Does attraction work different for men?
January 13, 2014 3:30 PM   Subscribe

I was surfing the AskMefi archives today looking at different questions about dating and I made an observation.

There were several questions posted by women who were dating a guy that they weren't totally attracted to at first, and were wondering if there was hope for attraction to grow as they dated the guy more. I noticed that were quite a few women (throughout the various questions) who replied with stories of their own where they dated guys who "became more attractive" as they got to know them and/or dated them longer.

On review, I didn't notice many men at all who responded with similar anecdata. My question is, does attraction ever work like this for men? Do men find themselves developing attraction (or feelings) for women over time? Or is it more "now or never"?

Just curious. Thanks.
posted by strelitzia to Human Relations

This post was deleted for the following reason: This is way too vague and on too much of a hot button topic to have a "just wondering" question associated with it. Maybe make it more specific and try again next week? -- jessamyn

 
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