Relationship; and the one with her Male Friend
January 2, 2013 1:54 AM Subscribe
At the beginning of the relationship, she had asked to be exclusive. Told me she wants me to be her boyfriend. Thing's were going great. She mentions that she has a male friend visiting from out of town. Wasn't a big deal for me. Then it comes to light that he would be staying at her place for the weekend.
posted by Nicholas Geary to Human Relations (120 answers total) 8 users marked this as a favorite
She mentions that she'd see me on Monday, if they go out on Sunday she would let me know. It turned into a huge argument. She said she would have him stay at a hotel. Asked what I wanted to do, how it was planned far in advance, and said she didn't want to break up over it. She basically had plans to spend the whole weekend with him there, made no solid plans to introduce us. Mentions one of us being the third wheel. After he's staying in the hotel, I propose we all meet for dinner on Friday, her response was that he may be tired from flying and want to stay in the hotel. I asked her then wtf are you doing? This is very early in the relationship. She ended up texting me all emotional throughout that Friday night, wanted to stay at my place on that Saturday night...What is your take on this? Dealbreaker? A couple of friends say she's *sleeping with* him, drop her.