Was I sexually violated?
October 6, 2013 7:35 PM Subscribe
Was I sexually violated? I keep obsessing about this, I don't know if the other parties care or have declared me a pariah
posted by Jewel98 to human relations (42 answers total) 3 users marked this as a favorite
Here's the siutation...I'm tired, loopy, disregulated because of health and trouble with other parts of my life. I had to go on an errand to pick something up from The Boss of my part time job. He asked me come over and look at something on his computer and sit on his lap. i sat on his knee, then his lap, he dry humped me. he got a slightly hard, and then took my hand and put it on his crotch so i could feel that he was slightly hard. I walked away. I wish I showed better judgment especially since his gf works for the company. A few days later, i was feeling guilty i told his girlfriend about it. Just told her that i sat on his knee because i was embarrassed about the dry humping part. initially, when she asked if i was okay via email, i said to her that i was having a hard time, because she was wondering why i was acting weird that night when she showed up about 20 minutes after this happened. I feel like a total problem. and that she hate me, and he too. I feel like i am getting the cold shoulder. even though we have cleared the air over email and we have even had a face-to-face conversation recently that went well. Was this my fault? Was I sexually violated? How do i move forward. This is weighing heavily on me. I am obsessing about it. I am so disgusted with myself. I was not intoxicated, nor under the influence of any other drug. I don't do that kind of stuff any more, so please don't accuse me of being drunk based on past posts.