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July 11, 2012 4:56 PM Subscribe
I am married and have been for about 10 years. i have met someone through my business who I have carried on an on line relationship, plus, we heve met several times within the past 3 years.
I am no longer in love with my husband, and havn't been for years now. We sleep in seperate bedrooms, and I am a great deal younger than he is. I opted to go to the guest bedroom as a result of his snorring and he has been diagnosed with dream reinactment. I have delt with the situation for numerous years , and unexpectedly, I met an individual through my business who I speak to on a regular basis and am in love with. My husband and I argue about the most trivial of things and i can't stand being around him. He is one of those who sees the glass half empty, im the glass half full. I want to leave him, and I see no other means. Your opinion is welcome! Thanks ahead of time.
I am no longer in love with my husband, and havn't been for years now. We sleep in seperate bedrooms, and I am a great deal younger than he is. I opted to go to the guest bedroom as a result of his snorring and he has been diagnosed with dream reinactment. I have delt with the situation for numerous years , and unexpectedly, I met an individual through my business who I speak to on a regular basis and am in love with. My husband and I argue about the most trivial of things and i can't stand being around him. He is one of those who sees the glass half empty, im the glass half full. I want to leave him, and I see no other means. Your opinion is welcome! Thanks ahead of time.
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So, why are you still married? I'm missing something, right? You think you have someone"better", how does your husband feel?
posted by kellyblah at 5:00 PM on July 11, 2012
posted by kellyblah at 5:00 PM on July 11, 2012
What is your question, exactly? You seem pretty clear on what you want and need.
posted by Specklet at 5:00 PM on July 11, 2012
posted by Specklet at 5:00 PM on July 11, 2012
Get a divorce. Be kind during the divorce. Give yourself a little time to get over things. Date around a bit. Then explore this new relationship.
posted by Brandon Blatcher at 5:01 PM on July 11, 2012
posted by Brandon Blatcher at 5:01 PM on July 11, 2012
i'm not really sure what you're looking for here, as this seems to be more of a statement of intent than a question. are you looking for permission? reassurance that you're doing the right thing? considering the above, you seem like you're already fairly sure what you want to do.
have you talked to your husband at all about why you're unhappy, or given him a chance to change things?
posted by koroshiya at 5:01 PM on July 11, 2012 [1 favorite]
have you talked to your husband at all about why you're unhappy, or given him a chance to change things?
posted by koroshiya at 5:01 PM on July 11, 2012 [1 favorite]
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posted by elizardbits at 4:59 PM on July 11, 2012 [2 favorites]