August 9, 2008 9:54 AM Subscribe
I'm dating a roommate, but we need an excuse to go into her bedroom after a date. What can I do?
posted by anonymous to human relations (14 answers total) 6 users marked this as a favorite
She seems to really like me, and we've been going out for a couple of weeks. She's also one of my roommates, but only for a little while longer as she has to go back to the US. There are five students living in this apartment.
She has a room with a door, the rest of us have low walls in a loft setup (this means my room is a no-go).
I'm not sure how to carry the relationship from kissing outside her bedroom door to go inside it. I don't know if coming out with "can I sleep with you tonight?" is a smart thing to say or not. What should a guy do in this situation? Should I just take her by the hand and go in with her?
I feel that she is interested, but is too shy to make a move- especially as there are no convenient excuses like "you have a long way to walk home"... my bedroom is just a few feet away.