins to our wedding?
Weddings: can we invite some of my second cousins without inviting them all? And how to minimize the fallout it we don't? [more inside]
Who repair computers and cellphones in South America?
Who are the After Market Services (AMS) providors in South America (esp. in Brazil), in Spain and Portugal, as well as in Italy? [more inside]
How do you beat Lucia on Wii Resort Table Tennis?
Is it possible to beat Lucia on Wii Resort Table Tennis? If so, how?? [more inside]
Who is this?
Who is this?
How do I search discussion pages on the Post-Dispatch website?
How can I search for a particular user's comments in response to articles on a particular newspaper's website? [more inside]
Trying to advise a friend on hospital discharge procedures
Asking for a friend re Northern California situation. A friend's close relation was struck by a car while walking in a crosswalk and was seriously injured. She has had several surgeries and will need several more. The family has a personal injury attorney for the claims against the driver. My question on behalf of my friend and her relation is about how to prevent the hospital from discharging her (seemingly) without an appropriate discharge plan. [more inside]
How do I stop my house from flooding?
Is there a way to prevent water flooding into the house as a result of heavy rain? [more inside]
Clothing for overweight men in the capital of Europe
Can anyone recommend some good, relatively cheap places for an overweight fellow to get clothing in Brussels? [more inside]
Bachelor party ideas for a groom with weird days off?
Bachelor party ideas for a groom with weird days off? [more inside]
Things that are more interesting than studying for the bar include:
I am interested in the problem of outing and coming out as it relates to mental illness. Can you point me to any good resources (books, articles, blog posts, anything) on this subject?
Writing a brief without cheating?
I am not (exactly) a lawyer. I need to write an appellate brief. Where can I find a hypothetical that doesn't come with answers? [more inside]
a rush of blood to the head
I've been getting lightheaded/dizzy a lot more easily lately. Is this A Thing? [more inside]
Questions about developing an online booking system for a directory site.
Howdy, We're in the early stages of developing an online directory site that will include online booking capabilities similar (if not exact) to something you might see on a vacation rental site. Due to my limited knowledge on the subject, I thought I might plead for some help answering a couple simple questions. [more inside]
What constitutes a legal 48 hour notice of entry?
WA state rental law question: What actually constitutes a legal 48 hour notice of entry? [more inside]
Help me buy Bulk Action Sports Goods
How do I find closeout sales on action sports goods or bulk buys of last seasons goods? [more inside]
If they can't forgive me my decision to pursue postgraduate education in the humanities...
Are BC and/or Canada Student Loans ever forgiven? [more inside]
Japanese WWII mystery balls on chains in pocket
My friend, Hilary asks, "Does anyone have any idea what these are? They were found, strung together like this, in the pocket of a Japanese soldier's overcoat during WWII. My Mother's friend worked for the Red Cross during the war, and found them, and they eventually came to me. I'm guessing they are coral....but what was their use?"
Brainstorm Me a New Trivia Event for My Meetup Group
My Meetup group has grown too large for our regular trivia night. Help me brainstorm ideas for a group of 10-15 people (sometimes more, sometimes less) to play trivia, drink beer, and socialize. [more inside]
GPS locations of famous photos
Is there a place online where I can look up GPS Coordinates of famous photos? For instance, if I want to find where Ansel Adams stood to photograph Half Dome, could I find this somewhere?
New, slow laptop is very disappointing...
It's taking my brand new Thinkpad a full two minutes to boot (and an additional 30 sec to get my browser open). What's up? [more inside]
What should we do/see in New Orleans?
My wife and I are traveling to New Orleans between June 14th and June 18th for our 1st anniversary. What should we do there? Relevant details: we're both vegetarian, both like jazz and beer and museums, I love funk music, she's into fancy cocktails and cool-looking old buildings. Neither of us have ever been before. Any recommendations for vegetarian restaurants would be especially appreciated.
What is the legal process for a non-US citizen protecting their copyright in the US?
What is the legal process for a non-US citizen protecting their copyright in the US? [more inside]
Replacing a gas furnace and adding AC to a forced air heating system
We have an oldish (~90 years or so) house with a gas furnace and forced air heating. We're thinking of replacing the furnace and adding an AC compressor for cooling. I'm looking for recommendations for specific furnaces and compressors (brands or models), especially ones that are long lasting and/or energy efficient. We'd also like to hear stories and or warnings about setting this up in an old house. [more inside]
How to divide up my new company?
I'm founding a startup! Yaaay! I have some friends who like my idea and want to help me. However, I have no money to pay them, so I'm guessing that I'll need to give them a piece of the action. I don't want to get screwed, but at the same time, I don't want to be perceived as a jerk. What is the most fair way to divide up the pie? What's the best way to approach this discussion without coming off as a jerk? [more inside]
OSX Startup Disc old computer transfers
Can i use the OSX startup disc option to 'move stuff from old computer' more than once? I want to put old imac and old laptop all on my new laptop. [more inside]
Please help us figure out an engineering quandry involving a compressor-and-tank system!
Can you help us analyze some of the thermodynamic and mechanical properties of a hypothetical compressor-and-tank system? Diagram and explanation provided. [more inside]
Rinsing my hair with beer?!
Give me your best homemade beauty concoctions! [more inside]
Why do rock bands like Oriental rugs so much?
Why do rock bands like Oriental rugs so much? [more inside]
Help me find an Aussie moving company's cat logo!
Aussie Filter! Looking for a picture of a particular Aussie/NZ moving company's Cat-arrific logo! [more inside]
Can I convert from coaster to hand brakes?
I love everything about my bike except the brakes. Can my bike, which used to have coaster brakes, be converted to have both front and back hand brakes? [more inside]
Music that goes BLEEP BLOOP FIZZZ HUSSSSSSSSSSHHHH BOOM in no discernible order?
I recently picked up Sam Prekop's latest album, Old Punch Card, expecting something at least akin to his previous solo albums and work in The Sea & Cake. Instead I got this, and this, and this—and it's blowing my mind. What else can you tell me about experimental electronica 'music' that goes BLEEP BLOOP FIZZZ HUSSSSSSSSSSHHHH BOOM in no discernible order?
Ethnic eats in London?
Good ethnic food in London. Tell me about it. [more inside]
PC exergames
Are there any PC exercise games besides Yourself!Fitness? [more inside]
Spoken of but never seen
On the TV show Fraiser Niles' wife Maris is referred to often but never seen. What other show have a character(s) that the never seen? On M*A*S*H the characters refer to family members back home. So they would not count as they are not local to the shows primary location.
No-brainer meal delivery in NJ
Recommended fresh/healthy/organic/diet meal delivery services in NJ? [more inside]
Getting the Lead Out
We just got back soil test results for our new garden, and the lead levels are unfortunately pretty high (around 800 ppm). Now what? [more inside]
Rogue Software Removal
My networked work PC was infected with what appears to be XP Shield. Questions about this specific piece of malware... [more inside]
No, I don't want to count red cars!
What games are good to keep kids occupied on a long car trip? Looking for ds, psp, cellphone games etc. [more inside]
What is the best way to automatically post blog updates to FB?
What is the best way to automatically post blog updates to FB? [more inside]
Recipes without dairy or meat
One of my coworkers lost his spouse this week, 24 hours after she gave birth to their baby. At work we created a sign up sheet for us each to bring food to him over the coming weeks/months. Today I found out that he's both lactose intolerant and vegetarian. Please give me your best recipes (for 4-6 servings and up) that fit this criteria. [more inside]
5th Time Around?
What are some songs that refer to other songs (that refer to other songs, too)? [more inside]
Looking for the right hotel in Hawaii
What's the best hotel in Hawaii for someone who loves old-school tiki bars? [more inside]
THIS SHOULD BE MUCH EASIER IN MY OPINION
I need to setup a default profile for all users in Windows 7. PLEASE HELP! [more inside]
Here's $5. Let me crash with you!
I love couchsurfing.org. What websites would you recommend where you can stay with people in their homes, in exchange for a little bit of money - specifically, for England, Scotland and Ireland? [more inside]
CBT in Philly
Cognitive behavioral therapy in Philly? [more inside]
Graduation gift for a math and geology nerd
I'm looking for a graduation gift for a math and geology nerd. My best friend just got dual bachelor's degrees. She's going to grad school for geophysics in the fall. I know approximately zero about her areas of study and would like to get her something nice. [more inside]
What songs mention being 23?
What are some songs that mention being 23? [more inside]
How to rent an apt with bad credit
Renting an apartment in LA with bad credit, possible? [more inside]
Should I get an MEd or just a certificate in Instructional Design?
InstructionalDesignFilter: Already have a master's in another discipline, do I need to get one in Instructional Design to qualify for positions, or would a certificate be enough? [more inside]
WRT54G2 Cisco Linksys wireless router randomly disconnecting clients. What should I do?
My wireless router is driving me insane. After trying everything I know (changing wireless channels, upgrading the firmware) should I just give up, throw money at the problem and upgrade to what seems to be the top of the line? [more inside]
Resursive five-paragraph essay
A friend is looking for a five-paragraph essay that instructs the reader on how to write a five-paragraph essay. My Google-fu has failed me in this self-referential task. Can you help? [more inside]
Cheaps trips across Eastern / Central Europe
How do I travel cheaply from Budapest, Hungary to Kaunas, Lithuania next month? [more inside]
Yummm
I have a pound of ground beef and a slow cooker... give me your best chili recipes! [more inside]
It's Memorial Day Weekend, it's supposed to be warm and sunny!!
I'm throwing a small outdoor party tomorrow (25 people) and now there's rain in the forecast. It being graduation season, I don't want to spend all day calling party stores to find someone who can still rent me a tent. So, will a pop-up canopy like this protect people from the rain or is it a waste of money? [more inside]
Is standing better than sitting?
How much better is standing than sitting when using computer? [more inside]
Canadian Employment...
How do people in Montreal and Toronto find work? [more inside]
Resources that analyze the various business models in practice?
Is there some kind of resource that provides a comprehensive analysis of established business models? [more inside]
How many people are flying at a given time?
How many people are in the air at a given time? [more inside]
Is Mediabistro worth it?
Have any MeFites signed up for Mediabistro or any similar service and if so, was it worth the sign up fee? How about the Mediabistro Marketplace -- has work actually found you through it? I'm not especially interested in their health insurance or classes; I'm purely looking for leads for freelance writing assignments. [more inside]
The Admiral Haddock Experience
I'm getting back into playing my electric guitar. Two questions: 1) how do I tell whether it's worth throwing money at the existing guitar vs. getting a new one (details inside, I'm in Boston); and 2) what's a good effects processor these days (details also inside). [more inside]
help find book of short stories
Help find me a Book of Short Stories that you could use as introductions for various talks/discussions/presentations... [more inside]
Name that algorithm
Do you know of a hashing or encryption function that produces results of varying length depending on the frequency of the input? [more inside]
What can the animals do for revolution?
Am I the only leftist that doesn't believe in the connection between social justice and animal rights? [more inside]
First stand up gig, what do I need to know?
I have my first stand up gig coming up (10 - 15 minutes) and wanted to know if anyone in the Green knew of any 'must read' articles, pages, books about the subject? I'm also interested in first hand experience stories. [more inside]
How to make a dry technical document great bed-time reading?
I'm looking for a creative writer to help me turn a dry, technical proposal into a compelling narrative and sales story. [more inside]
Displayport Shenanigans
Is it possible to daisy chain these dell display port hubs by getting three of them to run 6x monitors off a single macbook displayport. [more inside]
Our little slice of paradise
How can I search the entire U.S. for housing to meet our specific needs? [more inside]
May 25
Travel PHD candidate needs a room in Paris for the summer
Looking for a room in Paris for a PHD Candidate in Paris for June/July [more inside]
Camera buying advice needed
Looking to move up in the camera world. Help? [more inside]
Chicago/St. Louis Bound
Going to Chicago/St. Louis for the first time during the second week of June. Tell me the hot spots. [more inside]
Help me nail down a solution here...
There's a nail in my tire, what's the best course of action for the circumstances at hand? Quick responses welcomed. [more inside]
Mousetraps are working, so how do I get the smell of dead rodents out of my sink cabinet
Dead rodents in every mousetrap in an area with water damage = how to get the smell out? [more inside]
Books on the Siberian gulag, ca 1939?
What are the best English-language books about life in the Siberian gulag at the end of the 1930s?
How do I get rid of my sewing machine's stubborn case of thread monsters?
Sewing machine filter: I can't get rid of thread monsters and my bobbins aren't winding properly. Normal troubleshooting tips not working. [more inside]
What shall I read next?
I can't move on after this break up, and I'm beating myself up for every mistake I make. How do I stop?
Having trouble moving on after a murky break up, and berating myself for my mistakes. How do I move forward? [more inside]
What should I get my little brother for high school graduation?
What should I get my little brother for high school graduation? [more inside]
Investing in foreign markets, a good/bad idea?
What should I know about investing in foreign markets, especially with regard to risk? [more inside]
Help rescue my contacts!
Does anybody happen to have an LG Lotus phone for Sprint and a few minutes? [more inside]
How to be safe on open and WEP encrypted wireless networks?
There are several open and WEP encrypted networks around my apartment complex. A neighbor has allowed me access on their WEP network, but I'm worried about the security. Is there a way to make my web traffic safe? [more inside]
Will this roast be okay?
Please help me save this pot roast!
I have a grass fed chuck pot roast that was about 2.5 lbs that I put in the crock pot on low exactly 5 hours ago. I tried it right now and it seems tough. The internal temperature is 150 degrees. If it cooks longer will that break down the collagen and make it tender? Or is it ruined? Thank you!
Starving Medical Writer
Posting for a friend. Job-change-filter: currently I'm a Biology Research Associate working in a lab in a medium sized bio-tech company. This job has been fun while it lasted but I need to move on. Ideally I'd like to get into medical/science writing, but I have no experience in the field. [more inside]
Animated data visualization mapping over time.
What tools do I need to utilize to complete the following animated data visualization? [more inside]
What bird can I hear?
What is "get excited and make things" in Latin?
What is "get excited and make things" in Latin? [more inside]
Finding a cartoon from my dad's childhood
My dad is looking for the name of a cartoon and all he can remember is that a wolf or coyote is a schoolteacher. It may only be an episode of a series. The time frame for this would be US television up to and including the sixties.
I don't think it's the Roadrunner series, but I'm not sure.
Help me learn more about social media (prefer interactive contests/blogathons) and how I can learn more about the potential for small businesses that blog.
How can I learn more about social media (prefer interactive contests/blogathons) and how I can learn more about the potential for small businesses that blog? [more inside]
The Last of the Mohicans Adaptations
Which adaptation of The Last of the Mohicans is best? I see that there are many film and TV adaptations of the book, but which ones are worth watching?
Let (permanently) sleeping cats lie?
Dead cat in stream. Kids play in same stream a couple hundred meters downstream. Public health hazard? Should I remove the cat to keep kiddies safe from pathogens? If not, I'm perfectly content to let dead cats rot in peace.
Seaweed? More like PEE-weed!
I can't smell roasted seaweed, but my coworker says they stink. What's going on here? [more inside]
Image PDF with OCR - how, without Acrobat?
The full version of Adobe Acrobat has a way to OCR scanned images, so that the image is still viewed in the PDF, but you can search for text in the document. How do you do that without Acrobat? [more inside]
All's sub-par in love and war.
Why is fair considered to be lesser than good, very good or excellent? [more inside]
Who's That Girl...
Yet another WTF Mystery Photo! A friend of mine wants to know: "Anyone know where and when this picture was taken and who the girl is?" (I don't...)
Computer Says...
How accurate are instant assay machines for precious metals? [more inside]
How do I become a financial adult?
How can I become a financial adult? [more inside]
I love the East Coast; my feet do not.
When will my feet toughen up and stop hurting? [more inside]
I want the babe to be safe.
Neighbor behavior filter: I hear my neighbor's baby (definitely a baby) crying. I hear the sound of a man yelling things like "shut up" or "stop crying". And then I hear the sound of a smack. This makes me feel horrified. But is it any of my business to try to help? [more inside]
Looking for a book about what it's like to be paralyzed from the waist down in a wheelchair.
I'm looking for a book that will give me a full and complete sense (down to the nitty-gritty) of what it's like to be paralyzed from the waist down and to live life in a wheelchair. I've looked at some very clinical manuals that do explain things, but the wording is very dry. I'm looking for an account that is more personal. I'm hoping some of you could suggest some good ones you have read.
How do I get my laptop and my home wifi to play nice?
Wifi pitifully slow on my laptop at home, when laptop everywhere else is OK and other devices at home are OK. What do I do? [more inside]
Pants On Fire (Hopefully Soon)
Where can I get a detachable sheet-music holder for acoustic guitar, similar to the lyres used for instruments in marching bands? [more inside]
Reccommend a Montreal Cafe That Stays Open Late?
Recommendation for a cafe open late near Bishop Mountain Hall in Montreal? [more inside]
Adjusting colour saturation in OS X
Adjusting display colour saturation in OS X [more inside]
What kind of present can I get my coworker?
My coworker (and friend) just got an amazing new job, I'd like to get him a small gift... but what? [more inside]
Public Domain or CC-licensed safety videos?
I would like links to safety videos that are public domain and/or creative commons licensed. [more inside]
How soon is too soon to start feeling restless in relationship?
Should I be concerned that my SO is already scared of feeling "trapped" because of our long-term/forever potential after 2-3ish months of dating (and 7 of close friendship)? He mentioned noticing other women more than normal and equates it to feeling scared of eternal monogamy. Is this a giant red flag? Or am I picking a fight with someone willing to be honest with me about his feelings? Or both?
More details inside.
(anon because he and mutual friends are aware of MeFi handle) [more inside]
I know it's not like law and order, but it still sounds fun!
What is being an assistant district attorney like? How does it differ from civil litigation? [more inside]
Which Paris neighborhoods have the best graffiti?
Which Paris neighborhoods have the best graffiti? [more inside]
I want to be framed
OK. I may be totally misremembering this, but where did I see an online gallery of expandable frame graphics for web design? [more inside]
What is the law in Japan regarding seating a child at the front and a child at the rear of the bicycle?
What is the law in Japan regarding seating a child at the front and a child at the rear of the bicycle? [more inside]
What do you do with an hour of morning?
What is a productive way to spend the first hour after I wake up? [more inside]
Know a good resume writer?
I need some help writing my resume. Anyone know someone good? Someone who works by phone/email preferred, but in-person in NYC is ok too. I know I can search Craigslist, but I'd prefer a person recommendation. Thanks!
How do you budget for home improvements?
Are there budgeting rules of thumb for home maintenance and improvements? [more inside]
Website Design Help
I am looking to design a web site with shopping cart functionality and I have no real experience, but I know what looks good. Is there anyway to find out who designed a website like "Etsy.com" so that I may implement something similar? and is there a product I would purchase to do this Thanks for any help with this.
Spanish language Irish drinking song?
Spanish language Irish drinking song? [more inside]
What Big E-Readers You Have - Recommendations for Grandma
Please recommend a great simple e-reader for an extremely a-technical elderly non-computer user. [more inside]
Music inspired by the Beatles
Looking for similar Beatles-inspired groups [more inside]
Communication problems with my wife: cultural? Personality? Just Communication styles?
Communication problems with my wife: cultural? Personality? Just Communication styles? [more inside]
Should we buy the fire house?
Earlier this month, there was a fire in the house my boyfriend and I were renting. Basically the attic fan caused a fairly extensive fire which moved through the ducts and damaged the roof and ceiling. Not much damage was done to the ground floor, other than smoke and water. My boyfriend and I are now considering buying the house, and are looking for advice and experiences you might have for this situation. [more inside]
Keeping the identity of a secret admirer... secret
How anonymous is my anonymous gmail account? [more inside]
Point A (architect) to point B (working for Autodesk): what will it take?
I'm considering changing careers. Help me figure out a plan. [more inside]
Theme (for a) Song?
Please suggest a good Drupal 7 theme for a website with some pages of content, forums (fora?), and eventually e-commerce. Low budget. [more inside]
How do saltines taste 30 minutes after eating them?
What are saltines supposed to taste like if you eat them really slowly? I've been waiting for the answer for 18 years. [more inside]
here I go again on my own
Good place for a solo Big Sur getaway? [more inside]
Exe to avi or other video format?
Where can I find software that will convert a video in .exe into an actual video format like avi...etc? [more inside]
Netflix Playback
Why is Netflix playback on my computer choppy? [more inside]
What does "Sacredam!"mean?
I am reading "The call of the wild" and my question is ...about "sacredam"-----"Sacredam!" he cried,when his eyes lit upon Buck.---- When you native speakers hear this word,do you understand its meaning easily? I couldn't find it on any web dictionaries.Will it come from [sacred + damn] ? Could you give me more information about it?
Who coined the term "Red, white and blue"?
I'd like to know who or whom first coined the term "red, white and blue" and if there was a purposeful differentiation from "blue, red and white" or any other combination thereof other than linguistic value. [more inside]
How can Granny call my mom if she falls down?
Can anyone recommend a medicalert/panic button that allows you to program in family phone numbers, rather than calling 911 or the company that sold you the service/product? [more inside]
ugh, weeds
We have the holy trinity of major weed problems: Bermudagrass, Oxalis, Wild Blackberry. What should we do? [more inside]
I'm keeping these Windows closed, getting bars installed
I got a new Windows machine. It's been a while since I used Windows (never Windows 7). What do I, as someone paranoid about viruses and malware, need to download and set up in order to be 99.99% sure that nothing untoward happens to my machine? [more inside]
Where in California should we live?
Help me find the new hometown of my dreams: quiet-but-not-dull coastal northern California community with a slightly hippy-and/or-artsy vibe and awesome schools. Alternatively, convince me that my desires are self-contradictory and the place I'm looking for does not exist. [more inside]
Studying for the GRE
I once read an answer on AskMe where the respondent said their study guide was so good they felt like they were cheating on the GRE. I want that study guide! I can't find that question, but any recommendations on study guides, materials, preparing for the test or anything at all related would be greatly appreciated. [more inside]
Extranet-in-a-box
Any recommendations for an "extranet-in-a-box"? [more inside]
Crokinole board in Vancouver?
Where can I buy a Crokinole board in Vancouver, BC? [more inside]
Music for the soul
Recommend me your favorite danceable soul music! [more inside]
poster-sized printing in Frankfurt
Where could I get an A0-sized poster printed in Frankfurt? Problem: I don't speak German. [more inside]
Does University Philippines at Diliman offer organic chemistry lab?
Does University Philippines at Diliman offer Organic Chemistry Lab? [more inside]
Where do the gamers go to find love?
What is the best dating site for gamers? [more inside]
Mystery office plant
What is this mystery plant, and how can it be saved? [more inside]
Euro traveling in the US - cell phone options?
I'll be spending the month of June in the US. What are the options for short term mobile phone service? I gather that sim cards in the US are different from Europe & that I can't simply buy a local SIM card for my Euro phone. Please tell me if I'm wrong! Can I buy a cheap local phone and "pay as you go" credit?
How do I deal with a DNA bombshell?
Some heavy shit went down this week and I've become the unwilling party to a new family secret. I want to tell one or two trusted family members because it affects them to a lesser degree. Can people with calmer heads and more perspective help me sort through this and figure out the best line to take?
(Caution: longwinded) [more inside]
My fiancé refuses to let his parents help out with our wedding.
My fiancé refuses to let his parents help pay for our wedding. Should I say anything, or am I walking into a minefield? [more inside]
Help ease my post tonsillectomy pain!
Post-Tonsillectomy Question: Any tips on making swallowing liquids/solid foods easier, sooner? [more inside]
Announcing Your Dweeb Status at Ground Level
My new obsession is argyle socks. Please recommend places I can find quality argyle socks for men, suited to brown / tan slacks and jeans. $10 / pair or under preferred. Bold, bordering on obnoxious, colors get bonus points.
Full-colour business cards in Toronto?
Can anyone recommend a good place for full-colour business cards in Toronto? Ideally, I'd prefer some place that can work with a Photoshop .PSD file, but I can provide JPEG if necessary. Thanks!
Should I move to Memphis?
What is life likely to be like in Memphis for a left-wing, geeky Limey? [more inside]
Source a bafflingly eerie screencap?
Can anyone provide a source for this creepy screencap of two men dressed in formal white clothing preparing a child to present to a disembodied goat head lurking behind a plastic curtain?
What percent of Facebook profiles are public?
What percent of Facebook profiles are public? Trying to figure out why everyone talks about the danger of having your information visible online -- don't most people use privacy settings?
What are the films in Prime Minister David Cameron's dvd collection?
What are the films in Prime Minister David Cameron's dvd collection? [more inside]
Modern Mobile Homes
Looking for mobile (trailer) homes with modern design similar to the Tumbleweed Popomo? [more inside]
One + one = food
Cooking-for-a-date filter: cooking for one has made me lazy, and there's a good chance a date this weekend will involve some making of food at my place. Creative, easy-to-cook, impressive-tasting dishes please! [more inside]
Pitching for Rookies
I have the pitch for a freelance story idea, now how should I throw it? [more inside]
Give me the Humanities or give me Death! Counsel a Career Changer: What the hell is a liberal artist to do these days?
CareerChangeFilter: Lost generalist in a land of specialists. Editorial book publishing work solved the problem. (As an editorial specialist I could work on general-interest projects in a range of subject matter.) Then it became the problem. My wrists can't handle the tight deadlines and the industry's been a mess for years. I've got lots of skills and experience, but editorial is my only expertise, and it's just not transferring. I'm reaching a point where I don't even know what category to click on craigslist. So I'm depending on the wisdom of the Green. What jobs haven't I thought of? [more inside]
May 24
Are all hospitals like this?
How can I make the most of a loved one's unwanted hospital stay? I want him to get the best care possible, I want to avoid insurance conflicts, I want to support his recovery efforts, and I want to avoid going insane. [more inside]
analyzing debarge you wear it well guitar solo
Could someone explain to me what's happening in the guitar solo in "You Wear It Well" by DeBarge? [more inside]
A book about a smart ship doing a circuit of aging colonies
Looking for a forgotten Sci Fi book - a slower-than-light and sentient ship is running a circuit of human colonized worlds. It occasionally transports one or two people in cryosleep from their world to one of the next, generally as refugees. Over the thousands of years, the colonies have diverged in random directions and the ship is getting lonely. [more inside]
OS X - Sync my Music folder to my Sansa
How can I sync my Music folder (and other nonmusic stuff) on Mac OS X to my Sansa? [more inside]
Travel tips/hacks for long international flights to China?
Travel tips/hacks for long international flights to China? Travel pillow and video recorder recommendations? [more inside]
From Australia with Love
What cool, small, packable gifts should my boyfriend bring back from Australia? [more inside]
Why are my favorite bands suddenly breathing helium?
Why has this WinXP machine recently started to play Youtube videos back at roughly 10% faster than the proper speed? [more inside]
Please help me out of headphone obsession
I'm looking for the perfect closed headphones for under $100 that fold up for portability. I am currently trying out the Sony MDR-V6. I like the sound and they're comfortable enough (a little tight) and the size is right. The problem is the stupid coiled cable - it's driving me crazy. [more inside]
Help me find the software sequencer of my dreams.
What sequencer+daw on the Mac handles clips/phrases in a song as links back to a master instance of the clip, rather than as individual copies? [more inside]
I need help raising donations
Who can I ask for a fairly large donation for a "green" school project in Chicago? [more inside]
Chorizocracia?
What does the mocking expression "chorizocracia" mean in Castillian Spanish? I get the literal meaning: "Sausage-ocracy" but I think there's a slangy connotation that I, as a non-native, am missing here. What does the term "chorizo" imply in a political context? Thanks!
Electric pushbike options?
I'm considering going electric and purchasing this bike. It has pretty much everything that I'd want: pedal assist, throttle and go, extended range, nice suspension, it looks durable and it qualifies as a pushbike in Victoria Australia. [more inside]
Arms/sleeves vs. Legs/???
So if tattoos all over the arms are called sleeves, are tats all over your legs called stockings? socks? I'm serious. [more inside]
Replying to business referrals
A colleague has given me a business referral. How do I phrase this when I contact the person? [more inside]
Put my work up in ink.
Where can I sell my brilliant cartoon? [more inside]
Was it a hit and run, and do I report it?
Worth reporting a hit and run? Someone backed into my legally parked car even though they had a TON of room. i jumped out of the car but they ignored me and drove slowly away. [more inside]
What else can I do to prepare for the FSOT in June?
Do you have any tips in the final weeks of my FSOT prep? [more inside]
Audio hallucinations while smoking weed?
How concerned should I be about audio hallucinations while smoking weed? And who do I even ask about this? [more inside]
Graduate school woes.
Help me overcome my emotional immaturity which has crippled my academic course. [more inside]
Can I get a security clearance?
I'm thinking of applying for jobs that require a security clearance. I'm a US citizen. My wife is from a former Soviet country (not Russia), and her father was briefly in the KGB. Is this going to poison my chances of getting clearance? [more inside]
Really, Houston? REALLY???
Google transport and Houston's crappy metro map won't route me from Hobby airport to downtown. This can't be right. Can it? [more inside]
Many suits or just one?
How many bathing suits do you take on a trip? [more inside]
I Have a Tumblr Headache.
Is there a way to view my Tumblr favorites that's not tedious? [more inside]
Survivor Fan-sites?
Can anyone recommend some good Survivor (US TV Series) websites? [more inside]
Where did the band Jonezetta go?
Does anyone know the status of the band Jonezetta? [more inside]
Afghan rice recipe?
How do I clone my MacBook onto my Mac Mini?
How do I replicate my MacBook onto my Mac Mini? (I have a time capsule backup for the MacBook) [more inside]
Terrified new parents seek answers
Our little baby boy has been in the NICU for the past 8 days and should be released in a less than a week. He was born 6 weeks early and before we had bought anything (even a car seat) so we're rushing to prepare for his imminent arrival. We came up with a few questions while shopping for baby stuff... [more inside]
Alternate backup plan...
Is there a point where it makes more financial sense to backup home PCs to personal offsite storage (via FTP) instead of using something like Mozy, Backblaze, Crashplan, etc...? [more inside]
What do you think is the fairest way to handle rental applications?
What do you think is the fairest way to handle rental applications? First come, first serve, or best application wins? [more inside]
What should I do about this insensitive acquaintance from work?
What should I do about this insensitive acquaintance from work? [more inside]
Plunge boldly into the thick of life, and seize it where you will, it is always interesting. Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
How to make myself GREAT in 6 weeks? [more inside]
Epilator Recommendations
Can you recommend a rechargeable epilator? Also, any tips, warnings. etc. would be great [more inside]
How would I scrape a Google Doc into a webpage?
How would I pull in content from a Google Docs spreadsheet onto a web page? [more inside]
Learning to love Austin, TX
How do I learn to love where I live? (South Austin,TX) [more inside]
Best workflow for DVD to Premiere and Final Cut
I'm probably doing it wrong, but what is the best way to rip DVD's and DVCAM tape to use with Adobe Premiere and Final Cut Pro? [more inside]
What do I do in a group interview for a job?
How do I handle being in a group interview for a job tomorrow? I understand that more and more employers are interviewing this way lately, and I've never been interviewed for a job this way before. [more inside]
Amitiza heartburn, help!
Do you take Amitiza? Does it give you horrible heartburn 35ish minutes after every dose? How do you control that? Zyrtec and Tums aren't doing the job. [more inside]
Official translations involving Ukrainian, Czech and maybe English? In Los Angeles?
Translation services: How do I get a Ukrainian birth certificate officially translated into Czech(!) in Los Angeles? (Plan B: Get it officially translated into English, and then have the Czech embassy officially translate THAT into Czech) [more inside]
Make Way for Ducklings
Does anyone know where I can purchase duck/duckling statues in Boston? [more inside]
Name for a business
Me and a buddy of mine are starting a vending company in Texas...we are trying to come up a name for our business....please help!
Frankly, I'd rather life were more like Lucky Charms, but whatreyougonnado.
I would like to find more songs with lyrics that express life philosophies in terms of food. [more inside]
Help me expand my music collection by adding reggae.
What reggae would you recommend to someone who likes it but doesn't have much more than Bob Marley and The Wailers Live! in their collection. [more inside]
Misadventures in Renting
Security deposit ripped off by roommate [more inside]
summer reading 2011
Quick! I need the most entertaining, delicious, absorbing, and distracting list of summer reading ever. [more inside]
Future midwife needs help moving from Edmonton to Toronto!
I was recently accepted to Ryerson's midwifery education program, a lifelong dream of mine. However, now my partner and I are faced with planning a long distance move and feeling a little overwhelmed. Details inside. [more inside]
I've memorized Port and Starboard. What else do 2 cruise n00bs need to know?
The Lady and I are taking our first cruise this Sunday. Leaving New Orleans and heading to Belize, Roatan, Costa Maya and Cozumel. I've been to N.O. before, but neither of us have been any of the other places. Any pro-tips, suggestions or amusing anecdotes about any of those places? We really have no idea what to expect... [more inside]
Recommend a camping chair
Can you recommend a camping chair that is compact/collapsible, durable and comfortable? [more inside]
Ask.meta.angieslist: Caterers in Chicago
Chicago caterer? Nope, not for a wedding. Just a cocktail party not held at home. I've tried looking through the google (and reading the wedding boards anyway), but seriously, it's way too much information with no quality filter. Have you hired a local (to Chicago) caterer for a small event in the last year or so that you would recommend? [more inside]
Help me not be a nagging, obnoxious wife
How can I be less unreasonable about my husband's new life? [more inside]
As a community college transfer student, how can I position myself to get into the best liberal arts college possible?
What advice can you offer a community-college student who wants to maximize her chances of transferring into a top social-sciences program at a four-year school? [more inside]
Middle English Meaning of Chaumbir
In middle english, how is chaumbir translated? Is it a variation or inflected form of chaumber (meaning bedroom)?
Acrobat Plugin to open the Next/Previous File in a Folder?
Acrobat Plugin to open the Next/Previous File in a Folder? [more inside]
Tell Me About Awesome Hair Places
What is a great place to get a (lady) haircut in Pittsburgh? [more inside]
Restricting images of wounded and dying soldiers?
I have heard that during the past decade the US government began to restrict journalists from publishing images of wounded and dead soldiers, as well as coffins. The goal, arguably, is to both manipulate public perception of war and respect the privacy of soldiers. This is in contrast to the Vietnam era, when images of the dead and dying were commonly published. Are there any great websites or articles about this phenomenon? Are these restrictions still in place under the Obama administration?
Vacation in Milwaukee and Chicago
Planning a vacation in Milwaukee and Chicago over the memorial day weekend. Any advice on
- What to do/see ?
- Restaurant/Food options?
Thanks :-)
Cleaning the deck.
Can you give me advice on cleaning my deck? [more inside]
Best POS System for a bar that doesn't look TOO crappy?
Best POS System for a bar that doesn't look TOO crappy? [more inside]
Looking for fresh/new NYC Catering
Anyone know of a good upscale NYC catering company who can provide food and drink for corporate cocktail party this June for 150-200 people? I've used many of the larger, more established catering companies before, and am looking for something fresh and unique.
Dehumdifier water is basically distilled water, right?
Is water from my dehumidifier's collection tank safe for tadpoles to live in? [more inside]
In the middle of a divorce and my soon-to-be-ex just got canned. Now what happens?
I'm getting divorced and my soon-to-be-ex just got fired. Now what? [more inside]
How do I get over my ambivalance about relationships?
How do I get over my ambivalance about relationships or should I? Can I? [more inside]
Can I eat it? (I did.) Breakfast of expired ham and not green eggs.
Will I regret having eaten expired canadian bacon? What's the worst thing that could happen? I think I'm experiencing phantom food poisoning symptoms, help! [more inside]
Help me help a designer learn to program
What language / framework should a beginning coder use for a text-based game that will eventually be ported to twitter? [more inside]
Getting a celebrity to help our nonprofit?
How do we get a (music) celebrity to help promote an event in a YouTube-type video? Our community nonprofit is having a month-long event in June, and my daydream is to get some (recognizable) musician/band in a video that we could post on our very popular Facebook page. Ideally, he/she would say something like, "If I weren't on tour in [wherever] right now, I'd definitely be at [event name]! Don't miss it!" How do I even attempt this? I'm in a medium-sized city on the East Coast.
Help with Charlotte Mason educational philosophy.
Anyone have tips on interviewing at a Charlotte Mason-based school? [more inside]
I would feel rapturous if I could find this song
Name That Song Filter. Last Saturday on the Rapture that wasn't, I kept remembering a song that I heard waaaay back in my "growing up fundie" days that began, "It was in the nineteen-eighties/At the end of ages" and had a chorus that involved the words "And I saw another angel in the sky". This song (as the lyrics suggest) was probably recorded in the eighties, was performed by a female vocalist, was almost certainly a "Christian contemporary" category song, and seemed to be rapture-themed. It would make awesome mood music for the next scheduled rapture in October. Googling has availed me naught. Can anyone identify it?
Countdown to Completion App for iPhone
I'm looking for a countdown app for the iPhone that does NOT count down to a specific event, using dates. I need to complete 4000 (very small, identical) tasks and I'd like to be able to watch the number go down as I complete those tasks in batches. An app that can be shared with another person would be even better. [more inside]
How can I make my honeymoon in New England run smoothly?
My fiancée and I are hoping to spend a fortnight in New England for our honeymoon in October.
I'd love your advice on how to make our honeymoon run smoothly! [more inside]
operation (eventual) graduation
I already had employment lined up for after graduation, but I just discovered that I won't in fact be graduating this spring. Now what? [more inside]
Is "smart British guy" an accent?
Can't believe I'm using a question on this, but it's driving me mad...what accent is shared by David Mitchell and the character Maurice Moss on the IT Crowd (no idea if the actor actually shares this accent when not playing the role). Is it a regional accent, or just a peculiarly nasal way of speaking? Do Brits perceive them as having the same accent? Is it upper-class, nerdy, or what?
Google? Google?
Why does my "Favorites" bookmark for Google keep vanishing? [more inside]
He finally got his head examined
What's the magic word to get long-term depression and Parkinson's Disease accepted as Service Related for the purpose of securing a Veterans Administration pension for an 80-plus-year-old Korea Conflict veteran? [more inside]
Have found 'root' of my phobia, now how do I cure it?
I have found the root of (what is becoming a debilitating) phobia, now what do I do to get rid of phobia completely? [more inside]
May 23
Smelling like brisket forever doesn't seem like such a terrible fate either.
How do I get rid of the smell of liquid smoke on my skin? I rubbed beef for homemade beef jerky with liquid smoke using my fingers, and now my hand smells delectable. I can't stop salivating and I'm about to start gnawing on my phalanges. Help! [more inside]
Structuring your time before exams
I'd like some diverse ideas on how to "design" a study plan for final examinations. What works for you? What are your theories on the best way to study? (*example scenario inside) [more inside]
DEAFENING DRUMBEAT OF LOWERED EXPECTATIONS
Listening to NPR I heard them saying, a little too casually, that "Generation Y is preparing for a future without any Social Security benefits". REALLY?? I did _NOT_ get that memo. [more inside]
What's it like in Asheville, NC?
Convince me to move to Asheville, North Carolina -- or convince me not to. [more inside]
business voip phone services
I am looking for a good VOIP provider for a medium size business - any recommendations or experience to share? [more inside]
What do I call this living space?
What type of apartment is this? Studio? Bachelor Suite? Loft? [more inside]
How to be dominant in the bedroom?
How to be dominant in the bedroom? [NSFW] [more inside]
Ricami 101
If an embroidery technique like the one shown in this video can be done using a standard sewing machine, how? [more inside]
Entering Planet Room.
I'm getting tired of how my room currently looks. The walls cannot be painted. I want to pretty the room up with lights of various colors, patterns, and effects, so at night, when I enter my room, it feels like I'm entering a different space entirely. What ideas, suggestions, examples can you lend me? [more inside]
Masonry's Honourable Discharge
I've seen a few freemasons post on metafilter, I am a freemason, I think I want to quit. Trying to figure out if I can expect much backlash. Can anyone share experience? [more inside]
Strict Parents
My parents are unusual, and, by virtue of being their daughter, so am I. Some of their idiosyncrasies and ways of doing things I appreciate and employ myself; others have alienated my friends and boyfriends for as long as I can remember. Are these things really so bad? How can I explain to my friends that this is just how my parents are? [more inside]
What is so freaking funny about falling out of a pear tree?
I think one of my favorite movies has a double entendre in it. I don't speak German and the subtitles don't shed any light on the subject. [more inside]
Pimp my bath.
I want to take more long hot baths in the bathtub. How can I make this activity even more relaxing and indulgent? [more inside]
Is inflated fish safe to eat?
The fish I bought at the grocery store yesterday came out of the fridge with inflated plastic wrap. [more inside]
Just Call Me Swedish Chef
Cooks of Metafilter, can this dinner be saved? [more inside]
Jeepers Creepers, How to Shoot those Peepers?
How do I take closeup photographs of my daughters' beautiful eyes using my limited photography skills and mediocre lenses? [more inside]
How to make a small 720p movie?
I have edited my HD video in iMovie, and want to export it (as whatever file type) in 720p, but at a much smaller size than iMovie is putting out. Help me shrink this movie! [more inside]
How I can use different gyms without becoming a member?
I'm going to be on tour around the UK for two weeks, but I want to use the gym every other day, how can I do this without becoming a member of every gym I visit. [more inside]
Clariton D: Is the D for Devil or Damn Awesome?
Have you had side effects from Clariton-D? I feel more energized, more focused, no brain-fog, and less appetite. I love it, but I am afraid it is way hard on my body. [more inside]
Decipher handwritten German letter?
Germanfilter: Can someone help me translate this German handwritten letter? [more inside]
How old were you when you got bifocals?
1. How old were you when you got bifocal lenses? 2. How difficult was it to adjust to them, particularly if you got contact lenses? 3. How many different pairs or combinations of lenses did you have to try before finding something that worked? 4. Are there new options in recent years that a near-sighted person with worsening close-up vision should know about? Thanks for helping me go to my eye doctor with good questions ready.
I need shoes for my feet
How do I find professional shoes that don't give me big bleeding friction wounds or crush my toes so they can't function AND are cute? [more inside]
Children's books about siblings who get along
Books for children about nice big siblings? [more inside]
Asbestos siding: dangerous?
Asbestos siding on our rental: dangerous? [more inside]
If this isn't salt, what the hell is it?
If this isn't salt, what the hell is it? (photo inside) [more inside]
Keeping track of payments?
Need ideas on how to keep track of people making multiple payments for large trips or activities, with the ability to report how much they still owe. Much more detail inside. [more inside]
Please help me ID this song from the Body of Lies episode "Buried Secrets"
Can anyone identify the song in the very beginning of the Body of Proof episode "Buried Secrets"? [more inside]
My worst fear is to have somebody fall asleep on me -- hey, are you awake?
What to do about my therapist falling asleep during our sessions. [more inside]
Eat chili when it's chilly... right?
Yes, I'm a little ashamed. Yes, it's a can-we-eat-this question. This time: vegetarian chili left in a slow cooker. [more inside]
Why did the denialist cross the road? It was just a natural cycle.
I need some help cracking jokes about climate change denialists. [more inside]
And the home computer has me on the run.
Are my odds of working in a technical field substantially lower because I don't "buy into" the lifestyle? [more inside]
Obstacle course training help.
Okay, so when I turned 40 last year I wasn't super-psyched about the direction my body was going. I started exercising a bit, and this year decided to set a goal. I decided to do this stupid "Warrior Dash" thing. Possibly because it looked more fun than a standard race, possibly because I'm an idiot. [more inside]
Show me the money, or help me to say no.
My boss wants to fly me from Sydney to Perth to assist in training new employees. Should I ask "What's in it for me?" [more inside]
Like the Goodyear blimp. Only for everything.
IF, tomorrow, the world switched to blimps from jets for all but emergency travel, how much fuel would we save? [more inside]
Proper technique for mechanical keyboard typing?
Mechanical keyboard aficionados say that ideally you should type without "bottoming out" the keys. What are the benefits of this technique, and how do I learn it? [more inside]
Diversity song
Does anyone know the name of this music video that was very popular in Turkey the last few months: the artist is a woman singing in Hindi (I think); the song is about 'different colors' (we are all different) and has diverse characters - with a lot of diverse styles. It is a real catchy song and a the video is full of beautiful colors.
Will my mental health treatment preclude me from future insurance coverage?
I don't currently have health insurance but might be seeking prescription help for depression from a GP, which I will pay out of pocket. Might this preclude me from health insurance coverage at a later date? [more inside]
Blub, you lose!
What has helped you take criticism better, and avoid losing your nerve when you feel that your work is being evaluated? [more inside]
Name that shower part
What would you call this particular part of a shower? [more inside]
"Only for those with the eyes to see..."
What are some performances, tasks, or other skills where the really difficult, impressive parts actually look quite unassuming and may need a trained eye to appreciate? I'm not talking about "Oh, he makes it look easy/effortless" but rather watching something and then finding out afterward that you were looking at completely the wrong thing. E.g., in Rothfuss's "Name of the Wind," the protagonist snaps a lute string during an important audition and finishes anyway by re-arranging the rest of the song to use only his remaining strings. Half the audience thinks he passes the audition because he played a beautiful and difficult song, but the musicians in the crowd know it's because he improvised the end to a difficult song on a damaged instrument.
Summer Music Pop Extragavanza.
I'm looking to expand my "happy music" collection for summer. I'm thinking pop music that is fun to sing along to and scream that is catchy as hell. Suggestions? [more inside]
Slower on a treadmill?
I have just begun running on a treadmill with some regularity. I've been running in general for about 3 years. Why is my treadmill experience the opposite of what I had expected? [more inside]
Mosquito Control
Mosquito treatment: just how evil is it? How well will it work? [more inside]
Is this bush dying?
What is wrong with this bush? If it is dying, how can I save it? [more inside]
The scourge of housemaid's knee
When a cancer diagnosis hits close to home, how do you avoid hypochondria yourself? [more inside]
Previous file versions from a previous OS
Windows 7 has been installed over Windows XP and I need access to some files from the old OS, but there are some serious permission issues. [more inside]
Sshhh!!!
Looking for conflict-, cruelty-, blood-, ecocide-free engagement rings in central NJ. [more inside]
1949, 1967, etc
Contemporary Israeli politics. Israel and Palestine. Point me to good resources. [more inside]
NYC is full of starving artists, surely someone will want to play our wedding?
We need to hire an affordable NYC musician to play at our wedding. Ideally it would be a banjo player but I will settle for something traditional like a violinist. We're on a shoestring budget. DJ recommendations are fine, too. [more inside]
in the day we sweat it out on the streets of a runaway american dream
[RunningFilter] some new runner questions, mostly regarding shoes. [more inside]
Sugar Babies Dog act
There was a vaudeville dog act in the Broadway play "Sugar Babies" that I saw back about 1980. It was a comedian with a bassett hound. Does anyone remember who it was? Or a youtube link?
What are some elegant guest entrance songs?
I am looking for a classical or instrumental song for our DJ to play while our wedding guests are being seated at our reception. What are your recommendations? [more inside]
Best Volcanic Tweets
What are the best Twitterfeeds for air disruptions out of Dublin, Ireland, 26th May? [more inside]
Turning to a sleep center/clinic out of desperation, where should I go, what should I know/ask for? Have I always been sleep deprived and didn't know it?
Turning to a sleep center/clinic out of desperation, where should I go, what should I know/ask for? Have I always been sleep deprived and didn't know it? [more inside]
Where was this photo of a castle on a cliff taken?
Tumblr attributions just lead me down a rabbit hole. Does anyone know where this photo was taken?
Moving to Denver? Maybe?
Mr. Anonnymoose and I need your insider opinions of the city of Denver. [more inside]
Make the itching stoppp
Any last-ditch yeast infection treatments that worked for you? Also, has anyone experienced persistent recurring yeast infections on Synthroid or other replacement thyroid hormones? [more inside]
A world in perpetual twilight?
If an exoplanet had a light side and a dark side (like Earth's moon, slowly spinning in orbit to keep one face towards earth), might life evolve around the penumbra? [more inside]
Is there a Mac App that allows you to create easily sharable digital art boards?
I work with a lot of teams who do concept development stuff for the web and for general interactive design. I'm always having to find visual references for our discussions and our present system of sharing is clunky and requires us to print stuff out all the time so that we can talk about stuff we like or don't like. This is pretty crazily wasteful as well as the fact that trying to convince graphic designers to get enthusiastic about a reference when they can't help fixating on the icky presentation format is getting annoying.
So, is there an easy and really nice looking app or programme for the Mac that allows you to save and illustrate pictures, web pages, articles and video in a browsable way? Ideally it would be something that was ipad compatible, if only because then it will have to be easily browsable in a visually attractive way. It would also be awesome if it allowed you to collaborate, so we could all contribute to a single place that would be awesome.
Source for Lemforder Parts
Where in the US can I buy Lemforder Part # 29783-01? [more inside]
iPad Photo Tagging
Is there an app that will let me tag photos on an iPad? [more inside]
Help me find this observation tower with see through floor!
I'm looking for an observation tower on the top of a mountain or high area (not a skyscraper) that has/had a clear panelled floor in one small part of the walkway that let you see the valley floor below. No it was not the one at the Grand Canyon! [more inside]
Percussive Videos Anyone? Anyone?
Percussive Videos Anyone? Anyone? [more inside]
I'm starting to think it is me
A few weeks ago, I put into my new Macbook Pro (2.3 i5) 8GB 1333Mhz DDR3 RAM in it from Crucial. The result was Kernel Panics and unstable applications. I reinstalled the (4GB) Apple RAM, and the problem went away. Crucial sent me replacement memory, I installed it, and guess what? [more inside]
Can I be sued for defamation in a vague anonymous comment?
Can I be sued for defamation if, in an anonymous comment, I specify that "...maybe I'm making this up," and post a reply underneath explicitly stating that the comments were not to be taken literally? [more inside]
non-parent traveling with infant internationally
How to fly internationally with an infant that is not your own? My nanny and infant will travel from Paris to Italy and meet us there. Does anyone have experience with this? I don't want to put her in a difficult position with customs. [more inside]
How highly should I value my management experience?
I have a new job offer with a company that will pay a bit better than I manage now. The new company is likely to be a better working environment as well. However, the new job would be a step down from a manager/supervisor role into more of a coordinator role.
How highly should I esteem my current manager title/responsibilities? Enough to reconsider a move to a role that feels like a better fit in most other ways? [more inside]
Required to tape all cell/mobile calls. How?
My firm needs to tape and retain all mobile calls to be inlinewith FSA regulations from November 2011. What to do? Solutions? [more inside]
Weight and fat gain coming off Mercilon - need help sorting this out!
Been on Mercilon contraceptive pill for years. Have come off and almost immediately gained 2 kg (in 3 weeks) and when I weigh on my fat measuring scales my fat content has shot up. a) has anyone else had this on this particular Pill, b) do I have to work on the weight gain like you normall would (limit calories in, maximise calories out) or will it balance on its own. I was on a blood pressure pill while on the pill, thought it was that that was taking advantage of increasing my weight (my usual side effect on bp meds) so came off that and bp is fine. But weight still going up.
Have seen this http://ask.metafilter.com/74594/How-long-does-it-take-for-the-hormones-to-leave-my-system but is not specific about this pill / how to get the weight off / the fat thing.
Anonymous as a bit personal for me! [more inside]
Shimano derailleur is derailing me all right...
Help a cycling newbie's bike love her as much as she loves it! I think I have a problem with my Shimano derailleur. [more inside]
Life is pain, Highness. Anyone who says differently is selling something.
How can I cope emotionally/psychologically with chronic physical pain? [more inside]
Can a US citizen retire to Canada?
The earliest I could possibly retire is about 15 years away and I've been thinking about retiring in Canada somewhere. The catch: I'm a US citizen and I don't currently live or work in Canada. Am I kidding myself? [more inside]
How do I locate recordings of a CBC radio program from the early 1980s?
How do I locate recordings of a CBC radio program from the early 1980s? [more inside]
Italian classes in NYC
Looking for recommendations for a class in Italian in NYC. [more inside]
When to send wedding invitations?
When should we send out invitations to our wedding? [more inside]
ID for evolution-themed '80s board game
Half-remembered board game ID question: In the mid-'90s, my family was visiting some friends who owned a strange board game involving evolution, species, a hexagonal grid, and lots and lots of dice. What was it? [more inside]
Best process for building a website displaying multiple live video streams?
Best process for building a website displaying multiple live video streams? [more inside]
please help balance & broaden my veggie teen's diet
VegetarianDietFilter: Please help me stock my fridge with pre-cooked and/or raw meals and meal components for a vegetarian trying to kick processed/junk foods ... and who doesn't like tofu, seitan, or hummus. [more inside]
Awesome board games for sale in New York City
Where can I find board games for sale in New York City that, in addition to being tons of fun, could be considered vintage, collectible, obscure, quirky, what have you. [more inside]
Moving House And Kids
Tips on moving! Have you moved across country / to a different country? With a wife and two kids? How did you organize it? I am looking for specific things that we need to add to our checklist / to-do list. Are there any good checklists out there already? We will need to line up housing. What did you forget about? What did you do that you shouldn't have done. How do you line up housing when your thousands of miles away. Specific packing / organization tips? I would like to prevent this move from becoming stressful. Please help our family move with the least amount of pain. Moving to Austin Texas if it matters.
Norwegian oil company subjected to US law?
In 2006, Norwegian petroleum company Statoil was ordered by a US court to pay $21M in fines for breaking the Foreign Corrupt Practices Act when paying bribes to an Iranian public servant.
While Statoil's primary listing is with the Oslo stock exchange, it is also listed with the NYSE. To what extent is Statoil's activities outside of the US subjected to US law?
Sentimental baggage - literally
How do you beat clutter if said clutter is sentimental? What methods do you use for evaluating sentimental objects or souvenirs? [more inside]
Where's my money?
I transferred a lot of savings into an ISA. They've gone out of my current account, but not into the ISA. How worried should I be? [more inside]
examples of song lyrics used in visual artworks?
Trying to find examples of musical lyrics being used in visual artworks (painting, print, film, etc). [more inside]
Which standard to use for scheduling pelvic exams?
Pelvic exam every 6 months or every year, that is the question. [more inside]
What's going on in San Francisco over the 4th of July?
Some colleagues and I are staying in San Francisco over 4th of July before a conference in Stanford. What's the best area (or hotel) to stay in for street parties, fireworks and All-American fun? We're Irish and Italians.
So I'm new to this whole "work" thing...
When obtaining a letter of recommendation, is it best to go for rank or intimacy? [more inside]
Press A to RAWR, press B to stomp
What are some fun videogames where you play as a dinosaur? [more inside]
Question about the ethical, logistical, and medical implication of having a cat neutered that doesn’t belong to you.
Question about the ethical, logistical, and medical implication of having a cat neutered that doesn’t belong to you. [more inside]
Why do I like it when I'm sad?
Why do I sometimes gravitate, intentionally, towards sadness or depressing things? [more inside]
Twitter ranking for beginners
Help me rank Twitter users fast. [more inside]
Xylophone in How Soon is Now?
I'm doing a song analysis on this awesome song, but I can't nail down one of the instruments.
It appears around 3:15 into the song, and also at the end.
I'm figuring its either a xylophone or a synth. Anyone care to shed some light (that will never go out)
May 22
How do you phrase a dedication in Russian?
How do you phrase a dedication in Russian? [more inside]
18-year-old going to NYU, moving from California
My sister is going to NYU in the fall, moving from California. What does she need to know/bring/have? [more inside]
Line-by-line document merge
Is there any way to merge two Microsoft Word documents containing the same content in different languages so that one line of content from one document immediately follows the same respective line in the other? This is for subtitle translation, and I'll work with any word editor that can read .doc documents. [more inside]
BA in Bio or Environmental Science?
Second BA: Biology vs. Environmental Science? [more inside]
Female multi-vitamin?
Looking for a female multi-vitamin? [more inside]
How do I get figure wrapping and captions to behave the way I want them to in Latex?
So I'm writing a proposal in a mock NRSA (NIH) grant format and I used a Latex template I found here. But for some reason, my figures are now not getting wrapped by text, and the figure captions extend well beyond the figure width on either side. What to do? [more inside]
why do my hands smell like garbage?
Why do my hands smell like a combination of garbage, taco bell, and sulfur? [more inside]
What's fun to do in Madison?
What are some fun things to do in Madison, Wisconsin? [more inside]
Things to do in Dallas when you are baby free for an evening
My wife and I will have an evening of baby free time in Dallas, what are some things we can do (other than just a fancy dinner) that takes advantage of this opportunity we haven't had in over 7 months? [more inside]
You can lead a dog to potty but you can't make him ring ...
Ideas on how to get our dog over this training hump? [more inside]
Writing sample in unrelated field for job application?
How should I approach submitting a writing sample for a job when I don't have any related writing in the field? [more inside]
Runner's... low?
Why does exercising make me sad? [more inside]
Gonna Lose Weight in a Healthy Way . . . For Real This Time
Recovered bulimic/anorexic trying to lose weight in a healthy way -- any Mefites been there, done that? [more inside]
Negotiate with collection agency?
Negotiating with Collection Agency [more inside]
Nontraditional wedding venue users: How did you find your venue? Bonus points if it was in St. Louis
What are some off the beaten path wedding venues in the St. Louis Missouri region? [more inside]
Put it on your tab.
How can I make money (or at least get my tab paid for) organizing outings and events at different local bars, restaurants, theaters, etc? [more inside]
Garden paradise in my apartment?!
How to circumvent going to the doctor
Can you really order prescription drugs online without a prescription (in the USA)? [more inside]
Plastic in food, what now?
Found piece of plastic inside burrito at restaurant. What is appropriate to demand from waiter? [more inside]
DNSSEC delegation via Network Solutions
DNSSEC delegation via Network Solutions: is it possible? How about other registrars? [more inside]
Blogger and Privacy
Say I use my Google account to identify myself when posting on Blogger. Can the person running the blog see my e-mail address or other details?
Railway time, but not a timetable.
Help me find a book about railways! [more inside]
Early admission to Cambridge when you're not the Prime Minister's son: how was it done?
For a book, I'm looking for descriptions of historical admission/matriculation procedures for a young man wanting to enroll himself at an English university. An 18th century source relating to Cambridge would be perfect, but anything that describes how things were handled 100+ years ago would be helpful. I'm having difficulty finding pre-Victorian information. [more inside]
Left detergent in a hot car, still good?
'Should I eat it?'-but-with-soap-filter: I left my Tide Free and Clear Coldwater liquid detergent out in the car for a day or two when it got hot. Now it smells just ever so slightly off- kinda winey/fermented. WTF, and will it still clean my clothes? [more inside]
Overgrown azalea...
[AzaleaFilter]We have a beautiful azalea plant in front of our front porch. It has amazing blossoms for about two weeks, which have now all fallen off. Best way to prune this bush (special snowflake details inside)... [more inside]
Free Mac OCR/E-book software/toolchain
How can I get from paper to e-books for free on a Mac? [more inside]
Help me to find a dress like this!
Heay baby, wanna 86?
Why do some Victoria's Secret panties have an 86 on the butt? [more inside]
What should I see between Chicago and Toronto?
I'm going on a road trip next weekend from Chicago to Toronto. What cool things should see on the way there/back?
What platform to use for high-traffic online store with contests, forums and social components?
I'm setting up a website which must include a strong social component. Users will share and modify designs and there will be contests voted on by users, a forum, and a store. I would like this to be able to handle high volumes of traffic, and I'd like it to be built on a flexible platform. What platforms should I consider, and where should I look for developers?
Small itchy bumps on arms caused by being in Florida?
Small itchy bumps on arms caused by being in Florida? [more inside]
Camping Equipment Recommendations?
Please recommend three items of camping gear: A light weight compactable sleeping bag for a man 6'-2"/200 lb, a Thermarest for packing, and a head lamp. I'll be traveling 370 miles down the Connecticut river in my Adirondack guideboat.
What jobs do I put on my FASFA?
I left off a job on my taxes when I claimed this year, and now I'm filing a FAFSA. What do I put on my FAFSA? Only the job I claimed, or both? If it matters, the job I left off I only worked at for a few weeks, but I feel like that doesn't matter to the government.
Not about the sandwiches, this time
Question about the Swedish surname Ander, inspired by the Henning Mankell novel The Fifth Woman (spoilers, I guess for those who really care about these kinds of things, but not really) [more inside]
office plant identification
could you help me identify these two species of plants I picked up? they were sold to me as hardy office plants: image. That’s an indoor bamboo on the top left but there’s two of the same species on the bottom left that I’d like to identify, and one on the bottom right. Thanks! [more inside]
Can you help me find this article?
Last year I read an article online - I think in one of the quality US dailies - about how a significant number of babies die each year by being accidentally left in the back seat of cars while their parents ran errands. The point was that people are capable of remarkable, unintentional absentmindedness.
Google has failed me in my attempts to find it - does anyone recall it/have a link?
Just Chill Music
What is your favorite cool and relaxing music? [more inside]
Yoga, what is it good for?
How much do yoga and meditation help for anxiety? Is it time for more serious help or is this worth a shot? [more inside]
Is my furnace air return efficient?
In the name of frugality, is this air return on my furnace efficient, or should I cut out the wood and replace with something allowing more air flow? ~650 sq. ft. 2 floor apartment (built ca. 1920s). [more inside]
New music release days
New music is released on Tuesdays in the US (previously). However, multiple new CDs are being released tomorrow, the 23rd, which is a Monday. Why? [more inside]
I tell you, back in 1995, they knew HOW to teach ENGL 101.
So am I going to have to start college over, or what? [more inside]
Is it worth it to travel for a job search?
Is it worth it for me to travel to try to get a job in another area? [more inside]
Temporary storage for stuff before moving to London
Moving out of the UK in a week to travel abroad. Will move back to London in September. Where to keep stuff throughout this period? [more inside]
Verizon DSL speeds
What effects the Verizon DSL speed I can get at my home? [more inside]
Guilt and shame
Could someone give me good, colloquial definitions of guilt, shame, and the difference between them? Or maybe I'm looking for another word... [more inside]
Trying to avoid tourist trap beans in Costa Rica
Where in Costa Rica do we buy great coffee beans? [more inside]
Are Ants Cherry Farmers?
Help me learn Khmer/Cambodia
Language filter: What's the best way for me to learn Khmer/Cambodia? [more inside]
Pros and cons of dropping my last name?
I'm considering going by First Middle, and dropping my uncommon three-syllable Irish-ish Last name – a move that is significantly less common than going by Middle Last, or the like. What benefits and downsides might come up? [more inside]
More Security Deposit Drama
I am subletting a room in a four bedroom apartment from a person I met on craigslist. This person moved out/I moved in in March. He's still on the lease and I am also on the lease. Please help me understand how my landlord is handling our security deposits. [more inside]
Changing timestamps on an audio file
Is it possible to change the timecode on an audio file? [more inside]
To 3G or not to 3G
Buying a Kindle as a gift for a new high school grad going on to college (Yale). To 3G or not to 3G? I would imagine that on campus WiFi is ubiquitous, and so 3G isn't required? Personally, I love my WiFi-only Kindle, but I'm a techy who swims in WiFi waves 24/7. This grad is a non-techy classics major.
Moscow restaurants
My wife and I will be in Moscow in the latter part of June and would like to learn of some reasonably priced restaurants from some of you who might be living there now or who might have visited there recently. We’re willing to consider most cuisines. Thanks in advance.
What to do in Serbia?
In a screwed up vacation, I am going to Serbia for 7 days, mainly Belgrade from the 4-11 of June. Please give me some advice? I am staying at a hotel. I will have about $1000. I am thinking I want to do some hiking in the wine country...
Mig langar að fljúga.
What are the odds that yesterday's volcano eruption in Reykyavik has nixed my Iceland Air flight 6 days from now? [more inside]
How do I clean the inside sweatband of a Panama hat?
I have a real straw, made-in-Ecuador Panama hat. It's not stupidly expensive but it's nice enough. It has a cloth sweat band that, after a few months of wear in a tropical climate, has an awful sour smell. How do I best clean it? [more inside]
Ovarian Cyst Woes
Female help, please. Ruptured ovarian cyst almost two weeks ago.... now having pelvic pain specifically early in the morning. Not pregnant. Was put on Nuvaring. [more inside]
What's the best on the market today?
Recommendations for a great portable music player that supports wma lossless files (ie: not an Ipod)? [more inside]
National Lampoons European Vacation
European Vacation! Zurich, Neuschwanstein, Innsbruck, Salzburg, Graz, Ljubanja, Bled, Trieste, Venice. Then Stockholm, Roslagen! [more inside]
Is the CFA worth the bother?
Is the CFA actually worth the time, money and effort? [more inside]
Help me fix my hard drive.
My LaCie brand external hard drive is in the process of failing. It's making clicking sounds, it's slowed down considerably, and I think the head is failing. It contains a film project we've worked extremely hard on, and it's important to me that we save the data. [more inside]
May 21
Meeting a celebrity?
As some might know, Lady GaGa is going to be at the Union Square Best Buy from 9-11pm signing autographs. I have finals until 7pm. Is there a way that I can somehow get an autograph? The first 450 people to be there that have bought the "Born This Way" album and get a T-Mobile upgrade check... just a check, not an actual upgrade... get a bracelet that let's you get an autograph. Is there any possible way that I can somehow get to meet GaGa at the least and get an autograph signed at the most? [more inside]
Bring me your short rib wisdom!
What do I do with beef short ribs? [more inside]
Making a buck on the road
What is a good way to make money while completely homeless? [more inside]
I need help on how to make my car gloss,chrome,shine
I need help on detailing my car externally. Problem is, I don't know how to make it Gloss or Chrome [more inside]
Trailer drivin'
What are your tips for driving with a trailer for (relatively) long distances? Plus other ID-to-CA driving questions inside. [more inside]
I don't even care if this ends with getting a third cat, I just want him to stop crying
HELP! There's a cat under my mobile home that's been crying for 24 hours. It's up in the insulation or ducts. What do I do? [more inside]
Visiting and then (maybe) living in Singapore
My husband and I have been long pondering our next move as a family, whether to move overseas or not. Today Singapore came up and surprisingly enough the idea is quite appealing - I hadn't even considered moving to Asia. So we're going on a fact-finding mission in July with the kids. There are a few things I'd like to try to work out in advance though... [more inside]
Music + Technology
What career paths fit my interests? Music + Technology [more inside]
Anything as good as Tiesto's remixes?
Can anyone recommend some tunes as uplifting as Tiesto's remix of "I will be here" ? [more inside]
Help, these bugs are eating my coffee plant!
I just noticed these bugs are eating the leaves on my coffee plant (Coffea Arabica), does anyone have any idea on what they are and how to get rid of them? Pics inside. [more inside]
$0 recording studio
Help me construct a computer-based hip-hop production studio for $0. [more inside]
Windows open or shut at night?
He wants the windows closed at night, I want them open. Halp. [more inside]
Gotta make my mind up: which slip-ons should I buy?
I'm tired of my shoes wearing out every six months. Are Vans slip-ons worth the extra cost vs. Payless Airwalk? Is there a cheap, durable alternative that I haven't considered? [more inside]
Need new HR monitor
My Polar S610i heart rate monitor just died. I loved the download and graphing capabilities it had. Unfortunately, I do not like the polarpersonaltrainer.com website that the newer Polars download to. There's minimal graphing capability and I'd prefer to keep the data on my own PC.
I do not need GPS, temperature or altitude. I just need HR min/max, average and a nice visual representation of the workout. I'd also prefer not to spend more than $150-200.
Any suggestions?
I feel you, bro. I feel you.
Recommendations of anime with identifiable/relatable characters? [more inside]
Help me ID this New Yorker poem.
Trying to find a poem I read in the New Yorker 2-4 years ago -- using only one phrase and one image... help! [more inside]
How to save a dying thai paper plant?
How do I tell if my pepper plant is dying, or can be saved? [more inside]
Whaddya mean, I can't take my cat to Turkey?
So, I'm almost 90% sure that I'd like to go teach over in Turkey. I've applied for a passport, I'm looking for jobs, I have friends over there looking for jobs for me, and now all I have to do is finish this last semester of my Master's in English...
Wait a minute, what do they mean, I shouldn't bring my cat? [more inside]
Google Voice on iphone
Google Voice on iphone? How well does it work for you? [more inside]
What two additional European cities should I visit while overseas in Thessaloniki, Greece?
What 2 major European cities - that are relatively close to Thessaloniki, Greece - should I visit for a week? [more inside]
Can I preemptively treat poison ivy exposure?
Can I preemptively treat poison ivy exposure? [more inside]
Public Humiliation in the Internet Age
Recovering from scandals and public humiliation in the media... examples and how-tos [more inside]
How do I get back behind the wheel?
How do I get back on the road after a car crash? [more inside]
Help identify this chair
What life changing events are predicted or will happen in the future?
So disappointed with the Rapture. What real, life changing events are scheduled or predicted that I can add to my calendar? [more inside]
How to Drink in Davenport
I know virtually nothing of bars. How do I know which bar to visit that would be a good fit for me? [more inside]
Letter Frequency: Which Letters for Which Letters?
I would like to know how often one letter is followed by all the other letters. For example: A is followed by R 20% of the time, while A is followed by Q only .1% of the time. [more inside]
If I can't think of a dance group name, why would I be able to pick a clever title???
Askme has named cats and dogs galore... but can you help name a group of belly-dancers? [more inside]
Short term housing in Detroit / Hamtramck
Suggestions for finding affordable, short term (2 months) housing in the Detroit / Hamtramck area for 8 adults? [more inside]
paypal chargeback without hurting seller?
How can I do a chargeback to paypal from my amex for an ebay auction without screwing the seller? [more inside]
Does jelqing work?
Does jelqing work? [more inside]
How do I get from Vancouver, BC, to San Francisco, CA, without flying?
How do I get from Vancouver, BC, to San Francisco, CA, without flying? [more inside]
Cedar deck preservatiion
I have 6 year old cedar deck by the ocean that is aging quicker than expected, I have power washed and coated it twice with Benjamin Moore transparent deck stain. It's decaying, and the stain is not penetrating and peeling. Any ideas?
Lien on me...
Roofer wants to come back and request double the amount already paid on a signed contract, and are threatening a lien on the house, what can we do? [more inside]
What are the best recent pen-and-paper RPGS?
I haven't look at a new pen-and-paper RPG since sometime in the mid 90s, but I'm kind of curious what's happened in the past 10-15 years or so? What are the best fairly recent pen-and-paper RPGs -- what are the most popular ones that are new. I assume stuff like D&D and World of Darkness are still around, but what are some fairly recentish ones that have gotten big followings?
Have there been any that introduced really new mechanics or game play philosophies?
Do you this Poem?
I am looking for a poem that I read in Time or Newsweek or some such magazine about ten years ago (probably longer). I am almost sure that the poet was Scandinavian and the poem was about the co-existence of good and bad things in the world. The poem illustrated this concept by talking about the existence of a tongue amongst sharp teeth and how a gentle heart is held by the rib cage. Any ideas? Thanks.
I got 99 problems and Excel isn't one of them.
How do I, using Excel, determine the frequency of orders, the minimum/maximum amount per customer and the average order size? [more inside]
Men and Dust in the Wind
How or where can I get a hold of a copy of Sheldon Dick's "Men and Dust" short film? [more inside]
After the 18" bike dies...
Please share your experience buying your kid their first multi-speed bike.
How did you decide when it was the right time to switch them from a single-speed bike (other than the fact that, say, one of their friends got a multi-speeder)? And especially for parents of athletically-challenged children: how difficult was it for your kid to make the transition to shifting gears and co-ordinating that process with hand braking? Was the extra complexity worth the trade-off in terms of easier biking up hills, etc.? I'd love to hear various experiences with this rite of passage. Thank you!
Yelling at the Premiere
I'm trying to edit the video shot with my Nikon P7000 in Adobe Premiere 5.03, but I get what looks like keyframe issues at the editing stage, rendered or not. iMovie doesn't have the same issue, but I have severe issues with iMovie. Please advise. [more inside]
Sarajevo or Skopje?
I have 2 days to spend in either Sarajevo, Bosnia or Skopje, Macedonia. Help me choose! [more inside]
How do I not feel like my whole life revolves around my job?
I'm up for several jobs that have slightly longer hours than I'm used to, and I'm getting bummed out by the idea of potentially being a slave to the job. How do I get over this and not feel like my whole life revolves around my job? [more inside]
salvage car
Buying a salvage used car; what should I know? [more inside]
Best clam chowder in SF/Bay Area?
Where can one procure the absolute best clam chowder in a sourdough bread bowl in San Francisco (or the SF Bay Area)? [more inside]
Can you identify this breed of bird and guinea pig?
Can anyone identify this bird with its chick and does anyone know the breed of this
guinea pig?
Both were photographed in the UK, but the bird was at a reserve that has birds from all over the world. I believe the guinea pig is a recognised UK breed.
Big Trouble in Little Bladder
Aaaaaaaaaargh! Doggy UTI! Please give me your advice for right now, and in the future. [more inside]
Keep the bugs away
I need some sort of window screen to keep bugs out. [more inside]
Repair vs upgrade
My Nikon D40 died recently. I sent it to Nikon for a repair estimate. I'm looking for any experience anyone has with having Nikon repair a camera -- and weighing that against putting the repair money toward a new camera body. If I want to go with something new, I need help with selection. More details within! [more inside]
Replacement for Neutrogena Lash Tint?
Please help me find a replacement for Neutrogena Clean Lash Tint! [more inside]
Please help me shut this dog up.
How can I get my neighbors to silence their constantly barking dog, considering I'm not sure how to communicate with them? [more inside]
Maps with a time axis?
Is there an online map that features a time axis? For example, a slider than controls year, and as the year changes, political boundaries and country names update to the appropriate values.
I need to stop thinking about sex for the next week and a half. Yes, really.
Short-term coping techniques for Wellbutrin-related hypersexuality? (likely NSFW) [more inside]
The moon on a stick
Problems shooting video with a bridge/superzoom camera [more inside]
Pied-à-terre in SW CT?
I'm considering a short-term - four to nine months - relocation to southwestern Connecticut (Norwalk area). It will be all work, with not that much time for whatever pleasures are offered by the East coast. I would like to know some practical things about a move like this: [more inside]
Ending the bromance
This is the sort of AskMe question I thought I'd never ask. I am having big problems with my best friend of 25 years (we are both men), and I think I need to walk away. Help? [more inside]
What are some software a geography major should be familiar with?
What are some software a geography major should be familiar with? [more inside]
What to take to boss's BBQ?
What should I bring to my boss's barbecue? [more inside]
Temporary beds for adult visitors?
I need a temporary bed solution for when my parents visit. [more inside]
Please help me use my Android Samsung Ace
My new Samsung Galaxy Ace memory is already full, but I'm probably doing something wrong with the social hub app. I'd really appreciate some help... [more inside]
Mac to PC Hard Drive Switch
Can I switch an external hard drive from a Mac to a PC? [more inside]
Canada TV series
Help us find this Canadian children's TV show.
"It's Canadian, and they all wore beanies" "if it's Canadian, don't you mean touks?"
heaps more half remembered details: [more inside]
How can I underclock the CPU in Windows 7 on a MacBook Pro?
How can I underclock the CPU in my Macbook Pro (2010) in Windows 7? [more inside]
May 20
methods or products to query objects?
What are some "end user" products (preferably open source) or methodologies that allow complex queries of objects?
I want to allow both programmers and non-programmers to be able to access the data. [more inside]
Life inside a hyperbolic plane?
How does walking around on a hyperbolic plane differ from a euclidean one? [more inside]
Learning about algorithms and data structures from a more humble POV
What can a common PHP/MySQL-based CMS package teach me about data structures and algorithms? [more inside]
Yar, this be a conundrum.
I have two questions about the end of the new Pirates of the Caribbean movie: one practical, one philosophical. Needless to say, major spoilers inside. [more inside]
Remember we're all in this alone
What can I do right now, to reduce my loneliness? [more inside]
Wolf Mask Rock Video
Looking for a video from late night VH1 Classic a few years ago... [more inside]
Girl with a Gun?
I'm trying to remember the name of an American feature film from the late 1970s or 1980s. A quiet girl is the victim of violence so takes gun lessons and practises on a shooting range then (I think) takes revenge on her assailant. It's a thoughtful, rather than all action story though. The girl had short dark hair, at least while she's learning about guns. Sorry, that's all I can recall. Anyone have any ideas?
Have you used a "Countertop Transformation" product and can you tell me about it?
Have you used one of the Countertop Transformation products (of the two I know, Rustoleum and Modern Masters) in your kitchen, and can you share your experience? Is it worth it? Does it look nice? [more inside]
Commitment?
Why is commitment so important? I can't seem to go into any dating situation without wanting a commitment. [more inside]
Why does my car smell like gas?
Why does my Subaru Forester smell like gasoline, and how can I make it not smell like gasoline? [more inside]
Where did we eat, in a swamp?
It was a restaurant that did seafood. There were a lot of semi-feral cats around. It was somewhere in Florida... [more inside]
Help me prepare for Library School
What is library school like? How does it differ from a "regular" MA education? How can I prepare myself best for starting school in the fall? [more inside]
Am I using tumblr correctly?
Tumblr is supposed to be so easy... Am I doing it right? [more inside]
Who am I? What TV series was I in?
Which TV series featured a man with amnesia as its protagonist, following him as he tries to figure out who he is throughout the course of the series? [more inside]
How do I keep from sweating so darn much?!
Heat and I don't get along. I will be at an outdoor outing tomorrow where it will be 90 degrees and sunny. I would really like to try my best to avoid looking like an infected crew member of Bowie Base One. [more inside]
Dutch Wine Delivery
I would like to buy some wine online as a gift for someone in Holland. [more inside]
Help me find an old cop drama
Can you help me find the name of an old cop show? It was on for two or three seasons in the 80's. [more inside]
Dog Harness Help
I need a harness that won't hurt my dog who has collapsed trachea. [more inside]
Laptop replacement needed
My 5.5 year old laptop is about to give up the ghost - can you point me in the right direction for a new one? [more inside]
Big Shoe Hacking
For the 10th time in a row, I've bought shoes that are too big, and wear them out after I can return them. What are your best methods on making large shoes fit better?
Begone, Green-Eyed Fiend!!
How do I let go of my jealousy? [more inside]
Help me plan my road trip from St. Louis to Los Angeles
Help me plan my road trip from St. Louis to Los Angeles, likely with a short stop at the Grand Canyon [more inside]
It must ring loudly and proudly.
I need a external telephone ringer that is similar to the Doro Ring Plus Teleflash that will work in the US on a VoIP telephone. Specific product details inside. [more inside]
I love these walls, but...
I'd like to understand how plaster and lath walls work...and best practices for hanging a variety of things on them. [more inside]
Safe Neighborhoods in Nashville?
I'm looking for an apartment in Nashville, and need help figuring out which areas are safe. [more inside]
Who do you use for housekeeping and dogwalking services?
Looking for 1) housekeeping recommendations and 2) dogwalking service recommendations in the San Francisco bay area. [more inside]
Recipe for prospective roommate emotional state demi-glace
Looking for a new flat mate and now any tips or advice that help make the call on a person's character in a short space of time just that little bit better? [more inside]
How to stay out of the crazy at work?
How do I grow a thicker skin and let things go with my passive-aggressive (or just aggressive) coworkers? [more inside]
weightlifting for strength, at home with not much equipment
I want to design a weightlifting programme that can give me as much strength as possible, at home with not much equipment. I'm confused. [more inside]
The man jus' upped my rent las' night. No hot water, no toilets, no lights. (But Whitey's on the moon)
NYC-filter: My apartment building's management is totally irresponsible and unresponsive. And they just raised the rent. Can I—or should I—take action? [more inside]
How do you make a choice when one spouse will end up unhappy no matter what?
I want to quit my job, sell our house, and move our family to a house that has been in my family for several generations. My husband cannot get on-board with this idea. [more inside]
leather vs. fabric upholstery
Leather versus fabric furniture pros and cons. Is it worth the extra cost to get a couch in leather? This is regarding a Room and Board sofa, so if you have an opinion on R&B in general, feel free to join in. [more inside]
How to waterproof my shower cheap?
My tiled shower walls are water permeable, and it is messing up the adjacent drywall. Two tile guys agree - is a design issue, and re-grouting will not fix. Would cost a small fortune to fix right. I am redoing bathroom in five years or so, but for now, I need cheap waterproofness. What can I do to my walls that will keep water out? [more inside]
ATV without a VIN
I've got an ATV without a legible VIN number.
How can I get this thing road legal? As far as I can tell, new frames don't have a VIN, and you're expected to use the one from the old frame, so I can't just buy a frame.
Obviously I could buy a VIN and title from somebody with a dead ATV of the same year, but that's starting to get difficult and/or expensive and/or dicey.
Any ideas about how I can get myself all legal here?
Please hope me take my anxiety meds.
Please help me ease my anxiety about taking anti-anxiety medication. (This is not about fear of dependence, this is about fear of altering my mental state; a little long.) [more inside]
Remove fragrance from clothes washer?
How do I remove fragrance from a clothes washer & dryer? [more inside]
Werner Herzog wants his crazy back.
In Lessons Of Darkness by Werner Herzog, why do the oil well firefighters send lit torches into non-burning wells at the end? [more inside]
OK to sign Receipt of Beneficiary before disbursement of funds?
Is it normal to be asked to sign a Receipt of Beneficiary (and Consent to Discharge, and more) without receiving funds first? [more inside]
Big family in Vancouver
Big family in Vancouver for 3 days. What to do? [more inside]
Ghandi for Girls?
Looking for movies with a female protagonist who fights back in a controlled way. In other words, someone who stays within the rules of the system and is always considered a 'good girl' (even exemplary) even during and after fighting back. Personal info inside. [more inside]
Do Bedbugs have parasites?
Are there parasites that live ON bed bugs? [more inside]
I may have to give up on cheap, but fast and reliable would be nice.
Recommendations for hardwood floor refinishers in Brooklyn, NY? [more inside]
Help me find an article about how the brain perceives color.
Help me find this fascinating article/web page about how our brain perceives color. [more inside]
Far from the madding crowd...
Tomorrow morning, 10 AM, Austin, TX: Where to go for a first date that is breakfasty that will not be PACKED? [more inside]
A friend and a heroin addiction - what to do? Your stories?
A friend and a heroin addiction - What should we do? What is likely to happen? [more inside]
No puppies for you!
My 2 year old Cocker Spaniel, Molly, is at the vet right now getting spayed. I know she's going to get fat, what other changes can I expect? [more inside]
Solutions for snoring?
I snore. Loudly. Living alone I don't think about it much, but while visiting home my brother is stuck using earplugs to dim the noise through walls. What can I do to limit this? Looking for updates on a similar question asked a few years back. [more inside]
How do animals think?
How do animals think? I was watching a cat in our garden the other day, and I wondered how it thought as it doesn't have language to think in. Then I thought: yes, but when I am working on an (easy - not cryptic) crossword, sometimes I am not thinking in words (if this makes sense?) [more inside]
Help me determine the proper way to send thank you cards...
What is the proper etiquette for Thank You Cards? [more inside]
Callin' on broken glass
Dropped my iphone 4, cracked the touchscreen but not the glass on top of it. What further damage do I risk by waiting to repair it? [more inside]
Going from a no car household to a two car household. What's the most cost-efficient way?
Going from a no car household to a two car household. What's the most cost-efficient way? [more inside]
OMG, We're Going to Be on Oprah! Crap. What do we do now?
What do we need to do to prepare for and take fullest advantage of an upcoming magazine article that's going to feature our small, family-owned retail business? [more inside]
Audio Synching tips for FCP?
Why won't my separately-recorded audio and video synch up in Final Cut Pro? [more inside]
Am I at the most expensive dance studio in town?
Taking my dance classes to the next level...am I at the most expensive dance studio in town? [more inside]
MovieFilter: Medieval Civilization vs. Aliens From Outer Space
Help me find movies that pit a medieval civilization against scary aliens from outer space. [more inside]
Creating attractive, accessible forms OR How to overthink a plate of beans.
Making better forms. How do I do it? What do I use? [more inside]
Help me pack in a nice 3 day weekend in DFW with my wife
Help me pack in a nice 3 day weekend in DFW with my wife. I've got Rangers tickets for Sunday's game 5/29. I think I want to stay at a Hilton with a nice pool situation. (I've got a boatload of points, so can likely stay at deep discount) I want to do a 5 mile run somewhere scenic on Saturday and maybe Monday morning. Other than that, I love to eat, drink, and spend money. [more inside]
Where should I study abroad?
I have a scholarship to study anywhere in the world. Help me decide! Details inside. [more inside]
Help me figure out a contact/subscribe form.
How can I add a "join mailing list" form to my iweb site? I think I've tried everything. [more inside]
Is there a Mint-like money management site or app that includes European banks?
I really like Mint, but it doesn't allow me to add on foreign banks. I have a particular need for a financial management system that can show my European and offshore bank accounts. Anyone know of anything?
Thanks!
Change org name in FB "network"
The name of my university changed. How do I update the name in Facebook's "network" - we have a page with the right name, with org type set as University, but that apparently doesn't do it. [more inside]
What is this 90s R & B torch song?
A few weeks ago I heard a song coming out of my neighbor's window that I remember well from my youth in the late 90s -- or not so well, as it turns out. The singer is Janet Jackson or someone very similar, and the lyrics are something like, 'we can be freak (s) (y)/we won't get much sleep (?)/ blah blah blah early morn. Pretty sexy. Help!
Need a Women's Writing Group Online
I'd like to join an online women's writing group. Poetry, essays, short stories. [more inside]
Can I hang a pull-up bar from my floor joists, or should I?
I would like to hang a pullup bar in my basement. The best thing would be to hang it from the floor joists. Could I drill a hole in the joists to hang the bar, or do I need to use some sort of hanger? [more inside]
Looking for resources on technology in engineering and education
School me in engineering technology, engineering education, or just technology in education generally. Books, articles, blogs, and any other info is appreciated. [more inside]
Specific GPS Recommendations Needed
I have been tasked by my wife to buy her a GPS. Help me unlock this marital achievement. [more inside]
Burner Burn Out
Do electric burners ever wear out? [more inside]
Should I cut off contact with him?
Should I cut off contact with him? [more inside]
Are these spasms actually seizures?
You Are Not My Neurologist: sometimes I have a strong, sudden spasm sensation in the lower back of my head. It feels like it's coming from inside my skull, as though my brain had suddenly smacked against the lower back of my head. It isn't painful, nobody else notices when it happens to me, but it's unpleasant and I want to know what is happening to me. [more inside]
What is it exactly about a late sleep cycle that causes it to be unhealthy?
What is it exactly about a late sleep cycle that causes it to be unhealthy? [more inside]
Achievement Armlocked!
RewardFilter: Inspired by the recent Habit Judo hoo-ha, what are novel and interesting ways to reward yourself ? [more inside]
Giant font go away!
Help me find my Word 2003 tweak! [more inside]
May 19
Things to do and see in Hokkaido?
Four days in Hokkaido - wanting recommendations for things to do, places to see? [more inside]
Contracts with Death, German style?
Help me find this relatively recent German film about an old man who tricks his way out of a contract with Death. [more inside]
I have no gay friends! help me get some!
I've never really had many gay friends, or any that I wasn't actively dating actually. Being socially awkward and naive I don't actually know where to go to meet (non-sexytime) friends, who are also gay. [more inside]
Help me identify this mystery song that played on my iPhone so I don't think I'm crazy.
Help me identify this mystery song that played on my iPhone so I don't think I'm crazy. [more inside]
Table for one please
Planning a vacation for one. Something within driving distance of my home. Something relaxing, interesting, surrounded by nature and quiet. Wouldn't mind a place that offers up meditation classes perhaps massages etc. I live in Iowa again prefer nature setting but am willing to travel. Anybody know of something in this area that fits that description? [more inside]
How do you go about finding your first therapist?
Looking for some help for my friend who's decided to go into therapy for her depression, family issues and other BS in her life. What can she expect from these sessions? What should she ask in deciding the right therapist? [more inside]
Belated tax confusion
Why did I seem to pay much less taxes as an independent contractor vs. a regular employee, making roughly the same hourly wage? [more inside]
Relationship management on a mac.
I was recently promoted to developer relations at my company, and I'd like to keep better track of those developer relationships than I've previously done. I use a macbook pro, an iPhone, and an iPad.
What software do you recommend? [more inside]
What's this snake?
Is this snake in my yard poisonous? How worried should I be? [more inside]
How to get a field mouse lost?
How far do you have to transport a field mouse before it's not going to find its way back? [more inside]
Monster Mash?
I am currently writing short form fiction rooted in the horror genre. I am interested in playing with the traditional archetypes of monsters in super natural horror. What hybrid-monster combinations (preferably three or more, I especially like zombies, vampires, werewolves, ninjas, and mummies) would create a compelling but tragically sympathetic main character?
Please help me navigate the waters of fashion in the artsy west coast city office!
I am a 22-year-old female who has just been informed that I have received a prestigious arts and culture internship in my Western U.S. city's government. This is my first real job, and I'm perplexed about what clothes to buy for a professional, yet comfortable summer wardrobe. [more inside]
Heating up milk at the office
How can I heat up milk for my coffee at work and without a microwave or stovetop? Is there some kind of stand-alone gadget that will heat (not just froth) milk, while being office-appropriate? [more inside]
baby birds, nest, robin, death
Circle of Life Filter: What terrible thing probably happened to the baby birds on my porch? [more inside]
Bring me a shrubbery
What plant should we put in the box out front? Next to our stoop is a raised brick box with maybe 20x20x10 inches filled with dirt, where we want to plant something for decoration. The problem is that no matter what we plant, after a couple of months somebody comes along and pulls it out. [more inside]
Good keyboard for live performance?
Looking for an affordable keyboard for live performance with GREAT piano, elecric piano and organ samples. [more inside]
Would it be bad to go apartment hunting while in still in the interviewing process?
Would it be bad to go apartment hunting while in still in the interviewing process? [more inside]
Gift For my Ornery, metal loving, businessy best male friend?
He's an ornery, suit-wearing, Iron Maiden superfan in his early thirties- and he's about to get a little older. Help me find a gift for my weird best friend! [more inside]
Air vs. iPad
Is there any reason to purchase an iPad if I own a MacBook Air [more inside]
Where to next...
Good trip ideas for a 30-something guy traveling solo for 1-2 weeks in Sept, prefer somewhere where it's easy to meet other people [more inside]
A song/poem/etc. with an intense emotional catharsis?
Looking for a song or poem or short story or stand-alone chapter in a novel that has an emotional release or a suggestion on how to deal with anger/negative emotions, especially around family issues. Should be (fairly) appropriate for high school students. [more inside]
A newspaper's issues (in more ways than one)
High-school-drama-filter:
I've recently been named one of two new editors-in-chief of my high school newspaper. Less than one week into my tenure, I already have to deal with nasty issues involving next year's EIC candidates, editor successions, and angry staff threatening to quit. Long and complicated explanation inside. [more inside]
Help me figure out where else to go on my Thailand trip!
I'm going to Thailand to see a friend, who is on an island off of Phuket. I'll be there for about a week. Apparently this island has great beaches and is great for relaxing, snorkeling, and doing a whole lot of nothing. I'd like to take two or three weeks on this trip, but the problem is that I don't know where else to go in addition to this island! [more inside]
Credit Rating
I have a friend who is 22 years old, has a part-time job, and wants to begin establishing his credit rating. He has a checking account but is having trouble getting a credit card with no annual fee due to his low income at this time. He is very money smart and will be using this card to establish credit, he plans on paying the statement in full every month. Is there any credit cards out there that he could apply for that would accept him with his low income? If his mother did add him to her credit card account would it build HIS credit rating?
Cheapest material for an outdoor project
I want to make an outdoor installation in my neighborhood similar to the You are beautiful one here. What material should I use? [more inside]
How can I make my barista position more appealing on my resume?
ResumeFilter: How can I make my barista position more appealing on my resume? [more inside]
Where to buy Giant Microbes toys in NYC?
Pointed Questions
How do I choose a good acupuncturist? [more inside]
Is office surveillance demoralising?
I have just shelled out for a quite pricey IP camera for the office I remotely manage, but I'm having second thoughts installing it.
I run a small business, 3 staff, and I have moved away from the city and visit only once a fortnight or so.
I trust the staff, but it's the type of qualatative work where it is very hard to track the amount of time spent on each task, so I'm thinking of adopting some camera or tracking software.
Would it do more harm than good? I feel like I have a right to keep tabs, but also it seems quite disrespectful.
And I am wondering about the ethics of tracking keylogs or screen captures.
Any and all thoughts appreciated
California Gurls.
San Francisco to San Francisco in 7 days. [more inside]
How do you judge if you can afford something?
How do you judge if you can afford something? [more inside]
How long can they last?
In the novel, The Road, the people are slowly starving to death due to a nuclear (assumption) winter. What is the reality of this situation? [more inside]
Travel Protection Plan: needful, or waste of money?
Flying overseas, just bought crazy-expensive tickets to do so. Should we also buy a Travel Protection Plan at an extra $72 per person? [more inside]
Early reading cards.
Hi;
Does anyone remember those reading place cards form school?
They had a short story on one side,then questions about the story on the other.They all had a colour on the the right corner I think. [more inside]
What is the fate of "nonbeleivers" in various religions?
Is there a reference document or scholarship somewhere that describes the fate of "nonbelievers" in various religions? [more inside]
How can I get my cat to eat?
My cat has stopped eating (for a couple of reasons) and I'm running out of ideas on how to get her to eat. Looking for advice and suggestions and anything which will help me quit worrying in the meantime. [more inside]
Need help from arduino experts
Arduino! I want to build a very basic network connected battery operated alarm system. What's the best kit for doing so? [more inside]
What is the name of this film?
Please help me identify this foreign film. [more inside]
You Gotta Keep 'em Separated
How do I create a public wifi network that is separate from our corporate network while using the same internet connection? [more inside]
4HB recipe thoughts?
On week three of the 4 hour body diet - high protein, beans allowed, no carbs/dairy (except butter), no sugar, no fruit - incredibly tired of all the recipes I know! Help? snowflake details - [more inside]
Is it ever okay to go behind your wife's back?
My wife doesn't get along with my sister. My sister is graduating. My wife discovers that I am buying her a graduation gift without her knowledge. She is upset I went behind her back. Where do I go from here? [more inside]
The Landmark Wives
My significant other is interested in attending a Landmark Education seminar. What should I know? [more inside]
Where can I find an IT support refresher course?
I need to brush up on and refresh my memory of various topics in the area of IT technical support for an interview. Can you help? [more inside]
Oh, blinking tag, how I loved thee..
What is the oldest personal website still active online? [more inside]
Mystery object!
Need a bush for a "black and white" garden
Need suggestions for a bush for a garden bed that features day-blooming black flowers and night-blooming white flowers, zone 5. [more inside]
Wait, which was first, the Korean or Vietnam war?
How can I get a better grasp on US/World history so I will better understand current events/stop looking stupid? [more inside]
Men's Wristwatch: Cheap, rugged, simple, functional, comfortable
I'd like a men's wristwatch that is cheap, rugged, simple, comfortable, functional. Which watches are the best at this? [more inside]
Avoding Duluth during Grandma's Marathon
I'll be driving from St. Paul, MN to the Grand Marais area (for a BWCA trip) on June 18th. Just so happens to be the same day as Grandma's Marathon. Route around Duluth or push through on I 35 like normal? [more inside]
Has the Michelson - Morley experiment ever been replicated in a vacuum?
Has the Michelson - Morley experiment ever been replicated in a vacuum? [more inside]
What computer games work without any internet connection?
My friend is currently out serving somewhere in the middle east for the next six months and would like some new computer games to play. The problem is that he has absolutely no internet connection so anything that needs to go online (eg. multiplayer or - more annoyingly - DRM) won't work. What good games can you recommend I buy and post to him? [more inside]
I kick, I score?
I want to learn how to play soccer. I'm 30. I'm in pretty good shape, but I haven't played a sport of any kind in more than 15 years. Is it realistic? [more inside]
Selling steel in nyc
I have 40 6' lengths of 1/2" steel rod. Is it possible to sell this in nyc and get money worth the hassle of transporting the rods?
Possible to create an install file from an installed program?
Can I create an install file from an installed program? Windows. [more inside]
5 hours in Iceland. Is this madness?
ICELAND!! is five hours enough time to get out of the airport, especially to the Blue Lagoon? [more inside]
Going from homeowner to tenant - who do we use as references
Going from homeowner to tenant - who do we use as references when talking with prospective landlords? [more inside]
Portable Thunderbird not downloading email
I have installed Thunderbird portable on my USB drive and set up the correct server names and such. My ISP is RoadRunner. I keep getting the connection time out message and it won't download or send email. I went into "about:config" and changed my timeout time to 500--still no mail. My RSS feeds update perfectly in Thunderbird. Any suggestions on what to try for email?
Help me navigate the labyrinth of deceptive GPU names!
It's that time of year again - the great new pc games have started rolling out and last year's hotness will not cut it. I currently have a Radeon 5850 - Would you upgrade by getting a second card and running them in Crossfire, or would a slick, new, confusingly-named, single card be a better investment? [more inside]
Google Voice account transfer: now for Apps?
I've had a Google Voice with an @gmail.com login. Since you can make call through Google Apps' mail now, how can I transfer the Voice account (or even just the number) to my Apps account?
Android App for Podcasts?
I've started using my HTC Droid Incredible as my main podcast player, and I'd love to hear how other people set this up, since other music players don't always resume playing mid-podcast. [more inside]
Anachronistic movie music?
Asking for a friend: At the end of Dirty Dancing, the characters dance to "(I've Had) The Time of My Life," which sounds much more a product of the '80s than the '60s. What other movies set in the past feature anachronistic music? [more inside]
What are some essential Firefox addons?
What are some essential Firefox addons? [more inside]
UKmobilephonefilter
I'm looking for recommendations for a cheapish, basic, reliable phone. I'm in the UK. [more inside]
Working on my Night Course
I would like to take an evening/night-time course in software development/computer programming in London. Where should I look? [more inside]
partner airlines check-in question
I booked a flight from Stockholm to San Francisco, connecting in Frankfurt, through Continental Airlines website. However the flight from Stockholm to Frankfurt is operated by SAS, and from Frankfurt to SFO by United. Which airline should I check in with in Stockholm: SAS, United, or Continental? Will they give me tickets for both flights when I check in in Stockholm? Will they check my luggage all the way through to SFO? I can't find any info online, thanks for any help!
Upgrade my PC to fit a high profile graphics card.
How do I upgrade my computer to fit high profile video cards? [more inside]
Nothing to do with the Emerald City
The last movement of Beethoven's Ninth Symphony begins by recapitulating and rejecting themes from the first three movements. What is being symbolically rejected?
A friend of mine says the Ninth is about the Brahmaviharas, the four immeasurables. The first three movements represent compassion, benevolence, and equanimity, all of which are rejected by the fourth in favour of joy, hence the Schiller.
As a personal interpretation I think this works quite well, but the idea that Buddhist doctrine is what Beethoven (or Schiller for that matter) had in mind is surely bonkers.
So what did Beethoven have in mind? The sources I've found say 'nobody knows'.
louder please
How to help pupils to sing ? [more inside]
EKG Changes In Athletes?
I need help. Can someone provide a really, really non-smarty pants explanation of how the conduction through the heart changes for athletes (EKG) -- with an emphasis on 1st AV block. [more inside]
Avoiding the sads while traveling alone in Asia
Single female traveling solo for nine days in Kuala Lumpur and Bali. Please reassure me that I'm not going to be sad and lonely and freaked out the entire time. [more inside]
Staying in Mumbai for Cheap
Where can 9 students stay in Mumbai for 2 weeks? [more inside]
Mr Sandman, bring me a sander, make my walls (and cupboards and furniture) the smoothest they’ve ever been
What kind of sander should I get to sand a variety of household projects? This weekend, I’ll be sanding the untreated pine interior of some fixed cupboards and shelves, with lots of tight, awkward corners. I'll also be sanding back spakfilla on masonry walls where I’ve filled in nail holes. I’m sanding so I can paint. Later on (in a few months) I might sand down some wood furniture. I don’t think I’ll use the sander for any exterior work. What kind of sander should I get AskMe – and why? [more inside]
May 18
How to mention that you're unemployed without sounding desperate on your blog
I'm trying to fill out my bio section which anyone who clicks my name on the blog, and I'm wondering if there is a casual and witty, but sincere way of writing it to let people know that I'm available for unemployment (or should I mention it at all)? [more inside]
Sci-Fi or Fantasy Erotica????
Any recommendations for Sci-Fi or Fantasy books with hot erotic content?
What are some good chinese movies to watch to help me learn Mandarin?
Conventional wisdom says that watching a lot of TV/Movies in another language helps with comprehension. What are some good movies/shows to help me with Mandarin? My current level is quite basic (2 semesters of college classes).
Face scrub replacement
I'm looking for a face scrub to replace the (former) world's best face scrub. [more inside]
Popcorn in brown bags
Any reason not to eat freshly popped popcorn out of purchased brown (lunch) bags?
Is a transporter too much to ask?
How to get a van-load of stuff from Flagstaff, AZ to Kansas City, MO with minimal hassle and cost? [more inside]
A pleasant money problem
The good news: I've been awarded money.
The question: I'm trying to figure out how best to keep it separate from my personal money. [more inside]
Security deposit charge
Security deposit to charge in a poorer neighborhood? [more inside]
Cheapest way to move a small number of large items interstate?
I have four large, heavy items (furniture or similar) that I'd like to move from Philadelphia to Chicago, but I'm wondering if it's just cheaper sell them on craigslist and re-buy? [more inside]
What are the long term effects of klonopin?
What are the long term effects of klonopin? [more inside]
Digital dictation and transcription
Looking for recommendations for digital dictation/transcription software and devices. [more inside]
I bite my thumb at thee.
It's not nice to meet you. Help me find a way to respond to meeting someone in person whom I've dealt with via email for quite some time and who has gone out of their way to insult my direct reporting team, our product, and myself. [more inside]
How do I tell my sister she rambles on and on and on.......?
How do I tell my sister she rambles on and on and on and on constantly, in a kind way and effective way? Help!! [more inside]
I'm not asking for much, just the perfect top in unfashionable colors.
Lead me to your secret treasure trove of tops that won't make me look like a tattooed easter egg! [more inside]
Sick to death of OCSD (obsessive compulsive safety disorder)!
Where can I find affordable coffee grinders or food processors that do NOT have annoying safety locks? [more inside]
Where/how can someone ride in a motorcycle sidecar?
My sister would like to ride in a motorcycle sidecar before her 30th birthday (this December). I would like to make this happen! We live in the "tri-state area" (i.e. whatever's in easy reach of NYC) but will also be traveling a lot over the summer and fall, so several states seem to be an option, even if the NYC-area is not, for some reason. [more inside]
How to replace lost phone when I have a new one due?
I think I lost my Verizon phone. I had the same phone for the past 3 years, and I know that I was due for a new one for the past year. I do not have insurance, not that I know of at least. So, how do I go about replacing this phone? I am so confused... Will I have to pay for the new phone? (I am from another country, so I still do not fully understand how the cell phone stuff works here.)
Can my employer fire me because I am unable to work due to a motor vechicle accident?
Can my employer fire me because I am unable to work due to a motor vechicle accident? [more inside]
YANAD, but what is with this lingering vision migraine aura?
YANAD, but what is with this lingering vision migraine aura? [more inside]
Best. Campfire. Ever.
I'm trying to build a better campfire song repetoire. What are your favorite songs to hear / sing along to at a campfire? [more inside]
How can I register my car in DC?
DC/RI DMV Filter: My car is registered in Rhode Island, and the registration and title are in my dad's name. I have been driving my car for years in RI and even gave my dad some money for it a few years ago. How do I register my car in DC? [more inside]
Cat's ambiguous health
An x-ray shows my cat has fluid in and around her lungs. What do I do now? She isn't going to get better. [more inside]
What's a good history of gagaku and/or the sho?
What should I read for a solid but concise history of gagaku and/or the sho? I am also interested in court rituals in Japan generally. I read somewhere they served a significant legitimizing-of-the-court function in Japan ca. 700 or 800, and would like to confirm, deny, and learn more about this idea.
Please identify this Israeli pop song!
Animal House
Several friends and I would like to rent out a house. Some of us have lived at apartments, but most have only lived at home with their parents all their lives. Most of us are 20-21 years old. We are all in the same fraternity... [more inside]
Do London taxis take payment in towels?
I am an obsessive worrier. I've just booked short-notice tickets to spend a week with friends in London. I know where my towel is, but that's about it. Help me do this without losing my shit over the many other small things I need to figure out. [more inside]
Is there a PDF form element that allows you to browse and insert a picture into a predefined area?
Is there a PDF form element that allows you to browse and insert a picture into a predefined area? [more inside]
Help me help my cat find her way home :(
My cat has run away from her new home. :( Seeking advice or your similar experience. [more inside]
How can I keep iphoto from cutting off the margins of photos when they print?
I have to print very detailed photos for my job. At times, the photos taken have information near the margin of the photo. When I import photos into iphoto and print them--whether or not I use preview--the margins are cut off. Is there a setting I can change to make sure that the entire photo is printed?
This is driving me crazy. Thanks.
How to project cash flow months out if paid up front for a year?
How do I project monthly revenue for my service business 12 to 24 months into the future if I am paid in lump-sum prepayments good for 6 months to a year of services? Also should I be referring to this as "cash flow" rather than "monthly revenue"? [more inside]
Converting a SVG to EPS
Using free tools such as Inkscape, is there a way to turn my SVG into an EPS that a screenprinter can use to make jerseys? [more inside]
Please note the epic self-control exhibited in not titling this question "Where's the Beef?"
Where can I buy awesome organic grass-fed beef in NYC? [more inside]
Laptop goes black after BIOS. Was working minutes ago. What happened?
Was fiddling with the eject settings on my laptop (didn't solve my problem, cd is still stuck in the drive no matter what i do), when I decided to reboot out of ubuntu and disable the drive altogether in the BIOS. Now almost as soon as the BIOS appear, everything goes black, though the computer is still clearly on. Help! [more inside]
Need help with keeping track of all these retirement accounts
My financial situation is far from complex but like a lot of people I have (mostly) retirement investments scattered around in many different accounts. Some are IRAs, 401(k)s, 503(b)s, etc. for myself and spouse. Most of these still send me paper statements on a monthly or quarterly basis. Some of the statements are very confusing because they require things like "core" accounts, obscure funds that are provided through work, accounting schemes that seem to me overly complex, and just plain complicated statements. FWIW, I am good with numbers, science, and computers, but I still find personal finance frustrating and tiring. [more inside]
Tantrum conundrum
How would you handle this? 16 year old boy breaks his Mom's cell phone in anger. Mom believes taking his phone away deprives him of the support of his friends, and has restricted most everything else, but not the phone. Eye for an eye or eye for an ear? It's a bit more complicated, though, so more inside... [more inside]
Wheelchair-accessible hotspots in London?
My friend & housemate has a big birthday weekend planned (London, Thursday – Monday). There's an itinerary, filled with lots of amazing things (spa days, aquarium, shows, etc.), but in the event that some of these places aren't wheelchair accessible, we need some back up events planned. What are some great places to go/see/party in London that are definitely wheelchair accessible, relatively easy to get to, and would be able to host a party of 3-8 people at the last minute with minimal hassle all around? [more inside]
Zen wedding music
Wedding music recommendations. Must be instrumental, serene, and suited to a "Zen" theme. A variety of genres is encouraged. [more inside]
How to tell if a sailboat skipper is legitimate?
Blue-water sailors, Coast Guardsmen, and seafaring MeFites: what are good indicators that a sailboat owner/skipper is legit? [more inside]
AMYGDALA! Y U SO CRAZY???
Neuroendocrinology filter: Suggested readings on the affects of chronic stress on the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis and the amygdala? [more inside]
Marrying Flash and Google Earth
How can I create a video using Flash that incorporates zooming around in Google Earth? [more inside]
I am forty pounds lighter than you, therefore if you aren't fat, I'm not fat.
Fitness Filter: A male friend of mine is just about the same height as me and weighs 40 lbs more. Can muscle mass/being a dude really justify this weight discrepancy? [more inside]
Can you recommend an airplane power adapter for my Lenovo Thinkpad T410?
Can you recommend an airplane power adapter for my Lenovo Thinkpad T410? [more inside]
GMail gontact & group sharing.
Google Apps Mail contact sharing, distribution lists, and sending newsletters Marketplace App? [more inside]
What material should I give my recommender so he can write my letter?
I'm going back to school to take pre-med requirements (previously). My current boss has agreed to write a recommendation for me, and has asked me to tell him "what I want him to say." What should I give him? [more inside]
To Google or not to Google potential dates?
If you Google your dates before meeting through online sites, how do you handle the knowing the answers to the mundane areas of their life before being told? [more inside]
What kind of Nike shoes are these?
What kind of Nike shoes are these?
Dashboard receipt flipped over. Can I get out of ticket?
Simple scenario: I put parking receipt on dashboard, face up, and closed door. Air made receipt flip over. I didn't notice. Ding! That'll be $35. Any recourse? [more inside]
Losing Motivation with weight loss.
I've been working out and seeing progress but everything seems to be like taking 2 steps forward and then 1 step back, making it hard for me right now to keep up the motivation. Just trying to figure out if I am doing anything wrong or if something could help. [more inside]
Finding a nursing home in Cleveland
Is there an organization that can provide some guidance on choosing a nursing home? I'm interested in moving my father from the one he is in now. This is in Northeast Ohio. If I'm on my own, how do I go about finding and evaluating potential nursing homes? [more inside]
What is this tree? (botany/architecture)
Please help me identify this plant, or what is the meaning behind my potential tattoo? (yes, these two are the same question) [more inside]
Superinjunctions - can I get one?
Can I get a superinjunction or is it only for the very rich? [more inside]
Looking for interviews with people who attacked Civil Rights protestors
Inspired by this FPP: Do we know anything about the individual people who attacked the Freedom Riders or otherwise stood on the wrong side of history with the Civil Rights Movement? [more inside]
Best flashlight for a cop?
What is the best flashlight for a police officer? [more inside]
Where to discuss marital problems with other men?
Can anyone recommend a website where I can get input from other men (and I'm not against input from women too) about problems I have with my wife with her excessive moodiness, total lack of interest in physical intimacy, and general verbally hostile and abusive ways? I'm thinking either a traditional forum or a more contemporary Q&A type site.
Who can I trust with my laptop around here?
Who in the Dallas, TX area (deliberately vague; I'm willing to drive) can repair my broken laptop AND answer my questions about it, especially how it got that way? Even just "this guy I know" would be perfectly fine; I've learned my lesson about the big-name places. [more inside]
Chilling out before the smash?
How do I stay relaxed while playing a sport that requires incredible quickness and immediate accurate decisions? [more inside]
Help Me Dig Siegfried
Help me do a crash course in Wagner's Ring Cycle in general and Siegfried in particular! [more inside]
Does anyone recognize this flowering plant?
Ana-chan and Mia-chan
What to expect in a PHP(intensive outpatient) program for eating disorders? [more inside]
Help clue me in on what to expect in spending time with a man who has had dom-fem experience but wants to leave that in the past.
A friend of mine has had Dom-Fem experience and wants to leave it in the past. He believes it ruined his marriage of many years (she wasn't into it), but also got addicted to internet sex sites and liaisons. He's asked me out....what do I need to know? [more inside]
Comprehensive Home Network Setup
I have a few questions about a home server / backup / HTPC solution and I would really appreciate some help. Details inside. [more inside]
The saddest short film I've ever seen
Looking for a short animated film -- possibly from a Spike n' Mike's collection. I think it's called The Gift or something like that. The main character is a man who lives by himself in some barren, isolated place -- probably outer space. His only companion is a sorta-anthropomorphized tomato plant. The man is starving and has nothing to eat. When his back is turned, the tomato plant produces a tomato, but he doesn't see it, so he (sadly, reluctantly) eats the tomato plant. Later, he sees the tomato and realizes that he didn't have to eat his friend. This is the saddest film ever! Brings tears to my eyes just thinking about it. I've been looking for it forever, but can't seem to find it. Any idea what it's called or where I can find it?
Cork floats
Cork Flooring -- recommended brands and experiences? [more inside]
Best camp sites in Zion/Bryce
What are the most awesomely beautiful camp sites in Zion and Bryce in late May? Also where's the cheapest place to buy supplies? [more inside]
Idiot's guide to starting a depression support group
Looking to start my own in-person depression support group, but have zero background in social work or psychology. What pitfalls should I be aware of? [more inside]
Cost of a Mobile Website
What is a ballpark cost for developing a mobile website and are there any specific CMS/blogging platforms that make it easier? [more inside]
How to properly publicize
What are some good ways of publicizing a workshop/conference when the submission deadline is in two weeks? [more inside]
Oh! My (previously) aching back!
In seven days I will be having back surgery: laminectomy, fusion, and fixation.
Yesterday, I attended the "Back on Track" class that the hospital provides for those about to have surgery.
They stressed the BLTPP rules: NO Bending, Leaning, Twisting, Pushing, or Pulling.
What are YOUR best tips and tricks (and best kept secrets) for adhering to these rules for my next few months?
PLEASE add any suggestions on how to make my life (and my wife's life!) easier during the recovery time. Any and all ideas are welcome!
[Yep, I know YANMD, but I hope you have good ideas.]
Corrupted bookmarks in Word 2007
Word 2007 bookmark bug. Can you help? [more inside]
I want to go to New York City cuz they tell me it's the place to be.
What's New York City like on the 4th of July? [more inside]
Better ereader than Sony PRS-600?
Looking to replace my PRS-600 Sony Reader. [more inside]
What does Research Utilization mean, exactly?
"Research Utilization" in the context of Public Health and prevention programming--what does it mean exactly? [more inside]
I guess I'll need to pick up some plastic flowers, too
Can you help me make this pagan bull god mask? [more inside]
Networking event success: help!
How can a networking event organizer make the event more meaningful for attendees? [more inside]
Batch File
Help me write a batch file to print directory information. [more inside]
Because the default app just ain't cutting it.
There are lots of stock-related iPhone apps available, but either I haven't found the one that does the simple thing I want, or I haven't conquered the learning curves of the ones I've tried to see that they already do it. Very simple requirements inside. [more inside]
Need a reason to put on the running shorts.
Need help setting and measuring new fitness goals, but don't want to train for a marathon or similar long race. Any other ideas? [more inside]
Two great cities that ... um, taste great together
Itinerary help requested: Which two central/eastern European cities should we pair? [more inside]
Help me pick a way to share essays online with classmates
I'm a college student looking for a way for to pool essays with 20-30 of my classmates in preparation for finals. We've tried emailing, but it got unwieldy very quickly. Are there any good sites/easy to use cloud-based services out there which might fit the bill? I've looked at Dropbox but would prefer a method where we don't have to download specific software.
I thought this was my ticket to looking like Redford in Three Days of the Condor!
I bought a pair of Levi's 501 shrink-to-fit jeans. They didn't shrink and they don't fit. What to do? [more inside]
Replacement for urbis.com?
Is there a functioning site comparable to urbis.com? [more inside]
A Perfect Circle Acoustic Sessions. Wait ... what?
I've found a bunch of YouTube videos of A Perfect Circle (Acoustic Sessions) like this one. There's no video, really, just the band logo over the songs. What are these songs from? Are these from an album or a DVD that I can buy? [more inside]
How to live & recover from a broken ankle?
I've broken my Ankle need advise on how to live & recover from it [more inside]
Help me find the lost final scene song from Karate Kid
Where can I find the music from the Final Fight scene of Karate Kid I? [more inside]
Keep the remote connection from disconnecting
How do I keep my remote connection open if I'm away from my computer? [more inside]
Is this audio set-up worth the money?
Will a certificate in a social issue lead to a nonprofit job?
In what cases is it worthwhile, career-wise to take a certificate (e.g., non-degree) program in an issue that interests you and you'd like to work in? I am looking in particular at the Food Security program at Ryerson. [more inside]
Empathy is all well and good but this is getting silly.
How do I become less easily affected by other people's stress levels? [more inside]
I control my friends web domain, what pranks can I play on him?
I have control of a friends web domain. Any good ideas for some (good-natured) pranks we can play on him? [more inside]
Maybe I could just write one...
Are there any sites (using google maps or similar) which will highlight an area a certain distance by road away from a given location? [more inside]
How to license my footage?
How do I license someone to re-edit footage of one of my projects for use in their video portfolio, without looking paranoid? [more inside]
Firefox back button loads top of page instead of where I left off
How do I fix this Firefox problem? I go to a website. I scroll down, click a link, decide to go back to the original page. I click the back button, and when the previous page loads it loads at the top of the page, not where I had been in the page when I'd scrolled down and clicked the link. [more inside]
May 17
Pull the trigger on a new box?
I'm thinking of upgrading my computer. [more inside]
Name that search engine!
Dear HiveMind, please help me think of a name for a new web project I'm building. It's essentially a "genealogy search engine in a box", based on a customized build of Apache Solr. It will allow moderately tech savvy genealogy geeks, whether individual genealogists or small genealogy organizations, an easy way to index and search datasets of names and any related data, with a nice front end UI for doing searches. Notable features include faceted search (by record year, record town(s), record source, etc.), soundalike surname searching, customizable given name synonyms (i.e. searching for "Becky" also finds Rebecca), and pop-up Google Maps linked to record locations. And the entire project will be open source. The project is already about 90% completed, but I need something snappy to call it before I can release it. Ideas welcome!
Illustrate Guide to Subcultures and Retro Fashion.
Can anyone recommend a good, online, illustrated guide to various subcultures and clothing styles? [more inside]
I need a crash course in Dungeons and Dragons!
I got invited to play D&D with a couple folks I really like. Help me not embarrass myself! [more inside]
Do I need this root canal?
Do I really need a root canal on a tooth that has no symptoms, but that the dentist is suddenly *very* concerned about? [more inside]
voila, la fenêtre
I read a quote once, that is failing to come to mind... something like 'voila, la fenêtre', from a piece of french literature, or perhaps a play. it was meant as a darkly comedic response to a heartfelt expression, kinda like Catherine Keener's character did in Being John Malkovich. Anyone have an inkling?
How to control video/stills at a live event seamlessly?
I'm trying to work out the tech for the visuals of a live event and would like to get the hive mind's advice as to which are the best applications to use. [more inside]
What else can I send to my friend besides flowers?
What else can I send to my friend besides flowers? [more inside]
How much does it cost to rent a motorcoach/bus?
How much does it cost to rent a motorcoach/bus? Details inside. [more inside]
Engineering has failed me.
Help me think of essay topics relating to the national debt! [more inside]
how much do you pay for dog walking?
Several dog walking services in my area of San Diego offer a range of services and prices, and I'd like to get a sense of what others considerable reasonable, and what services, if anything, people find worth the money for besides just the walking itself. In terms of pooch specifics, my obese italian greyhound needs a longer, more vigorous walk each afternoon/evening than I can make time for given my current work schedule. thanks
Typing ° on laptop.
How can I type the degree sign (°) on a laptop without copying+pasting? [more inside]
Autoexposure bracketing question about the T2i...
AEB on a Canon T2i. Is there any software to allow more than 3 exposures while using AEB on a T2i? [more inside]
Scammy call or wife with gall?
A man might be cheating on his wife, but it definitely isn't with me. His wife says my number is on his phone records as having incoming and outgoing calls with his phone. Is it possible for my phone number to show up on phone records for a phone I've never called? Also, is it possible this is somehow connected with the fact that my debit card has been compromised? [more inside]
You stay in your state, I'll stay in mine.
Can I obtain a domestic violence restraining order in California against a person who lives in another state? [more inside]
How can I help my master's student improve his English communication skills?
Sometimes I supervise graduate students who are not native speakers of English and their written and oral communication abilities are not that great. I can comment on drafts for things to be sent elsewhere, but the worst thing is that grammatical problems mean that it is sometimes impossible or difficult for me to understand one of these students. I think usually they don't understand the problem when I try to explain it. Are there any books I could suggest that they read? Can you suggest other things that I can do to improve this? [more inside]
Please encrypt my PDFs
I need help automatically encrypting PDFs in OSX [more inside]
What's wrong with my vocal cord?
Can you tell me what is wrong with my vocal cord? Endoscopy photo included [more inside]
Windows 7 - "Windows Classic" theme is the only one that doesn't hang, what gives?
I'm on a company provided Windows 7 laptop. Here's what I know:
When using the "Windows Classic" Theme (right click on desktop>personalize>select "Windows Classic" theme), Windows Explorer does NOT hang/hourglass for ~30 seconds when accessing files/navigating folders. All clicks to save files, navigate through local and distributed files (our MyDocs folder is stored on the Company's distributed file system), etc., are immediately responsive.
When using ANY other theme, clicking on navigation of files (local and DFS, even when not connected to the company network) hangs for 10-30 seconds.
What gives? Do all of the themes (minus the "Classic" theme) have some sort of "network call" that look through My Docs (which is technically on the DFS/my company's servers, that has a 30 timeout if the network doesn't respond?)
Any ideas how to fix this (change a registry setting, ask the company IT team to make a change to a group policy setting, etc.)? What's so special about the "Windows Classic" theme? It's ugly, but it saves me 30 seconds every time I touch a file, open windows explorer, etc.
Thanks in advance!
Big Brother Health Care?
What kind of recourse do I have when my company's new health insurance will be charging me if I don't take a biometric screening and health assessment? [more inside]
Cheap food that doesn't need much cookware?
Cheap food options that require a minimum of cookware? [more inside]
Maxim's of La Rochefoucauld, novel-style
Obscure book search: a novelistic setting of the life of La Rochefoucauld, salted with his maxims. [more inside]
Query for books by author's age?
How can I find books written by authors that are 80 years old or older? [more inside]
I want to learn to find the time to learn to do something.
Best practices for big, self-directed personal education project? I wanna learn something. How do I find the time and organize this? [more inside]
Networking: How to Do It
Digital Job Search, LinkedIn Filter: I'm shy when it comes to asking people for help. I want to expand my job search horizons by learning how to use LinkedIn more effectively, and by getting over my inability to network. [more inside]
Can I still use this ground beef?
Very fast answer needed: can I eat this ground beef whose vacuum-seal package is puffed up? [more inside]
Going back country hiking for a week for the first time - what am I forgetting?
I am going for a 110 mile, 6 day hike in Virginia's back country for the first time. What are some things (small or large) you always bring with you (not obvious like a multi-tool/knife) that make the experience much better? Looking for quick/easy tips!
(Thanks for being patient - first time poster) [more inside]
I am looking for practical (and preferably natural) solutions for emotional instability and insecurity during ovulation and pre-menstruation.
I am looking for practical (and preferably natural) solutions for emotional instability and insecurity during ovulation and pre-menstruation. [more inside]
Super Top Excellent Outstanding Best Most Wonderful Apps, Please.
Very happy owner of a new Ipad2 (with 3g). Are you an Ipad user/owner? What are your absolute favorite apps? And why? I have looked at a lot of prior threads asking for best apps for particular purposes, including this one about best apps for gifting, but I'm actually just interested in finding out the apps MeFi people love the most.
Seeking full-function tablet PC with E-Ink display
I may be in the market for a tablet PC, and in the best of all worlds would like to find a model with an E-ink *and* LCD display with Wi-Fi. Does such a thing currently exist? [more inside]
Tell me all about Zouk!
I have recently discovered Brazilian Zouk and have lots of questions about the dance. Since I don't have a pro in the area familiar with the dance, I'll turn to AskMeFi. [more inside]
Leggings: I promise not to wear them as pants!
Short people of Metafilter, where do you buy leggings? [more inside]
In which Zsa Zsa and Grizzly Adams go camping
I love the outdoors! Particularly when viewed from a balcony at the Four Seasons, with a refreshing gin and tonic. The boyfriend thinks Mother Nature wants us to be uncomfortable. Please help resolve our camping conundrum. [more inside]
How do I measure the value of EU citizenship for my kids?
Help me measure the value of dual US-EU citizenship for my children. [more inside]
How can I use my money to make money?
How can I use my money to make even more money? Investments? Stocks? Bonds? Mutual funds? [more inside]
Let them eat Spam.
My firm is about to send out a huge load of spam, thinking that they are "email marketing." I don't know how to stop it, or how hard I should try before I give up and sit back. [more inside]
How much does an inexperienced programmer get paid?
How much should I get paid as an inexperienced programmer doing Java web development for a US government contractor? I’m clueless. [more inside]
Does it make sense to pay to replace the clutch on a older car?
My 2004 Tiburon GT SE needs a clutch replacement but I can't decide if putting that much money into the car is worth it. How much can I expect to pay a mechanic to perform the work? I'm guessing in the $1K range but I don't know. And if so, does it make sense to put that money into car that's almost 8 years old? I bought it used a few years ago and still owe $5K on it, so dumping it isn't an option. It has only 54K miles and is otherwise in very good condition. How should I proceed?
The extract range has a missing or illegal field name.
Does anyone have a handly list of reasons why one would get the error "The extract range has a missing or illegal field name." when using advanced auto-filter? [more inside]
Can you help me find more information about my transcendental experience while on laughing gas at the dentist?
Can you help me find more information about my transcendental experience while on laughing gas at the dentist? I recently had Nitrous oxide while at the dentist, and the side effects were deep insights into my life, and a crystal clear understanding of problems that were before vague. I'd like more information about this phenomenon and I'd like to hear others' experience with this gas.
An alt and his dog
Highly Specific Guilty Pleasurefilter: What are your favorite coming-of-age movies about (broadly-defined) "alt" people in their 20s? Preferably not rom-coms. Bonus for being set in a New Englandy-type place in autumn. (Artiness, seriousness, etc. totally optional.)
Rheumatoid arthritis treatment?
Rheumatoid arthritis: info about treatments, especially methotrexate? [more inside]
Stopping suspicious emails being sent from Gmail?
Emails are being sent from my gmail account to contacts by someone other than me. How do I figure out what's going on and how do I stop it? [more inside]
"Frankly, my dear..."
What are some examples of classic movie dialogue which are instantly recognizable from sound alone? [more inside]
How can I be the best granddaughter I can now that my dear grandmother's health is in decline?
How can I be the best granddaughter possible now that my dear grandmother's health is in decline? [more inside]
Pictures. People. Time.
I have: a bunch of selections from NYPL's Picture Collection; a group of artist-types who are gung-ho for basically anything; and a maximum of one hour. I'm meant to be leading some sort of physical activity. What now? [more inside]
How to decide between current partner and new prospect
Can you honour your current partner and explore a potential relationship with someone new without being deceitful? [more inside]
Sparkles
Old car windshield has lots of tiny pits and scratches. Can they be polished out? (And could they have been prevented, e.g., with rain repellent or something?)
Help prevent music related homicide in my workplace
Seeking French and Spanish language music recommendations for a co-worker [more inside]
memories... of a spectacular year
I would like suggestions for memoirs that focus on a specific period of time in the writer's life... say the summer they spent overseas, or their four years in college. [more inside]
Broken Droid 6 months ahead of schedule. Help!
My HTC Droid Eris is pretty much out-of-commission...6 months before my contract with Verizon is up (and I'm eligible for a discounted new phone). The warranty is up also. What are my options? [more inside]
How can I make DH see that he always makes me the 3rd wheel when it comes to plans?
How can I get DH to realize stop making plans without me, esp. vacation? [more inside]
What is a good, cheap T-mobile phone with a QWERTY keyboard?
What is the best T-Mobile phone that is both: relatively cheap (sub-$200) and has a good QWERTY keyboard? [more inside]
What Timex Sinclair game am I thinking of?
Help me identify this old computer game for the Timex Sinclair. [more inside]
How do I move my plants cross-country?
How do I move my plants cross-country? [more inside]
Will taking ADHD drugs make me more socially adept?
Will taking ADHD drugs make me more socially adept? [more inside]
Software for Loan Debt?
Hi everyone,
I'm looking for financial software to analyze student loan debt. I downloaded "Pay It Down" which is excellent for credit cards. I love this software for its graphing capability and rollover feature, but it doesn't calculate payments that are graduated (i.e., x amount for 10 months, then x amount for 120 months, then another amount for 35 months). I am looking for a program that can analyze the principal x interest rate, and allow for graduated payments. A graphing feature would be nice, and rollover feature so I can see one payment paid down faster when I put more money towards it. Hope this makes sense...... thank you!!
Is a mailing address on a resumé just a vestigial reminder of the 1980s?
Does a resumé really need my home mailing address? [more inside]
high blood preasure or not?
Do I have high blood preasure? [more inside]
Any chance of my Mac/PC keyboard shortcuts coexisting peacefully?
Can I change the way my mac uses modifier keys to navigate through text? [more inside]
Where can I buy hologram shoes?
Outlook: cloudy
Trouble with wonky formatting in Outlook email. [more inside]
How is dairy causing chest pain?
Do you have any ideas on why I have chest pain when I eat dairy? [more inside]
Each game of chess means there's one less variation left to be played
Is there sheet music available for the newer production of Chess as performed two years ago at the Royal Albert Hall with Josh Groban and Idina Menzel (http://www.chessinconcert.com)? Specifically I am looking for the arrangement of "Quartet (A Model of Decorum and Tranquility)" (youtube video here). All the versions of sheet music that I have been able to find are from the original concept album, which is substantially different. Not only lyrical differences, but the ending is completely different with a modulation and extended fugue with all four vocal parts. If nothing else, can anyone recommend a UK source for sheet music that might have something?
I'm already itchy just typing this.
My downstairs neighbor just told me he's been finding itchy bites on his legs, which he and his doctor believe are from bedbugs. What now? [more inside]
This Woman's Work
Please help me evaluate a possible career move while pregnant with child #2. [more inside]
What type of wetsuit is best for a sprint triathlon?
What type of wetsuit should I buy for a sprint Triathlon? [more inside]
Help, I Need Somebody
I have passion for a non-profit idea, but I can't do this myself. Help me get started and ask for help in the best way possible. [more inside]
Recommendations for non-vocal, non scifi soundtracks sought
Please recommend your favorite non-vocal, non-scifi soundtracks (tv or movies). I'm asking for suggestions that you love and have listened to repeatedly because it's so damn good. [more inside]
Mouse Girl in Paris
[Bookfilter]: A friend asks "HELP! About 20 years ago I found a picture book at the library. It was about a little mouse girl who was being raised by a bear in Paris. The mouse had a name like Angelina -- but NOT Angelina Ballerina. Got any idea what it was?"
Does this description ring any bells? Thanks!
My car has a frog in its throat!
YANMMechanic: Why would my car make a strange croaking noise while turning? [more inside]
Beautiful Diagrams
Beautiful scientific diagrams? [more inside]
How to best clarify salary expectations
A friend recently got a job offer, yay! When she spoke with the hiring manager at the time of the initial offer, she was told she'd receive a certain amount of money, with a percentage raise after the first year. But when she received the formal offer letter, the letter specifies only the first year salary, and says nothing about a raise. Should she say something to the hiring manager? Any suggestions on how she might phrase her concerns?
Help me do the old USB switcheroo
I can't quite get to the bottom of a USB peripheral auto-switching circuit diagram. [more inside]
Picking a small, long warranty car in the UK
Help me choose a new car: I'm in the UK, and I want a small 4-door with long warranty, low mpg and low emissions. [more inside]
But I wanna listen to This American Life
Why can't I download itunes? How do I fix error 1317 if I already fixed it? [more inside]
What device will allow me to tether?
Australia smart phone filter: I need to buy a new smart phone. I would like one that will allow me to occasionally connect my laptop to the internet. (Tethering?) Clearly I'm not that tech savvy so I don't want to jailbreak (?) etc. Is this possible with any smart phone on the market in Australia? [more inside]
Trying to find a myth or story about not eating bone marrow.
Trying to find a myth or story about a god telling a family not to eat the marrow of his animals. [more inside]
Who the heck painted these?
Who painted these paintings from this movie? [more inside]
May 16
Are giant steps what you take, walking on The Sun (apologies to The Police)?
Can anyone tell me, well, ANYTHING about a person (hypothetically) standing on the sun? [more inside]
What does an undergraduate biology lab inquiry look like?
What does an undergraduate biology lab inquiry look like? Help me work for free. [more inside]
How can I best put together an inexpensive standing workspace?
Where can I find a relatively inexpensive standing desk? A relatively inexpensive adjustable-height desk? A relatively inexpensive platform designed to rest on top of a regular desk and turn it into a standing desk? [more inside]
How do I get my Wordpress video posts to include a thumbnail when shared on Facebook?
When I share one of my wordpress blog posts on Facebook (via status update), how can I get it to pull a thumbnail from the youtube video embedded in the post? [more inside]
In Soveit Russia, doors escape cats.
How do I cat-proof my front door with a lever-style handle? [more inside]
Time Warner Road Runner Vs AT&T DSL in Milwaukee?
Time Warner Road Runner Vs AT&T DSL in Milwaukee? [more inside]
Is tender, raised "bruising" normal for a healing cyst, 3 weeks later?
A cyst that was drained on my back 3 weeks ago is still a raised, long-ish bruise (after a doctor followup and cortisone shot last week). How alarming is this? [more inside]
How often will I have the chance to stare at my own torn rotator cuff?
Please help me open the MRI images on the CD-rom I received when I left the hospital. [more inside]
But seriously, how bad can traffic really be?
If you had to work a few days a weeks in San Fernando Valley (Sherman Oaks, specifically), where would you live? [more inside]
Best method for posting my downloadable PDF
PDFilter: What's the best way to share my PDF online? [more inside]
How to rip DVD clips to make a compilation DVD with menus - on a mac
What workflow should I use to make a compilation of DVD clips (with menus preferably) on a mac? [more inside]
best gear for yosemite camping in august?
whats the best tent & sleeping bags for 2 persons on a 3 night camping trip in yosemite in august? asking for brands & models but also specs i should look for. specifically tents that are easy to setup. bonus points for any additional information about gear to bring, weather in august, and any experiences youve had there. we're going on the green tortoise tour from san fran if anyone has any stories about that... thanks!
It's humid, we're pissed.
Help me settle a debate. It is very humid outside, and it will be drizzling all week long. The apartment has windows that allow for a cross-breeze. Which of the two options will make it feel less humid inside: windows open or windows closed? [more inside]
Unhappy Dad To Be Still Unhappy.
I was the anonymous asker of this question. Things have moved on a little bit since then. Looking for a way forward. [more inside]
My mom...my mom.
How do I deal with my mother's lack of interest/active sabotaging of her own health? [more inside]
Profitable Plant Extracts
I have a chemist friend who specializes in extracting compounds and chemicals from organic matter.
I was thinking of running some numbers around to find the feasibility of creating a profitable endeavor with his skill and lab equipment.
What is a very profitable plant extract that is legal (well.. legal to sell in most states in the US)?
Help me see if going to CS grad school (masters or PhD) could work despite a large debt load
Help me see if going to CS grad school (masters or PhD) could work despite a large debt load [more inside]
Problems with pull-chain light fixture
Am I doing something wrong with my pull chain light fixture, and/or do they just tend to be really crappy? Broke two of them in short order... [more inside]
What the fork??
What kind of fork is this? I've looked all over and I can't figure it out.
Ghost computer noises
How do I stop the faint but disturbing sound of what I believe is a Chinese-language radio station in the background on my computer? [more inside]
Identify this strange clamp thing.
Identify this strange clamp thing.
Here.
It's black aluminum. It's pretty small. Just fits over my pinky finger. The upper left part there is held on with a screw. You can make out the rounded head of the screw. So by loosening and tightening the screw, the 'jaws' could grab something.
Put the ball in her court, nothing happened. Keep trying?
Went on two great dates with a girl I really liked. Texted for a third date and didn't get a response. Move on? Or reach out one last time? [more inside]
What is this weird stuff in my newspaper?
What is this weird looking tape-like stuff in the middle of the business section of my New York Times? [more inside]
Help me be more communicative and considerate.
How do I get myself to stop assuming that my SO knows things I need to tell her? [more inside]
Help me figure out my birth control
Please tell me your experiences with the birth control implant. Plus other birth control questions. I know YANMD. [more inside]
Boltzmann brain teaser
In his TED talk, Sean Carroll very briefly discusses Feynman's explanation about how the universe we can see and experience is not a statistically lucky perturbation, before moving on to the rest of his lecture. In other words, Feynman seems to discount the "Boltzmann brain" hypothesis, that we're not just the ephemeral product of a lucky shuffle of a metaphorical box full of marbles. Can someone explain this to me in words other than Carroll's, i.e., what evidence Feynman was using to prove his argument?
What's a comfortable bed that mice won't nest in?
Our old, mouse-infested cabin-in-the-woods needs new beds. Any suggestions for mattresses that won't turn into instant mouse-nests? [more inside]
Health insurance for foreigners visiting the U.S.?
Health insurance for foreigners visiting the U.S.? [more inside]
Ethics of providing sample code to prospective employer
(Posted for a friend) A co-worker of mine and I were discussing a sticky situation that I think is pretty common in the IT field. We are both applying for new jobs and have been asked to submit sample code as well as documentation. Obviously code and documentation is intellectual property of the employer, even though the employee essentially wrote/designed/authored it. How would one go about submitting code and documentation in a legal and ethical manner that still displays relevant work experience?
I have two gmail accounts, and want to switch which one is the "main" account.
I have several email accounts, but use account1@gmail.com as the main account. I now want to use account2@gmail as the main - for chat, to store all of my emails, and as the main sender. How can I do this painlessly? [more inside]
Help me show my wife that men aren't as sex-crazed as she thinks?
I believe that my wife has an inflated view of the male sex drive, which has been a bit of a source of contention over the course of our 12 year marriage. Due to a whole host of factors my wife believes "normal" men do nothing but chase their woman around the house 24/7. Are there any resources (web pages, articles, blog posts, forum posts, etc.) that might help me make my case? [more inside]
Worthwhile but not-universal dental technologies
Interviewing new dentists: please tell me about technologies or skills that are worthwhile but not universal, so I can ask potential dentists if they have 'em. [more inside]
How can I more easily edit CSV tables in Access or Excel?
I make mailing labels by pulling information about specific real-world locations into small database files. I used to get MS Access-ready DBase files, but now I have to work with CSV files, which don't seem to play well with Access. Please help me get more use out of Access, find out how to convert CSV to DBase or similar file types, or figure out better ways to use Excel. Long version inside. [more inside]
How can I build a cloud based file server for Adobe's InCopy?
How can I build a cloud based file server for Adobe's InCopy? [more inside]
Car rental and transportation questions for Jersey City
Getting from Newark Airport to Jersey City, late night and with kids in tow? Bonus question about car rental (oh, the joy!) [more inside]
Social Network Analysis Software for a non-programmer/non-SQL geek
What's the best software (free or commercial) for social network mapping for someone with a moderate level of Excel and XML savvy but no SQL/python/programming background? [more inside]
Lindyhop? Lindyflop.
Before I met him, my boyfriend was an active swing dancer. He no longer dances regularly but periodically would like to dance with me. I completely freak out. [more inside]
What was this live action children's TV show?
Looking for a children's magic forest type TV show that has skipped down the memory hole. [more inside]
How do large companies find meeting venues in a huge city like NYC?
How do large companies decide where to hold meetings in a big city like NYC? There are hundreds of options if not more. Has anyone participated in this process and can you please shed some insight? [more inside]
What is the title of this movie about two children living alone during the Great Depression?
I'm trying to remember the title of a movie set during the Great Depression. Two children are left in an apartment or hotel for the Summer while their father leaves to search for work. The most memorable scene involved the suicide of an elderly neighbor late in the movie. [more inside]
Lincoln tunnel ticket
The other day I got a ticket entering the Lincoln tunnel for going 29 in a 5 mile an hour zone. I was cruising down the ramp and just sort of rolled through. All tickets given at the Lincoln tunnel require an appearance at the Weehawken Municipal Court. A fact that seems to be nothing more than an excuse to gouge you for additional fines.
There are lawyers who offer their services in the court and I'm wondering if anyone has done this or had any success using a lawyer.
Any thoughts?
Thanks in advance.
I want to catch up with you, but not now!
Social filter: How does one deal with nicely putting: I'm chatting with this person now, can I catch up with you later? [more inside]
Internal Relationship Struggle in the Face of Healthy Change
I am going through a period of significant change at the moment where I am trying to address some long-standing problems in my life, and I think I am on the right track and making some real progress. My one big dilemma is related to my relationship. I actually credit a lot of my progress to my boyfriend and his unshakable support and the undercurrent of what I think is calmness in our house. BUT, I am finding myself kind of shrinking from him, and if I am being honest, feeling a sort of (shameful) disgust towards him. [more inside]
How can I find a Wayne Newman flu ad from 1999 or 2000?
For a friend: I'm trying to find a video of an advertisement that Wayne Knight (of Seinfeld fame) did for a anti-flu drug called Relenza in the early 2000s. This is for a marketing class. Any ideas? I've tried YouTube and the drug companies are stingy with giving out ads because the FDA forbids them from releasing outdated ads in any way.
Is there a social drawing group in the San Francisco Bay Area?
Is there a social drawing group in the San Francisco Bay Area? [more inside]
Bipolar Depression?
Could I actually have bipolar depression? [more inside]
Why do you need to see my face to read my opinion
Why are so many sites these days switching to Facebook commenting systems? Am I really so unique in not wanting neither my real name/photo splashed across the pages of a thousand websites nor my opinions on various hobbies and secret interests published on Facebook for all my acquaintances to view? And what can I do to work around this system? [more inside]
Help me start my environmental consulting career!
Help me start my environmental consulting career! [more inside]
I really kinda thought I'd be a better person by now :(.
I've spent decades working on the same personal flaws, and despite clear goals and clever attack strategies, nothing ever seems to stick. Is it even possible to permanently "fix" specific aspects of one's character or personality? If so, how? and how long does it take? [more inside]
Help me find a good background checking company.
I need a recommendation for a reputable company to run a background check on a prospective employee. Can someone recommend a company, what a good check will actually tell me and an approximate cost.
Scanning - how much?
I have been asked to provide a quote for digitizing a bunch of documents. What is the going rate for this type of work? More details inside. [more inside]
Scientist seeks scientific shrink
I'm a scientist and wish my therapist were too, because I'm having trouble getting across to him what the research community's norms are and how I'm failing to meet them. How can I make the best of this situation, given that switching therapists, and especially trying to find an [ex-]scientist therapist, would be nontrivial? Looking for more in-depth answers than 'print this out and take it to your next session,' if possible. [more inside]
Overthinking a bowl of raisin bran.
If I compare the price of a box of raisin bran with the same company's boxes of bran flakes, I unerringly find the price per pound of raisin bran to be lower. Is this because raisins weigh significantly more and thus are actually cheaper by the pound than the cereal? [more inside]
Where to go after my dog tests heart worm positive?
My dog was diagnosed with heart worms this weekend even though he has been on preventative! Can anyone offer any words of wisdom on successfully dealing with the treatment course, and where to go after?! [more inside]
Personal librarians -- do they exist yet?
Hire someone to help organize my digital library metadata? [more inside]
The Best Spas Ever
I just spent a day at the spa at the Grove Park Inn in Asheville, NC. Help me find similar spas... anywhere. [more inside]
Paris in the summer?
We (early 60s, slightly boho, non-yahoo couple) are considering a trip to Paris during the first week of July. Two questions: 1) Is it crazy to consider visiting Paris in July? and 2) Besides the D'Orsay and the Louvre, what are the don't-miss attractions?
Thanks for helping with the vacation of a used-to-be-young couple.
What weird rules have you come up against on campsites?
Unusual restrictions or rules on campsites? Looking for examples of strange rules on camping or caravan sites. [more inside]
I'm Too Big and Dumb for My VPS.
I'm with a managed VPS webhost and apparently I've outgrown my current plan. Please help me figure out if it will be worth the added expense to move up a tier, or if there are things I can do to minimize my consumption of resources. [more inside]
Anyone care for reigniting the apt-get vs. aptitude flamewar?
Help me recover from switching back and forth between apt-get and aptitude in Debian. [more inside]
How do I remove my mental connection between food and certain activities?
How can I decouple my enjoyment of activities from my enjoyment of food? [more inside]
I'm looking for funny websites or blogs that aren't puerile.
I'm looking for funny websites or blogs that aren't puerile. Any suggestions?
Help for stomach issues
Today, my SO went to the doctor about the stomach upset she's been experiencing over the last few weeks and was diagnosed with gastritis. Please help us deal. [more inside]
Help me find more videos from nonprofits and charities that inspire action!
I am looking for inspirational, well-polished videos from non-profits/charities! [more inside]
Happy sad?
Sandboxie trouble
Sandboxie tries to open shell32.dll instead of Firefox [more inside]
Should you be giving your kids elixir?
Can the CamelBak Elixir tablet be given to children or kids under the age of 3? [more inside]
Suicide notes from Foxconn employees
Where can I read some of Foxconn employees' full suicide notes? [more inside]
I need a tool to replace DabbleDB
The online database tool DabbleDB is closing up shop this Wednesday. It's a great tool - excellent ui, cloud availability for data entry and access, easy RSS feeds. Any recommendations on another tool that offers the same? I've looked at Zoho and found it inferior in every way.
Is there an online email service like Outlook or Thunderbird?
I'm looking for an online email service that will allow me to access 5 different addresses on one screen. An online version of Outlook or Thunderbird per say. [more inside]
Washing a Ball Cap
Best way to wash a baseball cap? [more inside]
New Signature a Problem
Is changing my signature a legal no-no/nightmare? [more inside]
Empty net syndrome
Why do ice hockey goalies ever leave the net? [more inside]
Seeking Linoleum Block Printing Paper & Ink recommendations
Are you a linoleum block printmaker? What are your favorite papers and inks? [more inside]
Amazing Adventures - You know, for kids.
Rocket Boys? Kavalier and Clay? All Our Yesterdays... [more inside]
Are these songs the same?
Today I noticed that Secret Garden's Song from a Secret Garden sounds similar to the Howl's Moving Castle theme. The strange thing is that the first song was released a decade before the film and Howl's Moving castle soundtrack is listed as an original soundtrack. I am kind of tone deaf so I wondered if any musicians could confirm or debunk this.
GIF Archaeology
I'm writing a paper on (animated) GIFs and am trying to track down some of the most (in)famous. I suppose I am talking memes, but I'm more interested in the GIF as an archaeological reference point. I frequent sites like dump.fm, tumblr etc. so am quite tuned in to the glitchy/kitschy side of GIF culture. How theoretical have people got on these wonders of the web? How does one trace the history of an animated GIF? [more inside]
Immerse me!
I work from 9 to 5, but I want to immerse myself in German for the rest of the time. I have an iPod touch and a short attention span. What can I use to ram this language into my brain? [more inside]
Place to find adm/admx files for Group Policy?
I feel there should be out there, a site where people share their adm/admx files that they use to import custom controls for Group Policy, to avoid everyone constantly reinventing the wheel. Does such a wonderland exist? [more inside]
Can you recommend the right print shop for the job?
NYC filter: Can you recommend a print shop in NYC that is capable of doing custom die-cut business cards similar to this?
My tooth broke recently, please share some advice with eating and what I should about it..
My tooth broke recently, please share some advice with eating and what I should do about it.... [more inside]
Goodbye snow, hello sand.
Nicaragua: Please give me your tips and thoughts about the country as a destination for a beach-based getaway next winter. [more inside]
And This. Is. What. We. Call. The. Muppet's... SHOW.
Who can make me a black cat muppet? [more inside]
I WANT RADICA CUBE WORLD TO BE ON TRIPLE-XXX STEROIDS
RADICA CUBE WORLD: When they click together with their little magnets, they become aware of their own neighbors. Each cube is self-powered, and it almost seems that you could connect an infinite number of them together. My question: From a computer-science point-of-view, how could this toy be 100 times better!?!?? [more inside]
I'm obviously busy. Come back later.
What's the correct etiquette for interrupting people in their office? What's polite when someone interrupts you in your office? [more inside]
May 15
Name that pre-McCarthy era Hollywood socialist-themed film!
Old Flick Filter: In the wee morning hours on weekends, Channel 13 and Channel 21 (the two PBS stations here in NYC) run classic films. One of these films, which I caught about three years ago, was a quite overtly socialist-themed flick about a group of out-of-work men and women, likely in the throes of the Great Depression, coming together and forming a farming collective and generally living communally right here in the soon-to-be exceedingly commie-paranoid USA. It had to be made sometime in the 1930's, pre-McCarthy/HUAC freakout. What was this film? Is it now in the public domain? Any other suggestions on pre-McCarthy American socialist-themed films I might delight in watching?
Rules regarding sale of items with ivory trim in the UK?
What restrictions (if any) are there in the UK on selling antiques that contain ivory trim?
I have a couple of old silver teapots that I inherited from my grandmother that I would like to sell. Both have small amounts of off-white trim that I presume is ivory.
Are there any restrictions on my selling the teapots? Will I be challenged if I take them to a silver dealer? The teapots are quite obviously old, but I don't have any paperwork for them.
I have read the guidance for antique dealers linked on this page of the DEFRA website but I can't figure out what it means for me. (One sub-question: if the teapots were made before 1947 does that satisfy the legal requirements even though I, the current owner, was born after 1947?)
In photoshop, when I run batch actions it breaks at the "JPEG Options" prompt. How do I override this?? It's really annoying
In photoshop, when I run batch actions it breaks at the "JPEG Options" prompt. How do I override this?? It's really annoying [more inside]
Can I buy a plastic removable bubble window to replace the glass rear window in a Toyota 4runner?
Where can I get a plastic removable bubble window to replace the glass rear window in my Toyota 4runner? [more inside]
Font me!
Is there a name for this pretty typographic presentation? Is there a way to get a print of it? [more inside]
Keep trying to find answers when I only really have energy to go to work?
How can I feel comfortable with a possible diagnosis of chronic fatigue syndrome when I've spent a year going to a doctor who doesn't believe in it and who has made me feel like there is nothing wrong with me? [more inside]
Does this tattoo equation mean to you what I mean it to?
Math and science geeks, does this fake equation make sense? 'delta' = c ... meaning "change is constant". [more inside]
Examples of collaborative artistic partnerships?
I am looking for examples of famous/semi-famous historical/current interdisciplinary artistic collaborative partnerships, such as John Cage and Merce Cunningham.
Gobble, gobble, gobble, we'll talk turkey to that sun.
I was in a school play when I was in the first grade, in 1976. I would love to know what the play was, so I can find it and read it again! [more inside]
What do I name my wild cat?
Need a name for my new, no-longer-feral maine coon cat. [more inside]
Rebuilding a friend community on Facebook
So I tried to get off of Facebook forever about a month ago by deleting my account (not just deactivating it) and was successful: no more profile or contacts. However, since graduating from my MBA program, I feel the pull to get back on it. This time I started to focus on only adding my close friends and business school classmates, but when I added a bunch of people today I was given a few warnings about 'annoying or abusive behavior.' I naturally stopped sending friend requests, but now I'm wondering how soon can I add friends after such a warning and how does one go about rebuilding the friend base when Facebook hits you with these warnings? Thanks in advance for the response!
Is there a concise legal term or phrase to put into a will that will get this concept across?
Is there a concise legal term or phrase to put into a will that will get this concept across? [more inside]
Music like The Buena Vista Social Club?
I really love the Cuban jazz featured in the movie and album The Buena Vista Social Club. I want more of this music. Help me make a list. [more inside]
Should I freak out over a lapse in auto-rehire?
Its been 15 days since the termination (without automatic renewal, as is normal) of my employment at a major university (in Canada). How worried should I be, as no one has informed me that I'm proper fired? [more inside]
I want what I want. That is all.
How do I uninstall IE8? [more inside]
How to deal with absentee friend now returned?
Make up, let go, or put ball in other person's court: how to deal with absentee friend now returned? [more inside]
Micro-manage my fertility.
Taking charge of, as well as micro-managing, your fertility. When is the best time to have a second child given our current choices? Scenarios inside. [more inside]
OK for New Cat Mommy to Sort of Ignore Her Kittens?
OK for New Cat Mommy to Sort of Ignore Her Kittens? [more inside]
What should I expect from a realtor?
What, exactly, should my realtor be doing? [more inside]
Where can I find fresh cheese curds in or around NYC?
Where can I find fresh cheese curds in or around NYC? [more inside]
Web Hosting for a Wedding Website?
Good hosting site for a wedding website? My fiancee and I created a website on iweb for our wedding. We put it up on domainsite.com, and its been having major problems. Do you have recommendations for a good and affordable hosting site? Thank you so much!
From Garden to Glass
What are your favorite cocktails with fresh herbs? [more inside]
Why do all of my pets have stomach troubles?
Why are all of my pets sick all the time? [more inside]
Resist 'Ali Baba' gag - Resist 'Ali Baba' gag - Resist 'Ali Baba' gag
What's a good recipe for a salad dressing made with sesame oil--and for a salad to dress with it? [more inside]
How do I keep my breasts under control while swimming?
I need a swimsuit that will keep my breasts under control while swimming. Help please! [more inside]
Help me fix my home network - please!
Home Networking Help. For some strange reason my home network has stopped working properly. I have lost all connections between computers, can't print anymore, and some computers are having trouble getting IP addresses. I've been banging my head against the wall for a while on this and would appreciate some help. [more inside]
Why do carrots curl when cut lengthwise?
Why do carrots curl when cut lengthwise? [more inside]
Convert a 3-way light switch to a single-pole switch?
How do I convert a 3-way light switch to a single-pole switch? [more inside]
How do two ADHD people cope with seeing a non ADHD-friendly relative?
ADHD and relatives: both my partner and I have ADHD and we both have problems with visiting my mother. How to deal with this conflict? [more inside]
Mainland European Popular Music Artists
Why doesn't mainland Europe produce as many popular music artists than UK / US? Is it purely down to the language barrier?
Share shorting
Activist share shorting? [more inside]
Is it unsanitary to do yoga on shared bathroom floor?
Is it unsanitary to do yoga on the bathroom floor? [more inside]
My hair has progressively been thinning at the crown for years and I finally want to shave it all off. What clippers and other accessories do you recommend I get?
My hair has progressively been thinning at the crown for years and I finally want to shave it all off. What clippers and other accessories do you recommend I get? [more inside]
Can a teacher be a trader?
Should a teacher with summers off and a little bit of savings mess with the Day Trading system to try and make some extra bones? [more inside]
How do I choose a property management company?
I'm looking at needing to rent out the house that I own (because of a move and the quiet housing market). What should I know before choosing a property management company? Any red flags to look for?
I'll be 1500 miles away after moving and will need a management company to handle the property. [more inside]
I'm trying to figure out who did it
I'm looking for "manor house" mystery novels, that take place in a single location (including a manor house, but variety would be appreciated), and involve tracking down a killer. [more inside]
San Diego: outdoorsy edition
In San Diego for the week. Where can I find outdoorsy stuff to do? [more inside]
Help me learn about concert lighting so I can do great things with it!
I am all of a sudden an art director for a concert next week. What do I need to learn to learn to best understand the lighting system / communicate most effectively with my lighting engineer? [more inside]
Oh god, I'm another blogger wannabe.
Cliche alert: I'm thinking of starting a blog. However, since I don't have a specific theme yet (um, haven't picked something to do for one year that will result in a book contract:)..just kidding), I would prefer to have it only viewed by close friends at first. Is there a way to do this? I'm looking at blogger.com right now to start. I am not very tech, but I have a lot to say!:) so am looking for an outlet (secure at first, to prevent major embarassments if it doesn't work out) with which to do that. Any advice? (Basically I am planning on making a lot of changes this year, wish to document them, and any other random life observations/stories and have all of that readable/viewable by close friends at first and maybe expand from there.) Is this possible?
Misplaced music
Please help me find this song so I can enjoy it again. [more inside]
How to let someone down in a tactful manner?
I dated someone off and on for a few months last year. We recently started speaking again after months of silence and he wants to try again. I told him not to wait for me and that I couldn't say for sure, but that I may be willing to try in the future. How do I now tell him that I'm seeing someone else? [more inside]
Control a Windows Machine with an OS X Machine
Fast and easy way to VNC/remote desktop/screenshare with my mother-in-law's computer? I just need to tick off a few settings. I have OS X, she has Windows 7. [more inside]
Suggestions for cottages/cabins in Harbor County, Michigan for a weekend stay?
It'll be four of us (two couples) and we're planning to stay somewhere in Harbor County for a couple of nights before heading to another part of Michigan for a wedding. We plan to hit the wineries and do some general poking around and relaxation. Anyone had good experience with cottages/companies in that area?
I'm a bit overwhelmed by all of the offerings online, so would appreciate direction! Thank you!
Cars are a foreign language to me.
What is the likelihood that my car overheating yesterday is completely unrelated to the quick lube-type service I got the day before yesterday? [more inside]
Another broke lawyer
Is this pickle I've gotten myself into going to leave me in a vinegar-filled mason jar for the rest of my life? Can you help me redirect and find a decent life? I'm almost 35 years old. I'm a Meyer's-Briggs INFJ. Artist turned public interest lawyer, but really having a hard time. [more inside]
List of links?
I'm looking for a sniffer, but one that only reports links that are accessed behind the curtain, and not a true packet analyzer. [more inside]
What are the best unique shops in Montreal?
What are the best unique shops in Montreal? [more inside]
Dog park/walks etiquette from a dog owner's perspective-- what's okay and what's not?
Large, sweet, excitable puppy. Meeting new dogs at the park and on neighborhood walks-- help me with proper etiquette! [more inside]
Have I totally screwed up
How do I stop my girlfriend hating me? [more inside]
Windshield wiper blades in nyc on sunday
Where can I buy windshield wiper blades in New York on a Sunday? [more inside]
Student Loans for Foreigners in China?
I'm from the US and I've gotten into a degree seeking program at a university in China. Student loans from the US, whether private or otherwise, are not available. Does anyone know how to get loans for studying in China as a foreign citizen? [more inside]
Short story ID: refugee from alien bionanotech in Africa
Help me identify this Sci-Fi short story: bio-nano-tech, Africa, refugee camp. [more inside]
not getting the help I need?
Feeling frustrated and confused after dangling ADD diagnosis. [more inside]
How do I control my rage?
In one week, I've turned into a downright angry and rude and unlikeable person. How can I reverse this? [more inside]
After all these implements and texts designed by intellects we're vexed to find evidently there's still so much that hides.
I like math! I took an introductory undergraduate math course on DSP and, well, I want more. [more inside]
Good Short Fiction Set in Kentucky?
I like short fiction with a strong sense of place. I particularly like reading said fiction while visiting its setting. I'm going to be in Kentucky soon. What might I want to read while I'm there?
Help salvage my overcooked crockpot chicken!
I overcooked chicken in my crockpot overnight and now it’s very dry and not so tasty to eat. How can I save my dinner? [more inside]
Whats with these lines in the ceiling?
How was this ceiling constructed? And what are these "lines" running in it for? [more inside]
Can movers cancel at the last minute?
Can a moving company, after scheduling a pickup date and taking a deposit, legally back out a week before the pickup date? And if so, can anyone recommend any good moving companies for taking a small load (1.5BR, leaving most of the furniture) from Watertown, NY to Tampa, FL? [more inside]
Show all formulas.
I'm an artist. Please help me find a day job that makes use of my bizarre love of spreadsheets. [more inside]
the world ain't what it used to be
Help-me-remember-this-bad-movie-filter: There was a movie, perhaps 15+ years ago, that was about a orchestra violinist who lost his job and/or had some kind of car trouble that stranded him in a very small town. Hilarity (at least the attempt at hilarity ensues). The only thing that makes this movie memorable to me at all is an exchange between him and one of the residents, I think perhaps the tow truck driver. [more inside]
What's up with the muteness that impedes the personalities we create and project?
Film, fiction, philosophy, or poetry dealing with inarticulateness; being unformed, conflicted; or imperfect personalities? [more inside]
I know *just enough* to be dangerous...
How to unbreak my wordpress install after trying to change base URL? [more inside]
My faith in humanity continues to dwindle.
A number of technology experts have criticized the iPhone's implementation of in-built hardware encryption. Apparently, circumventing it is a trivial matter of docking it to an Ubuntu system and making a drive image. For someone who knows what he is doing, it would take only a few minutes. How secure, however, is the "Erase all Content and Settings" option? If I understand correctly, this works by simply wiping the encryption key thus rendering all data useless to an intruder. More inside. [more inside]
How do I learn math for CLEP?
Help me learn math for my CLEP test, please. [more inside]
How to apply green makeup on a temporarily red face?
I'm a 20-something year old female that currently does not wear makeup. I know as much about applying makeup as this guy. I wouldn't waste the money and time applying and buying makeup if I didn't have to. However, I have mild Rosacea that comes and goes, which has left me suicidally depressed these last five years when it was more frequent (For reasons unknown the frequency of the flushing has reduced significantly since 2011 and I no longer struggle with a burning lobster red face on a daily basis.), and I would like to not have to endure the painful joke or comment about it the unpredictably rare times my face flushes and feels hot to the touch in public. It's for this reason I'd like to learn a few makeup tips for someone with mild Rosacea, sensitive skin, and an otherwise pale olive complexion. If it helps, the picture in my profile is misleading; my skin tone is closer to this shade on a good day. How do I apply the appropriate makeup (green makeup, apparently) when I'm not always red but know I will be at some point during the day? Wouldn't green makeup make me look, uh, green when I'm not flushing?
What's this movie?
Looking for a movie based on a book written by a child author in the nineteenth century possible called 'the young travellors' [sic] [more inside]
May 14
Looking for characters who face subtle consequences because of their character flaws
Looking for subtle examples in fiction: a character is manipulated by others and faces consequences, or screws himself/herself over, because of his/her own character flaws or immoral actions. [more inside]
Help with Actionscripting my animal sounds?
Give a guy a break learning AS3? I want to create a learning object but having issues. [more inside]
I can't travel - armchair traveller's give me your tips!
I am unable to travel because 1) I lack money (I'm unemployed) and 2) my fiancee is unable to travel due to illness (chronic fatigue syndrome). However I'd like to have some fun, even more than I do at the moment, through "armchair travelling". What been your most fun armchair travel experiences? Is there a foreign-set movie, a particular travel book, web site or a particular way you bring back memories of a holiday you actually you went to that I might enjoy? [more inside]
How to make injera at home?
How to make injera at home? [more inside]
Day trip to Greenland from Iceland
My fellow thespian seagull and I are considering a day trip to Greenland from Iceland in early July. We are seeing mixed reviews online with a few of the Air Iceland destinations. Because the trip adds a large chuck of change to the cost of the trip we are questioning it's value. Can you tell me if it is worth it or not? [more inside]
Motorola Droid Screen Won't Turn on
Motorola Droid took a fall, now the screen won't turn on, How do I fix it myself? [more inside]
Chicago/Hyde Park-filter: Good quiet environments for academic work?
What would be a fairly quiet locale, with wifi, in Hyde Park (Chicago) to get some work done? I'm not affiliated with U of C, so any network requiring U of C affiliation is out. [more inside]
Renting a steam roller seems excessive.
Suggestions on straightening a sheet of warped wood veneer? [more inside]
Dem Bones dem bones!
What do you do with old x-rays? [more inside]
Win7 to XP file sharing setup advice needed
I am computer competent and networking stupid. I have a pretty simple setup in mind, but I'm not sure how to do it. I have searched around and I found several guides and discussions related to my goal but after trying unsuccessfully to get this thing going on my machines I decided someone here could probably offer some good advice.
I want to have file sharing capabilities between my desktop and my netbook. No printer or internet connection sharing or anything else needed--just file sharing.
I have a desktop running Windows 7. It has no wireless card.
I have an Asus Eee PC netbook running XP.
Both connect through the internet through an Asus RT-N12 router. The desktop wired and the netbook wirelessly.
What is the simplest way to do file sharing between these two computers with this setup? Even just telling me the type of setup I need to use or a poke in the right direction would be helpful. ThankS!
Whiskey, War and Whigs - Great Books On The Founding of the United States?
Looking For Great Books About The Founding of the United States [more inside]
Take My Breath Away
How do I ensure my daughters safety at the prom while not restricting her freedom and diminishing trust. [more inside]
laminate flooring - HELP
Hi everyone,
I am thinking of putting in (DIY) laminate floorboards from Bunnings (australia) into my open plan kitchen/living area. Does anyone have any experience with the the boards from Bunnings or any other useful advice, thoughts or opinions. [more inside]
Build an Access database to display survey results
I've never used Access; I'm a SQL snowflake and don't take naturally to its norms. Pretend I'm your technology-challenged elderly relative, and tell me how to set up tables to run queries on survey results. [more inside]
Curry leaves everywhere!
What can I do with a bag of fresh curry leaves? [more inside]
Can I replace an entire car door on the cheap?
Can I replace an entire car door & fender on the cheap with junkyard parts and parts ordered online? [more inside]
condescending names
trying to compile a list of condescending terms like "kid" or "son" [more inside]
J.C.'s Greatest Hits
What are the most memorable or significant stories about Jesus? [more inside]
Owmyleg
I was run over by a car, and I have what looks to be a lengthy hospital stay ahead of me. Help me avoid suicide from boredom! [more inside]
What WinAmp equalizer setting will most emphasize the bass guitar?
What WinAmp equalizer setting will most emphasize the bass guitar? [more inside]
faceache
I didn't change any settings, but Facebook has suddenly decided to merge facebook chat with messages, and to put all messages to and from a person into one single conversation stretching back forever. Is there any way to change this back? [more inside]
The Giving Tree
As it turns out, the big weed that I couldn't cut down last year is a Boxelder maple (Acer negundo), and we've decided to keep it as a shade tree for our deck. Now I'm addicted, and I want more trees. What would you suggest for our climate and placement? [more inside]
Where, in person, can I buy red wiggler worms for vermicomposting in Chicago?
Where, in person, can I buy red wiggler worms for vermicomposting in Chicago?
Where can I find men's button-fly pants??
Where can I find men's button-fly trousers???
I have searched and searched for men's button fly trousers. Not looking for Levi 501s (those are easy to find). [more inside]
Wa gwan?
Cheapest way to call friends in Jamaica? [more inside]
Help with online galleries
You'd think find a free looping, autoplaying flash gallery maker would be easy, wouldn't you ? [more inside]
Help me prepare for baby number 2!
We are expecting our second child in the next fortnight. What sort of things did you find most difficult and challenging transitioning to a family of four and how did you deal with it? [more inside]
What to do in Detroit in July?
I'll be in Detroit most of July. What fun festivals, events, art showings, or other fun scenes should I be sure to check out? I'm looking for the full breadth of cultural diversity.
I think I have worms in my head
I think my scalp is infested with nematodes. What do I do? [more inside]
DIY bike-in/walk-in movie; help me figure out my options
Doing a guerilla outdoor movie showing…lots of options, some good threads on MeFi already, but I need a bit more advice on:
- Parameters
- Format
- Projection
- Sound
- Power
(see inside for more…) [more inside]
The Touch..the smell...of cotton (and silk, and rayon)...
Many new garments have a distinctive smell that disagrees with me. What's the likely source of this odor? [more inside]
How can I do everything I want to this Summer?
There are so many things I'd like to do and learn this Summer before college starts back this Fall. To make things tougher to accomplish, I have ADHD. Are all the things I would like to do really possible? Any tips/hacks/etc.? [more inside]
How long will my chicken last?
I bought a hot rotisserie chicken from the deli section at the local health food store today. I took it apart and packed the light and dark meat and some of the skin into glass mason jars. I am storing these jars in my fridge. How long can I expect them to last? Can I eat the chicken from the jars 3 to 4 days from now? If I had just put the whole chicken in the fridge, would it have lasted longer? Thank you so much!
Gchat Invisibility Loophole?
Is there way to unhide yourself from certain people on gchat and hide from everybody else? [more inside]
Dude, back me up here!
Can I use my iPod Touch as a backup for my pc/documents/pics/music? I thought they absolutely could be used for pics and music but then whats the deal with programs that aid in making your iPod Touch a legit hard drive? Alternatively, what to do with an iPod Touch now that I have another iDevice? [more inside]
What's the easiest way for my iPad2 to connect to the 3G signal on my iPhone?
What's the easiest way for my iPad2 to connect to the 3G signal on my iPhone? [more inside]
Helo Me Roast Veggies on the Grill
I want to roast (or grill, or whatever) vegetables on my gas grill, and I need help.
I am looking for general (or specific) pointers on cooking anything from broccolini to zucchini on the grill, without burning the shit out of them, which is what I have been doing so far. [more inside]
Automagic Car Wash.
One of my favorite things as a kid was to sit in the car as it went through an automatic car wash. Where in Chicago would you advise me to experience this thrill again? [more inside]
Is there anything like flickrriver that I can modify and host on my own website?
Is there anything like flickrriver that I can modify and host on my own website? Or... if not... any recommendations for something similar? [more inside]
Seeking: temporary satellite office
Please suggest extended stay accommodations in Toronto. [more inside]
Friend or foe? Plant or weed?
I'm in Southern California and have a tiny patch of dirt, so over the past couple of years, we've been trying to grow random things, seemingly with no success, except recently, a bunch of stuff sprouted up. Please help ID these. [more inside]
Eating in Bilbao
I am somewhat unexpectedly going to be working in Bilbao this week. Please recommend good places to eat in the evenings. Would like to go for fairly local cuisine, say up to euro25 per head without drink.
Re-Solder Copper Pipe After Water Leaked
Help Soldering Water Pipe - AGAIN (please don't recommend shark bites or any shortcuts - I did it last year, and it leaked again, thats why I'm trying to do this the right way). [more inside]
PVA Primer & Patching
Can I apply more joint compound over PVA primer? [more inside]
Am I being humorless or did I have the right to speak up?
Had a brief, but harsh exchange of words with someone on an online message board where I stated his response of "No Homo" made me feel uncomfortable. He said I was the most humorless person on the board. Should I learn to accept a joke even if I don't like it? [more inside]
Older working adults in media?
I have recently started a research project about people who establish careers in media late in life. I would like to find people who started media companies or started public or management roles in media late in life and interview them, but I am having trouble finding leads. Can you signpost me? [more inside]
Photo retrieval from an antique cell phone?
How do I retrieve photos from a Samsung Cleo? [more inside]
Best strategy for negatively marked exam?
What strategies can be used to do well in a negatively marked exam? [more inside]
Grrrr
My job is making my life suck, but I think it's my fault. And I don't know what to do. [more inside]
Responding to a friend's comment.
Was I too harsh in response to a friend's comment? [more inside]
What is the absolute fastest fat loss regimen?
What is the fastest way to lose fat? I am looking for the probably impractical ways that are too hard for most people to stick to. I imagine eating nothing and exercising a lot is even slower fat loss than eating 500 calories a day. So what would an optimal (fastest) fat loss regimen look like? (purely to satisfy my curiosity, not for practical or real use)
Fading volume nicely with JS
In jQuery (or vanilla JavaScript), how do I repeatedly call a method with a numeric argument that increases or decreases over time? [more inside]
What are the best Justice League episodes of Smallvile?
Looking for the best Justice League episodes of Smallville. [more inside]
Is there a Chrome extension to fix my issue?
Does anyone know of a Chrome extension which will allow hyperlinked text to copy over to email properly? [more inside]
Hotels and things to do around East Lansing, MI?
Looking for a place to stay and things to do in the vicinity of East Lansing, MI at the end of June. [more inside]
Women's health says this will get me a beach body
Dear metafilter: I'd like to get your opinion about this eating plan. I'm a 5'6 36 year old woman and I need to lose 20lbs to have a normal BMI. I've been strength training 4 times a week for eight weeks. I've been trying to eat only whole foods and lots of vegetables since the beginning of the year but I've not lost any weight mostly because I will eat big fatty meals at a restaurant after being good all week. I also haven't been counting calories and even though i've been eating whole foods my snacks of hummus and cheese and crackers have probably had too many calories. The only exception to the whole foods has been chocolate from the office candy jar and diet soda, which I really need to quit. [more inside]
Help Me Trace the Intellectual and Biographical Origins of Signaling Theory
A. Michael Spence and David K. Lewis are two highly regarded, contemporary scholars. Spence was the 2001 co-recipient of the Nobel Prize in economics (with George Akerlof and Joseph Stiglitz), given in part for his work on job market signaling. Lewis is considered to be one of the greatest metaphysical philosophers of the 20th century and a few years before Spence he developed his own theory of signaling.
I cannot find any evidence that Spence's work on signaling is directly connected to Lewis's own work on the same subject - no citations, acknowledgements or biographical information that I have found suggests Spence was influenced by Lewis.
I'm trying to collect more information on the links between these two men so I can better understand the historical development of signaling in economics. I am specifically interested in whether Lewis influenced Spence directly or indirectly (as opposed to both men developing their work on signaling due to some common third factor, like "it was just in the air"). Did they independently discover signaling? What is Spence's unique contribution in signaling theory given Lewis's own work on the subject a few years earlier? What role did Schelling play? Below I have produced some timelines and citations, but there's not a lot given my ignorance of Lewis's work. [more inside]
How do we get rid of red mites on a lovebird?
Do you have experience with treating mites on a pet bird? My friend has a lovebird and just discovered red mites (not many - fewer than a dozen). Does over-the-counter spray work? Should she be freaking out about having them in her carpet and potentially a house infestation? Any advice is appreciated!
Should I work on my relationship or break up?
I'm having doubts about my relationship and am not sure if I should try and work things out or end it. [more inside]
Advice on purchasing a desktop computer
I'm planning on getting a new desktop computer which I mainly plan on using for ArcGIS 10 and would appreciate advice on what to get. [more inside]
What can I do with a PhD in Sociology/Criminology?
What can I do with a PhD in Sociology/Criminology? [more inside]
Marketing position salary - entry level?
I was recently offered an entry-level job at small marketing firm. What is the going rate for salary and benefits? [more inside]
Please Just Take My Money And Don't Make Me Decide
I put money in an ETrade Roth IRA account. Now it's there. What is the next logical step? [more inside]
Scifi book query: setting is planet with long elliptical orbit.
SciFi Filter: What's this book -- came out in the last 10 years, and the basic premise is that it's set on a planet with a long elliptical orbit so that there's a very long winter and a very short summer/growing season. And, it's not The Left Hand of Darkness, which has a similar premise.
Rules for killing, maiming, dismembering, etc?
I went to a festival today and watched battle re-enactments for the first time. Are there rules? How do participants know when to die, when to be injured, when to advance, when to retreat? [more inside]
Big compilations, tiny songs.
Massive (50-100+ track) compilations of tiny songs? [more inside]
Do I need/should get a headphone amp if I already have powered desktop speakers that have a headphone jack?
Hey Audiophiles - Do I need/should get a headphone amp if I already have powered desktop speakers that have a headphone jack?
I can't find any specs for the headphone jack on my speakers(is it just passthru?) but i can't find this speak on any others i shop for.
I was looking to buy Sound Blaster X-Fi HD or just some nice < $200 computer speakers with a headphone jack?
Any suggestions? Am I completely off?
FYI - these are for a set of Sennheiser HD595
May 13
Moving houshold permanently to Australia
How to move large household of stuff from San Francisco bay area to Sydney area Australia. [more inside]
Where can I find more bass like this?
Can humans act as carriers for feline herpes?
Can humans act as a carrier for feline herpes? [more inside]
A romantic weekend from LA?
What's a great weekend getaway from Los Angeles at a resonable price? [more inside]
My family and I are hoping to take a vacation together in August, but are not sure where - help us out.
My family and I are hoping to take a vacation together in August, but are not sure where - help us out. [more inside]
I want to buy a home office audio system this weekend
Please guide me in buying 2 speakers plus sub-woofer and an amp for my 13 foot square home office (with TV and computer). I am adrift even after a good bit of research. My budget, room size and needs are more modest than in past questions I read. Also mail order is out. Lots of details and clarification within. [more inside]
How to catch/deter retail store thieves?
What measures can I take to prevent retail store thieves from getting away in their unmarked vehicles (i.e., temporarily moved license plates). [more inside]
It's just that I forget what I liked, someone needs to remind me
Is there any service that will tell me when things become available on Netflix Watch Instantly? [more inside]
What is this thing?
What can you tell me about this award? (Pic 1, Pic 2) My great-grandfather gave this to me when I was a child, no one knows where he got it, or what for. It's a 1923 silver dollar mounted on a keychain, so that the coin can rotate freely. The box it came in is black cardboard lined with silver. [more inside]
Help me figure out whether my mom qualifies for disability, and how to get it if she does.
Help me figure out whether my mom qualifies for disability, and how to get it if she does. [more inside]
Looking for CDC shows
I'm looking for TV series that focus on the Center for Disease Control, and the people who work there. [more inside]
Motorcycle Mechanic in Portland Oregon?
Anyone have any recommendations for a reputable (and affordable?) motorcycle mechanic in Portland Oregon?
Can I go back to school yet?
Given my level of preparation, how reasonable is it for me to hope to get into a funded master's program in computer science? And can you suggest some schools that fund non-PhD students? [more inside]
Please help me find an article from an archaeological publication!
I'm trying to find an article about the excavation of the remains of a medieval noblewoman who was voluntarily sealed in a room in an abbey. The link was in a UK archaeological publication. It was posted to the blue some time in the last year or so.
Getting Grandma to Give up the Keys
My grandmother is getting too old to drive. We know it, but she doesn't. Any ideas of how to deal with this? [more inside]
From Seriously Uncool to Subzero!
Help me find the best/most cost-effective way to cool my apartment this summer! Special snowflake apartment and clueless renter here!! [more inside]
Mac machine admin accounts and their ability to remove other admins
I would like to keep one admin account on a Mac from stripping admin privileges from other admin accounts. [more inside]
How can I learn more about the technology of my industry?
How can I get more tech-y? [more inside]
Seasonal music
It's finally warming up where I am. What are your favorite albums and musical acts for summer? [more inside]
Need honest Air Conditioning Company in Naples, Florida
Looking for honest and reputable Air Conditioning company in Naples, Florida, that will not take advantage of my elderly mother. [more inside]
Will he get fired (God, I hope so)?
Is printing pornography on your employer's printer on work time a fire-able offense? [more inside]
Help me make the most of my solo retreat!
Next week, I'm taking 3 days away from family and work to relax, recharge and (hopefully) reprogram myself. Please help me make the most of it! [more inside]
Creit card repayment question
Credit card repayment question....
I'm helping a friend put together a credit card repayment plan/strategy and i want to double check that my common sense is right. Assuming 3 cards with similar balances and different APRs, (and we'll assume that those won't change significantly though I know they might), and a fixed amount available to pay each month. I think it makes sense to pay as much as possible to the card with the highest APR until it it's fully re-payed before moving on to the next highest APR, all the while paying the minimum payments on the other cards to avoid fees.... [more inside]
Seeking Interesting Military Stories
Looking for military stories, but that do not center solely around combat. These can be from any military excursion (humanitarian aid, covert ops, etc....) from WWII until today. [more inside]
Blow My Mind with Podcasts
Looking for mindblowing podcasts. [more inside]
My, that is an axe
There is (I recall) a science fiction story about an intergalactic rock band called Slime, who wrote it? [more inside]
Another name-that-band question ...
What's the name of this Japanese prog/pop/rock band that someone once referenced in a thread? [more inside]
Baby, let me rock your world
Help a girl out by telling her what music will likely appeal to her metal/rock fan boyfriend. [more inside]
Fibroids are making me look fatter than I already am. Help!
YANMD: Are there any legit natural cures/treatments for fibroids? There are lots of sites out there saying such, but of course they are solely from the perspective of the person or company touting out the product. My surgical options are limited so I'm hoping for some sort of alternative. [more inside]
Retake GMAT for resume bullet point
Is it common or appropriate to put your GMAT score on your resume? If so, is it worth it take the GMAT a second time to improve your score? [more inside]
Salsa in DC Recommendations
Salsa in Washington DC area: Where are the best places to dance salsa in the washington dc area? [more inside]
Find Service Dog in NJ
Where can you find a service dog in NJ?
That Dweam Within A Dweam!
I want to learn how better to control my dreams while in them. [more inside]
should I be worried about my cholesterol?
How much does eating vs fasting prior to the blood test affect your cholesterol reading? [more inside]
It looks like Slimer from Ghostbusters died in here.
A family member accidentally left a huge bag of gummy bears and worms in the backseat of his car during a very hot day and now the damn thing has melted all over the leather and into the seatbelt cavity. What are our options? [more inside]
MASH Star Trek Episode help
Help with Star Trek (TNG) and MASH Episodes [more inside]
Find the DSM-III depression criteria online?
Does anybody know if there's a place online where I can find the DSM-III criteria for Major Depression? Not DSM-IV, not DSM-III-R, but the original 1980 DSM-III. [more inside]
I want to see a dead body.
I'm working as a producer in New York on a mid-scale documentary that is exploring the way we as a culture relate to death. I was having breakfast this morning with the director when we both realised that neither of us has actually ever been in a room with a dead body. Now, I realise that this is an incredibly odd question, but I'm really not sure how to go about arranging it. We would like to see a dead body before it has been attended by funeral directors and if possible to film our reactions to it while in the room, but more importantly have the experience of seeing one and filming our expectations and reactions.
I'm assuming I can't just ring up the NYC morgue and ask. Anyone have any ideas about the best and most respectful way to do this?
Deciding about fertility
You finally decided either that you did, or that you would not ever, want to get pregnant / give birth. (You're NOT one of the women for whom an answer here is totally clear and easy.) What was your process; what helped you be sure?
Need to find cases of state-sanctioned development projects against local consent, especially if by private for-profit companies
I am looking for good examples to cite for a brief section of paper that looks at contemporary debates over development -- specifically examples of economic development projects which have gone ahead against the consent of local people on the grounds that the benefit to the larger society outweighed any detriment to the local people - especially if the development itself was/is carried out by a for-profit company. [more inside]
Powerful Comics Articulate Feelings Better than I Do.
I once ran across an educational/political comic. Someone on my shared PC cleaned out the history so now I can't find it. Text description of this comic inside... [more inside]
How should I rank these alternative poker hands?
I'm trying to rank some non-proper poker hands within the conventional poker hand-ranking framework. I would like to rank them conventionally, i.e. on their probability of occurring in a straight, five-card deal.
The non-proper hands are:
(1) "Four-card straight" (four cards in a row);
(2) "Four-card flush" (four cards of the same suit);
(3) "Four-card straight flush" (four cards in a row of the same suit);
(4) "Same-color flush" (all 5 red cards or all 5 black cards);
(5) "Straight same-color flush" (a straight composed of all black cards or all red cards);
(6) "Four-card straight same-color flush" (a four-card straight composed of all black cards or all red cards).
My probability skills are "OK" (the odds for the four-card flush and same-color flush are straightforward), but some of them (particularly the straights) seem too tricky for me. [more inside]
When does a car rental check your license?
Will a car rental agency require my license both before and after picking up the vehicle? [more inside]
When you're wrong and you may not know it...
What is the name for a law/act/legislation that turns, an otherwise law abiding citizen, into a criminal? [more inside]
Who made these cool wood toys?
I found some lovely wooden toys at Goodwill last week. Please help me identify them. [more inside]
Some wood, a swing, a slide, help us with our playground dream!
Help us build a playground in our backyard! [more inside]
simple songs for a soprano
I need simple songs for a beginning soprano singing student. [more inside]
World didn't end, what now?
What happens to believers when the world DOESN'T end? [more inside]
Any LC's in the house?
My wife is interested in developing a private practice as a lactation consultant. Business advice needed. [more inside]
Help me find this Coke commercial from the 80's!
Help me find this Coke commercial from the 80's! Someone I know starred in a "Coke is it!" commercial when he was a senior in high school (most likely in 1982). It was cast and shot entirely in Charleston, SC and featured beach scenes. His only description was "it was the opening of a beach house."
To infinity but not beyond . . .
∞ focus at ∞ distance = out of focus? [more inside]
Young, fun and full of puns
Music-filter: I want songs that make you feel young and carefree! [more inside]
Help me find a typing-software styled memorization quiz for times tables
I am looking for a quiz program that will interactively help me practice my times tables, rehearsing the answers I get wrong a lot and waiting until I make progress before adding new questions to learn. [more inside]
Concerns about switching from iOS to Android?
Thinking of switching to Android (HTC Desire Z) from iPhone 3GS. Lots of questions inside... [more inside]
Help me find books of pop culture criticism
Help me find cool books of criticism/essays/interviews/etc. [more inside]
Antibodies and Boobies
Breastfeeding and immunity filter:
When I (the breastfeeding mom) am exposed to a bug that I have previously developed antibodies to, does baby get enough antibodies to prevent contracting the bug?
Does he make antibodies too, or just float by on mine?
When he encounters the same bug later in life will he have immunity to it?
Does baby get my antibodies to bugs we're not encountering?
Is he, for instance, immune to the flu from 2002 that I got?
They say that BF babies get sick less often and when they get sick it's not as bad. Immunity-wise, how can a baby get a bug not as bad? Does that just mean the bug doesn't get to run the course, ie. cut off midway?
Need ideas about regional American foods.
Need ideas about regional American foods. [more inside]
Is it ever normal to dislike your SO?
Is it normal to dislike your boyfriend at times? (Or girlfriend, or husband, any SO...) [more inside]
How to make a pet rehoming decision?
I'm afraid I may have to find a new home for my dog, and I'm really brokenhearted about it. How can I best make this decision? [more inside]
USB Hub for Macbook Air
USB hub for Macbook Air - can you recommend one? I just need something I can plug the usual array of peripherals into: iPod, iPad, SuperDrive, camera, external keyboard, mouse, printer, etc. (not necessarily all at once). I don't think I need anything fancy like extra hard drive storage built in, but open to all ideas. Thanks.
How do I merge an SVG image with chunks of HTML to make one nice big node diagram?
How do I merge an SVG image with chunks of HTML to make one nice big node diagram? [more inside]
Calling all Cobblers...
How can I insure my spouse on the private market?
I'm going nuts trying to figure out the rules on how to get my spouse on an individual high-deductible health plan when coverage is theoretically available through my employer. The internet is useless. Can the hive mind help me here? [more inside]
Sir Mix-a-lot meets the Transformers
What was that Sir Mix-A-Lot song with an old school transformer sound effect in it? [more inside]
Contract for a freelance software project
How do I set up a contract? This is my first freelance software-development project and I have no idea what I'm doing. [more inside]
He loves round-bottoms..!
My boyfriend might be failing out of graduate school. What can I do to help? [more inside]
Fill the gaping hole in my ipod!
I really like Rage Against the Machine and Audioslave. Who else should I listen to? [more inside]
How to repair a deadbolt lock
There is a pebble (I think) stuck in the lock to my house! Can I get this out myself? [more inside]
Baby suppositories
I need to administer a suppository to a very small baby. Any advice and tricks from people with experience? [more inside]
I need a goldfish in its prime
Can New Yorkers with pet fish experience please recommend a store where I might purchase a healthy, ethically untarnished goldfish? [more inside]
How do I get my Mac to acknowledge my Android tablet?
How do I get my Mac to acknowledge my Android tablet? [more inside]
Bring me food!
Has anyone in the New York (Brooklyn) area ever used a food delivery service for dieting? [more inside]
Twice as opinionated as the average blogger
Does there exist free blogging services & templates that enable one to have a bilingual blog, with side-by-side translations? [more inside]
Books
Best books about manipulating people - e.g. via game theory, behavioural economics, inaccurate cognitive algorithms and so on? [more inside]
Why do some videos look so dang good?
Why does some video quality appear warm and soft while others looks harsh and grainy? [more inside]
Give me fitness motivators!
About a month ago, I ran across this online image gallery intended to motivate the gallery's owner to stick to his/her fitness routine. I'd like more images like these, please! [more inside]
Run app that requires 2gb ram on an Acer netbook with 1.5?
How can I run an application that requires 2gb ram on an Acer netbook with 1.5? The application is NaturallySpeaking voice recognition software. I would need to both get around the limitation, and actually make it run ok. [more inside]
Voicemail Forwarding
Forwarding Verizon Voicemails to Google Voice (or an otherwise safe location)? [more inside]
Are language workbenches a failure?
Is Model Driven Development / Language Workbenches / DSL IDEs a failure? [more inside]
Dry Dry Eyes
I have a dry eyes issue - could it be connected to Retin-A use? Any anecdotal experience with treating dry eyes? [more inside]
Did this computer game about evolution actually exist?
Sometime in the late '80s or early '90s I read, in a computer magazine, a review of a game where you had to create a creature by manipulating "genes" for various traits then release it into a wireframe ecosystem. Did this game ever actually exist? Anyone heard of it? [more inside]
Transferring between terminals at Philadelphia Airport
I'm flying into Philadelphia Airport next month. I arrive at Terminal A, and my connecting flight is 2 hours later at Terminal F. From the online map it looks like these 2 terminals are very far apart- how does one get from terminal to terminal? I have 2 hours between flights, during which time I have to get my luggage, clear customs, and check in for my connecting flight. Should I be concerned about having enough time?
Orbus sensualim pictus for the modern language learner
I'm trying to find public domain e-books of English language teaching material that I can adapt into online courses. [more inside]
Where to buy, Embedded Systems conferences reading material?
Can the tutorials, presentations and other reading material given to attendees at Embedded Systems Conferences, which happen annualy in Silicon Valley-US, and also in other places, be purchased later if one has not attended the conference? If yes, Where, How can one buy that?
Looking for a complex and variable world design game or software tool
Looking for a complex and variable world/city design game/tool [more inside]
Edison sounded clearer than this.
While listening to some records this evening, I realized that the tracking force on the tonearm was never properly set, and when I checked it on the balance scale, it was crazy high. It's been like this for years. Is the cartridge damaged? [more inside]
May 12
Unbiased termite inspections in Los Angeles?
Are there companies in Los Angeles that give UNBIASED termite inspections? [more inside]
Paris in the Springtime... Sucks
RER strike in Paris today. What should I do to get to Charles de Gaulle airport? [more inside]
Failed California smog today. Running out of options.
Went to get my smog test done today. I almost passed it. The problem was that my engine is running a TINY bit too rich. There were more hydrocarbons and carbon monoxide coming out of my car's tailpipe than C.A.R.B. would have liked. The guy that was working at the smog test place was nice enough not to red flag my car for not having my pre-cat. [more inside]
Info about artist 王濟遠 Wang Ji Yuan (1893-1975)?
Anybody know anything about about artist 王濟遠 Wang Ji Yuan (1893-1975)? [more inside]
Your company is known by the company it keeps. (Or, Am I my company's keeper?)
In the US, how does the choice (or not) to disclose Equal Employment Opportunity Act information such as gender and race affect a company's overall hiring processes? [more inside]
Mouse hell
My Microsoft Setpoint (wireless optical) mouse isn't selecting properly anymore, especially text, but seems to work properly in every other way. [more inside]
What statistical analysis of historical prices would be useful for a buyer?
What statistical analysis of historical prices would be useful for a buyer? [more inside]
Can I ignore electric shock pain?
Herniated disc, doctor says it's ok to climb (can't make it worse). First week back, electric shock pain. Can I safely ignore this? [more inside]
Where can a girl get a drink after Bay to Breakers?
Guidance for what to do in San Francisco this weekend, surrounding our Bay to Breakers run (B2B trudge might be more accurate). Four women, 35-41. Complication: hotel is in Fisherman's Wharf. [more inside]
cool math-y gifts?
I'm looking for an awesome, tactile, mathy gift for a friend of mine. Suggestions? [more inside]
Help me read Twitter without actually being a Twitterer
I like reading some people's Twitter feeds, but I don't want to join Twitter. I used to be able to subscribe to individual Twitter feeds via RSS, but Twitter doesn't support direct RSS feeds any more. They recommend "using a 3rd party service." What does this mean? And how can I, a somewhat technologically clueless individual, read individual Twitter feeds on my Google homepage?
ID a song: "winter wonderland", "wanted to hold your hand", and beer...
Music filter - heard a song I liked and only caught snippets of the lyrics, "winter wonderland", "wanted to hold your hand", and "beers". Help?! [more inside]
Is It Me, or Is It the Universe?
If the only constant in life is change, why is nothing changing? And can I do anything about it? [more inside]
Ow. owie. Ouch.
YANMD being a given, I could use some advice re my thumb, of all things. Maybe a week or so ago I started having difficulty with it.... [more inside]
Involuntary desalination
Incrementing a datetime in PHP
How can I increment a mySQL datetime in PHP? [more inside]
I have an idea, but have no idea how to execute it
I have an idea for a gift registry. What are the nuts and bolts of bringing it to fruition? [more inside]
a meltdown about a meltdown
Asking from a position of almost complete ignorance, and to reassure anxious family members: Would today's news of the full meltdown at Fukushima cause you to cancel a planned trip to Kyoto this July? Can you give me some hard data about the radiation danger of a week in Kyoto versus (say) the radiation danger of a trans-Pacific flight?
Missing Color in Photoshop
When I open scans, photos and internet images in photoshop it's missing yellow. [more inside]
How do I get better at sending emails?
My social anxiety is backwards. I love talking to people in person and speaking in front of crowds, I'm pretty good with phones, but emails, online forums, and paper correspondence are things I approach with extreme reluctance. Does anyone else have this problem? How can I cope? [more inside]
All's you need's a hug
[PlaylistFilter] Theme: "It's gonna be okay." [more inside]
Two dads have weekly lunches. Lately, we've wondered if we should do a project together during that time. Any ideas?
What's a good joint project between two 45-year-old dads who get together once a week for a 90-minute lunch (we're long-term friends)? [more inside]
gra[r] part two
Why does JGR crash when I try to make crosstabs in [R]? [more inside]
Good posture corrective brace
Can you recommend a good posture corrective brace? Generally, I have a slight "hunched over the computer" posture (more so when I'm actually at the computer), and would like to correct it. I looked at this one, which seems to have good reviews, but wanted to ask for an opinion before I buy something that may potentially have side effects on my back.
Help me design a cool hanko (seal)!
As a thank-you for completing a special project for him, a client has offered to craft a hanko for me. Help? [more inside]
What was Stevie Nick's encore for the Vancouver April 22 performance of the Heart and Soul Tour 2011?
What was Stevie Nick's encore for the Vancouver April 22 performance of the Heart and Soul Tour 2011? [more inside]
Seeking teaching job in Boston. Help?
What is the hiring climate like in Boston for recent graduates with little to no teaching experience but with my qualifications? [more inside]
Cat Sitting for Income
Portland OR hive: Any experience with home based cat boarding in the area around Portland, Hillsboro, Beaverton? Thinking a nice small boarding business would be a good retirement income plan. Is this even possible?
Why, when brought out of sleep, are our Macs unusably slow when Safari was left running before they went into sleep mode?
Why, when brought out of sleep, are our Macs unusably slow when Safari was left running before they went into sleep mode? [more inside]
Instruments rarely heard in pop music
What popular songs or songs by popular bands use instruments not commonly associated with rock/pop/alternative music? [more inside]
How do you resist the urge to nag your partner? Or do you?
How do you resist the urge to nag your partner? Or do you? [more inside]
Is it Oops I Crapped My Pants in here, or is that just me?
Is there such a thing as heat-induced diarrhea, is it a cause for alarm, and is there anything I can do to thwart it? [more inside]
You Shouldn't Take Drugs, but When You Do...
I'm looking for a particular book. It might have been called "People's Medical something-or-other". Or maybe not. Details inside. [more inside]
3 Boxes o' Mystery
Brooklynfilter: What are these red-and-white boxes on the corner of Smith and Union Streets? [more inside]
Choosing NJ Car Insurance
Looking into auto insurance as a 22 year old male in NJ. What companies are affordable yet also reliable in the event I need to file a claim? [more inside]
Come on over for dinner, Big Brother.
I'm looking for a weight loss program with more accountability than Weight Watchers. [more inside]
Why am I such a misfit? I am not just a nitwit.
My boss says that my skills are 100% on target, but I'm not "meshing with the team." Help! [more inside]
30 Days to a Better Me!
What five things do you recommend a person do to make themselves healthier, slimmer and overall a better person in 30 days? [more inside]
Can I trust student orthodontists?
Can I trust student orthodontists? [more inside]
Help me find hiking equipment?
What piece of outdoor equipment am I looking for? [more inside]
OTC Orthotics for Arch Support?
Based on your experience, what would be a really excellent brand and model to go with for over the counter orthotics for arch support and stabilization of the foot?
Everything Depends On Execution...
I'm stage managing a show using video projections, and we're using VLC Media Player to screen the video clips. I'm looking for a particular kind of display mode people say SHOULD exist, but I can't find how to do it. Help. [more inside]
What Microphone should I use in Rural Ghana?
What microphone should I use in rural Ghana? [more inside]
Help me name my potential blog.
Blog naming help: Boy Scouts, Merit Badges, learning project. Help me come up with a name that I wouldn't be embarrassed to use. [more inside]
To have, or not to have casual sex: that is the question
Do I have non-monogamous sex "in the meantime"? [more inside]
What's changed in Lawrence, KS in the past 10 years
What's changed in Lawrence, KS since 2001-ish? [more inside]
After dark water fight
How do I go about organizing an after dark water fight in New York City? [more inside]
What are the practical and ethical issues regarding using pen names on internet sites that expect people to use their real name?
What are the practical and ethical issues regarding using pen names on internet sites that expect people to use their real name? [more inside]
So I want to be a social studies textbook editor...
A few years ago I landed on this idea of what I think may really be the perfect fun-and-interesting job for me: a textbook editor. But even more so with social studies content. How do I do it? [more inside]
Tell me what to tell (college) kids about drugs.
What should college kids know about psychoactive drugs? [more inside]
Sheesh, what did I ever do to this person?
I'm working at a new job in a new field (still learning the ropes) and I'm pretty much getting along with everyone except one person in particular. To make matters worse, she's in the cubicle right next to mine. We may run into each other in the hallways or pass by each other's desks and she rarely smiles or says hello, even when I make the effort to do so. [more inside]
Pearly Whites to LightBrites?
I'm thinking of whitening my teeth using cold blue light with whitening gel . have you done this before? what was your experience, did it make your teeth hurt, how long between appointments do i need to wait, anything else i should know? thanks!
Tried to relax -- got a pain in the neck
Massage therapist pulling on neck? [more inside]
Model rocket launch at 1500. Don't be late.
Is there a good online repository for technology geek ephemera from the 80s? I'm thinking of a teenage kid in his 80s bedroom holding a soldering iron, working on a hobby project next to his C64. Would love to see imagery, video, back issues of magazines, whatever.
Old building, tiny entrance, big furniture, oh my!
How would you go about moving or buying furniture when your new place has a single entrance that is, when opened, only 26 inches wide and has very steep stairs?
I posted earlier and got great responses about my new place that I thought I'd bring another challenge to discussion and would love the feedback. [more inside]
I love you. Now leave me alone.
How to create/preserve a solitary brain-active morning routine when living with a distracting partner. [more inside]
Help me find this tumblr post!
I saw a post yesterday or the day before on tumblr about the bible and how it basically endorses plant-based diets and sort of says not to eat meat - help me find it? [more inside]
What sort of business/management training is relevant to lawyers?
What sort of business/management training is relevant to lawyers? [more inside]
Historical NYC apartment rental prices?
Have Manhattan apartment rental prices always been prohibitively expensive relative to prices in other major US cities? [more inside]
Has Spring Sprung Late?
Has Spring sprung late? Where can I find data on variations from year to year as to the "starting dates" of certain regional climactic marker events--e.g., leaves fall off the trees; lilacs blooming; first frost? [Particularly looking for data arranged in a visually easy-to-digest way. Also, particularly New England; I ask because Spring in my area feels like it's been slow to come this year, and I don't know if it's just because the weather has been gray that I'm fooling myself, or if the leaves really did pop out later than usual.]
I can eat all the melted plastic I want and STILL look great
So I was dumping some defrosted chicken from one of those clear plastic bags into a pan, and accidentally melted a bit from the end of the bag. I'm assuming I'll be fine, but I was wondering, what exactly happens when you eat melted plastic? If nothing happens if you eat a little, what about a LOT? Hormonal problems, cellular mutation, clots in your digestive tract, or what? Or is the answer still nothing?
Little girl lost in London Heathrow
My little sister is traveling internationally with some extended family--US to London to Belfast. Because of some crazy mix-ups, she ended up being routed on a different flight US to London than the rest of her group. Now she's stranded and no one can find her. What do we do? [more inside]
Missing GarageBand loops
Obscure and specific GarageBand question: What Jam Pack came with files #B548F.caf and #B57AF.caf? [more inside]
Keep me covered
I'm in the UK, I've just started Couch to 5k, and I'm having trouble getting suitable running gear. Particularly a sports bra. Help! [more inside]
How do I make a magnet?
How do you make a permanent magnet if you don't have one? How do you make a permanent magnet that's more powerful than the one you have? [more inside]
whither widget?
Trying to find a blog widget that enables me to list events for the current day. [more inside]
T-Mobile won't waive early termination fee for moving abroad?
I'm about to move out of the country, but T-Mobile says they won't waive the early termination fee. Three questions: a) Really? b) Is there nothing that can be done? c) Will I be able to use the G2 in Germany? [more inside]
What do you know about back injuries/treatments/etc?
Back injury = drugs, discs, and MRIs?? Oh my! [more inside]
Where to move: Augusta or Columbia?
The Augusta, GA area or Columbia, SC area – which location is better for a young married couple to set up shop for a few years? [more inside]
Looking for Web Collaboration Tool with no Login for Editers
I'm looking for a web collaboration tool to schedule volunteers. I think a spreadsheet would work best, but I could manage with a document as well. There will be about 5-10 of us that will have editing abilities.
The most important part: I don't want them to have to create an account to edit the document. They should be able to edit by just clicking the unique link that I send them via email. I don't mind creating an account myself.
Does anyone have an idea for a tool that would work in this situation? Bonus points if we can view/edit on iPhone and Android. Thanks!
Why is my dish drying rack always dirty?
How does my dish drying rack get so dirty so quickly? It seems that within 2-3 days, it's covered with some kind of slime or other debris. The only things I put in it are (clean) dishes so I'm not sure how it happens. [more inside]
Best deal on art museum memberships?
I visit art museums and travel around the US. I'm looking for a museum membership that gives me the best deal on reciprocal admission to other museums. [more inside]
Recommendations: The "I Will Survive" Edition
I'm looking for book and/or movie recommendations that portray survival during the (emotional) worst case scenario that in reality, isn't all that bad. [more inside]
How do I get the good old days back?
I’m looking for some advice or different points of view to help me decide what direction to move in. [more inside]
I need a non-blank journal.
Where can I buy a journal that includes its own writing prompts? [more inside]
At least he's not scratching the couch....
My cat Trilby has nearly destroyed the cat scratcher I bought for him when I adopted him a year and a half ago, and it’s time for a new scratching post. Can anyone recommend a good, reasonably priced, durable, modest-sized cat scratcher? Those “emery board” scratchers sound great in theory because I wouldn’t have to cut Trilby’s claws anymore. But they’ve gotten so many negative reviews online and most of the positive reviews smell like spam. Do any of you use them, or failing that, does your cat?
American in London seeks New York-style bagels
Where in London can I find decent New York-style bagels? [more inside]
Please help me find a kiosk for tourists
I need help finding a sturdy, durable "kiosk" to place outside of tourist attractions that allow anyone to push a button and gain access to information about the attraction. [more inside]
Can I use an old laptop without a harddisk as a seedbox?
I was using an old laptop as a low wattage seedbox at home and the internal HD just died. I was wondering if I could get it running without having to replace the drive, using a linux live disk, or something of the kind. [more inside]
Help me rediscover an electronics project from Radio Shack from back in the '80s.
Help me rediscover an electronics project from Radio Shack from back in the '80s. [more inside]
What is the difference between a chocolate cupcake and a chocolate muffin?
At what point does a cupcake become a muffin? Or a muffin become a cupcake? What is the technical difference between the two?
Tag it
If I wanted to make the laminated bard codes that supermarkets and other locations give out for their customers, How would I go about that? [more inside]
Safe travels in Athens (Greece)?
Mom is in Istanbul now, flying to Athens on Saturday for 5 days. She's heard about civil unrest/protests in Athens recently. The news reports I've found (which aren't many) describe a 24-hour general strike yesterday, with shutdown of public transportation, flights, and other services. She knows to steer clear of any protests, don't talk politics, etc, but what else should she know? [more inside]
finding the beauty in everyday life
How do you create or take advantage of beauty in everyday life? [more inside]
What are some good ant documentaries.
Looking for quality documentaries (and/or books) about ants and other colony insects. [more inside]
Talk to me. (Please).
How do journalists/authors go about finding their interview subjects? [more inside]
What are the legal things you have to do to buy a 2ndhand car off a mate?
We're about to buy a car and we're clueless. Insurance, tax, transfer of ownership, DVLA, WTF? What do we have to do to make it legal for my husband to drive this car away from a friends house on Sunday? In particular - how do we insure a car we don't officially own yet? [more inside]
Threadless
Lady-hair filter: will threading cause the same reaction as waxing did? [more inside]
How long should the sister-in-law stay?
How long is reasonable for a world-traveling sister to drop in and live with us (a family with small children)? And how do I gently help her to go? Am I being the family jerk? [more inside]
Relaxing in Dubai
Does the hivemind have any up-to-date recommendations for a good hotel in Dubai for a three-day tourist/relaxation visit? Price range would ideally be sub-$200/night, but we're still aiming for some multiple-star luxury.
May 11
Best Magritte Book?
I've recently fallen completely in love with Homesickness by Magritte and find myself quite enamored by his other works as well. Summer is coming, and although I have no background in Art History, I really want to know more about Rene. What is the best book I can read about his life and art? [more inside]
Need help hearing a book recommendation
What is the book that Ze Frank mentions in the last two minutes after recommending Twyla Tharp's "The Creativity Habit" and Anne Lamont's "Bird by Bird" during his Commonwealth talk? [more inside]
What if you were going to walk IN the water?
I love kayaking. My BF wants to love it. Help me find him the best, most cost-effective water shoes in the world. [more inside]
How to diagnose gaming freeze-ups?
My home-built computer seems to not want to undergo any extended load (gaming) without freezing up to extents varying by game. Where do I start? [more inside]
New laptop seeks security software
Best security software for my new Win7 laptop? Any other advice to ensure my computer's life gets off to a good start? [more inside]
Is "aid culture" even the right term?
How do I go about researching what I've seen termed as "aid culture", specifically in Haiti? [more inside]
How aggressive should I be with my dental work?
Please help me navigate a new dentist! [more inside]
eight kids, five days, woods!
We run a summer day camp and are licensed as such (in Massachusetts). How does our licensing change if we want to take eight teenagers on an overnight hike in Western Mass? [more inside]
I got a date with the night
Where can I get awesome dates? (The kind you eat, not the kind you go on). NYC or online. [more inside]
Computer freezes while playing games - What could be causing this?
As the subject states, my computer freezes while playing games, and only while playing games. Am I right in thinking it's the graphics card? [more inside]
This may sound a bit blasphemous...
Risky question: Is there any way to watch theatre online? [more inside]
Best easy to use collaborative or wiki-type software
Can you help me find collaborative or wiki-type software that doesn't have a steep learning curve (WYSIWYG editing etc)? [more inside]
Airsoft in the nanny state of NJ
I want to own some Airsoft pistols in NJ, legally and without getting a permit. [more inside]
Name that Polish mead
I had a bottle of mead several years ago that I haven't been able to find since, and wondered if anybody could help identify it. [more inside]
Betta travel!
How to travel across country with a betta fish...? [more inside]
Is it worth waiting to move?
NYCFilter: How much do I really save by waiting until Fall/Winter to rent an apartment? I really want to find a place where I have a bit more space and privacy. I don't want to wait, but if we're talking hundreds of dollars per month, I guess it would be worth it. I am looking for a studio or 1BR in the LES, East Village, or in Williamsburg, around $1500-$1700 (these place do exist, I have visited them in person.) So can you relate to me your impression of how much cheaper rents are in the winter/fall? And when does the price begin to fall off? Thanks!
Professional options for a burned out lawyer?
Help me get out of the legal profession, before it kills me. [more inside]
Help me get across my awesomeness to the 5 second quick reader of resumes
Where in a cover letter or resume can I make it clear how tech savvy I am? I am a middle-aged woman and I am afraid that potential employers will see my years of experience and bypass my resume as my field is becoming very techy and many older professionals in the field are way behind the curve. [more inside]
So how do people make those nice graphs?
What are some super simple graph making programs? [more inside]
What do business analysts really do?
Are you a business analyst in IT? What is it like? [more inside]
Soccer vs Futsal
As a player, what are the differences between playing soccer and playing futsal? [more inside]
Need help with (presumably) conditional formatting issue in excel
How do I use two cells to conditionally target a different cell? [more inside]
West Virginia. Really?
Sometime in the next few years we're thinking of moving. We're considering a few towns in the pacific north west, but we'd also like to see if there would be anything closer to the east coast (and family) that might suit the bill. Findmyspot.com threw us a few options I wasn't expecting, so wanted to see if anyone has experience with the below, or might have other suggestions for us. We're looking for a small to mid sized college town (we both work at the local uni, but not as teachers). We're pretty liberal and passionate about social rights and animal welfare, and would enjoy a town with local arts/music/theater options. We'd love a place with four seasons, but hopefully not too extreme of weather. We'd like to have access to fun outdoorsy sorts of things - hiking and bicycling are favorites. And, a lower than average cost of living, if at all possible. [more inside]
Body image and fan culture
I'm looking for books on body image and fan culture, specifically body image among female science-fiction fans who are likely to attend cons and/or actively participate in real-world fan culture. What are some good books or web resources for learning more about this?
Nolo:Legal :: ???:Bookkeeping/Accounting
Nolo is a great source for books when one is looking to deal with the legal aspects of running a small or medium business. Is there a publisher that specializes in accounting / bookkeeping / finances books?
Isn't she loverly?
Recently I've become interested in behavioral indicators of class, gender, and status. In particular, I'm interested in what small behaviors would indicate a) femininity and b) higher social status. [more inside]
Mobile User Styles for Smartphones?
iPhone/Mobile Web Apps Filter: Is it possible to "mobilize" sites which won't/can't provide a smartphone friendly layout? [more inside]
Bangalore city guide
What are your recommendations for things we should see, do, and eat in Bangalore? [more inside]
Online sources for Italian newspapers?
Are there any online databases that hold older European papers? [more inside]
Sonicare, Clarisonic, Supersonic, Sonic the Hedgehog
I love my Sonicare toothbrush so much I wanna marry it. Will I feel the same way about the Clarisonic Mia's effect on my skin? [more inside]
Any ministers, officials, and citizens who can directly tell me my wrongdoing will be awarded the first prize; anyone who jiàn 諫 me in written form will be awarded the second prize; anyone who gossips about me will be awarded the third prize.
Do women mind guys bragging about how good they are in bed? [more inside]
grad music for the discerning teenage ear
Help me find cool songs for a high school graduation picture slide show. [more inside]
Gift cards are so impersonal.
I need "Thank you." gift suggestions for someone I barely know, who recently did me a huge favor. [more inside]
Post Yosemite Driving.
So I am staying in Yosemite for one week in a friend's cabin in Fish Camp, and as long as I'm gone by the 23rd I get it for free. I have full lightweight camping/survival gear, food and a partner but no real clue if we should stay in Yosemite (can't afford a cabin, might not be any more wilderness/overnight passes left) or just slowly drive home.
So, included is a MAP of our path home. If anyone knows of a great place to stop, be it for an hour or for a day, feel free to offer it up!
We don't have a lot of money, but we do have camping gear/food already so as long as it's not too far off the path we won't have any problem with the gas budget : )
Nerdify my ride.
Advice on a computer system for a vehicle? [more inside]
Frankie say Relax
Seven-year-old boy incredibly defensive, takes everything too seriously and overreacts to criticism. Have you been one or had a child like this and can offer advice? [more inside]
No Matter What Apple Thinks, Virtual Keyboards are Not Useful.
Decent iPad app and stylus for note-taking? [more inside]
Keep getting flagged on craigslist. Want to conform. Don't know how.
craigslist ad is being flagged repeatedly within 10 minutes of going live. NYC Computer Services. Yes, I have followed every. single. instruction. Does someone have experience with this? [more inside]
Why am I now allergic to spring time?
Can I have acquired an allergy from excessive exposure to some plant? I used to do lab work involving grinding up bits of trees and grasses into fine powders for isotopic analysis. I never noticed any seasonal allergies before I worked in the lab, now I'm a wreck every spring. Causality or merely coincidence? [more inside]
Canon 5D, 7D, or something else?
For video and still shooting, should I get Canon 5D, 7D, or wait for something new? [more inside]
Need a good solution for cell phone and internet service that I can use in Europe, the US and Martinique.
Need a good solution for cell phone and internet service that I can use in Europe, the US and Martinique. [more inside]
UK Honeymoon Mystery Adventure Time
UK Driving Tour Honeymoon - 3 technical questions Re: US cards in a Chip & Pin world, UK power conversion with 110v power strips, and things to know about congestion fees, and tolls, etc. [more inside]
[gun sales filter] You can have my gun when you buy it from my…well, when you buy it.
I need help deciding the best way to sell my handgun. Degree of difficulty: Private Party in California [more inside]
Move into my dad's basement suite?
My parents are splitting up after 36 years. My dad will be buying a house of his own. If he gets a place with a basement suite and I move into it, what pitfalls should I be aware of? I'm 30. [more inside]
Toronto International Film Festival Pro-Tips Please!
Please tell me your pro-tips for attending the Toronto International Film Festival! [more inside]
Didier Drogba decides to play in a rec league
[NASCARfilter]A question my 8-year-old son posed to me. In two of the divisions of NASCAR, Sprint Cup series and Nationwide series, drivers regularly race in both races. It is our understanding that the Nationwide series is a lower tier series, kind of like AAA minor-league baseball. Why do the "big names" of Sprint Cup race in the Nationwide races (besides experiencing the track itself in real race conditions)? [more inside]
Should I drive to Jersey for the cheap gas?
Is there a website that will tell you whether it makes financial sense to travel to a gas station with cheaper gas? [more inside]
Fun golf courses in northern Vermont?
What are some good golf courses in northern VT? [more inside]
Help me play Gamma World!
What to write in wet concrete?
What should I write in newly poured concrete? Quick, before it dries! [more inside]
What can we do for our friend with intractable depression?
Service plan for friend with clinical depression - what can we do? Last resort ahead. [more inside]
Topo Chico Mineral Water in SF Bay Area?
How can I purchase Topo Chico mineral water in the San Francisco Bay Area? [more inside]
What did you think of it?
What has been your experience with writing centers at graduate school? [more inside]
Get Thee Behind Me, Curves
Help me find a specific type of gym for my parents in Lowell, MA. [more inside]
Where are the Gyms/Health Clubs with Saltwater Pools in Charlotte, NC?
Do you know of any health clubs or any other organization that offer memberships to their saltwater swimming pools in the Charlotte, NC area? Preferably the NE side. [more inside]
A search utility to find invalid dates, times and filenames on a server?
Anyone know of a good utility to find invalid filenames and (this could be a separate app) invalid created/modified dates on a server? It can be on any platform, but a good UI is preferred. [more inside]
What Shakespeare play best fits an unofficial wander-around-town performance?
If you were doing an outdoor guerrilla community Shakespeare play, where each scene was performed in a different public place, which one would you choose? [more inside]
Name that poem
Help me remember this spoken word poem/poet [more inside]
How do I stop ruining things that are wired?
Every power cord I own breaks/frays/dies within one year of use. What am I doing wrong?!? [more inside]
Being a lawyer had better be awesome...
What fun things can I do for my wife so studying for the California bar doesn't suck as much? [more inside]
Easy items from the Chinese grocery store
What can I get from the Chinese grocery store for an easy, delicious work lunch or snack? [more inside]
Which is the better sign up method?
Psychological Question: which is better: let the customer get the trial subscription with minimal info required, or make them do a more formal sign up? [more inside]
If I could just snap my fingers...
I've never been able to snap my fingers. I've even gone through tutorials on Youtube and all I get is a rubbing sound, no 'snap', no matter how I do it. What am I doing wrong? [more inside]
Should I complain?
A server at a restaurant yesterday was rude. Do I call and complain? [more inside]
What causes Inertia?
I've always wondered about this and never found a satisfactory answer anywhere - what causes inertia?
The problem with the simple life is it's so hard to shop for
I'm trying to come up with a wedding present for two outdoorsy, unmaterialistic, grow-your-own-food, committed sustainable-living oriented types, and am looking for general suggestions as well as specific help. I'm thinking perhaps a gift certificate to a special extravagant meal, in or near Spartanburg, South Carolina. [more inside]
What do you mean heels are a bad idea on a boat?
What should I wear sailing in San Francisco this weekend? Bonus complication: I'm attending in a corporate wife capacity. [more inside]
Get it off! Get it off!
This morning I generously applied a sample of perfume oil (BPAL Eclipse, if you're wondering) that I forgot I've already tried on and hated. Now I can't stand the way I smell. How do I get it off?? I've been scrubbing with soap and water to no avail.
Work/internship dilemma
If you've been out of work for several months (after just graduating), would you accept an internship to get some experience (and avoid extending the gap in the resume), even though it commits you to a few months of part time work and you can't start a job right away, or forget all volunteer and internships and just keep holding out for a full time paid job? [more inside]
Garage door opener is possessed!
My Genie Excelerator garage door opener is possessed....need help/suggestions/experience from the hive. [more inside]
Unemployment benefits for the Realtor?
What happens to my Illinois Unemployment benefits once I get my first commission as a Realtor? Am I SOL? [more inside]
Am I being oversensitive about an unexpected dinner guest?
Is my friend being rude, or am I overreacting? And how do I get over it in time for dinner tonight? [more inside]
Representing HTML within an XML Schema
How do I indicate the potential presence of HTML within an XML element in that xml document's Schema? [more inside]
Indexing the LAN server
I'm wondering how I can do contextual search and image search on a local server volume and have this be a service available to everyone on our network. Open source methods are preferred. [more inside]
The Spirit of Radio
The science behind FM transmitter behaviour... how does it really work and what's going on? [more inside]
Why can I transfer pics from my phone via Bluetooth to a PC if it's running XP, but not if it's running Windows 7?
Why can I transfer pics from my phone via Bluetooth to a PC if it's running XP, but not if it's running Windows 7? [more inside]
Song to be read (not sung) at a wedding?
Looking for recommendations for a song to be read (not sung) at a wedding. [more inside]
BlueCity to RedCity
preparing to move from a large progressive city to a small extremely conservative one - any advice? [more inside]
How to Redirect or Block Most Audio Output?
What's the best way to make sure that nothing except iTunes outputs sound while running XP? [more inside]
What are these shoes?
Don't want a post-doc! Want a Porsche!
Selling out successfully
Few months away from finishing PhD, & no interest in staying in science. Can I use my fancy credentials to try and get a high-paying big-city job? Help me chart a course. [more inside]
What's the new WikiAfterDark?
Has anything replaced WikiAfterDark? [more inside]
Imperilled Eyebrows!
How can I make a good, long-lasting stencil for my eyebrows? [more inside]
A Day in the Life of the Underappreciated Dandelion
Help me find this quote about dandelions... [more inside]
Show me the money - in shutter priority mode
Help me convince people (esp. friends) that my photography is worth money! Or - how does one compete with free? [more inside]
LED lightbulbs are illuminating but not illuminating.
What is going on in LED lightbulbs? I mean the devices, not the industry. [more inside]
Is this Time Radiation at work?!!!
Can cable boxes affect digital clocks? [more inside]
Do any French diabetics use grams/dL rather than mg/dL?
French diabetics, what units do you use for your BG? [more inside]
Where can I watch hockey near Pittsburgh Amtrak station?
Looking for a restaurant/sports bar in Pittsburgh, near 10th St. and Penn Avenue, to grab a meal and watch the Wings-Sharks game tomorrow evening. [more inside]
Intense headaches during exams
Insanely intense headaches during important time-pressure exams- solutions? [more inside]
What is the best job ever if you're me.
What jobs/careers does this remind you of? [more inside]
Name of an old Vinyl Cafe story about a boy heading off to university?
Stuart McLean, Vinyl Cafe: Looking for the name of one of his stories about a teenager who's just graduated high school in a small town and at the end leaves with all his stuff packed in a car on his way to university. [more inside]
Long Distance Relationships With Adult Children
How do we have a satisfying long-distance relationships and visits, parent and in-law version? [more inside]
How to bond with a non-verbal person
How do I become more comfortable with the new guy I'm dating? [more inside]
How can I measure the net effect of a drastic cut in gross income?
How can I measure the net effect of a drastic cut in gross income? [more inside]
Looking for a good ending
Looking for books with good ENDINGS. In finishing a book there are a lot of times where you are left thinking "wow, that was great... except that last 20 pages. Arrrgh." What books would you recommend with GOOD endings? I emphatically do not mean happy endings; some of the most pleasurable endings in my memory are ambiguous, or even clearly unhappy ("the bad guy wins"). [more inside]
Help a large man get his 1920s Parisian Fashion on!
I'm hosting a Murder Mystery night in a few weeks. I think I have a handle on most of the host duties, but I'm struggling with the costume. I'm a large man, and the venue is a Charity Auction in 1920's-ish France. How would a large Parisian man dress back then, and look relatively not horrible? [more inside]
How much do hops weigh?
Need help coming up with stimuli for a study.
I'm going to be running a study, and I need help coming up with a stimulus for it. More on the criteria inside. [more inside]
May 10
Could you lend me hand with this chip on my shoulder?
It's recently come to my attention that I am embarrassed about the school I went to for my undergraduate degree. [more inside]
What's the easiest way to get back and forth to Agra on a weekend trip?
What's the easiest way to get back and forth to Agra on a weekend trip? [more inside]
Help me play with my balls.
So I need to move some balls [more inside]
Human helps animal, animal helps human right back
I want to donate some money to a program that matches people and animals for mutual rehabilitation [more inside]
Nifty theatrical ghost effect. Howdtheydoit?
How did they do this theatrical effect I saw? [more inside]
How to plan healthy meals and snacks for nights where I take classes?
I am taking some classes and getting out of the house a few days a week. Yay for trying to fix my social life, but what am I going to do about dinner? Special diet and situational details inside. [more inside]
Music Video Mystery
Music video identification help! Poolside, dancing, joy, and a bare breast or two. Probably from the 80s or early 90s. [more inside]
Help me figure out how to back up iWeb files.
Does anyone have any ideas on how to save iWeb page content on another computer? [more inside]
This bag has been sitting in my closet for years...
I have a beautiful leather satchel I bought on a study-abroad trip to Italy, but unfortunately I didn't take into account the size of my laptop. Is there a way to stretch the bag so it will fit? [more inside]
Mama Said Knock You Out
I think I want to box. Where do I start? [more inside]
Foot Pounds to Calories
There are plenty of charts that show calories burned from running. But is figuring calories burned lifting weights this simple? [more inside]
Primary progressive aphasia. Now what?
My mother was recently diagnosed with primary progressive aphasia. What can we expect? [more inside]
Take me deep down
Loved Blue Planet, want more like it. Where to start? [more inside]
Virus? Scam? Stealing my money? Help!
I'm a sap and just paid to download Vista Home Security 2011... which apparently is some sort of virus type thing? How do I address this? [more inside]
Please hope me!
In Snow Leopard (10.6.7), I changed my UID while logged in as the administrator. When I rebooted, a bunch of stuff changed and a lot of my settings were lost. It says I am the admin, but I can't make any changes or set any permissions. [more inside]
A World, in a Virtual Land, Far, Far Away Where, if Even for a Little While, Everyone is Petite!
Please, please, please, where can I find this Ann Taylor Loft brown suede jacket (with detachable fur collar!) in 0p online? And is eBay the only place xs's and 0p's can find an *abundance* of cut-rate or used clothes in their sizes online? [more inside]
3d virtual world
I want to set up a visual mind map/memory palace landscape type city using some kind of 3 virtual world technology. What are some options? [more inside]
Is prolonged micro-gravity really a problem for inter-planetary spaceflight?
Why are the lack-of-long-term-gravity health problems still an issue for space travel? Isn't it easily dealt with by designing craft that generate gravity by spinning? [more inside]
Should we try to haggle at the Local Camera Store using Amazon's prices?
My husband is in the market for a new camera. There's one camera store in town that carries the cameras he's considering. The camera store is asking $100 more than Amazon. Should he tell the camera store what Amazon is charging? (I.e., try to haggle?) [more inside]
Oh god don't say scabies *scratchscratchscratch*
The undead spirits of some scabies have haunted my arm for years. What to do? [more inside]
How to turn hobby (dressmaking) into business, and is it a good idea?
Advice on turning a hobby (dressmaking) into a business/career for a recent graduate [more inside]
What trick is this?
At 2:02 in this video the guys on the left are holding paper coffee cups. What is the guy on the far left doing? [more inside]
How to get advice on specific job paths
I don't need a career counselor - I need a b.s. detector! Who do you go to for advice & guidance when you already know the general idea of your future job plans? My general direction will be working with the dying or elderly, but I'm having trouble figuring out how to get into the field, what I need to study, what types of jobs there are, etc. Help! [more inside]
What could cause a USB mic to all of a sudden start picking up a hum?
My USB Mic started picking up an omnipresent hum all of a sudden. It never used to. Any ideas what could have changed? [more inside]
Concert lighting question
What machine produces this type of light? [more inside]
Design Strategy
Please tell me everything you know about Design Strategy as a field, career, etc. [more inside]
I'd give my right arm for an answer...
Should I just wait for my arm to get better? [more inside]
+1 Smoke -1 Fire?
What could cause someone to smell like clean campfire wood smoke--besides camping by a fire? [more inside]
Help me count the invalids.
Help me solve a database design stumbling block. How can I track # of consecutive absences in my membership attendance database? [more inside]
How to keep birds away from potted plants?
Birds (starlings, I think) are attacking my balcony planters. How can I A) get rid of them entirely or B) keep them out of my plants? [more inside]
Top secret!
I'm a minor. I have red flat spots on my testicles that I'd like to get checked. Do I get doctor-patient confidentiality in Florida? [more inside]
Using Table data to automatically (re)name worksheets in Excel 2007?
In Excel 2007 can I use data in a column on one spreadsheet to automatically change the name of another spreadsheet in the same workbook? [more inside]
What are my baby's chances of getting chicken pox?
In 16 days my 3 month old is due to meet my sister's two daughters for the first time. One of the girls came out in chicken pox spots yesterday. The other has not yet had chicken pox and is, so far, showing no symptoms. [more inside]
Brainstorming a career change for an attorney
I'm an attorney who feels stuck in a dead-end situation that I created through my own dumb decisions. Help me find a career that's a better fit for me. [more inside]
Why isn't my Michelson interferometer working?
Silencing a VSTi in Renoise?
How can I turn off a VSTi in Renoise? (perhaps using the MIDI controls?) [more inside]
Thoughtful Young Adult Fiction for boys
Can you recommend current popular young adult fiction for teen boys that is more thoughtful rather than action oriented (e.g. Harry Potter)?
Water dissolving and water removing. There is water at the bottom of the ocean.
I have a perfectly spherical lead weight that weighs 1 kilogram. I drop it from the surface of the ocean directly into the Mariana Trench. How long does it take to hit the bottom, and how fast is it traveling when it hits? [more inside]
Here, let me help you with that
How do I make a long project a little more fun for the BF? [more inside]
Don't smoke the smoke detector....
I need to get some smoke detectors but I am having trouble finding out what the right kind are. There are, as far as I can tell, three different kinds. Stand alone, interconnect and hard-wired. What do the plugs that hang from the ceiling look like for the interconnect and for the hardwired? What do I ask the guy at the hardware store for (Ace just said they are on the endcap and the detectors there had nothing that told me what type they were)?
Smells Like Teen Spirit
Why do you have to ferment liquid fertilizers made from comfrey/nettle? [more inside]
Please recommend a good psychiatrist in Sillycon Valley
Please recommend a good Sillycon Valley psychiatrist that practice talk-therapy as a central piece of their work, in addition to medication.
Bonus points if they attended top-tier schools like Harvard, Stanford, etc, for undergraduate/medical school.
Thank you.
Because all my video game characters dress better than me
I want to take up leatherworking. Where do I start? [more inside]
"Gift" to a Catholic Church?
What do churches need?
My late mother-in-law's birthday is coming up next month, and I want to get something for the church that she served as an organist for 30 years to commemorate her life (she passed in September 2009) [more inside]
What dress shirt has a small deer embroidered upon it?
ShirtFilter: I've been seeing dress shirts with an antlered elk or deer embroidered on the left breast. Who makes these? [more inside]
Should I ask for xanax?
I'm considering asking a psychiatrist for a prescription for benzodiazepmes (Xanax, valium, etc.) to deal with acute anxiety episodes, but I am (surprise!) a little anxious about it. [more inside]
Shushing The Doors
Landlord's paintjob on my door jambs is making them stick, and when opened after being shut for 10 minutes or so, the doors make a loud "vaporlock being broken" noise. Not really sure what's going on but it's pretty loud. Can you help? [more inside]
How do nannies ask for raises?
I need a raise, but I'm a nanny, so this is complicated. [more inside]
Telecommuniting on Mars. Possible?
Where is the remotest place on earth where I can get a 10mbps internet connection for less than $100 USD/month.
Meeting my heroes for the first time and absolutely dumbstruck
How to make the most out of a rare opportunity? Attending a lecture + book-signing soon given by a duo I admire greatly and want to be like. I want to learn as much as I can from them, maybe even assist them in some way, but how? What can I offer them? [more inside]
How do I build the perfect picnic table?
How do I build the perfect picnic table? [more inside]
Week 4 or Weak 4?
I feel like I'm doomed to suck at running, but that's probably irrational. Help me figure out what is up with my workout so I can stop feeling like I'm stuck. [more inside]
What really matters when it comes to choosing a post-bacc pre-med program?
I'm considering applying to medical school as a nontraditional applicant (ie, humanities major, five years out from college, work thus far in entirely unrelated fields). I need some information on post-bacc pre-med programs to help me figure out my game plan. [more inside]
Goodbye Cube World?
Has anyone actually transitioned from the daily office job grind to a "work anywhere" nomadic lifestyle? Bonus: Have you accomplished this mid-career with a family? [more inside]
Help me avoid my awkward coworker
I started a small beer club at work with some of my coworkers. One of them invited a coworker who makes me incredibly uncomfortable. How do I get out of this? [more inside]
Wandering around Athens
What to do in Athens, GA? [more inside]
Great family dentist in Tulsa?
Do you know great family/kid-friendly dentists in Tulsa, Oklahoma? [more inside]
Make this giant sticker more interesting.
My employer gave every Mac user a giant sticker with the company logo for the entire back of our laptops. There is even an Apple-shaped hole cut out in the sticker. What can I do to customize this? In addition to scissors my wife has a die-cut machine that one might use for paper crafts.
This is not who I am!
My HBC is screwing me up. Help! [more inside]
I cannah give yeh any more pixels, Cap'n!
Anyone know of a way to automate changing transparency of shapes (polygons?) in an .eps file? Anyone modified anything about an .eps file in a text editor? [more inside]
Songs for Home Movies?
My parents have finally converted their old 8mm home movies to digital format and I've been tasked with adding music and editing. What are some good songs to use for background music for movies shot from roughly 1960 through 1983? [more inside]
Looking for one of those wine clubs/shops that mail out assorted cases on subscription basis
Can anyone recommend a wine club mail order company? I'm looking for a gift for someone: one of those subscriptions where you pay money every month/quarter and in return they send you a nice assorted case of wines. [more inside]
fantastic cross-genre rap collaborations?
Help me find really good rap songs with hooks that are sung by non-rap artists? [more inside]
vision sight eyes
Am I destroying my vision by surfing the web on my TV? [more inside]
Help me find a housewarming gift that I can travel with...
Help me find a housewarming gift that I can travel with... [more inside]
[Title Not Received; Please Dial Again]
Cell phone reception is crappy in my neighborhood. Might switching providers help, or should I invest in an antenna/repeater as recommended in other Askmes? [more inside]
I've got a friend in a bad situation. How can she get out?
A good friend of mine - I'll refer to her as E - is living in a negative situation that she's ready to get out of. Short version: she's living with and basically looking after a toxic, alcoholic parent. E's done all she can, and it's time to leave. But there are some issues holding her back. How can she address these? Details below. [more inside]
Who should I see about the increase in my hypnagogic hallucinations?
I know I probably need to see a doctor, but the question is, which kind? [more inside]
I must(ard) find some of this!
What are your recommendations for a good spicy mustard? [more inside]
Help me set a fair price for my services!
Help! Yesterday I impulsively put an ad on craigslist offering meal preparation (on-site or delivery) and grocery shopping. But what should I charge? [more inside]
Let's get physical
Random curiosity filter: Why did "aerobics" go out of fashion, and "cardio" come in? [more inside]
How can I print a detailed map from Google Maps?
How can I print a fairly detailed, large map from Google Maps? I'm thinking of using Blockposter to make it 4x4 or 4x6 pages. Is there an easy way to go about this?
To call or not to call the one-night stand with great friend potential (but not much else)?
Went home with a girl on Friday night. Given the following details, should I call her? [more inside]
these sunglasses....?
Escaping the sleep debt cycle
Hi AskMe! I need your help devising an awesome bedtime ritual of ultimate relaxation and sleepiness-creation. This question brought to you by anxiety and yet another sleepless night. [more inside]
Where can I find lockable storage with cable holes?
Where can I buy a lockable storage cabinet for several external hard drives, with a hole for cables to the outside? [more inside]
Death of the party
Can you recommend earplugs I can wear to bed at night to block out city noise but allow me to hear my alarm in the morning? [more inside]
Before and After pictures of a garden
StockPhotographyFilter: I need before and after shots of a garden. [more inside]
What are the options for free intranet hosting?
The company I work for is moving its data storage and processing to the cloud—with the exception of the intranet (which the company’s currently paying to be hosted). There’s a feeling that the intranet should be kept separate from the company’s other documents. What are the options for free intranet hosting? Does such a thing even exist? The current system is very basic, and we really just need 200-300 files (Word, Excel, pdf) to be available in simply displayed categories in an area accessible by staff. Any suggestions?
Admissions to graduate neuroscience and biology programs
What are my options for acceptance into PhD programs for Neuroscience or Molecular Biology [more inside]
Hmm.. Mysterious!
How can I add more mystery to everyday life? [more inside]
How to reinvigorate a not-very-old Droid 2?!
My Droid 2, which I bought in August 2010, is beginning to have performance issues. I assume this is partially a planned obsolescence thing, but given that I have to live with the phone for another year-plus, what can I do to improve its quickness, buggy-ness, etc.? [more inside]
work/vacation cycle
How can I improve my work/vacation cycle? [more inside]
What will happen after I'm sued and owe the money?
What, exactly will happen to me? I got divorced a while ago, and lately my income just can't cover part of my divorce decree. She's mad and threatening to sue. [more inside]
Why does my boss want my CV?
My boss wants a copy of my CV (resume) to give to a client. Why...? [more inside]
Contract to hire?
I'm a software developer and it seems that everyone is hiring contract to hire. Recruiters keep feeding me the line that this is standard practice and to determine if I'm a good "technical fit," but I'm wary. Are contract to hires ever a good place to be in? [more inside]
Do macroevolutionary 'rules' and trends withstand scrutiny?
To any evolutionary biologists out there- was wondering the extent to which macroevolutionary 'rules' or trends withstand scrutiny? Can you cite any studies that looking at this?
Can I sell a Twitter account?
I have a social networking account I'm thinking of trying to sell. Is this possible/a good idea? [more inside]
Will we get heckled if we kiss at the Ara Pacis?
How gay-friendly are Rome, Naples, and Capua? [more inside]
When do people in the developing world stop having big families?
What are mechanisms that influence having kids in the developing world? [more inside]
Coppicing in America
Where, in America (or Southern Canada), can I attend workshops to learn about British hurdle-making, traditional fence-making, and other coppice crafts? Preferably, in the Midwest, but anywhere East of the Rockies would be considered.
Which is the best cloud backup service for the Mac?
Which is the best cloud backup service for the Mac? I want a continuous, complete hard disk mirror of a single OS X computer (at around 1TB). A second computer is a bonus. [more inside]
Just because you're paranoid...
What are some interesting conspiracy theories -- and websites and communities that support them? There are the classics like the Templars and Flat Earth and Elvis Is Alive, and newer ones like 2012 and chemtrails. What are some other interesting ones you've found?
Please no current political conspiracy theories (though older stuff like the Kennedy Assassination is okay). I'm especially not interested in conspiracy theories centered around Obama or Bush. They're boring and will just start a political argument, which I'm not particularly interested in.
Texting from computer?
Can I send text messages to a cellphone from my computer? How? [more inside]
Voltage conversion for dummies
Please help me not blow up my Nintendo DS. [more inside]
Music on data disc -- can't rip??
How do I rip music from a data disc? [more inside]
Bending SDL Passolo to my will
SDL Passolo question: how to integrate Excel and TBX terms into the review process. [more inside]
How can I be a good manager?
Please help me become a good manager [more inside]
Guy gets on the MTA...
General tips for riding the LA MTA Rail? (Red Line in particular, if you'd like.) [more inside]
Web design help
WebDesignFilter: Help a print designer with some questions about web hosting and free client friendly CMS options and general web questions. [more inside]
How shall I cook a frozen duck breast?
Picked up some frozen duck breasts at the supermarket. How shall I cook them? [more inside]
Used Clothing in Kyoto
Where can I find places in Kyoto to shop for used/vintage clothing? In Tokyo, I love going to Harajuku and wandering around their used/vintage clothing shops with random old items, like Kinji for really cheap and unique clothing. Is there a similar like place in Kyoto? I've spent 3 days in Kyoto in the past and all I recall for shopping were department stores and other Big Generic Imposing Chain Shops that you can find anywhere else in the world. [more inside]
May 9
Is "What's your favorite lunch menu?" appropriate question for ESL textbook?
ELT-filter: I'm arguing that "What's your favorite lunch menu?" is Japanese-English phrasing that shouldn't be included in an English textbook. [more inside]
Too little, too late? I might have thrown the baby out with the water!
How do I let a male acquaintance know that, at the end of the day, after my coward and fearful actions of keeping him at a distance, I really do like him? [more inside]
What's the best international iPad insurance?
What's the best international iPad insurance? [more inside]
Buying a new Macbook
Considering purchasing a new Macbook Pro - two questions inside. [more inside]
Get me off this rock.
Red River Valley, living there? [more inside]
What is the best tool to use as an aid to recalling and organizing memories?
According to the answers to this AskMe, there are a lot of us geezers who get fuzzy on our pasts as our pasts get longer. [more inside]
Is my PSU an expensive brick?
Did I bork my power supply? [more inside]
Lots of photos of tombstones. I want to crowdsource the transcription. How?
I have lots and lots of photos of tombstones and I want to get the information into a machine-readable format - ideally a spreadsheet. I think I can find volunteers to transcribe them, but I need a way to do it efficiently. Can anyone suggest a way to do this online, perhaps using some sort of blogging or Wiki-like software?
Can I plant vegetables by just cutting them up and putting them in the ground?
Can I plant vegetables by just cutting them up and putting them in the ground? Specifically tomatoes and cucumbers. [more inside]
Trying to decide on Law Schools: Rutgers Newark vs Seton Hall vs Drexel
Trying to decide on Law Schools: Rutgers Newark vs Seton Hall vs Drexel [more inside]
How to calculate the cost of LED lighting.
How to calculate the cost of LED lighting. Or... renting my apartment, LED lights, energy conservation and fiscal sense. Please help me! [more inside]
Rizzy fed wine
Someone gave me a bottle of homemade red wine. It was filled right to the top of a screw-top bottle. It's a little fizzy, and light in colour (not as light as a rosé- just not as deeply coloured as most red wines I'm used to). I had a little sip and it doesn't taste too bad. Why is it fizzy?
More importantly, should I drink it?
How to keep my kitten safe from the world and the world safe from my kitten?
Another kitty question. My kitten will shortly have been with me for two weeks, and I plan to start letting her go outside. At first it will be supervised sessions only, but I want to eventually put in a cat flap and let her outdoors during the day time whenever she wants. What can I do to keep her as safe as possible? [more inside]
Just let me let go of my eggs!
Did you stop taking HBC, not because you wanted to get pregnant or because you were having problems with it, but just because? [more inside]
Funding a new product/business with grants?
I'm patenting a product and looking into funding options. I have money coming in from the product, but attorney and patent fees are expensive. Other than a small business loan (in this economy?) are there other options? Thinking about grants, but I was always under the impression that it takes a long time to get the money if you win the grant. advice?
RRRRAAAAWWWWRy Birthday to you, RRAAAAAAWWRY birthday to you
Help me find the perfect birthday gift for a fan of cryptozoology and spooky things! [more inside]
In the land of the Delta Blues during the flood
Wednesday night and Thursday morning free in Memphis. Difficulty: Flooding. [more inside]
Best dual use tires for a newly addicted autocross junkie?
What kind of all-season tires would be best to put on a car that is both a daily driver and used for autocross? [more inside]
Help me kill a Tuesday in Houston...
Help me kill a Tuesday in Houston... [more inside]
Help me move forward from an emotionally tramatic year....
How can I restore my mental health/sanity after one stressful hell of a year? Additionally, any suggestions for starting to heal as a surviour of emotional abuse by a parent? [more inside]
Help us move to Corvallis!
Me and my partner are moving to Corvallis, Oregon this September and really need some help with some questions we have! [more inside]
Co-workers? Supervisees?
If not a current supervisor, who do you ask for a job recommendation? [more inside]
Second career in nutrition
'Second Career' snowflake considering going back to school to become a nutritionist/dietitian . . . would love advice! [more inside]
Why does the sounds of smacking give me a euphoric rush?
Why does the sounds of smacking give me a euphoric rush? [more inside]
how do you organize online recipes
How do you organize recipes you find online? [more inside]
Seeking good book for goal-setting in relationships.
My ladyfan and I are looking for recommendations for books that may help us move our relationship forward, especially ones with a focus on discussing, setting, and working on goals together. [more inside]
Contingency legal fee percentages
What are typical contingency legal fee percentages for a product liability case? [more inside]
Office chair for the bedroom?
What comfortable and stylish desk chair doesn't look like the typical office chair but can still recline? [more inside]
Best way to root a Motorola Droid and use it as a mobile hotspot?
Is it possible to turn an original Motorola Droid into a mobile wireless hotspot by rooting it? If so, what's the easiest way to do that? [more inside]
Help me get my refund!
Hoped to have my resume written by a resume writer but after a month--and still no resume--I just want a refund. Contacted writer a week ago but still no refund...not even a response. [more inside]
Organizational skillz
How can I become less scatter-brained? [more inside]
*That's* how you make porridge! Good additives to porridge.
What do you use put in your porridge to kick it up a notch? [more inside]
What does a space explosion sound like if you are physically connected to it?
What would an explosion sound like on the moon? Thought-experiment filter. [more inside]
I'm not small, I'm just distributed differently!
Help a side-chested girl find a decent push-up bra. [more inside]
Medication Information
What's the difference between Valium and Xanax? (or the between the generic versions?) [more inside]
How do I go from feeling worthless to worthwhile?
How does one go from feeling worthless to feeling worthwhile? [more inside]
EDM music in Holland this summer
Piggybacking on the question below, what are some EDM music shows and festivals worth seeing in Holland / Europe this summer? [more inside]
A Fiat, an expulsion, and hard knocks
Please help me remember the title of a young adult novel I read in the late 1980s, involving a young American man who drives a Fiat, goes to college, joins a fraternity, and ends up getting expelled and working in a fast food restaurant. [more inside]
Seeing a doctor about this headache might be a bigger headache than this headache
Chronic tension headache showed up two weeks ago and hasn't left; is it doctor time when seeing a doctor is a pain in the ass? [more inside]
Help me pick a grand canyon helicopter tour.
I'm going to Las Vegas. Help me pick a helicopter tour of the Grand Canyon. [more inside]
Have you ever used Mobify?
Does anyone have any experience with Mobify, the platform for mobile apps? [more inside]
Techno Concerts
What techno shows in Ottawa, Toronto, and Montreal are worth seeing this summer? [more inside]
Absolutely muffin.
MuffinFilter: How do I make a muffin that stays moist? [more inside]
Do you have a sense of structure to your memories?
I seem to be losing the time structure of my memories. Is this a thing? [more inside]
How do I make my cats happier?
Should I transition my indoor cats into outdoor cats? [more inside]
Help me cut down on coffee/caffeine
What methods have you successfully used to cut down or quit taking caffeine? [more inside]
Swordfighting for nine-year olds.
My nine-year-old little brother has fallen for SCA-style swordfighting in the park! Please help me help him get his Musashi on. [more inside]
Sample From Hot Sauce Committee Part Two
On the Beastie Boys' new one, Hot Sauce Committee Part Two, there's a quick sample on the song Too Many Rappers at about 4:10. It sounds familiar but I can't place it. Can anyone identify the "yyyyYYYUUUPPP!"? [more inside]
opinions on pipes
Pipes - hipster wannabe affectation, or classy anachronism? [more inside]
Excel Wizardry Needed
Excel question: How can I tally by quarter when all I have are dates? Bonus challenge details inside. [more inside]
How to make a fair offer on my deceased father's sport car?
A close family member passed away recently and I would like to purchase his car. How do I propose a fair value for this while being sensitive to siblings and the memory of the deceased? [more inside]
PLEASE~Help me get back into my hotmail account!
I have been blocked out of my hotmail account! account compromised, need retrieval help [more inside]
Word to your mother
If your not-quite-yet-born self could give one or two pieces of advice to your soon-to-be mom about how not to screw up you and your relationship with her, what would it be? [more inside]
Looking for good theater, opera, ballet, musicals, etc in the DC metro area
Looking for good theater, opera, ballet, musicals, etc in the DC metro area [more inside]
What can I build on a mining claim?
Looking for information on buying mineral rights claims in California. What can or can't you do with the land? [more inside]
Is The Academic Life The Life For Me? (or: What Do You Do With a BA In English, Part XVII)
I think I want to become an English professor. How would I go about it? [more inside]
Looking for failed fashion designers who found later success in interior/textile design
I am looking for examples of fashion designers/artists who found a second career (if at least temporarily) as textile designers. They do not have to have been successful for very long as textile designers. My focus is on textiles created after 1990.
I have so far identified Todd Oldham (who recently designed furniture for La-Z-Boy), and Rifat Ozbek with his new line of pillows. It is especially interesting if these designers continue to work within their same aesthetic.
It would also be interesting to hear about other examples of designers who found success in textile design after moving away from an earlier career focus.
Thanks for your help.
Why did 'Dog' lose?
"The Wire" Filter: How did Cheese's opponent cheat in the dogfight? [more inside]
Wood floats
We are buying a one-story 1959 ranch-style home in Austin, Texas. The floors are 70% polished concrete (which is just the top of the slab). I want to add wood floors and our contractor is suggesting that we float the engineered wood floor on the slab. [more inside]
No pr0n, please.
What's the best Net-Nanny-Type software out there for my 10 year old daughter's new MacBook Air? [more inside]
How do you restart your sex drive and will a hormone test help?
Help me figure out what to do about my nonexistent sex drive and if this hormone test will help me. [more inside]
What kind of paint can I put in this marker?
After being a brush guy forever, I'm considering trying out acrylic paint markers. I'd appreciate some insight into the paint used to fill them. [more inside]
Safe at home
Looking for advice for a home safe (and places to sell that safe to me). [more inside]
dying at the cemetary
How many people die while visiting a cemetery each year? In the US. Of any causes.
Are there any statistics for this kind of thing?
Where can I watch episodes of Wheeler Dealers?
Where can I watch (free, preferably) episodes of Wheeler Dealers? Thanks.
(I already know about street fire ddoott net)
What volunteer work involves regular interaction with other volunteers?
What kinds of volunteer opportunities provide significant interaction with other volunteers? (And any suggestions for specific organizations in the DC area?) [more inside]
Wax off, please.
This is the third time in the last ten years that I've ended up with an earwax impaction. What do I do to solve this problem and prevent it from recurring? [more inside]
Not Looking for a Natural High
As the antithesis of this post, can you recommend a special something that will help me relax & enjoy myself on special occasions? [more inside]
Marvel vs Capcom 3 advice
Marvel vs Capcom 3, please give me your bread and butter. [more inside]
Best practice in implementing a two-part unique identifier?
Best way to implement a two-part unique identifier in Access? [more inside]
Percentage to settle a debt?
Due to a dodgy gym contract situation, my friend has suddenly found out that he owes about 800 euros to his former gym. How much should he offer as settlement of the debt? [more inside]
Sustainable Swag
I'm trying to find somewhere to order eco-friendly / sustainable swag for the university I work for. Where should I be looking? [more inside]
In between a contractor and an employee
Company wants to hire me not as an employee, but as an independent contractor. Can I ask for something in between? [more inside]
Canadians in Texas with DWI's
TN-1 Visa + DWI. What am I in for? [more inside]
My feet are killing me.
My new business requires that I be on my feet for 10-14 hours at a time and I need shoes that will alleviate my aching feet. [more inside]
Get Off My Lawn! Unless You're Going To Maintain It!
I need a introductory-level book on lawn care. [more inside]
Primal eating in Istanbul?
What are some primal/slow-carb/low-carb dishes I can find in restaurants in Istanbul, Turkey? [more inside]
Michigan Pro Tips!
We're moving to Michigan in three weeks! Tell me all of your pro tips for everything- dining, camping, kayaking, day trips, roadside attractions- in our new state. [more inside]
buy the house?
Can my wife and I afford this house? [more inside]
Lunch has been canceled due to lack of hustle
What are some sports/activities/games (e.g. bocce ball) that are fun to play in dress clothes during lunch at work? A park is nearby. [more inside]
thin plastic in sheets
Where can I find poly (polyethylene) binder material in 16" x 20" size? You know the opaque plastic binder cover material that is thin and flimsy, but doesn't tear? I'm looking for the material in sheets, _not_ for large binders. OR suggestions of materials that are much like this material and not very expensive...
Stomach Gas
YANMD. My mother and I share a strange gastro-intenstinal issue for which I need to find an answer. If we don't eat regularly, I get what can best be described as gas. It doesn't feel like heartburn but more of a general pain in the tummy with the need to burp. It is very uncomfortable to the point that I can't do much of anything but sit and ride it out. I have always been told by my West Indian mother that there is nothing that can be done except eat small meals regularly or drink tea. I find it hard to believe that this is the means by which I have to treat this problem. [more inside]
How Do I Make A Glossy Display Easier On My Eyes?
Any tips on making the glossy display of the Macbook Pro 13 inch easier on the eyes? [more inside]
When getting there is less than half the fun and staying there is most of the expense
What are some of the great cheap vacation spots? Criteria inside. [more inside]
Let's Cut to the Chase - How Much Does This Job Pay?
Let's Cut to the Chase - How Much Does This Job Pay? [more inside]
Need recommendations for moving companies in the southern US
I'd like recommendations for reliable & affordable moving companies for my grandparents, who are moving from central Florida to Little Rock, Arkansas. My grandmother can maybe manage packing the dishes and the clothes, but everything else will have to be done by the moving company. My grandfather cannot help at all. They have an average amount of furniture for a 2 bedroom.
How to look interesting without looking crazy on the jobhunt.
Is it advisable to send unusual, outlandish looking CVs to grown ups who do grown up jobs? [more inside]
Help identifying harrassing telemarketers in Canana?
How do I find the "Out of area" telemarketer who is calling me in Canada? [more inside]
What's worth seeing between San Francisco and Portland?
I'm taking a week-long vacation with my significant other wherein we drive from San Francisco to Portland, Oregon (or possibly vice versa). The only place on the west coast I've been is Los Angeles. What must we see in that week-long trip? [more inside]
Zombie Political Science
Once upon a time on the Blue, I remember reading an article that went into great analytical detail about the social significance of slow versus fast zombies, even citing philosophers like Hume to make its point. However, I can't find the article for the life of me!
Help me, MeFites!
Open Sesame! Keyless door entry systems for an apartment complex?
Open Sesame! Keyless door entry systems for an apartment complex? [more inside]
CMS for Homeless Services Directory
I want to create a Yelp-like, community-editable local search directory of resources available to the poor and homeless in my city. What CMS do I use? [more inside]
Tips to be a more proactive, interactive grandson in the context of Alzheimer's
Interactions with a grandparent suffering from Alzheimer's---suggestions and ideas for activities? (more inside!) [more inside]
Forget old aquaintence...
When did New Year's Day become an official U.S. holiday? [more inside]
Breaking in a baseball glove (infeilders glove)
Need help breaking in a new baseball glove. [more inside]
I am wittering in a room, different from the one you are in now
Webb based application for allowing visitors to record sound onto my server? [more inside]
How to put my neighbourhood on the Internet, again
Give me a recommendation for an out-of-the-box website or web service to support a neighbourhood association? Complicating factors: time, ease-of-use, low maintenance, open to everyone ... [more inside]
Amazing projects where art meets digital/social technologies
What are interesting projects where art meets new (digital/social) technologies?
Like Eric Whitacre's Virtual Choir, Youtube Symphony Orchestra, or Google Art Project.
Can we fire the Halo MAC cannon?
Can the Mass Accelerated Cannon on the UNSC Pillar of Autumn actually be fired? [more inside]
Lifetime warranty on tools? really?
Tool question: Is it really worth the extra cost to buy Craftsman wrenches, sockets and similar tools? Do they really honor the lifetime warranty? [more inside]
May 8
too much sweat
Sweating, heavily, from almost purely mental exertion? [more inside]
Daily checklist app for WM6.5?
Recommend me some sort of daily checklist (with a 'notes' section) mobile app that can export data or sync with Outlook. The catch? I run Windows Mobile 6.5. [more inside]
Kid-friendly celebrity costume
What famous person should I dress up as for an elementary school costume day? [more inside]
Which phone is the phone for me?
I need to buy a cell phone and data plan that will allow me to respond to emails while I am out quickly and easily. It would also be great if I can use MSN messenger on it. And I would like to do this as cheaply as possible. Recommendations? [more inside]
The programmer and the tester should be friends?
Is the relationship between QA and programmers naturally antagonistic? If not, what can you do to get the QA or QC engineers and software engineers to work together rather than try to tear each other apart? [more inside]
If I am not sick, why go to the doctor?
What should I ask at a medical check up? [more inside]
Help dress a short-waisted gal
Hello! Please help me look good in clothes. I'm a 31-year-old red-headed woman, young-looking for my age. I want to look put-together each day, and enjoy myself in pictures instead of exclaiming how frumpy I look. [more inside]
Ideal bush to plant?
Can you help us choose a bush to plant (specs inside)? [more inside]
That old game
I'm trying to remember a game that came with our family's old PC (an Acer desktop with Windows 98!). It was a semi-top-down shooter. The HUD was vibrantly green or blue and as your health decreased your character's portrait faded into a skull.
Suggestions for stopovers during roadtrip from GA to AZ?
I'm about to embark on a solo cross-country roadtrip from Georgia to Southeastern Arizona- what are some cool/interesting places that I should check out along the way to break the monotony of travel? [more inside]
What's the best way to data mine Twitter?
I'm looking to start a prototype research project to look for trends in Twitter data. I've had a look through the API docs and with a lot of sharpening my python chops (?) I think it does what I want. But: does the API give me access to every query possible and I just have to learn how to use it, or is there some kind premium API so that e.g. analytics companies can pay for better access? I know about the API call limit, I'm wondering about things like the completeness of any search results, or fields/queries available. Any recommended resources also much appreciated.
What to do for a day in LA?
Tell me how to have a heavenly day in the city of angels [more inside]
What do I need to know about buying a new car? (Australia-specific)
So, despite my historical protestations to the contrary, I have found that it is no longer to function as a decent and well-rounded human being without being the owner of a car, which I can drive to the bottle shop and eventually crash and die in. [more inside]
Laying pipe?
I just got on a waiting list for apprenticeships in a local trade union. Should I be celebrating? [more inside]
Plumbing filter: are all "one hole" kitchen faucets the same size (diameter)?
Plumbing filter: are all "one hole" kitchen faucets the same size (diameter)? [more inside]
I want Scratchy's arm to last!
We have suddenly found ourselves in possession of a potentially-valuable signed animation cell. What's the best way to store it, and eventually frame and display it? [more inside]
Nice dinner in Albuquerque?
Thinwoman and I are in Albuquerque for the evening, and we'd like to get a nice meal. We've never been here before. Where should we eat? (It is our anniversary, so while I'm sure a green chili burger is super fine, we're hoping for something a little fancier. Unless green chili burgers are real fancy burgers. What do I know.)
NYC messenger bag, bookbag, man bag, or whatever it's called
I'm interested in buying a "messenger bag," "book bag," "man bag," or whatever you want to call it, in NYC or online. I'm picky. Lots of specifications inside. [more inside]
Calories of Rice And Beans?
All sizes of bridesmaids need dresses!
Where can we find bridesmaid dresses that are pretty and will be appropriate for a plus size bridesmaid, a regular size bridesmaid, and a 6 months pregnant bridesmaid? [more inside]
Guilt Sucks! Literally!
How do I deal with the guilt of having enough? [more inside]
Help me record my explaining
What device / technology should I use to record interactive lectures at home and publish them online? [more inside]
How to bring up depression treatment with employer?
Should I inform my employer that I have just started taking Lexapro for depression and anxiety? [more inside]
My doggy is sick:-( What to do?
I recently returned home from a 6 day trip to find that my 11 year old, previously very healthy and lively dog had a large lump on her throat, a bit bigger than a golf ball. [more inside]
Indigenous vaccination practices?
I remember reading something once about the concept of vaccines actually being originally developed by indigenous people. Google is failing me. [more inside]
Renting in Abu Dhabi
I am moving to the UAE, Abu Dhabi next week to start a new job. How do you go about finding an apartment to rent. Any online resources? Or do I ask around for a broker when I get there?
How do I rent a tuxedo?
How should I go about renting a tuxedo for my school's prom this Saturday? [more inside]
What plants would be good for screening a window?
What plants would be good for screening a window? Requirements within. [more inside]
Where can I find Blood and Sand?
Where/How can I watch Spartacus: Blood and Sand? [more inside]
How do I turn my kids voices into images?
I have an audio recording of children playing. I want to take data from that recording (frequency? volume? something else?) and use those numbers to generate some sort of visual output. [more inside]
How do I move to Texas?
I am going to "start over" in a new place (eastern texas/Houston/Austin/Huntsville.) How do I prepare to have a successful life there [more inside]
House of horror
What responsibility does a mortgage company have for the approval they granted to a builder (before paying the builder) on a house that is now an utter disaster? [more inside]
I don't want to create the universe, just recreate it.
I'm looking for usable 3d meshes of Earth, Moon and Mars I know the data is out there for free, but the data I've found is ridiculous (4 terabyte high resolution files), hard to use (5 degree slices that would need to be assembled), in formats that only planetary geologists can use, or simply stuck in the labyrinth of poorly maintained and documented government web sites where I can't find it. [more inside]
Alternative fitness benchmarks
What are some accomplishments that require strength, agility, flexibility, etc that aren't typical fitness goals. [more inside]
Handsy
What do you do with your hands when you run? And does that change depending on how far and over what terrain you are running?
Shopping for leather jacket
Where in Boston can I buy a men's leather jacket today? [more inside]
Babies... 500 of them!
The baby crazy has started. My husband is not yet keen on the idea of starting a family, and frankly, we're just not in a good place in life right now. How do I quell these feelings? How do I stop worrying about when and if it will happen? [more inside]
Help my friend detox
How can I help my friend detox from heroin in NYC? [more inside]
Ouch!
YANMD but i have an appointment tomorrow. The right side of my face hurts. Mostly under my eyebrow, the inside of my cheek and when im walking what seems like somewhere close to where my wisdom teeth were. Im thinking sinusitis? [more inside]
Switch host with least downtime?
DNS with 1and1. Hosting with HostPC. Something weird happened with my hosting account on Friday. I received a spike in traffic that suspended my account. They got it working again, but only partially. Email is still out of service after a few days. They say they're working on it, but I don't know how hard, and I can't risk being without it for much longer, so I'm considering now just switching hosts instead of waiting for HostPC to fix the issue. What host can I switch to that will propagate the fastest and have my email up and working as quickly as possible? 1and1 because I'm also doing DNS with them, or am I better off with someone else? Thanks for any help. [more inside]
My cat has taken to pooping and peeing all over our flat. Several trips to the vet haven't stopped it. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to stop this?
My cat has taken to pooping and peeing all over our flat. Several trips to the vet haven't stopped it. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to stop this? [more inside]
Music for the anesthetised?
My 50 year old best friend is having hip replacement surgery. Her pre-admission testing nurse told her they'll give her an iPod loaded with some random selection of songs from one of five very broad genres to listen to while she's under anesthesia. This is partly to keep her from subconsciously hearing the conversations in the OR, and partly to help her be in a good frame of mind when she wakes up. I think we can do a lot better than somebody else's random choices. She can take her own iPod in with her. Help me make the best surgery playlist ever! [more inside]
A liquid eyeliner that will stay. put.
I'm looking for a black liquid eyeliner that will STAY PUT! FOR HOURS!! and not spread about. I'm kinda happy with my $9 Revlon ColorStay liquid eyeliner, but my skin oils begin to smudge the eyeliner after a few hours. I'm willing to splurge, but I'd like to narrow down my options. I can't splurge on several $20 eyeliners before finding the right one. Help?
How to sort out life priorities?
How do I sort out my life priorities (relationships, career, travel) without always feeling like the grass is greener? [more inside]
Where and when to see aurora borealis¹ in 2012?
I would like to see the Northern Lights at some point in 2012. When and where should I go to maximise my chances? [more inside]
Help me find an industrial space to live in.
One of my lifelong dreams is to live in a warehouse, container, or other industrial/repurposed structure. Can I do this in the San Francisco Bay Area (specifically Oakland)? Do you know someone who is? Should I look outside Oakland? [more inside]
What are the best pattern interrupts out there?
What are the best and most powerful pattern interrupts you know of? [more inside]
Examples of art censorship?
What are the most interesting examples of art censorship from the past 20 years? I am considering how the government and public institutions shield the public from specific imagery. I am aware of the recent controversy at the National Portrait Gallery in Washington-- removing a video by David Wojnarowicz. Other examples of art censorship for sexual, political, ethical, religious, or other reasons would be most appreciated.
Preserving a temporary tattoo
As part of a stupid bet, I need to preserve a temporary tattoo on my face for as long as possible. The tattoo is the kind that little kids get as party favors and it comes on a piece of paper that you wet with water and stick on yourself. What things can I do to ensure that the t-rex on my face lasts the longest?
Inventory Management!
Help designing a small business inventory system. Super extra difficulty inside, treat it like a logic puzzle! [more inside]
Plz help me get the best from GEICO.
A few nights ago a young woman, totally wasted, smacked into my pickup, which was parked on the street. Lots of damage. It's an old truck, it might be considered totaled, I'm not sure. My truck needs this, needs that, it's old, 200,000 miles, I'm not the best at keeping it maintained. Do I try to get money from her insurance to purchase a different truck? Because it's old and high miles, how do I keep from them telling me it's only worth this $$ but I can't replace it for what they offer -- I'd intended to drive this truck to at least 250,000 miles, I love the truck. Or if they repair it how do I demand they don't try to straighten out parts she smashed rather than replace with straight? The body of this truck was mint, never even dinged, it was the best thing about the truck. [more inside]
Child's mother was a hamster
Is there any legal (or otherwise) recourse if one parent is falsifying their child's background with a psychologist to make the other parent look like a villain? Could it really be causing them to misdiagnose my son? Sorry for the dreadful complicated story inside...I really tried to short-story it. [more inside]
Stop Tracking Me!
I have (up to date) Adblock Plus & Ghostery installed for Firefox 4 OSX 10.6.7. I have Firefox configured to delete all cookies on a restart. Why is it that after I restart Firefox all these cookies are still there? [more inside]
Looking for a simple email provider
I currently use gmail as my main address and have played with hotmail and yahoo in the past. The one thing I don't like about any of them is that they automatically create a profile for the user and then try to link them to (what seems like) everything! Google for example automatically pulls your data from their various services and puts it into a "social circle" where it links you with people from your contacts list. I don't want that.
I'm looking for a simple webmail service that I can use for email and contacts only. Not interested in linking facebook, photos, chat, or any other social networking type features.
I've been trying GMX.com and they seem decent enough. Anyone have any other suggestions for a no frills email provider?
Yes, I'm serious about this.
Why do humans (and most mammals) have two nostrils instead of one? Seems redundant.
Helpng a charity on a daily basis?
What quick and free things can I do on a daily basis to help charities/those in need? [more inside]
Auto Electrics for Dummies: Scooter Edition
I'm travelling on my Scooter about 1,200 kms (800 miles) over two days. Is there a way I can hitch up a 12 volt (car) or 5 volt USB charger to keep my Smartphone topped up while on the road and using power hungry apps? There is no 12v charger available, although there is adequate space under the saddle to store a work around. [more inside]
Searching for Mike Romoth
MIKE ROMOTH slacks in Seattle. [more inside]
Homebound and Friendless II: Moving out and donating plasma
I'm Homebound and Friendless. I will be seeing my psychiatrist for the second time this month, have a PCP for the first time in my life, and have the option to see a psychologist or mental health counselor in the future when I'm ready for that again. This is all thanks to an ER visit in October 2010 and my brother's ex-mental health counselor pushing my parents to get me on my father's insurance (I have two years left on it), but that's not the point of my question. Living in a negative environment with a mentally unstable mother and an alcoholic while trying to get better isn't working out for my brother and me. We want to know what to expect and what sacrifices we'll have to make living on our own, what searching for apartments/houses for rent is like, and how possible moving out is given our special snowflake situation.
I also have a question about "donating" plasma for extra cash. [more inside]
May 7
Moving 1 person 2 cats
I (one person) am moving two cats from Saskatoon to Toronto. Do I ship the cats, rent a car and drive them, make two flights to ferry them back and forth or put one in the cargo hold? [more inside]
Does water flow through a pipe affect its moment of intertia?
Does water flow through a straight pipe change its rotational inertia about an axis perpendicular to the pipe? i.e. Compared with the same pipe filled with (non-flowing) water.
Victorians had very little furniture I guess.
The bin is out front, my reciprocating saw is ready... too bad we haven't settled on a floor plan for our reno. AskMe, we need your votes! [more inside]
Expat tax returns
Testing your powers of deduction (groan).... do you know a US based accountant who is proficient with foreign income, or an Australian accountant proficient in US returns? [more inside]
Making love at midnight
Please tell me your sex hacks? [more inside]
I can stop whenever I want.... Too many frappuccinos?
Should my girlfriend be able to limit my Frappuccino intake? [more inside]
How do I make a massive set of keys more manageable?
I'm sure there are many guys who would love to have this problem, but I assure you it's more of a curse than a blessing. Yes, I have an extraordinarily large… keychain. Seriously, though, do you guys have any miraculous tips for making a big set of keys less of a burden? [more inside]
I'd like to see my friends again sometime this year...
Is there any substitute for an air mattress for mobile, comfortable sleeping on floors? [more inside]
Audio-archeology, or listening to the roar of the t-rex
Has anyone ever attempted to find sound recordings out in the world that weren't made with human technology? [more inside]
What is this Fruit?
Can someone help me to identify this fruit? It is from South India and tastes a lot like coconut. The person who gave it to me wasn't sure of the name. Some research suggests it might be a "coconut apple" which is the inside of a very ripe coconut. It looks whitish/clear like ice-with a husk.
Here are some pictures (1, 2, 3, 4)
Looking for surreal animated video
I'm looking for an animated video that I saw a few years ago. The style was something like the animated feature film La Planète Sauvage (Fantastic Planet), but more psychedelic. Here's what I remember of it (I might have some details wrong, but hopefully the gist will get across): [more inside]
OK to use expired anti-itch dog medicine?
Is it a good idea to use old neo-predef to help our dog stop scratching and licking at a pretty big hot spot? Or, any other ideas to give him some relief? While the hot spot is troubling him, I don't think it rises to the level of an emergency vet visit. [more inside]
Ideas for August Adventure Vacation
I'm looking for ideas for an adventurous two weeks vacation in August.
I have enough frequent flyer miles to fly almost anywhere but I don't want a super expensive destination - Europe is out because of this. I'd like to go to Brazil, Thailand and Cambodia but understand that the weather is not good in any of these in August.
My ideal would be someplace that has a combination of outdoor sports and exposure to a new culture.
As data points, trips that I've enjoyed but don't want to repeat: Nepal, India, Japan, Tunisia, Egypt, Kenya, Argentina, Pacific west coat of NA, New Mexico, Colorado, China and Hawaii
Thank you in advance for any suggestions
Hockey playoffs in June? WTF?
Can you explain the NHL schedule, please? [more inside]
How to screen in our porch?
Should we use Screen Tight or standard/old-school staples/tacks + facia to screen in our back porch? [more inside]
how to stop public speaking-induced voice freeze?
How can I prevent sudden attacks of muteness during public presentations? [more inside]
Food addiction and binge eating support in MA
Looking for help and resources to deal with and possibly overcome a lengthy history food addiction and binge eating, preferably in the Newton, MA area. [more inside]
Tomato's are a dyin.
Help out dying greenhouse tomato's! [more inside]
How do I get myself to eat less candy?
Why do I love candy - and how can I love it less? [more inside]
LSD trip simulation videos?
I'm working on a project for my health class that requires us to explain the effects of certain types of drugs, and my topic is hallucinogenic substances. I'm looking for some kind of video that can demonstrate the images/patterns/sounds that can be common for someone to see during an LSD trip. Does anyone either have a video in mind, or a place where I might be able to find a video that's similar to what I'm describing?
How do I help my friend who has panic attacks?
My friend constantly has panic attacks. Is there any coping mechanisms that I can suggest or anything I can do or say as a friend to help him calm down? [more inside]
Give me your tiny noms.
I want your mealplans - your SMALL mealplans. Bonus points if they're brown bag, weightloss and special snowflake friendly. [more inside]
Brooklyn 1-bedroom at $1650 max?
Is there a decent Brooklyn neighborhood where I could find a 1-bedroom apartment for no more than $1650? [more inside]
I want to be a part of it... Grenoble!
Sell me Grenoble! I will be in Grenoble for five days, and if I like it enough, I might return for a year or two... [more inside]
Can I be DNA identified from my scab?
DNA question plus *Gross-out alert* If you don't like real live scabs from injuries, read no further. It won't get any better. I'm guessing that I've thinned the clicking herd... [more inside]
Junk or repair 2008 high milage subaru with transmission failure?
My 2008 Subaru impreza's transmission needs to be replaced for $4-4.5K. The car has 107K miles on it, I communute 144 mi 5 days/week, and I got the timing belt and all breaks replaced two weeks ago. Should I junk the car or repair it? What other repairs can I expect in the next 100K miles? [more inside]
What car I buy????
I want a car/SUV with good cargo capacity and good fuel economy. Suggestions? [more inside]
What are your favorite recipes for pigs' feet or trotters?
I need your best (or, hell, any) recipes for pigs' feet, aka trotters. [more inside]
How can I thank some US National Parks employes?
I just got back from a brilliant fieldwork stint in a remote location - an experience that was made possible due to the assistance of some National Parks employees. What can I do to say thanks? [more inside]
How do I get this shower floor ready for shower pan and/or tile?
What do I do about this shower situation? The step down shower floor is a mess and has tile sticking up from it, it's lumpy and uneven. I'm in charge of getting this bathroom put together, and I want to make sure it's done correctly. Tools don't scare me.
A long explanation with a SLYT. [more inside]
Thriving as an adult after a dysfunctional authoritarian childhood?
Resources for adults who have trouble living day to day after growing up in an authoritative family in which abuse was present? [more inside]
Temporary allergy relief for my dog?
Dog with allergies - how can I keep him from scratching himself raw? [more inside]
Which gauge guitar strings for Drop A# should I use?
Which gauge guitar strings for Drop A# should I use? [more inside]
Where to buy a barong tagalog shirt in San Francisco area?
Where to buy a barong tagalog shirt for an 8-year old's First Communion in SF Bay area? [more inside]
Email nofifications not working in Google Calendar.
After three great years my Google Calendar has simply stopped sending me email notifications. I have tried the help page here and many unhelpful forum posts here. This seems to be a prevalent problem. I wish I could switch to something else but Gmail is what I use heart and soul for work. Any others solved this problem? I am all ears. Thanks for your time.
What is my taste in music?
Can anyone recommend lo-fi, sixties influenced music with a good beat like this track?
Soundnote on laptop or netbook?
Where to get boulder. Where.
Where can I get a giant boulder? (4-foot diameter minimum) [more inside]
What do you call a sweater with thumb holes?
I need help identifying a sweater style. Please help me name this sweater so I can find it and buy it! [more inside]
At least I am not getting the Chinese character for "Dishwasher"
Is my potential tattoo reminiscent of anything that I'm not aware of? (An image on flickr) [more inside]
Rural living close to the big city?
Is it possible to live in a green/rural area while commuting to downtown Portland? [more inside]
help me make technology empowering
Help me increase my technology/computer knowledge and resourcefulness so I may help others in my community get the most out of digital tools. Or: How do I apply the DIY/empowering/hackerly approach to computing in a way that benefits others? [more inside]
Looking for sleep-inducing podcasts
Sleep sounds: do you have any podcasts or music you find it useful to listen to to help you to fall asleep? Or recommendations which might fit the criteria of the podcasts I currently use to help me to fall asleep - calm voices, very few sudden increases in speech volume or musical interludes, subject matter which is interesting but not urgent. [more inside]
Euphemisms
My university has a habit of referring to sexual assault as "forcible touching," and after this morning's email report of an attempted rape as, again, "forcible touching," I've reached my outrage limit. Am I right to be upset about this or is it a legal definition that I'm just not understanding? [more inside]
What's the best charting software out there?
Best business charting software? [more inside]
spice is the spice of life
Recipes with garam masala. Caveats: vegetarian and non-mushy. [more inside]
Config for a sub-$1k PC for audio production?
Please help configure a sub-$1k PC for professional audio and video production. [more inside]
Timing belt broke, can I repair it myself?
The timing chain broke while I was driving my 1997 Ford Taurus GL, I drove it for a few more minutes and the battery died. Once I was able to pull over to the side of the road, I opened up the hood and the chain was ripped to shreds. I don't have a lot of auto repair experience, but am I able to repair it myself by just simply installing a new timing chain? If so, are there any diagrams or helpful directions on the internet somewhere? [more inside]
What are the best strategies for getting the most out of preventative therapy?
I'm thinking about therapy for the first time, but nothing's specifically wrong. What type of therapist should I look for, and what can I do in the weeks leading up to it that would help me along the way? [more inside]
remembering, supporting, celebrating?
commemorating the 10-year anniversary of a parent's death? [more inside]
Books on the history of clothes
Please recommend me a book on the history of clothing.
I'm looking for more of a social history than I am something about changes in the clothes themselves, as I'm mostly interested in the relationship of clothing to society, class, etc., over time. Thanks.
Job moving to Burlington, MA from New York City. Where should I live?
BostonMetroFilter: My job may be moving from New York to Burlington, MA soon. If I decide to keep the job and relocate, where in the Boston area should I live? [more inside]
Is this what it's like to date while depressed?
I feel depressed and completely unmotivated by school. I think its correlated with the fact I'm in a new relationship. [more inside]
name this violin prodigy?
I remember reading about a young violin prodigy of the 1970s who had eccentric parents who dressed him up in a caveman-style shawl made of bear fur. Does anyone know the name and travails of this now probably aged 40+ violinist?
Where to Find Bob Dylan Instrumentals?
Where could I find an instrumental of Bob Dylan's "The Times They are a Changin' " that is pulled from the actual song, rather than a karaoke facsimile? [more inside]
I'm going for a temp agency skills assessment. What can I expect?
I'm going for a temp agency skills assessment. What can I expect? [more inside]
What do you think?
I am not English and am trying to understand if The Economist's Osama Bin Laden obituary should be read as serious and humanizing or tongue-in-cheek humorous. [more inside]
How to Deal with Unsupportive Mother?
How to Deal with Unsupportive Mother? [more inside]
Itunes in need of Spring Cleaning
Is there any way to clean up the cover art on for podcasts on Itunes? [more inside]
How to be happy again?
How to be happy again? [more inside]
Fanboys are a cowardly and superstitous lot . . .
The comic book bug has bitten me again. What are some good ones currently being published that I should put on my pull list? (secret identity snowflakes revealed inside!) [more inside]
May 6
Stay strong! (yeah, and what else?)
Can someone please translate this song from Japanese into English?
BOMBRUSH! - "STAY STRONG" feat. NORIKIYO, SHINGO★西成 & DAG FORCE
Greatest Karaoke Night of Your Life?
I'm making a piece on and of karaoke with an experimental theatre company. What are your top 5 karaoke tunes - spectators, performers, and KJ's? [more inside]
Fan friendly mac protective case?
What kind of protection cover can I get for my new macbook pro that will prevent wear but also not affect fan power? [more inside]
I'm *this* close to attempting animal sacrifice
Buffalo router is not recognizing an external USB hard drive. [more inside]
Inspiration for Runnig Over a Dog (without actually running it over)
Can you think of any movies with scenes in which the characters accidentally hit an animal while driving? Bonus points if at night time. [more inside]
What is the make and model of this watch?
What are the up-and-coming, major, legitimate environmentally-friendly breakthroughs?
I'm thinking of doing a major career change, and I'm interested in up-and-coming environmental technologies. I'm having a hard time separating the facts from the hype. Help me figure out what the next great field of green technology is! [more inside]
How to Build a Cavas Winter Tent?
I would like to build a canvas winter camping tent. I'm looking for materials and plans. Any recommendations? [more inside]
Travel Blog
Suggestions and resources for creating a travel photography blog? [more inside]
Ensure the Insurer
How can I branch out my title insurance company to survive this economy? [more inside]
Oil and Water Not Supposed to Mix!
Diagnosing head gasket problem - do I really have to spend $1K here? [more inside]
How can I be more assertive?
I want to be more assertive. Just had an annoying customer service experience from which I think I could have got better results had I been more assertive. Need tips. Details within. [more inside]
I'm thinking of an 80s pop hit...
I'm thinking of an 80s song, common in movie soundtracks, that starts with a sung "Oh we oh we oh we oh wee ohh Ahhh". The google, it does nothing. Any ideas?
Ever bought a mic flag?
How to buy a mic flag: The first week of June I will be attending a meetup via my favorite tech podcaster and I want to gift him with a microphone flag for his Shure SM58 since he records his podcast LIVE every week. [more inside]
What's the best way to reveal you're a felon?
What is the best way to present a felony conviction during the job application/interview process? [more inside]
Help me my give my dog Tramadol
Help me my give my dog Tramadol [more inside]
Sweet Camping Gear?
I am looking for some sweet camping gear to give as a gift to my new bride. The only catch is that we already have most of the basics. Looking for something she/we can really use and would make a great gift.
Constructive cures for cabin fever
I am caring for an elderly relative who needs someone nearby 24 hours a day. I'm left with a lot of free time that I'd like to fill with something constructive. What (cheap, indoor, offline) things can I do that will have satisfying results in the 4-6 weeks I'll be here? [more inside]
Where can I live cheaply?
Cheap living + possibility of a job = where in the US? [more inside]
Do you know anything about Netflix ratings?
By viewing previous posts, it seems that I'm not the only one irritated by Netflix's recommendations.
So, my question is, how do Netflix's ratings and recommendations work? I just noticed a documentary film about Brazilian trash pickers that is recommended to me "based on my interest in Dead Man Walking, Punch Drunk Love, and The Pianist." That makes no sense to me. [more inside]
Real-time delay for video: how, and what programming language should i use?
Real-time delay for video: how, and what programming language should i use? Processing? Open Frameworks? Something else? [more inside]
Why do so few allopathic/western medicine docs attempt to diagnose hypochlorhydria, or treat it?
MedicalConfusionFilter: Do I have hypochlorhydria (low stomach acid) and/or reflux, or not? There's at least 2-4 diagnostic gadgets out there for measuring digestive pH. One of them ought to confirm it for sure, no? [more inside]
Short-run self-publishing
I want to get a small run of copies (around 10) of my dissertation printed and bound as mementos. I'm going to give some to my family and friends after graduation. What's a good and cheap way to get this done? [more inside]
Indesign Gurus! Is there a way for two separate documents to have different style sheets with the same names but different attributes? So that when I bring in tagged text, the styles "translate" into the new version?
Indesign Gurus! Is there a way for two separate documents to have different style sheets with the same names but different attributes? So that when I bring in tagged text, the styles "translate" into the new version? [more inside]
A day in the life of an early Christian
What can you tell me about what life was like for early Christians in the first century AD in Jerusalem, specifically 33 AD to 70 AD? [more inside]
Should I report apparent theft of "controlled substance" prescriptions?
Should I report the apparent recurring theft of my (perfectly legal and medically appropriate) prescriptions for controlled substances (written prescriptions, not actual drugs)? [more inside]
What should I learn how to play?
In my dreams I am an incredible musician who can shred on any instrument. Then I wake up, and I am still a beginner. But, you gotta start somewhere, right? Please help me expand my keyboard repertoire. [more inside]
Fun with fake science, Star Trek Mirror Universe edition
I don't know enough about genetics generally, and RNA specifically, to work through this Star Trek RPG story hook. Please hope me. [more inside]
How can I learn about the workings of the fashion industry?
How can I learn about the workings of the fashion industry? [more inside]
High School Graduation Cards in Japanese?
I have a niece graduating from high school in June who after years of study is fluent in Japanese. I'd like to send her a congratulatory card (with appropriate negotiable supplementation) that's written in Japanese. Can anyone point me to an on-line resource for such a card? Also, could anyone tell me if there are any traditional Japanese graduation gifts (similar to what a pen and pencil set would be in the USA)?
Thanks in advance.
Booze and baked goods, what more could you want?
I'm planning a 'cupcakes and cocktails' party next weekend, and I could use some assistance in figuring out what drinks to have on hand that won't clash horribly with what I'm serving. [more inside]
I realized it was probably time for a MyFi. Then realized I didn't even know how to spell that, let alone what it meant.
I think I'm ready to pull the trigger on a mobile hotspot. So...which one? [more inside]
Custom internet radio app
App for that filter: Creating a custom internet radio station from streams and/or podcasts? [more inside]
Time to start giving
I'm starting to make a lot of money, and I'd like to focus my charitable giving. [more inside]
Books that can talk?
Are there any articles or books that talk about how IQ disparities between individuals affects communication? [more inside]
Outfit Inspiration
What are your favorite fashion blogs for inspiration? [more inside]
Ladies who do not lunch
I like my coworkers, and I like lunch, but I have anxiety issues with eating in public. Is it socially acceptable to skip 90% of friendly work lunches? Will it hurt my working relationships, in your opinion? [more inside]
Too depressed to think clearly
My life is a mess - I don't know where to begin to start to improve things. Please help. [more inside]
How to avoid customs fees on return of my own computer
Do I have to pay customs duties to have a computer I left behind in Ireland shipped to California? [more inside]
Help me end the party.
It's difficult for me to admit this, but alcohol has become a problem in my life. I can't rationalize it away anymore. I'm ready to just stop drinking, but I would like to hear stories from people about the positive benefits you noticed when you cut alcohol consumption way down or completely out of your life, either with or without help. [more inside]
Reading Tag Barcodes
Is there a way to read Microsoft Tag barcodes with a computer program? I don't own a smartphone but I'd still like to be able to use them when I come across them.
Turntable help for an idiot.
Potentially stupid turntable question. [more inside]
What is this?
Help me identify and categorize my musical interests and expand my horizons in the process. [more inside]
Wisconsin vacation ideas
Family fun in (especially Northern) Wisconsin: ideas for activities, eating and lodging? [more inside]
iPhone in my pocket forgets its a phone
Why does my iPhone forget it has a SIM card when I keep it in my pocket? [more inside]
The Rain in Spain Falls Mainly in Spain.
Asking for a friend: How would one say "The girl never even spoke to them" in a Cockney accent? [more inside]
generic make me sleepy - brand name doesn't?
Why would a *generic* version of an antihistimine make me drowsy when the brand-name version does not? [more inside]
Getting sexual mojo back: monogamous female edition
I need inspiration for rekindling my dormant sexuality, now that motherhood is underway. [more inside]
Battery powered LED light for my illuminated globe?
I'm looking for a battery powered LED light to replace the corded light in my illuminated globe. I'm transferring my globe from a single axis mount to a Gyro-matic (dual axis) mount. It's no longer convenient to have cord in this configuration, so I'd like to illuminate the globe with an LED light that can be switched on from the bottom base plate. I'd probably have to drill out a hole in the base plate to expose the switch. Any ideas are on lights or installation are much appreciated. Here's a link to the bulb replacement instructions.
How can I make this trip with my family easier for me?
I will be spending a week on a small boat with my dysfunctional family. How can I prepare myself so that this is a tolerable, or even pleasant, experience? [more inside]
Anyone recognize this video editing software?
Can anyone identify the video editing software used in this video? [more inside]
Pig Roast Spectacular: Help me roast a pig in spectacular fashion.
Help me roast a pig spectacularly. [more inside]
It was the third of September.
What songs, from any genre, mention a specific calendar date. For example, Papa Was a Rollin Stone (the 3rd of September), September by EWF, (21st night, September. Pride in the Name of Love "early morning, April 4) etc?
I love this kid, but for heaven's sake...
My 3-year-old may or may not have eaten dental floss. What, if anything, should I do? [more inside]
Looking for outdoor shopping locations in Los Angeles.
Looking for outdoor shopping locations in Los Angeles. [more inside]
What is it like to be a tech recruiter?
Are you a technical recruiter or have you worked with tech recruiters? I am interviewing for such a position and need your insight on the industry and if this is something I should explore. [more inside]
Like the Heathers, but less clever.
Bops and Plastics: When you were a teenager, was there a name for the group of girls who were perceived to fit the stereotype of shallow, airheaded, and image-obsessed? [more inside]
Yosemite in the rain
yosemite in the rain: does it suck? [more inside]
Pittsburgh Splurge!
Are there good locavore places in the
Pittsburgh area besides Legume? [more inside]
How to perform a worthwhile diy science experiment?
What type of "at-home" experiments that ask "substantive" questions could I do over the weekend? [more inside]
Help me share my awesome idea!
How do I get a good idea in front of more people? [more inside]
Why Do I Tremble From Anticipatory Jealousy?
When I meet another woman, I sometimes find myself thinking "would (my boyfriend) like her? Is she his type? Oh god, will they meet each other? Would she like him?" To the point where I'm almost paralyzed with fear that he'll leave me for this person he hasn't even met. What can I do to calm down, learn to appreciate other women's qualities without comparing myself, and how can I prepare myself to deal with it if he DOES someday find himself attracted to someone else to the point where it impedes on our relationship? I want to be strong. [more inside]
What's a nicer way to say "BUTT OUT"?
My husband is critical, I'm defensive, we fight. What are some tricks for defusing situations like this? [more inside]
How to retain a private investigator to track down phone number?
My dad's car was stolen last night with his phone inside. I have a record of messages and calls made from the phone after it was lost. Police report was filed, but can a private detective help? Recommendation for one in Oakland, CA? Cost and prior experience in retaining one appreciated. [more inside]
Is falling in love before going away a good idea?
I have met a girl that I really like but I am going abroad for a half a year in three months. I don't know if I should let myself allow falling in love with her or just distance myself to her emotionally.
Also the history seems to be repeating itself… [more inside]
Is it normal to be a female and not have many (okay, any) close guy friends?
Is it normal to be a female and not have many (okay, any) close guy friends? Should I actively pursue friendships with guys? [more inside]
Climate change and radical adaptation
Months ago (possibly a year or two), I heard an NPR interview with an author who made the case that the international community is past the point of being able to mitigate climate change - that the challenge now is radical adaptation (evacuating islands and coastal cities - things like that). This was on Wisconsin Public Radio, but I don't remember whether it was a state or national show. It's possible that he was British or Australian, but it's very possible that I'm mis-remembering that part. Also, I'm almost positive it wasn't James Howard Kunstler (and searching NPR for him doesn't turn up the interview). Any idea who the author could have been, or where I might find the interview? That's almost nothing to go on, but I've seen AskMeFi identify a 30 year-old coffee mug based on a mis-pronounced name and a wish, so I have hope! [more inside]
Help me plan a 10-day late September northern California getaway for my parents?
Help me plan a 10-day late September northern California getaway for my parents (who are 60 year olds from the South) ??? [more inside]
Easiest-to-manage encryption for Windows 7? (other than BitLocker)
What are the easiest-to-administer alternatives to BitLocker for file or hard drive encryption on a Windows 7 laptop? [more inside]
Etta James sings...
20 years ago, at a concert in Toronto, Etta James sang a song that my partner fell in love with. To the best of her recollection it had the lyric, "why was was I born green, instead of blue -like everybody else?" I've googled around but can't narrow my results down to anything useful.
Does anyone know what the title of this song might be and if there is a recording of it available?
Are there any new(ish) computer games that are like SimCity?
I want to build a city. Are there any contemporary computer games that are anything like SimCity? [more inside]
What's a fun little day trip I can do for my birthday?
My birthday is in early June. I'd like to do a little fun day trip thing with my friends. Nothing crazy. Reachable with mass transit from NYC. [more inside]
Are mini dental implants any good?
What are the benefits and drawbacks of mini-dental implants vs. traditional implants. I'd love to hear your experience with mini-implants! [more inside]
Non-MJ Vaping
What herbs, spices, or other materials (other than marijuana) have you vaporized for therapeutic benefits? [more inside]
Help evaluate my new career plan, please.
Career-Building, ROUND 2! I humbly ask the hive for their analysis of my future plans, help me get it right this time. [more inside]
Help me choose a new A Level Psychology specification
Currently I teach A Level Psychology using the AQA A spec and want to change exam boards. I am thinking of Edxcel rather than OCR but wondered if anyone has opinions that they could share with me. Pros and cons for either and / or each if possible. [more inside]
Advice for finding good sublet->rental on E/F train in manhattan.
NYC Realestate filter. Best ways to find an apartment sublet this August, and then a rental. Must be on the E/F subway line. Questions about subletting/renting -> Clinton/MidtownEast/LIC-queens neighborhoods follow. [more inside]
What are you favorite New Age clichés?
What are you favorite New Age clichés? I'm compiling a list of new age cliches, please contribute. [more inside]
Low-carb brunch ideas please!
Mother's Day brunch: I need some low-carb brunch food ideas. Bonus points if they can be cooked on the grill. [more inside]
Turning £500 into £5000
I've been challenged to turn £500 GBP into £5000 (or more) within the next six months. I know NOTHING about investing, stock markets or investment markets. Any good resources to start this challenge with? Ideas on best strategies for this sort of speedy growth? Any good books / online communities / articles to read? Do you think it's even possible? [more inside]
Quick business lunch near Orlando's Orange County Convention Center?
I need to do a business lunch with two or three people in Orlando near the convention center on a weekday. Previous posts suggest that the International Drive area will be a crowded mess. Any suggestions for a business-appropriate lunch spot that is close to the convention center (walkable or very, very short cab ride) and that is not likely to keep us waiting?
What is Mags Bennett using in the glasses on Justified?
On the TV Series Justified, any idea what Mags Bennett is supposedly using to coat the glasses? [more inside]
Help me with my decorating issues!
Please help me find a desk chair that will help ease my lower back pain and look pretty, too! [more inside]
We need the willpower to promote self-discipline.
My class is in charge of promoting the value of "self-discipline" around the school in the form of posters/messages/etc during the month of June. What would be some good ways to promote that value? [more inside]
May 5
Where to buy made-to-measure clothing?
I've decided to go down the made-to-measure road and buy some shirts (and, perhaps suits) that fit really well. Which online made-to-measure shop is best? [more inside]
Exporting video as an image sequence
I'm looking for a (preferably free) video editor/processor that will let me export a video clip as an image sequence. [more inside]
Non toxic, effective hair coloring for my 62 year old mother?
Non toxic, effective hair coloring for my 62 year old mother? [more inside]
Should my puppy eat Blue Buffalo, Science Diet or Wellness?
Hello!
We are getting a Maltese puppy (12 weeks old) soon and I want to give him the best dog food there is. I've heard about Blue Buffalo, Science Diet and Wellness. [more inside]
Trying to improve my cousin through music
My cousin is at the ripe ol' age of 12, and he is discovering all types of rebellious and "dangerous" music. What albums should I supply him with? [more inside]
Does anyone know of a new, effective treatment for "persistent migraine aura without infraction"?
Does anyone know of a new, effective treatment for "persistent migraine aura without infraction"? Please share if you do!!!!! [more inside]
Are my peppers and tomatoes doomed?
What's wrong with my peppers and tomatoes? [more inside]
Corners on a dime?????
I am interested in purchasing a gently used cross over vehicle for myself. I plan on paying cash and want to spend 10,000.00 or less. I prefer Honda or Toyota but am open to reliable well made vehicles. [more inside]
These bugs are bugging me!
Roaches in my Orlando apartment. I don't trust the management company to take care of it and I am seriously grossed out. Looking for recommendations for local exterminators who will do the job but not cost an arm and a leg! [more inside]
Reviving the Historic House
What is the coolest thing you can imagine doing at a historic house? [more inside]
Where can I buy this shirt?
Where can I find this T-shirt David Cross is wearing of a bunny eating a record? [more inside]
Finding a robust content syndication platform for social media distribution
Developers and content curators: Help me with some market research. I am trying to find an off-the-shelf solution or to spec out how to develop a solution to the following problem. My organization is looking to setup an internal collection, curation, and distribution system to push multimedia content to hundreds of social media accounts (in dozens of languages) with potentially hundreds of users. Ability to enable push-button publishing via Facebook, Twitter, and other APIs through a plug-in architecture. Sound interesting? Read on. [more inside]
Is it art
Help with a old paintings...and should I buy them...more inside. [more inside]
which programming language shouldi learn to be best employable.
let's assume i'm decently technically minded, and entirely burned out on my current job (technical support). let's further assume that programming is vaguely attractive and something i think i could do, and that i would like to be employable at 50-65k a year.
what language do i learn? why?
Therapist recommendations in Moorhead/Fargo area
Looking for a good therapist in the Moorhead/Fargo area. [more inside]
Maggi seasoning?
I got a bottle of Maggi seasoning to go into my micheladas. What else can I use this stuff in?
How can I change my relationship style while not in a relationship?
In working with my therapist, we've concluded that I have a fearful-avoidant attachment style. I'd like to know how to get out of that mode. [more inside]
Why is my finger so lumpy?
Please help with any diagnostic insight you might have (or insight as to how to get a better diagnosis), as well as alternatives to treatments that I am intolerant to trying [more inside]
How do I deal with beard burn from sex?
How do I deal with beard burn from sex with my new partner? [more inside]
What are my options for permanent hair removal on my penis?
What are my best options for permanent hair removal on the shaft of my penis? [more inside]
let me look at you forever
I need a (preferably free) program to pull high-quality screencaps from a DVD on a Mac. [more inside]
Need ideas for games to play and discuss in a high school game design class.
I will be teaching a high school class about game design to 9th and 10th graders in New York City starting next Tuesday. Looking for some suggestions for a wide range of interesting and conversation-provoking (free) online games I can have the kids play in-class. [more inside]
Looking for blog posts showing how iconic brands are when you only have two letters/the colours of the brand.
Help me find these two blog posts on logos/corporate identities/brands abstracted out (a "Can you still recognize X without the usual logo trappings?" exercise). [more inside]
How can I not screwed by Time Warner?
Is there a way I can either make use of an active internet connection coming into my apartment, or avoid paying an installation fee to Time Warner in NYC for a connection that already appears to work? [more inside]
Looking for next of kin, hit dead end. Need people sleuths.
How can I use a name, a birth date, a town, a social security number and an approximate date of death (month/year) to find next of kin? [more inside]
Fretting about fretting.
I want to become a luthier. Please give me advice. [more inside]
Crumbling Castles of Doom
Where did this common Fantasy/horror/sci-fi convention come from? [more inside]
What is half of a deviled egg?
What is half of a deviled egg? This is a serious question. [more inside]
Items to give to area homeless people
Help me come up with ideas for items that would be needed by the homeless. I see many homeless people on my commute to and from work, usually at stoplights. I never carry cash on me, but would like to keep things in my car that I can give out. [more inside]
Help us help ourselves!
(Un)Plannedchaos: Help my wife and I feel less paralyzed when it comes to planning meals! [more inside]
Need info on Tragedy and Hope FIRST PRINTING
Anybody know where I can get a digital version of the difference between the FIRST PRINTING of "Tragedy and Hope" and later versions of "Tragedy and Hope" by Carroll Quigley? [more inside]
How to find a Freelance Interactive Producer?
I just started working at an digital production agency in Brooklyn, NYC and I want to know what's the best way of sourcing a kickass local freelance Interactive Producer for a big project we're working on?
Other than Jobs postings on Behance and FWA?
Historical dates in Wordpress or another blog system?
Historical dates for blog posts? [more inside]
Scale
Used Physician's Balance Beam Scale in NYC [more inside]
Lesson Learned: check your credit report often
Last year I went on a hardship repayment plan with my Bank of America visa. No problem...until I see my credit report!!! They are now saying I should have known better, and there is nothing they can do. Do I have legal recourse to force them to revise my credit rating? [more inside]
Long before there were sound chips...
Remember the Fisher Price Barn with the MOO sound effect when you opened the door? How did the 'moo' mechanism work? And most importantly: can I build one for the front door of my house?
Marthas Vineyard in May?
I am going to Martha's Vineyard this Saturday (May 7th) with my 3 sisters and my mother. I'd love recommendations for things we must see, and the best places for lunch and dinner. My mom won't be up for biking from place to place, so advice on using the buses would be appreciated too!
Don't boats like stop at Islands or something?
Does anyone have any recommendations on one-way ferry travel in early June from Naples to Spain, ideally Valencia? [more inside]
Can a country mouse become a city mouse?
It looks like I will get a job offer at NYU. I am not a city person. Please help me figure out whether this is a good idea and where I might like to live in the NYC area. [more inside]
Help me locate the designer of awesome vinyl wall stickers I saw in brooklyn years ago
Help me locate the designer of awesome vinyl wall stickers I saw in brooklyn years ago [more inside]
Stop poking me
If I've declined a Facebook friend request, and blocked the user, can they still poke me? [more inside]
Playing games through the (snail) mail.
I'm interested in novel recreational uses of snail mail, both historically and currently. Aside from pen-palling and exchanging goods, what kind of games or similar activities take place via old fashioned letters and postcards? [more inside]
Win-wins for developers and communities?
Can anyone point me to stories or case studies about conflicts between communities and land developers that were resolved to everyone's satisfaction? [more inside]
Help me win friends and influence people. Oh, and also, not get fired from my awesome job.
I’m an impatient jerk, it seems. I don’t mean to be (who does?) but… that’s what they tell me. How can I learn to be more patient and friendly? Way, way more inside... [more inside]
How do I make my girlfriend more comfortable about her body?
How do I make my girlfriend more comfortable about her body? [more inside]
Help Me Cover an Ugly Barrel
What material is about as thick as a notebook cover, made of plastic (or something as durable and flexible), available in sizes about 3'X6', and available very cheaply or free? [more inside]
Big web sites for outdoors activities.
What are the most popular online destinations/forums/communities for gardening, hiking, backpacking, and other outdoor activities? [more inside]
Literary device?
Is there a name for a literary device that states something using very sparse details, yet the observant reader knows there is a history behind it that informs the situation in a significant way? I'm not thinking of understatement (as this seems to be more about irony) or paralipsis. It would be a simple, unadorned statement of reality, almost in passing, that carries deeper implications for the narrative than may be realized by the unobservant reader. What would I call this?
Decoding the question of the coder I need
What kind of Web programmer/coder do I need for this project? Where do I find such a person? [more inside]
Find me cookbooks for vegetarian one-pot meals.
Vegetarian and vegetable-focused one-pot meals. Cookbook recommendations? Plus, a question about Indian cookbooks. [more inside]
so far away argh!
What would be the most streamlined/cheap/quickest way to get to go between Rochester, NY and Port Jefferson(Long Island), NY on a semi regular basis? [more inside]
Two friends enter, one friend leaves. Roommate or boyfriend?
I need a roommate for my awesome apartment. I have a friend who’d make a good roommate, but she really dislikes my boyfriend—and doesn’t know I’m dating him. And my boyfriend likes her, potentially more than he likes me. How to resolve? [more inside]
Help out some less than hip teachers pick a song for a high school lipdub.
Lipdub filter: Can you suggest a song? [more inside]
Product placement
What boozes and other items would go well in a Mad Men themed gift basket?
What does "down to earth" mean? Context: On-line dating.
What does "down to earth" mean? Context: On-line dating. [more inside]
Online courses which walk through works of literature?
Where can you get online -- preferably free -- video lectures of professors/experts explicating, in detail, major literary works? For example, is there an online course where an excellent professor walks through The Divine Comedy or Finnegan's Wake?
Supporting a friend who may lose a pet
How to support and comfort a friend through the illness/loss of their pets? What helped you? [more inside]
How can I restrict web browsing on an iPad?
I'm using a bunch of iPads to show of a particular website, and allow them to click around within that website... How can I keep people from being able to browse to other sites? [more inside]
why reinvent the wheel?
[Not-wanting-to-reinvent-the-wheel web filter] looking for a particular way of implementing blog posts onto static site. Please hope me save time. RSS question inside. [more inside]
I am looking for thoughts and opinions on Getting the Love You Want : A Guide For Couples, by Harville Hendrix.
I am looking for thoughts and opinions on Getting the Love You Want : A Guide For Couples, by Harville Hendrix. This book was recommended to me by a therapist after our initial session, and now I’m even more confused. [more inside]
Donate to an individual, receive a tax-deduction?
How can a family who's child has Leukemia collect money, and give tax deductions to donors? [more inside]
Recommend me an orthopedist in NoVA.
I need an orthopedist in northern Virginia. I have Anthem insurance. No pain but abnormal hip x-rays. Rate MDs says orthopedists all kinda suck. Did you like your orthopedist? [more inside]
Advice on blog/website interactions
How can I make my website and blog work seamlessly? [more inside]
What would you ask Bill McKibben?
What interview questions should I ask Bill McKibben? I'm interviewing him for our community blog, and would like to do this well. [more inside]
Samsung Gravity Touch Unlock?
My old roommate left me with his old Samsung Gravity Touch. Is there any way to unlock/jailbreak it? [more inside]
Name that texting service!
I work at a school whose mascot is the Longhorn. We are setting up a text messaging service and I'm looking for a catchy name for the new service. Difficulty: there's already a "cattle call" newsletter, and I'd like to set the new service apart as something new and unique. Any ideas?
loud, like a neighbor
I am moving in to a new apartment, and have discovered that my across the hall neighbor is kind of loud. The noise seems to be carrying through the air conditioner vent. Is there anything I can do to muffle this? [more inside]
How to turn down this introduction?
Went to a "networking" event, realized after I walked into the bar that they meant beer and business cards networking, but stayed a few minutes anyway and met someone who offered to introduce me to someone who worked someplace that might be hiring Ruby development interns. Help me talk my way out of this without offending anyone, and help me avoid this problem next time. [more inside]
What is the best low budget HD camcorder for Mac Users?
Best Low Budget HD Camcorder for Mac Users? [more inside]
Let's move our whole town somehwere else...
Looking for an article with photos where a town in China moved itself to a new location. [more inside]
Please help me make up my mind about a makeup bag
I need a new makeup bag that meets certain criteria: elegance, cleanliness, and durability. [more inside]
How to move overseas and keep working?
Help my wife substitute new income for old across an international relocation. [more inside]
Where would I find these boots in NYC?
Where can I buy women's harness boots in New York City? [more inside]
A close-knit group would be nice!
How can I find a knitting group in Oxford, England? [more inside]
Where do I live in Toronto?
Where should I live in Toronto, Ontario, and how should I go about looking for a place? [more inside]
Stupid boobs.
I bought a wedding dress online, and the bust is waaaaaaay too small. The rest of it fits like a dream, and I love it, but I know nothing about alterations. Is there any hope? [more inside]
Best Flash Cart for Nintendo DS Lite?
Avid/experienced Nintendo DS Lite gamers, what would you recommend as the best Flash Cartridge for my new NDSL? I'd like to have as many options and features as possible within reason (dollars and sense-wise). [more inside]
ow..my knees!
I know you are not my doctor, but maybe you can tell me if I should see a doctor for some knee things. [more inside]
Religion in the workplace: is it appropriate?
Is it okay to bring religion into the workplace? [more inside]
Is this company guilty of false advertising/misrepresentation? Can I do anything?
Is this a simple case of "Buyer Beware" or is this company guilty of misrepresentation? [more inside]
How do I handle looking for a job after just getting one?
How do I handle looking for a job after just getting one? [more inside]
May 4
Online CCG?
Are there any good collectible card games out there? I'd prefer it to be online, though it doesn't have to be. I'd prefer it to be free, and I can't really accept otherwise. I'd also prefer it to be browser based or Linux-friendly, but it's fine if it is Windows only.
Is there anything out there? I came across Ederon, but the collectible part seems to be subdued, though I only played three matches so maybe I'm wrong. Tyrant on Kongregate pretty much fits the bill, but its mechanics are a bit too simple I suppose.
SOL in the ATL?
AtlantaFilter: Moving to a new city. Looking for an apartment. Haven't quite done this before! Need help. [more inside]
I got a fever, and the only Rx is more slide whistle
Banjo+washboard+car horn+slidewhistle+clowncar=? [more inside]
This page cannot be displayed?
Google Chrome keeps giving me "This page cannot be displayed" error messages. Help!!! [more inside]
widgets, oh widgets.
horribly noob question but I just need to know...how do I align my widgets? [more inside]
What summer activities would be good for a college student at short notice?
What's a college student to do over the summer after disrupted plans? [more inside]
BBC music in 2001: A Space Odyssey
Can you identify the jazzy BBC intro music used in 2001: A Space Odyssey? [more inside]
It took everyone working together
Please hit me with anything you've got for anecdotes, jokes, philosophical musings, etc. on the topic of team drinking tournaments! [more inside]
How can I easily switch between tracks while jogging Couch to 5k?
I'm doing Couch to 5k, and I want to be able to easily switch between 'walking' music and 'running' music. [more inside]
How can I get Android apps onto my Velocity Cruz tablet?
Can I load Android apps onto my Velocity Cruz tablet? If so, how? [more inside]
Are bedbugs disease vectors?
Bitten by bedbugs at a hostel, worried about disease. Most answers here say that they're not vectors. How come they're not, what's the mechanism? How can I ease my mind?
who is in this painting?
Bringing dates home when you have roommates?
What is the protocol for bringing a date home when you have roommates that use your common area? [more inside]
The Email and the Fury
I'm about to unleash on ex-employer's refusal to talk to me by e-mailing all of the company's employees and letting them know what he's doing - pros and cons with this move? [more inside]
How was Sturge-Weber treated in the past?
Where can I find information regarding the treatment of people with Sturge-Weber syndrome prior to recent modern times? [more inside]
Worm composting bin overfloweth!
Two months into my vermicomposting and my worms are still alive, which means something must be going right. The bad news is I'm crushing them with vegetable matter. How can I keep my compost from overflowing? [more inside]
How to garden cheaply on my balcony?
So my Utah apartment I'm staying at over the summer has a decent-sized balcony, and I want to grow things on it. How can I do it, what should I grow, and what do I need? [more inside]
What we plant in the soil of contemplation, we shall reap in the harvest of action - Meister Eckhart
There's my clicky...
A loud call like castanets clacking in a cattail marsh: who makes that sound? [more inside]
allium palliative
My wife has temporarily cut out alliums from her diet. No garlic, onion, leek, scallion, shallots, etc. Also eggs. And broccoli, but that's not quite such a big deal. She isn't the sort to have lots of sandwiches and prefers hot meals. How the heck do I cook for her?
Cello-tuning-filter
I'm putting a new string on my cello for the first time. How close should I be able to get with the pegs before switching to the fine tuners? In other words, how powerful are the finer tuners? (It might be cello-dependent, I don't know.)
Cancelled Wedding - How would you react?
For the women: Canceled Wedding Date - how would you feel? [more inside]
I need a turtle, quick!
Where can I buy a box turtle in London, UK? [more inside]
How to get rid of malware on an external drive?
What's the best way to target malware/spyware when it's on an external drive? [more inside]
What simple, secure, portable password and secure data management systems do you use?
What simple, secure, portable password and secure data management systems do you use? [more inside]
Okay to visit love interest at work?
How acceptable is it to visit a potential love interest at work? [more inside]
Help with solar hot water heater.
Help me find info and/or company for my old Solar Hot Water heating system. [more inside]
What makes a good mugshot ?
What makes a good mugshots/avatars for social media ? Hivemind give me your guidelines [more inside]
pms vs. depression
What are the physiological and psychological differences of the emotional symptoms of pms vs. depression? [more inside]
Help me locate a recording of a 1970s music festival held in Hawaii.
There was a music festival in Hawaii in the early 70s, probably rock or folk. A young woman in the crowd was wearing a long skirt and it caught fire. My stepdad was there and I'm trying to find an audio or video recording of the musical acts.
Cause pre-bacc wasn't hard enough...
My boyfriend has decided to go back to school for a post-bacc degree in Architecture and then pursue graduate work in the same. While he begins plumbing the proverbial depths of scholarship and grant research, I thought I would turn to the wonderful hive-mind as resource. [more inside]
ankylosing spondylitis information?
YANHD, but a male friend of a friend has just been diagnosed with ankylosing spondylitis. She's done some research, but hasn't been able to find an answer to whether or not the disease will progress and get worse no matter what. Any stories, suggestions, links?
Recommendations for Long Term Nursing Care in Toronto
Long Term Nursing Care in Toronto for 87 year old great uncle. Recommendations for particular homes and/or resources to help find one? [more inside]
Best fun/techy ways to make a party better?
How can I make my party more techy, fun, communal? [more inside]
Vegan and gluten-free dippers for ranch!
Best vegan, gluten-free foods to dip into ranch? [more inside]
How does this "bridge" investment account work
How does this "bridge" investment account work? [more inside]
to re-build a bicycle
Bike Mechanics 101: What tools and general knowledge should I acquire before I make an attempt at dismantling and re-constructing a bicycle? [more inside]
Gol Airlines cheated me out of about $620.
Gol Linhas Aéreas, a Brazilian airline, cheated me out of about $620. Full story inside. Please help me get my money back. [more inside]
Is this a boll weevil?
What's this bug (picture included)? It looks like a boll weevil, but i thought they are only found where cotton is farmed? [more inside]
She's mentally ill, not a criminal
A mentally ill family member (depressive and bipolar, on medication) has just been arrested for stealing from her employer in northern Arkansas. She, a very fragile person, is in the lockup overnight and I'm afraid for her. [more inside]
I'm not her, I swear!!
I don’t want Time Warner to penalize me for someone else’s delinquency. Help me be prepared to prove that I’m not her. [more inside]
Take my cow... please!
Can you help me pin down an old saying from Westerns (or at least from the American Old West) along the lines of "the second cow is free"? [more inside]
Chinese comic connoisseur callout
What comics are popular in China right now? [more inside]
How can I be less sensitive to being ignored?
How can I be less sensitive to being ignored? [more inside]
Seeking an Original Document: "Suggestions for the Negro Project."
Help me find this document! "Suggestions for the Negro Project," allegedly sent by Clarence Gamble (of Proctor and Gamble) to Margaret Sanger. It is often mentioned on the internet in connection with the claim that Planned Parenthood began as a program in racist eugenics. [more inside]
Best way to scan a book image into a high-quality print?
Hi all,
I am a neuroscience student and I'd like to get my mentor a print of one of Santiago Ramon y Cajal's famous drawings of a neuron as a going away gift. Unfortunately, I can't find anywhere that sells prints or photos of these drawings online, but I was able to find a book at my university's library that has larger (12" x 24") high quality images of these drawings.
My question: what is the best way to go from book to print? Are there particular scan qualities or types? Particular types of paper/material to print onto? Places (FedEx, architecture firms) to go to? Any advice would be really helpful.
Thanks!
Brian
How Can I Get A Copy Of My SSA Consultive Exam Report?
I have a SSA Consultative Exam (mental) for disability determination next week. Since I don't have a doctor of my own, or health insurance, or an income the NJ DOL is providing one for me to see. There is a form for me to fill out that authorizes the release my SSA Consultative Exam Report. I don't have a doctor of my own, nor a way to get a doctor myself. How can I get a copy for myself then?
Identify this metal object please.
What is this weird metal object that I found on the floor? http://i.imgur.com/Rur42.jpg
Sheena Is A Punk Writer
I am looking for literature in which punk rock is part of the backdrop. The Buddha of Suburbia is a good example. [more inside]
I need to stop thinking about my boyfriend's abusive ex.
I need to stop thinking about my boyfriend's abusive ex. [more inside]
I love you, mom, but shut it. For your sake, for my sake, for all of our sakes...
I want my mother to stop trying to discuss with me a specific relationship problem she's having. Is this unreasonable? How do I defend my request to her and not feel like a jerk? [more inside]
"Fish I like" -- where does this come from?
"Fish I like: Cod, Salmon, Whales". Can anyone identify this comic monologue about fish for me? Probably from 1980s England. Much longer excerpt inside. [more inside]
Bad RAM or something else?
I recently bought a new Macbook Pro (2.3 i5) and almost immediately put 8GB 1333Mhz DDR3 RAM in it. Almost immediately, I got a kernel panic, and then Chrome would crash every once in a while. I have also had occasional crashes of Pages, MailPlane, and BusyCal, but no more panics. It has been about a week or so since I installed the RAM. Do you think I have a bad memory stick, or is this occasional crashiness related to something else? [more inside]
Old Readers Digest E-Access?
I'm looking for a electronically accessible copy of the following
"The Great Fitness Health Kick"
Reader's Digest, July 1984
The quoting source is URL http://eightiesclub.tripod.com/id314.htm
Da dun dundun da dunnnnn...
Here's the chorus: Too "something" too far apart (?)/ somethingsomethingsomething/
The master OR capture OR rapture of the heart...
That last part I imagine would be the title of the song. But yeah. That's all I got. Sorry I can't hum it for you. More details inside. [more inside]
Looking for scenes depicting the inner struggle of good/evil?
Movie/TV filter: Looking for scenes where people have a visible struggle with their conscience. Like the angel and demon popping up on a person's shoulder when faced with an ethical dilemma, but not necessarily limited to this visual depiction. [more inside]
Seeking an online sign-up website for students to choose an activity
Seeking an online sign-up for students to choose a weekly activity. Details inside. [more inside]
Organizational Skills like the Military - Without the Military.
Military envy: How to get that military focus, time & project management skills, excellent organization and self-discipline without the actual military experience? (From a book or a simple way of thinking about it?) Advice from military men and women much appreciated, as well as any self-discipline guru. [more inside]
non-Apple iPad 2 case?
Best fully-protective iPad 2 case? [more inside]
The Road to RAGBRAI
Suggestions for a RAGBRAI newbie? Mid-forties male, experienced bicycle rider, working on getting into shape for the ride. [more inside]
Final Cut or Premiere? Need advice..
I've outgrown iMovie and have set aside some time to get acquainted with a more advanced video editing suite. I'm a mac user, and can't decide between Final Cut Pro and Adobe Premiere. I need advice. [more inside]
Squirrel Nut Tree
I want to plant some trees in the front yard that appeal to squirrels and birds. One would think that nut trees (hazel, chestnut, etc) would be a good choice but there's one thing - I'm hugely allergic to them and their pollen. What sort of tree should I plant? [more inside]
though it might break my heart to walk away
How can I maintain my resolve to follow through with this difficult breakup? [more inside]
Can I buy health insurance from an out of state insurer?
Can I buy health insurance from an out of state insurer? (more) [more inside]
Who provides benefits for small businesses?
Our small business (2 principals) is looking to grow by bringing on our first employees and we need to get a benefits package together and we're looking for advice. Looking for recommendations for benefits providers for small businesses. Would like a one stop shop (broker?) if that makes sense. But any advice on hiring your first salaried employee appreciated. [more inside]
Breaking the 4th wall?
Where do I start reading about Deadpool? [more inside]
Humming to Hit
Songwriting - I have a little tune stuck in my head, say two bars or so. What do I do with it? [more inside]
Lounges in Dubai Airport
My sister is traveling from the UK with a stopover at Dubai. What lounges are there that she can use? Details... [more inside]
What sort of mannequin/technique do clothes site use for there product shots?
How do sites like this and this take there photos of products? Its like they are tacket worn by a invisable man or woman. Is it a special sort of mannequin?
Are my shoulders trying to get wider in the bones and joints as I grow from lifting weights?
Are my shoulders trying to get wider in the bones and joints as I grow from lifting weights? What can I do to help it along if so? [more inside]
Moving to LA: Where to live? What to expect?
I'm thinking about moving to LA soon, but I've never actually been there. Where would someone like me live? What's it like to live in LA? General advice? Or should I move to SF? [more inside]
My voice is nasally! What can I do?
My voice is nasally! What can I do? [more inside]
Where to stay in San Diego?
Where should I stay on my trip to San Diego? [more inside]
Should I drop out?
Should I drop out? (more inside) [more inside]
Ipad 2 cover
Looking for a cover/case for Ipad 2. Wondering a.) what's actually available for purchase now (been seeing a lot of preorder pages) and b.) what people are liking.
How do I find a Playboy or Penthouse article written about my girlfriend?
How do I find a Playboy or Penthouse article written about my girlfriend? [more inside]
What could cause sudden super strong arm pit odor?
What could cause sudden super strong arm pit odor that goes away the next morning? [more inside]
Window Air Conditioner Noise From Rain?
Did rain cause my new window air conditioner to make a spattering noise or was it normal operation of the unit? [more inside]
Best things to see/do/eat between Toronto and Cincinnati?
We will be driving from Toronto to Cincinnati about the second half of May. What are the "musts" along the way?
Spicy recipe ideas for stale cornbread
What should I make for dinner? 'A second life for stale savory cornbread' edition. [more inside]
Half-court shot stats in the NBA
Where can I find statistics on half-court shots in the NBA? [more inside]
Refrigerating prepared biscuit dough
Can I prepare and save this biscuit dough 1 day in advance of my Kentucky Derby dinner party? [more inside]
Women's interview attire..
Tell me about your favourite interview attire...and brand...and bags.. [more inside]
is my inspiron finally dead?
Laptop diagnosis? XP sp3, Dell inspiron 6000. The other day it just died while I was using it. Just powered down (instant black screen). When I tried to power it up, I could hear it coming alive for about 8 seconds, some lights flashed as you would expect, then it died. If you wait 24 hours or so, it will boot up normally, but after about 10 minutes it will die, as above, and then the next day will start up again for a bit, then die, etc etc. [more inside]
Laser Industry Info
I'd like to find some reasonably current information on the technical and quality challenges in industrial applications of fibre and OPSL lasers. [more inside]
Can't remember address of website with interviews about computing preferences of famous people...
I am trying to remember the address of a website that had a lot of interviews with various people (writers, programmers, entrepreneurs, geeks and such) about their computing setups. [more inside]
No Soup for Dessert!
My attempt at making a diet chocolate creme recipe resulted in tasty chocolate soup. Where did I go wrong? [more inside]
How to pick a good lawyer?
A friend of mine is lawyering up for the first time after a motorbike accident and has some questions about the whole affair - he's in Canberra, in Australia. [more inside]
Cabo Verde
Looking for resources on Cape Verdean creole. [more inside]
To git or not to git, that is the question.
I need help understanding git. Or, deciding which version control system would be best for our needs. [more inside]
"Lying by my side" in Hedwig?
What's this song in Hedwig and the Angry Inch? [more inside]
May 3
Ma Bell nerfed my tethering!
Ma Bell nerfed my tethering! I'm long off contract from my 3G and happy to switch carriers/OS's. Which smart phones on which providers would you recommend? They must have reasonably priced and effective tethering availing. [more inside]
Concrete plan to land a decent-paying job?
Approaching mid-30s, loads of credit card debt (30k+ and in default), need a job to help me get on track financially. So far: Doing It Wrong. (Snowflake details inside) [more inside]
Who "Likes" me on Facebook?
Is it possible to see who specifically shared or "liked" my blog post on Facebook? [more inside]
Please help me find this public domain book.
I once found -- on Project Gutenberg, I think -- a book that tried to exhaustively answer many ordinary questions about how things are made or where they come from. I think it was from the late 1800s or early 1900s. Help me find it? [more inside]
How can I register a unicode domain?
I would like to register some .com or .org domains with non-ascii unicode characters in the domain names. Can I do this as a US citizen? What registrar should I use? [more inside]
Hey moms! What's the best Mother's Day gift you've received from a grade-4 (-ish) child?
Hey moms! What's the best Mother's Day gift you've received from a grade-4 (-ish) child? [more inside]
Complete List of Al Anon Meetings
Where can I get a list of every place and time for an Al Anon meeting in the United States? [more inside]
Help an electrical engineer stuck in a dull job stay competitive for the future.
Help an electrical engineer stuck in a dull job stay competitive for the future. [more inside]
Help me understand my mother.
Conceptually, I need a way to think of my mother’s behavior so I can better understand it. I am looking for a label. Is she narcissistic? Manipulative? Histrionic? What? Please help me try to figure this out. [more inside]
What are the best blogs for your field?
I'm looking to learn about new fields, industries, areas, but I want an insider's view. [more inside]
Kayak attack
Looking for suggestions for a kayaking trip in eastern Ontario or Quebec. [more inside]
Help me open myself to the Muse
How do I recapture the type of inspiration and creative energy I had when I was younger? And how do I balance paid creative work with personal? [more inside]
Lords and Ladies of Art
Looking to identify a late 19th/early 20th century painting of a knight and lady. [more inside]
People with poor answers will end up on my tzompantli
Bert and Ernie at the movies
What are some homo-normative childrens' movies? [more inside]
Guac off
I need your best, most AMAZING and possibly slightly unique guacamole recipe. [more inside]
Fashion tips for the fuzzy-headed man?
I've gone from a floppy romantic fringe to a #0 shave. After noticing that my black plastic framed glasses now look pretty stark on my face, and that v-necks have gone from fey to masculine, and that I can't wear a longsleeved knit without looking like Moby, what other fashion notions should I keep in mind? Any general tips for the shaven-headed man? Personal data: I'm tall, thin, and pale.
What's my best bet for a hosted photoblog?
What's my best bet for a hosted photoblog? [more inside]
HP Deskjet 5740 failing in an odd way
Strange printer problem with HP Deskjet 5740 [more inside]
From the Pacific Northwest to Buenos Aires
I am moving to Buenos Aires in July. I'm looking for advice, stories, and friends. [more inside]
Need help remembering this obscure '80s college rock group
Please help me stop thinking about the Goo Goo Dolls and tell me what '80s band I can't remember. [more inside]
Can I dectect if an email has been forwarded?
Tracking forwarded emails in ExactTarget [more inside]
Fermentors: Hard cider problem!
I am trying to make hard cider and am having issues.
It has fermented for two weeks steadily and burbled the airlock nicely.
But no change in gravity reading and no taste of booze.
I don't understand. If there was gas release then the yeast was active.
I had this happen last time too. I introduced yeast twice, watched air action, etc.
I make beer and wine but am about to give up on something that should be easy but is inexplicably diff.
Help!
How should I tell a therapist I don't want to see her anymore?
I'm most likely over-thinking this, but I'm having trouble phrasing the email I need to send to a therapist I just started seeing letting her know that I've decided not to continue with her. [more inside]
I need a not totally awful song for some ESL students to learn.
Cute kids songs? My Korean school is having another English song competition and I'm in charge of hunting down a song for the kids to sing. I know nothing about songs for kids. More inside. [more inside]
Help us not f*&k up out Bathroom!
We are putting tile in our bathroom! what do we need to know? or what do YOU wish YOU had known before your bathroom tile project? [more inside]
Combining 20 emails into one?
Is there any way to forward a bunch of emails in just one email in Gmail? I have to forward about 20 emails to a fact-checker and would rather send it as one file, rather than 20.
Advice for Summer China Adventures
I am traveling solo around northeast and central China for the next two months and would love your advice and sightseeing suggestions! [more inside]
Most important small business finance data?
For small business owners, freelancers, and finance managers in small enterprises, what financial data is important to have easy access to? [more inside]
Roach problem: Is living upstairs better than downstairs?
Due to my first roach sighting at the apartment I just moved into, I know more about roaches now than I ever ever hoped. This roach is either American or Oriental, rather than the small German kind. I'm told that it came inside the unit to escape the heat. I've read that they generally live outside. Is it better to live in an upstairs unit? [more inside]
Deliberately Bland Reference To Award-Winning Employee
UK employment law question: if an employer gives deliberately poor reference to employee they demonstrably want to keep, what recourse is there? [more inside]
The roof, the roof, the roof needs to be replaced
What do you wish you'd known before buying a new roof? [more inside]
Weird question but earnest!
Does anyone know what lobbying firm Whole Foods employs? [more inside]
Why do some things smell better than they taste? And how/can I change that?
When I smell many foods, they nearly always smell better than they taste. Whatever it is smells marvelous but as soon as I pop it in my mouth I wonder where the flavor went. My question is why this might be, whether it is just me, and what I can do, if anything, to improve my sense of "taste".* [more inside]
Love vs. in love – guy language translator?
What is the wrong answer to the question 'are you in love with me?' [more inside]
Desperate for some productive way to think about parental relationships
I am in agony regarding my parents and their endless emotional dependence on me. I'm a very private and independent person, but their energy drains me to the point of destruction every time I have to see them or even talk to them. What are some mental approaches which might help? [more inside]
Wedding welcome bag suggestions?
Reusable bags suggestions for wedding welcome bags? Would love something inexpensive but nice-looking. Separately, would also love to hear thoughts on the most well-received items in a wedding welcome bag that you received as a guest. [more inside]
Help me keep my home office cool
Botonists! Horticulturists! Lend me your brains.....
[Flower-Identification-Filter] Please help me identify this flowering plant, and save me from making a blunder in etiquette! [more inside]
I need an episode of Win Ben Stein's Money
How can I get/see a copy of a specific episode of 'Win Ben Stein's Money'? [more inside]
Which teaching abroad scheme should I choose? And... how?
So I graduated last year and have been working in sales since then. I'm very intrigued by the concept of teaching english abroad, as I've had some great experiences teaching children before, but am overwhelmed by the amount of different schemes and companies. I have never really
travelled before, and I know this may be seen as a big step, but I have this uncontrollable itch to just go for it while I am young and relatively free.
I'm really looking for any and all advice from you guys - anyone who's done it, anyone who's considered it, anyone at all!
Ideally, I am looking for a half-year placement, with a UK-based TEFL company (although it seems that many companies don't care where you are from). Having said that, I could be swayed by a year-long course. I am very excited by i-to-i, and heard about this through a recommendation.
However, as I say, I feel a little like I am stabbing in the dark. I have read with much interest some previous questions, and have heard mention of Dave's ESL cafe, but this seems to be mostly aimed towards the USA. [more inside]
Questions about Cuban Cash
Tips on tipping in Cuba, please! [more inside]
Help deciphering some old handwriting?
Deciphering old handwriting...please hope me. [more inside]
Copying contents of cells in Excel
How do I create a macro in Excel that copies the contents of the cell two cells to the target's right and appends the contents to the end of the target cell? Both cells contain alphanumeric strings. [more inside]
What happened o the coral reefs in the Dry Tortugas?
Are you a marine biologist who knows anything about the coral reefs in the Dry Tortugas? [more inside]
NOT just running this up the flagpole to see if anyone salutes it...
Leave it to us to cause a kerfuffle just before the elementary school spring concert this Friday! My daughter, who's seven and in first grade, is in tears because we, her parents, asked her to modify a movement in her performance and the teacher's response was for her to just do as she's instructed (as reported by our daughter and taken with a grain of salt) because "I'm the one that's teaching here." [more inside]
Who watched the Search Engine Watchmen?
A friend's site disappeared from google 3 days ago. Totally, completely, utterly gone. What can she do to get it back on google? [more inside]
How can I preserve this flaking-paint, wood sign?
I have an old, painted wood sign (pics inside) that I'd love to hang in my house, but the paint is flaking very badly. Is there any way to keep it from deteriorating (at least enough that I don't end up with a pile of paint flakes on the floor) without doing a lot more damage? The (probably non-existent) monetary value of the sign is not of importance. Thanks! [more inside]
Keep my data safe from l33t hax0rz
I’m going to buy a laptop soon that may end up holding sensitive data. I need to make sure that, if it is stolen, it’s nearly impossible to get the data off the hard drive. I’m a newbie at dealing with workstation security and drive encryption, so please talk me through my options and best practices. I’m willing to pay more for a laptop designed for this purpose if that exists. [more inside]
Oral surgeon in Manhattan who takes MetLife insurance?
Can you recommend a good oral surgeon in Manhattan who takes MetLife insurance? [more inside]
For my new band Chinese Mystery Banjo
Help me identify this banjo-like instrument from China. [more inside]
Answer my question. The one that I asked. Now please shut up.
How do you deal with people that don't answer the questions you ask, and speak too long about semi-unrelated subjects? [more inside]
Help me find a great way to cook this gamey meat!
I bought a lamb that turned out very gamey, what are your favorite recipes for bringing out the best in such meat? [more inside]
If I had a briefcase, it would have been kidnapped by ninjas
I'm a man, and I need a briefcase. Are you a bad enough dude to help me find one?* [more inside]
Help, I'm In An Abusive Relationship With My Innards
I've been a puking, painful sulfur factory for a month and a half. All my test results have been negative, and my GP is stumped. Wondering if anyone's experienced similar and can clue me in about what I have. Warning: Gross. [more inside]
Accomplishing simple household tasks-filter
I am a helpless baby and I cannot open a simple drawer. Please advise. [more inside]
Thanks, I'd rather throw myself at this window here
Need bird identification. Location: Northern Virginia (Herndon area for those in the know). It's about 5"-ish long, maybe? [more inside]
Nah, I'm too lazy to go to the gym today.
I've pin-pointed a number of activities that would positively improve my life, but am having trouble implementing them because I seem to either have no self control or willpower or am impressively lazy and good at procrastination. Help me gain some? [more inside]
Canucks Predators Game 3
Where to watch playoff hockey tonight in San Francisco? [more inside]
How can I find a helpful mental health professional when I don't trust anyone?
How can I find a helpful mental health professional when I don't trust anyone? [more inside]
How do I important the data from hundreds of documents into spreadsheets?
How do I use OCR to scan a standard document into an excel spreadsheet? [more inside]
you're my only hope
I'm trying to find a particular article that laid out a theory for Yoda being the real evil in Star Wars. [more inside]
gra[rrrrrr]
How to make a data subset based on a variable with multiple character values in [R]? [more inside]
How do I become an informed citizen of the world?
What's the best neutral, digestible, comprehensive primer to politics in the Middle East? [more inside]
Best way to start a personal/professional website?
Website Design Guidance for a Beginner: I'm wanting to create a personal/professional website. The core of this website will contain a personal bio, extended resume, blog on a limited number of topics that interest me, and a few pictures. What route should I take to do this? (more info inside). [more inside]
Where should we go for our honeymoon?
Where should we honeymoon (on the cheap) this December? Thailand, Argentina, Turkey, or somewhere else? How much should we budget? [more inside]
Whither the home page?
These days, what sorts of URLs are people likely to put in a "home page" field for their online directory listing? While some folks do indeed still have what I think of as an old-school home page, what other sorts of places might such a link lead to? Some possibilities I thought of so far are a flickr account, facebook account, linked-in, a business page rather than a personal page, 404's, and the occasional unintentional link-farm or porn takeover of expired domains. I'm looking for other landing page types that may be joining old-school home pages as increasingly common personal web address identifiers.
In a fire is it better to try and rescue my child or get out and wait for the fire department?
Fire Safety: I have a 16 month old son. If there is a house fire while I'm sleeping is it better to try and rescue him or get out of the house and wait for the fire department to rescue him? [more inside]
I like Amores Perros, and others...
I am looking for contemporary movies (say the last 20 years or so) set in Mexico City.
Identify these three plants, please
Can you help me identify these plants? I'm trying to identify 1) the purple flowers, 2) the little white flowers at the bottom, and 3) the big green leaves. [more inside]
It's time for Baby Buster to leave the nest.
What can I do to help my family break out of a negative relationship cycle? [more inside]
Is my furniture making me sick?
Until recently, I have been a healthy, active, young male. Since several months ago I have started losing my appetite, especially at breakfast. I can barely eat a banana for breakfast. I wake up to nausea almost every day. Sometimes I throw up even if I haven't eaten anything. Could I be allergic to my new furniture? Are my symptoms even possible allergic reactions? [more inside]
Till We Meet Again
Help me find this story (or poem) regarding the death of a pet. [more inside]
Help me find my mama a job!
My mom worked in a bank for 20 years as a teller/loan specialist until they laid her off at Christmas. She's 63, has been looking to no avail for a "job" - not a "career". She's in a recession-hit south suburb of Chicago. Any advice on types of jobs to look for or how to boost her attitude? [more inside]
Where does the pollen go?
I rather like this 1940s reproduction dress. However, although it fits everywhere else it doesn't on the bust. Are there any similar patterns or adaptable patterns out there? [more inside]
Looking for a good book to help me brush up on my database skills
I've been working with SQL and RDBMSes for a number of years, but my most recent job involved no DB work at all. Understandably, I'm a bit rusty. So I'd like to get a good book to help me brush up, and also to learn a bit more about RDBMS technology. What would you recommend? [more inside]
Where to stop on drive from SMF to SNA?
At the end of June, I'm thinking about driving from Sacramento to Irvine over a few days with my two kids, aged 9 and 11. Where should we stop along the way and where are some good places to stay? [more inside]
Looking for a cheap, car-not-required place to live that actually has jobs.
I'm looking for a place to live in the U.S. that is a) relatively affordable (compared to Los Angeles), b) does not require a car to get around and c) does not suffer from sky-high unemployment. Does such a place exist?
MeFi clone, on the cheap?
What's the most efficient/easiest way to hack a Wordpress install/theme into a MeFi clone? [more inside]
Why yes, this is a dead bug with a beer bottle on my head.
Perhaps you can identify this hat. Worn by an older (60-70) woman, it was a pill box hat, red on the sides and white on top. A name was embroidered on one side in yellow thread. The most unique part of the hat, and the reason I'm wondering about it, was the patch sewn onto the right side. The patch had a white background and had a squashed red bug embroidered on it. The bug was holding a bottle, possibly a beer bottle. I'd guess that the hat was related to a group like the Elks/Eagles/etc., but I'm not sure.
Please identify this plant for me
What flower / plant is this? The photo lightens the flowers; in real life they are dark, kind of electric cobalt.
How much money should I bring to Turkey?
How much pocket money should I bring to Turkey? [more inside]
Funny Battle Website/Game?
Help me re-find a website/game: It was a lighthearted, rapid-fire voting game in the context of a battle. You'd be presented with two random, non-related people or things and you'd have to pick who "won the battle." You could then track who was winning, based on the number of battles they won, etc... [more inside]
How to find recent Jeopardy! online
Help! My good friend was a contestant on last night's Jeopardy! (May 2, 2011), but the show was preempted by the breaking news coverage. Is there somewhere on the web we can find the show?
Appealing a denied incapacity insurance claim - should we comply with dodgy sounding "Abilities Determination" test?
We are appealing a denied incapacity insurance claim. Should we comply with dodgy sounding "Abilities Determination" test? [more inside]
Need your help for my blog
Help me spot interesting topics and ideas for my blog. [more inside]
I'm fine hearing that I'm just a crazy cat lady
We had to put one of our cats to sleep on Saturday. Now that I've had a couple of days to think over some of the things that the vet at the emergency clinic said, I'm wondering if our regular vet is giving our pets the best care. [more inside]
Staying motivated in the final days of a job
It's the last week at my current job and I'm finding it challenging to finish my One Last Project to the quality and depth that I think my boss deserves. Please help me not to burn any bridges. [more inside]
Help a kid escape for a while
Please suggest some movies for a very sick boy. [more inside]
How are calories estimated for foods packed in oil?
I have a little packet of ten kalamata olives in approximately two tablespoons (as a conservative estimate) of herby oil , and the nutrition info claims the whole packet contains 180 kcal. This leads to the question, how is calorie count estimated for food packaged in a calorific medium such as oil when most of the oil is usually left in the jar or drained off? [more inside]
Kind of like if you went on vacation in Abbottabad last summer...
[Freelance Writing Filter.] Where to submit this long and suddenly very timely travel essay? [more inside]
Freelancing for an ex-employer
How much do I charge the person who fired me? [more inside]
Bulimia + productivity
How do you deal with bulimia, depression, or anxiety in your social/work life? [more inside]
Dont forget grampa's birthday!
What's the name of the sad short story where an old man's family forgets its his birthday? [more inside]
Honors Program Admission...apply without credentials?
Should I try applying for the honors program at my school, even though I don't have the credentials? [more inside]
Looking for the bastard lovechild of your office pen holder and the Barbie Party Palace
I am looking for a pink castle-shaped pen holder. It should be suitable to hold the kind of stationary your average office worker needs. Glitter and fur a bonus. Must be from some where that delivers to the UK. [more inside]
Does a bomb calorimeter give a value of heat energy per gram of material or electricity?
Does a bomb calorimeter give a value of heat energy per gram of material or electricity? [more inside]
How do I convert an existing GPS track to an estimate of calories burned?
How do I convert an existing GPS track to an estimate of calories burned? [more inside]
Help me grow some gills in Thailand
Please help a total novice scuba-dive in Thailand and have a great experience. [more inside]
What to get a friend for his 60th birthday...
Help me pick out a $50 birthday present for a 60 year old friend... [more inside]
Why is Google Earth so messed up on my laptop?
Google Earth looks totally screwed up on my Toshiba laptop with Windows 7. A grid of squares overlays all the maps. I've tried unclicking everything to no avail. Googling has not helped. Here's what it looks like.
http://imgur.com/M9967.jpg
salaries in China
How does a RMB 650k salary in a large Chinese city like Beijing or Shanghai compare to a $100k salary in San Francisco, California?
Where can I find sweet but affordable dress shirts for a smaller sized guy?
I don't have my measurements on hand at the moment, but I'm 5'9" and 145 pounds. I'm looking for the more casual and trendy dress shirt versus trad. Most are cut too big and blousy, or just not my size, or not my taste (plaid/paisley = ick). I went to my local mens' store and found Stone Rose shirts and was impressed by the detail and quality, but alas, no smalls. I could order online, but $100 to $150 per shirt is out of my league for now, plus the extra costs as these are supposed to be dry cleaned only.
Trolling the racks of TJ Maxx and Goodwill isn't bringing much luck, much less Sears, Macy's and JC Penney in my immediate area. Where can I find some alternatives? Please no Ed Hardy.
May 2
blergh! the only hitch in my moving day
People suck! while moving, i left my gorgeou 1930s sofa unattended for a tiny bit and someone slashed it up with a boxcutter. How should I sew it in order to mend it? [more inside]
I'm looking for an artificial language learning game based on trial and error.
I'm looking for an artificial language learning game based on trial and error. [more inside]
What's the best way to sell individual songs online?
What's the best way to sell individual songs online? [more inside]
Nightlife in Oslo?
I will be in Norway (Oslo & Bergen) for 5 days in mid-May. I've found lots of great threads about what to do during the day, but what about nightlife? I'm having trouble finding solid restaurant/bar recommendations, along with music venues/dancing. MeFi, where do the hip kids hang?
Help identifying children's books from the 1960s
Can you help me identify these children's books from the 1960s?
A friend of mine has wonderful memories of three books he read in grade 7 in 1961 and would like help on finding them. The first one was a story about a young guy who sailed with Sir Francis Drake. The second one had a hero who was a young assistant to a doctor in Quebec City in the 1700s. The third one was about a fellow who was part of a salvage ship's crew. My friend borrowed these books from the school library (Holland Elementary School, Quebec City). All of these books were hardcovers and likely popular at the time.
Need to get married fast.
Need to get married fast. Where is the best place in the world (outside of the US) to do it? [more inside]
why did the second helicopter crash in the bin-laden raid?
why did the second helicopter crash in the osama bin-laden raid? [more inside]
If not Oahu, where?
Another "help us go to Hawaii for the first time" question. (Two adults, no kids, looking for relaxation and privacy, September or early October.) [more inside]
How can I support my fiancee's weight loss efforts without being a "diet cop"?
How can I support my fiancee's weight loss efforts without being a "diet cop"? [more inside]
Looking for PDX water chestnuts.
Where can I find fresh, North American-grown water chestnuts in the Portland, OR metro area? [more inside]
The right PC laptop to install OSX on?
Can you help me find the right PC laptop to install OSX on? [more inside]
No I don't think I was once Cleopatra
What does it mean when someone calls you an old soul? [more inside]
How to storm proof a gazebo.
How do I secure an aluminum/canvas gazebo so it doesn't blow away in the wind? [more inside]
Desperately seeking scams
Where can I find accounts of scams? Confidence games, accounting frauds, fingers in the till -- really any schemes that steal by deception rather than violence. Sure, I could scan the crime blotters of newspapers, but I want more efficient access to this knowledge. (No, I'm not a scammer, I'm a writer.)
I don't want to be a slumlord, I swear!
About to become a landlord in NJ, would like some advice from the HiveMind. [more inside]
kisumu blues.
Air fare is silly high right now. I'm planning to go abroad in August for about six months; help me strategize on ticket costs... [more inside]
help us bunk down in berlin!
what hostel should we stay in in Berlin? [more inside]
Help me find a dirty movie.
Help me find a dirty movie. (NSFW) [more inside]
Turning liquid gold into cash
How do I turn a bottle of gold plating liquid into cash?
The bottle, marked
"AUROBOND" "Gold Content 1 OZ. TROY"
was buried in some items I bought at an auction and I think it has gold in it. [more inside]
Countdown to Kid Destruction
My friend's bipolar kid is going to be out of medication tomorrow, and no doctor is in sight. We're wondering what we can do. [more inside]
Should I stay with my company or leave for another job?
I've been living overseas for a decade and have decided to move home to be closer to my family. My multinational company has agreed in principal to transfer me to an office in my home country. I am happy at my current company, but negotiations are proceeding more slowly than I would like. Enter company B, a competitor, which has approached me about a similar position in the city I would like to move to. Should I stay or should I go? [more inside]
Ping pong -- or as the Chinese call it, "ping pong"
Can you think of a good tagline for a competitive ping pong team? [more inside]
Thighs: so much better than breasts.
I'm going to make broccoli risotto tonight, and I want to make chicken thighs in a way that will complement. Bring on the ideas. [more inside]
I feel saucy
I'm a good cook, but one thing I've never even really bothered with are sauces. What are your favorite sauces that can be made at home, and so good that you would consider eating a turd if the divine sauce was poured on top.
Gift-wrapped hard drive in the UK
Is there an online store in the UK where I can order a gift-wrapped hard drive? [more inside]
Geometry question about planes and cylinders.
Could someone help me with this geometry problem? Cylinder with a plane bisecting it at a 45° angle... [more inside]
sing me a song, you're a singer
affordable good microphone recommendations? [more inside]
Anti-Malware for the Mac OSX?
Do good anti-malware tools exist for Mac OSX? [more inside]
Apple-Shift-3 not working and Rory is sad :-(
I'm trying to hotlink a button to take in-game screenshots on my Macbook Pro with Boot Camp running Windows 7. But every application I try seems to miss the game playing entirely! It shows the desktop and other running applications and not the game at all. I've tried MWSnap 3, Screenshot Utility 1.0, and Screenshot Pilot. They all failed. How do I take screenshots of this video game, before I lose my mind?
Looking for Scandinavian software company with CSR interests
I'm going on a trip in June to Oslo, Copenhagen, and Stockholm to study corporate social responsibility and business ethics. I'm meeting with about a dozen companies but but I am still looking for a software company headquartered there to visit with and interview. Does anyone know of a software company HQ'ed in one of the aforementioned cities with a strong CSR program?
Looking for beauty in America's cities and towns
I'm looking for photographers who explore the contemporary American urban and suburban environment, and see poetry in highways, strip malls, gas stations, motels, SUVs, financial districts that are dead on the weekend, etc. Thanks!
Student loans or retirement account?
Should I take money out of a tax-deferred retirement account to pay for graduate school? [more inside]
Seeking a knowledgable TRT doc in Central Texas
Do you have a recommendation for a doctor in Central Texas who is knowledgable about male hormone issues, understands that just because a level is in the "normal" range doesn't make it normal, and is willing to try alternatives before heading straight into hormone replacement? [more inside]
What do employers look for during a credit check before hiring?
What would a prospective employer be looking for if they run a credit check, and should I be concerned? [more inside]
INFINITELY WEALTHY AND HIDING IN PLAIN SIGHT
Who secretly, and LEGALLY, has amassed the most wealth? [more inside]
Why, oh betrayer generator, won't you start?!
How safe is fMRI for pregnant technicians?
As an ad hoc pregnant fMRI technician, how safe is it? [more inside]
Who was this house design author?
Who was the 1970's-era alternative house design author and builder who was killed when a house of his own design collapsed?
How rainy is rainy season in Nicaragua
Nicaragua travel/weather filter: How rainy will SW Nicaragua be in early July? There are additional questions inside: [more inside]
How do you turn off Netflix's "best guess" ratings?
Is there a way to turn off or disable Netflix "best guess" ratings? [more inside]
Help me remember a Spanish quotation about water and rivers and life
Find a quote by a 16th or 17th century Spanish writer that metaphorically compares life with water flowing from rivers to the sea. [more inside]
Cheap DIY way to dehumidify a basement during a rainy spell?
What is the best creative way to dehumidify a basement without buying an expensive dehumidifier? I don't want to run one constantly, but with all the flooding rain, I need to do something. [more inside]
West Highland Way: a fun use of free time in Scotland?
Scotland vacation: I have 4 days to kill between work events in London and Glasgow, and I'm considering walking part of the West Highland Way by myself. Is this a reasonable plan, or do you have a better suggestion of how to use this time (ie other long distance walks or other plans entirely)? [more inside]
Tips on Finding Print Production Positions in Chicagoland
How do I get a foot in the door at print shops in the Chicagoland area? [more inside]
Recommend me a London-based printer.
Can anyone recommend a quality printer in London, UK? I will be printing a few runs of business cards, followed soon after by various other bits of business stationery, and I want a good quality digital printer that I can talk to. [more inside]
How successful is spinal fusion for pain management in cases of stenosis?
How successful is spinal fusion for pain management in cases of stenosis? My friend is in her early 70's, and active. The stenosis is fairly advanced. Located in L4. Thanks!
What are some good sources of ideas for corporate/officeplace sustainability initiative?
Where can I find good ideas that a high-tech corporate office can adopt as part of a sustainability initiative [more inside]
early start for a home theater
Building a house and want a home theater. Need input on dimensions, furniture, etc. from those who have done it [more inside]
Can you recommend a place to watch Eurovision in Berlin this year?
Can you recommend a place to watch Eurovision in Berlin this year? [more inside]
Boots on the floor, boots on the floor, lookin' like a fool...
This is a question about boots. Try to contain your excitement. [more inside]
Osama is dead, long live Osama.
I'm curious about the immediate birth of conspiracy around two aspects of Osama bin Laden's death. Wondering if any AskMeFites can provide clarity: [more inside]
Vaccinations for traveling abroad?
What kinds of vaccinations would you recommend for my friend's trip to Haiti? Is it possible she'll get severe reactions since she's never been vaccinated? [more inside]
How can I maximize budget + power for graphic design?
For graphic design on a budget, can I get by with an older version of the Adobe software? What are my options? [more inside]
How do I develop spatial awareness for my car?
I'm learning to drive and I need your tips on sensing car position. [more inside]
Does he want me to chase him?
We had been together for just under 2 months and things seemed wonderful. Out of the blue, he dumped me. Is he looking for a chase or does he want to be left alone? [more inside]
What are some helpful tips for planning a beach wedding in La Jolla, CA on a budget?
My fiance and I have been together for almost four years. She wants to get married in her home town, probably on the beach in La Jolla. I've never been married before, and neither has she, and I guess what I'm wondering is... What are some resources I can use to estimate the cost and planning necessary?
Who has the best coverage in Western Mass
We are moving back to Western Mass next month and need the advice of local mefis. Our iPhone 3G is ready for the recycling bin and we will be buying an iPhone 4 in the next week. Between At&T and Verizon which has the best coverage along route 9 between Northampton and Amherst?
IAMA ________
Where are some places I can go career wise? I feel limited by my experience and believe that my resume is very blah. I need suggestions for job titles to apply for (usually sending my resume to companies I want to work for that don't necessarily have openings posted). [more inside]
TF2 server queries?
Is there a way to tell what specific mods a Team Fortress 2 server is running from the client console? [more inside]
Need your best mojito recipe
Please give me your best mojito recipe. [more inside]
I hate AT&T, but who doesn't?
In a bind: clear home internet vs AT&T dsl. I have a couple hours to decide. (Chicago, in particular. But general coverage experiences welcome.) [more inside]
How long should I estimate a rebuilt trans to last?
How long will a rebuilt transmission last? [more inside]
Supermarket Marketing Theory Question
Why aren't supermarkets as uniformly branded as drugstores? [more inside]
VBAC or Scheduled c-section?
I'm expecting my second child at the end of June and need to decide whether to try for a VBAC or schedule a C-section. I hear a lot of anecdotes about why one is better than the other, but would really love some hard data to help me weigh the pros and cons. [more inside]
A Growing Concern
Container garden: Plastic storage bins... is the plastic safe for food? [more inside]
Waiting for the next playoff game is making me twitchy
Please recommend me some TV shows. Snowflakey list inside. [more inside]
Marriage 101
How do you take care of your marriage, if at all? [more inside]
Is uncertainty ontological or epistemological (or both)?
I was wondering if there is any support in the natural sciences for uncertainty being ontological on a non-quantum level. [more inside]
____less in Seattle
Please help me get connected in Seattle. [more inside]
How to apply for PhDs in Germany, from the UK?
I'm currently living in the UK and am trying to apply for science PhDs in Germany. But how? [more inside]
Online Philosophy
Looking for good quality academic level philosophy lectures in video form. Could be anything from the classics to Kant to Deleuze and Guattari.
Should I spend today talking to people in NY about the death of Osama Bin Laden?
As an independent journalist living in New York, would it behoove me to go out and interview people about the death of Osama? Should I take the train into Manhattan and talk to people on the street? [more inside]
Visiting Canada and need to buy health insurance
My aunt will be visiting Canada on a tourist visa from India and she would like to purchase health insurance for the duration of her visit. Can you recommend a company I can contact to get more information about this, preferably an insurance company we can buy a policy from? Google is giving me a lot of sketchy SEO results.
Which country (or online) to buy a canon lens for the least amount of money?
What's the best place to buy an f/4 70-200mm Canon USM IS lens? Online it's roughly $1400, but we're now in Calcutta (I hear they pay a large import tax), soon going to (in order) Jakarta, Singapore, Hong Kong, Tokyo, Seoul, Beijing and Moscow. I'd love to buy the lens tomorrow, but if it's $xxx cheaper in Singapore I can wait. Is there much of a difference from one country to the next? [more inside]
What if my kids are not mine?
I am going through a divorce and have recently found out that my wife has had numerous affairs while we were married. This information has got me thinking that one of my children may not be biologically mine. So now what? [more inside]
Fear is the Mindkiller
I am a reporter. How do I become a braver interviewer? [more inside]
Washing Fleece Pants
What is the best way to wash fleece products? [more inside]
How can I make my left hand work better?
Can I make my left-hand 'work' better? I've recently taken up a sport where using my left hand is really important - until now, I've always thought of my left hand as a fairly useless appendage. [more inside]
I don't understand spectroscopy or spectrometry analysis.
I need help understanding analysis of mass spectrometry and UV, IR, NMR spectroscopy readouts. I'm looking up tutorials on websites and re-reading my textbook, and while I think I understand the theory behind each method I'm drawing a blank when it comes to actually interpreting results to complete problems. [more inside]
Creating a "healthy, well rounded" World News Media Diet.
News broadcasting biases? Creating a "healthy, well rounded" world news media diet. [more inside]
I feel lost, can anyone help?
i live with my parents and feel lost, can anyone help? [more inside]
Best dancing game console?
My wife went to a party with co-workers, and enjoyed the heck out of a Wii dancing game they played.
If I were to invest in a console, which would have the most fun dancing games for it? [more inside]
Fax from my computer?
I need to send a fax. Is it possible to do it from my computer? [more inside]
History of Aboriginal Canada
What are some great books on the history of aboriginal Canada? [more inside]
Bio-dad or just bad dad?
My dad told me recently, during a major blow up, that he doesn't think he's my biological father. I'm not sure whether I should find out if he's right? [more inside]
May 1
"Amethyst Biomat" - what is the deal?
"Amethyst Biomat" - what is the deal? [more inside]
Where the heavy catz at? Onlinez.
What's the best way to find musicians to collaborate (online) for recording music? This would be rock/alt country or something along those lines. [more inside]
Best use of 3 dollars ever?
What's the value of this book? Did the I hit the fiscal jackpot with this Toliken first edition or did I just get a cool hardcover for my shelf? [more inside]
Help me give my brother a great wedding day!
What special touches can I add to my brother's wedding day? [more inside]
Does anyone know a support group for parents who have lost a child in CT?
Can anyone recommend a support group for parents who have lost a child? The parents live in Fairfield, CT. If there's a group for parents who have lost a child to suicide, even better, but I realize that might be too specific. Thanks.
I got hired and the company is being acquired
I accepted a position with a small firm, only to find out a few days before the start date that the company is being acquired by a larger firm. As the new person coming onboard, what should I expect? What do I should I prepare myself for? Anyone else been through a similar experience? [more inside]
What gifts should we bring for our Icelandic hosts?
I'm looking for ideas for gifts to give our Icelandic hosts when I visit (accompanied by 2 friends) this summer. [more inside]
My dice say sixteen (wink, wink).
Seeking directions for 4-2-1 (421) dice game. [more inside]
I'm a remote worker in the UK, help me choose my next city
I'm a remote worker in the UK, help me decide whether to move, and to which city [more inside]
If I knew Picasso
Framing a watercolor painting. How? [more inside]
Help me feed my kitty
I understand that the best cat diet is exclusively wet food. Kittens are supposed to eat small portions every few hours. I am asleep all night and at work for 8 hours during the day. Can I leave wet food out for free feeding or will it go bad? What if she won't eat left-out food? [more inside]
Why am I getting sick so much this year?
Why am I getting sick so often this year? [more inside]
Why can't I get over this when I was over it anyway?
How can I let go of jealousy and anger over getting dumped by someone I didn't like that much anyway? [more inside]
Scripts for enforcing naming conventions?
I'm trying to find scripts to help my studio follow naming conventions. [more inside]
Computer memory
Please melp me identify these computer memory chips. I have about 500 sticks, my question is are they worth anything. What kind of computer are they made for.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/19083462@N03/5677672839
http://www.flickr.com/photos/19083462@N03/5677672437
Thanks
Morally Handicapped isn't a valid condition
What to do about my boss' parking in a disabled space? [more inside]
Mawiage. Mawiage is what bwings us togefa today.
Please help us think of some non-traditional wedding roles for our siblings. [more inside]
What are these grubs and beetles and will they harm my garden?
What are these grubs (and possibly related beetle) that I found in our vegetable garden today? [more inside]
Sock it to me, the owl of Minerva.
How do you manage your knowledge? What do you do about the inevitability of losing the skills you don't practice? [more inside]
Talking to strangers but not smalltalk
I want to talk to strangers, but not make smalltalk. What are interesting questions that I can ask random strangers, questions that, with just the right mix of playfulness, sincerity, etc., might actually be possible to ask without freaking out myself or the other person? Adapting an example I came across in a random book: "Excuse me, Iknowthisisweirdbut, what's the most important thing you know?" [more inside]
YNAB HELPPPPP!!!
I'm trying for the 100th time to figure out YNAB... any help is greatly appreciated! I've been lazy and neglected the program, meanwhile started new accounts to try to manage my money better and keep things separate (1 account for upcoming car repairs, 2 savings accounts for vacation/emergencies). Basically, I screwed up the budget and category balances completely. I went back 3 months and all transactions check out with my bank and YNAB. Although I adjusted the balances to reflect what the bank says, Patzer's formula still does not work. YNAB thinks I have more money than I actually do in the bank. Can't figure this out.
Raised Bed vs. Traditional Gardening
I have a plot in a community garden. I'm trying to decide if I want to use the raised bed/square foot gardening method or just use the soil that's already there. [more inside]
Because sometimes you just have to take off the hat
If you finally made peace with your hair after years of fighting, how did you do it? What did you change? Products? Tools? Techniques? Cut, color, style? Attitude? I'm not looking for tips for my specific hair - any and all experiences are welcome.
Help give toys a good home
I'd like to offload a bunch of vintage 80s toys. Any suggestions for specialist shops that might be interested? I'm in South London, UK. [more inside]
4 days in DC with baby
How should we spend a long weekend in DC with a 5-week-old baby? [more inside]
I'm THIS close to playing my favorite computer game on VirtualBox. THIS close.
After much grueling labor and self-denial, I have created a virtual Windows 98 machine on my macbook using VirtualBox, all in the name of playing my favorite computer game from high school. The only problem? The most colors the virtual machine wants to display is 16, and this game requires at least 256. Ugh. How to remedy this? [more inside]
Motherp!
Help me find a piece of an old SNL monologue for Mother's Day! [more inside]
What, do you have shit in your ears?
How do I clear my Eustachian tube after a middle ear infection. I'm seriously at my wit's end. [more inside]
I can see how M as in Mancy would be confusing..
I am looking to create a useless phonetic alphabet, and respectfully request your assistance. [more inside]
Show stoppers around the the campfire
Give me your Audience Hacks! [more inside]
What materials to use to
Installation/exterior decoration artists: What materials to use to draw/paint permanent text and illustrations on a brick wall? [more inside]
Daisy-chaining a wireless router
I have a Linksys WCG200 cable modem/wireless router combo device. It sucks at wireless (and extensive Googling has indicated that's unfixable), but it's OK at everything else. Can I pick up a $30 wireless router, plug that into the device I have now, and use that without any loss of quality? Would I need any other devices? Would it just be easier to get a new stand-alone cable modem as well?
Short Latin translation please!
How do you say "Get your head out of your ass" in Latin? [more inside]
focusing through trauma
I had something traumatic happen a little over a week ago. I need my brain back. When do I start to worry and what do I do? [more inside]
Wereldpas, my ass!
Why can't I book a coach in the UK with my Dutch Maestro card? [more inside]
Suggest a wedding photographer in the Bay Area
Suggest a great wedding photographer in the Bay Area? [more inside]
Mapping executives?
What is the name of that website that visually mapped or linked names of people and/or executives from various companies? Seems like I remember it gave the person's name, their current company, and a little "map" of how they were linked to the other companies and people.
What Android games would I like?
Good Android games for picky player? [more inside]
No Support from Family
My friend needs some advice on how to handle family that is not supportive of the positive changes she is making in her life. [more inside]
Find me that lazy lout!
I'm looking for a recording of a song, but I can't find it anywhere, or even who might have recorded it! In Get Up by Chinese Man there's a sample of a song (starts about 20 seconds in). From googling the lyrics I've found the song seems to be called Lazy Lout, but that's pretty much all I can find. [more inside]
I'm having a hard time getting started - wanna melp he out?
I'd like to make a wedding toast for my friend (the bride) in the style of Shel Silverstein's book Runny Babbit. The style is referred to as spoonerism. She is a kindergarten teacher and I think she would enjoy it(although everyone else may not). Just a line to get the juices flowing would be great! [more inside]
What's a good shaving mirror?
I would like to buy my boyfriend a great, fogless shaving mirror. Has anyone had any positive experiences with any? [more inside]
In what warm foreign country can I take Organic Chemistry for pre-med?
In what warm foreign country can I take organic chemistry for pre-med? [more inside]
Mexican Side Dishes
Good ideas for vegetable-based side dishes to go with Mexican food? (other than beans) [more inside]
3,2,1 boom!
Yes, yes, YANMD. When I'm very stressed I feel slight pain/weakness on the left side of my chest, under my armpit and sometimes across my shoulder. [more inside]
How does my British passport work?
I'm a dual British/New Zealand citizen, but I've never been to Britain/Europe. What can I do with my British Passport? [more inside]
what are you sinking about?
My bathroom has his-and-hers sinks, but just a her to use them. Suggestions for what to do with his sink? [more inside]
We're tourists in Ireland this June, what should we see?
We're traveling to Coose, Ireland in June for a few days. What would you suggest we see/do while in the area?
Education Policy 101
I'd like to educate myself on the (intentionally) broad field of issues surrounding education policy. Where should I begin? I'd most appreciate suggestions for books to read, podcasts to listen to, blogs to follow, or anything else of that ilk.
Midwest drop charge blues
We are planning to take our son, a junior in HS, to tour colleges in early June. We live in the Denver area and were planning to fly to Minneapolis and fly back from Pittsburgh. We're aiming to spend less than 2 weeks on the trip. The initial plan was to rent a car in Minneapolis and return it in Pittsburgh. Difficulty: It appears that there are enormous rental car drop charges. It looks like it might be cheaper to make two separate trips - one to Minnesota/Wisconsin/Illinois and one to Ohio/Pittsburgh.
Any suggestions for reducing costs? We could fly back from Ohio if that would help. We probably need to take United Airlines, as we have some travel vouchers. Thanks!
Gonna take some time to do some things we never have... like learn African history.
Despite what I consider to be a pretty extensive knowledge of Africa and African current affairs post-2000 or so, I'm embarrassed to say that I know virtually nothing about any African country's history before that aside from a general sense of who colonialized what. [more inside]
When to start looking for jobs after new degree
When coming from extended period at current job (3+ years), when should I start looking for other jobs after getting a second degree? (Library-related) [more inside]
Make me an expert in Classic Rock
I am in love with Classic Rock. Help me make sure I'm not missing any awesome albums/artists/songs/hidden gems. Educate me on the finer points of this genre! [more inside]
How can I buy with Discover when it's not accepted?
How can I use my Discover Card (indirectly) to make online purchases on websites that don't accept Discover Card? [more inside]
What software was used to create this graphic?
What software was used to create this graphic? [more inside]
Why is my dog barking at this hole?
What is in this hole that's causing my dog to freak out? [more inside]
Sober Housing Rent
Can my landlord raise rent on me in the middle of my 6 month contract with 30 day notice? Additional information: It's a sober house. [more inside]
I'm going to get shocked either way, so why bother moving?
How does one overcome learned helplessness? [more inside]
Nice People
What country or region has the strongest and most universal reputation of having the friendliest people?
What was once clear-cut is now no longer as simple-- how did you handle such a change?
How did you handle or process political beliefs changing as your life circumstances evolved? Feeling torn... [more inside]
Need a work/security waiver for tampered computer equipment for a computer repair business
I have a challenge in our computer repair storefront. We recently had an issue wherein someone tried to scam us on an iPhone repair. [more inside]
Can homemade macarons safely travel by plane?
How practical is it to bring a box of homemade macarons on a flight as carry-on luggage? [more inside]
help me spend my aussie dollars...
What are some online shopping sites that ship direct to Australia. I'm wanting to take advantage of the stronger Australian dollar. [more inside]
Advice on buying an apartment in London
I'm a 23 year old EU citizen who will be starting 5 years of medical studies at King's College London in September. My parents are interested in buying a flat for me instead of renting. I have no idea where to start! [more inside]
Sleeping switch up
How come I sleep on my other side all of a sudden? [more inside]
The Economics of Scientific Research
What studies and books are there about the economics of scientific research? I'm interested in a few questions including does giving out grants to University based researchers produce more startups and more highly regarded refereed papers than institutions like NIH or CSIRO? The only book I know of that looks at this is the book The Economic Laws of Scientific Research which looks interesting but is also described as a polemic. [more inside]
Alternatives for wine in a Love Letter Box for a wedding ceremony?
We're planning on having a love letter and wine box ceremony for our wedding, but I don't like wine that much (although a sweeter wine that lasts that long could be an option). What else could we put in the box that would last for 25 years and still taste good/be nice to have? Doesn't have to be food or drink, I'm open to anything.